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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're having intimate one on one sexual activity with someone of the same sex and also like sex with the opposite sex then yes, I'd say you were bi / bi curious.
Just waiting for the first 'pfft, don't worry about labels' post and if you enjoy it it's all good. But don't go suggesting you're straight if other men suck your cock! Nothing to be ashamed of if that's what you're in to. |
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I'd have to agree with the whole 'do away with labels' thing - I mean, by definition what you're saying in the first post does make you bi (why would that be a bad thing though?), but when you consider a lot of guys into Tgirls consider themselves 'straight' and they're not into guys who aren't wearing makeup and lingerie, it's hard to draw a line. |
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over a year ago
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"You're bi if you fancy men.
...hmmm i supose that answers my question tooI'm not sure that's true, I know a lot of guys that love cock without actually fancying men
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They're not bi? I don't consider myself particularly bi but I do get the urge for a woman's body now and then. |
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"You're bi if you fancy men.
...hmmm i supose that answers my question tooI'm not sure that's true, I know a lot of guys that love cock without actually fancying men
They're not bi? I don't consider myself particularly bi but I do get the urge for a woman's body now and then. "
that's interesting, so all the guys that tick the bi box on here shouldn't if they just have cock they've actually got to think the guy is attractive?
That's like saying someone isn't straight if they shag someone they sent attracted to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's worth worrying about. "
Me neither but on here if you're a man who likes sucking a cock,or will let a man suck your cock,you get hung,drawn and quartered for calling yourself straight. |
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"I don't think it's worth worrying about.
Me neither but on here if you're a man who likes sucking a cock,or will let a man suck your cock,you get hung,drawn and quartered for calling yourself straight. "
It is misleading though.....bicurious guys are still straight but thinking about it....I'm assuming....a straight guy wouldn't be interested in another man. I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See to me its just sex. I feel no more emotional attachment to a meet with a man than i do to having a wank. Im not bisexual i just enjoy orgasms and ill take them through the path of least resistance. |
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"To me your bi curious if you want to repeat it. If you repeat it and like it bi i guess?
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That's why labels aren't as helpful as a quick explanation in ones profile text. Your interpretation is different to mine.
I'm bisexual and proud of it (thought I'd just announce that (yet) again.....)
It's not a barrier to getting meets, OP... |
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Sexuality is normally considered a spectrum.
If Red were 100% heterosexual , and Violet was 100% homosexual, and green being fully bisexual, I'd say you were yellow, and Guys who play with TVs are orange.
It is just a label, that helps people find what they are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me your bi curious if you want to repeat it. If you repeat it and like it bi i guess?
That's why labels aren't as helpful as a quick explanation in ones profile text. Your interpretation is different to mine.
I'm bisexual and proud of it (thought I'd just announce that (yet) again.....)
It's not a barrier to getting meets, OP..."
Its difficult really cause i know a few guys who say there "orally bi". Lile you say everyones definition is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
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A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well if you get sucked by a guy or even fantasise about it then you are clearly bi-curious, if this thought clearly never enters your head and makes you cringe if it does then I guess you are straight.. But hey ho what does it matter what label you have as long as you know in your own mind!! |
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"Sexuality is normally considered a spectrum.
If Red were 100% heterosexual , and Violet was 100% homosexual, and green being fully bisexual, I'd say you were yellow,"
But now you've made it sound like he's a coward for not wanting to take it up the poop-shoot 
OP: your question implies you feel there is something wrong with being bi- or bi-curious, or orally-bi. There isn't. The sooner you accept who you are, the more you'll enjoy life.
Meanwhile, I've squeezed one of Tina's boobs, does that make me Tv-curious?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate."
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If the label makes you feel uncomfortable don't adopt it , it's sounds like your more worried about what others think rather then your own enjoyment , my personal perception of "bi" is if you have a physical attraction to the oppersit sex then your bi .I didn't used to but with age and time my apprection towards all forms expanded so adopted the label . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds! "
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ?? "
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ??
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience. "
So what if he is attracted the the femininity of the TS and only enjoys the feel of the cock not so much the macalinity of the cock is he bi or straight ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ??
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience.
So what if he is attracted the the femininity of the TS and only enjoys the feel of the cock not so much the macalinity of the cock is he bi or straight ? "
I've already answered that In my previous post.
I work in construction, I actually asked a group of guys there would they suck, be sucked, fuck or be fucked by another guy. They all said and I quote "hell no I'm not bi or gay". I agree. Straight men just wouldn't go with men or anyone with a dick. 100% straight men only like pussy and a female arse.
OP whatever you do with your own body is your concern. Enjoy it! I like women too so I'm bi/curious. I'd love to ravish megan fox!!  . I also adore guys too and would never give them up. I'm only listed on here as straight due to being led on and let down by a few women. I give up looking on fab for women now but you OP really should carry on doing whatever you enjoy. Your body, your rules! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ??
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience. "
Very lucky guy sounds yum |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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I don't know why people have a problem understanding this, if you are attracted to or enjoy sex with a partner of the same gender as yourself you are bi. It doesn't matter how they dress or what they look like. There is no stigma attached to it and the only person you are fooling is yourself.
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"I don't know why people have a problem understanding this, if you are attracted to or enjoy sex with a partner of the same gender as yourself you are bi. It doesn't matter how they dress or what they look like. There is no stigma attached to it and the only person you are fooling is yourself.
C..."
Obviously assuming that you are also attracted to the opposite sex also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know why people have a problem understanding this, if you are attracted to or enjoy sex with a partner of the same gender as yourself you are bi. It doesn't matter how they dress or what they look like. There is no stigma attached to it and the only person you are fooling is yourself.
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I would say if you have any sexual feelings towards someone of the same sex then you are bi or gay. That also includes if you don't actualy find them attractive but want to have a sexual encounter.
Also who cares. Do what you want and forget the label xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say if you have any sexual feelings towards someone of the same sex then you are bi or gay. That also includes if you don't actualy find them attractive but want to have a sexual encounter.
Also who cares. Do what you want and forget the label xxxxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ??
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience.
So what if he is attracted the the femininity of the TS and only enjoys the feel of the cock not so much the macalinity of the cock is he bi or straight ?
I've already answered that In my previous post.
I work in construction, I actually asked a group of guys there would they suck, be sucked, fuck or be fucked by another guy. They all said and I quote "hell no I'm not bi or gay". I agree. Straight men just wouldn't go with men or anyone with a dick. 100% straight men only like pussy and a female arse.
OP whatever you do with your own body is your concern. Enjoy it! I like women too so I'm bi/curious. I'd love to ravish megan fox!! . I also adore guys too and would never give them up. I'm only listed on here as straight due to being led on and let down by a few women. I give up looking on fab for women now but you OP really should carry on doing whatever you enjoy. Your body, your rules! "
Fair point noted sorry I missed that sweetie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When you are on your knees with his cock in your mouth, or you have just cum in his mouth it is safe to say there could be a bit of the bi-curiosity there. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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It seems to me that everyone on this site (and in life in general) has an obsession with labels. Everyone has to fit into a category. It ranges from their sexual preferences right through to their learning and personality traits.
It's a shame because often the label then becomes more important than the person
Just be happy. Just enjoy what you enjoy. It's fair to mention that you like certain things if that may sway a persons decision over meeting you, however that's their issue. Not yours. Everyone has a different idea of what it means to be in a certain category. Some are very passionate about it and some are very bitter.
For years I've classed myself as a tourist. I've tried and I've enjoyed and sometimes I've tried and not enjoyed. Isn't that what it's all about though?
It's just a shame there seems to be such a double standard. It's okay for women but less accepted for men. Why is that?
Live and let live. Just be yourself.
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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It has nothing to do with labels and everything to do with being true to yourself. If you can't face up to the fact that you are gay/bi/straight/asexual or whatever other combination you can think of then that can cause the problems within you.
Firstly you need to be true to yourself, then you need to be true to whoever you are having a relationship with. After that nobody else matters, it is none of their business.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems to me that everyone on this site (and in life in general) has an obsession with labels. Everyone has to fit into a category. It ranges from their sexual preferences right through to their learning and personality traits.
It's a shame because often the label then becomes more important than the person
Just be happy. Just enjoy what you enjoy. It's fair to mention that you like certain things if that may sway a persons decision over meeting you, however that's their issue. Not yours. Everyone has a different idea of what it means to be in a certain category. Some are very passionate about it and some are very bitter.
For years I've classed myself as a tourist. I've tried and I've enjoyed and sometimes I've tried and not enjoyed. Isn't that what it's all about though?
It's just a shame there seems to be such a double standard. It's okay for women but less accepted for men. Why is that?
Live and let live. Just be yourself.
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This is on point for me , well said . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ??
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience.
So what if he is attracted the the femininity of the TS and only enjoys the feel of the cock not so much the macalinity of the cock is he bi or straight ?
I've already answered that In my previous post.
I work in construction, I actually asked a group of guys there would they suck, be sucked, fuck or be fucked by another guy. They all said and I quote "hell no I'm not bi or gay". I agree. Straight men just wouldn't go with men or anyone with a dick. 100% straight men only like pussy and a female arse.
OP whatever you do with your own body is your concern. Enjoy it! I like women too so I'm bi/curious. I'd love to ravish megan fox!! . I also adore guys too and would never give them up. I'm only listed on here as straight due to being led on and let down by a few women. I give up looking on fab for women now but you OP really should carry on doing whatever you enjoy. Your body, your rules! "
Thinking about it I'm not convinced a group of guys in construction would be completely honest about this in front of other guys due to stigma , I too work in construction. |
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Actually, having given Mr Macavity's system more thought, (and considered the potential for confusion wrt the coloured rosettes political canvassers wear) can I propose the 'angle of dangle' method instead?
Imagine yourself getting a blow-job from an attractive woman. Halfway through she lifts her skirt and reveals herself to be a tv.
If you cum immediately, you're definitely bi.
If you flag a little, but still manage to cum, the angle of your member gives the degree of your bisexuality.
If the thought of this arouses you, but you've never actually tried it, you're bi-curious.
If you instantly go soft, you're straight.
If you hit her over the head with a frying pan, you're either homophobic or Bob Mortimer
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"Actually, having given Mr Macavity's system more thought, (and considered the potential for confusion wrt the coloured rosettes political canvassers wear) can I propose the 'angle of dangle' method instead?
Imagine yourself getting a blow-job from an attractive woman. Halfway through she lifts her skirt and reveals herself to be a tv.
If you cum immediately, you're definitely bi.
If you flag a little, but still manage to cum, the angle of your member gives the degree of your bisexuality.
If the thought of this arouses you, but you've never actually tried it, you're bi-curious.
If you instantly go soft, you're straight.
If you hit her over the head with a frying pan, you're either homophobic or Bob Mortimer
Mr ddc"
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Hmmm... Well for a start labels are important! We label everything we see in some way. We also judge people and things everyday as well. Even if only looking at a well dressed person, we make a judgement!
So Bi-Sexuality is also going to be labelled along with all colours of the rainbow. Bi-Sexuality is not cut and dried. I have been in a situation where we were (4) playing and having a great time. Neither of us guys were worried about some accidental touching and all was good.
I was snogging his wife and playing with her tits when I had my cock sucked and after a few minutes I looked down because I realised there were TWO tongues down there! It was him and my wife both sucking and licking. Did I stop him and jump up swearing and shouting? No! I just went back to snogging his wife and playing with her.
It felt right at the time, but not something I am looking for, just heat of battle.. So I guess to some of you that makes me Bi-Curious?  |
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I'm relaxed about most things in life. I've explored all kinds of things sexually and otherwise, sometimes just because there was am option, sometimes expecting to get nothing from it, or because I thought there may be some benefit. I think explorers, adventurers and boundary pushers are just that and it overlaps into sexual aspects of life too, without altering sexuality.
Some have hangups about the sanctity of labels or are pedantic about language and definitions - fuck em. Follow a mindfulness approach - live in the moment and be free.
Change labels on fab if you'd like others to know or find you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ??
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience.
So what if he is attracted the the femininity of the TS and only enjoys the feel of the cock not so much the macalinity of the cock is he bi or straight ?
I've already answered that In my previous post.
I work in construction, I actually asked a group of guys there would they suck, be sucked, fuck or be fucked by another guy. They all said and I quote "hell no I'm not bi or gay". I agree. Straight men just wouldn't go with men or anyone with a dick. 100% straight men only like pussy and a female arse.
OP whatever you do with your own body is your concern. Enjoy it! I like women too so I'm bi/curious. I'd love to ravish megan fox!! . I also adore guys too and would never give them up. I'm only listed on here as straight due to being led on and let down by a few women. I give up looking on fab for women now but you OP really should carry on doing whatever you enjoy. Your body, your rules!
Thinking about it I'm not convinced a group of guys in construction would be completely honest about this in front of other guys due to stigma , I too work in construction. "
I didn't say I asked them whilst they were all together. As if lol. Not something to be said in group of guys at the same time. I've worked there long enough to of spent time with each one of which the line of convo was broached. I said group as in a small selection of guys when compared to my whole team.
Sounds like you're struggling to justify to yourself your own sexuality. No need to get on your soap box towards others though. If your happy with your life choices then fabulous no need to question it. Have fun |
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"Always makes me laugh when men/tv/ts etc want to meet straight men.
A straight man wouldn't want to be sucked or fucked by another man.
A TS can want to meet a straight man as they are definitely women trapped inside men's bodies. Whether or not a straight man would want to meet a TG woman is another debate.
But they still have a cock and that's something a straight man does not want! My brother went to Thailand and said he never went near any ladyboys no matter how gorgeous they looked because they still have a dick. If your 100% straight I agree you just wouldn't go with someone of the same sex with the same bits as yourself.
As for a woman going with a tgirl, my opinion is she would be bi. Well she likes her because she looks like a lady , has boobs but a cock too. So she gets the best of both worlds!
So just for the sake of discussion ,can a guy still be straight if he enjoys anal sex ??
With a woman yes. I've often pegged my ex and enjoyed him enjoying the experience.
So what if he is attracted the the femininity of the TS and only enjoys the feel of the cock not so much the macalinity of the cock is he bi or straight ?
I've already answered that In my previous post.
I work in construction, I actually asked a group of guys there would they suck, be sucked, fuck or be fucked by another guy. They all said and I quote "hell no I'm not bi or gay". I agree. Straight men just wouldn't go with men or anyone with a dick. 100% straight men only like pussy and a female arse.
OP whatever you do with your own body is your concern. Enjoy it! I like women too so I'm bi/curious. I'd love to ravish megan fox!! . I also adore guys too and would never give them up. I'm only listed on here as straight due to being led on and let down by a few women. I give up looking on fab for women now but you OP really should carry on doing whatever you enjoy. Your body, your rules!
Thinking about it I'm not convinced a group of guys in construction would be completely honest about this in front of other guys due to stigma , I too work in construction.
I didn't say I asked them whilst they were all together. As if lol. Not something to be said in group of guys at the same time. I've worked there long enough to of spent time with each one of which the line of convo was broached. I said group as in a small selection of guys when compared to my whole team.
Sounds like you're struggling to justify to yourself your own sexuality. No need to get on your soap box towards others though. If your happy with your life choices then fabulous no need to question it. Have fun"
Wow is that how I came across my apologies .
I will asses my replies in future , I have opinions I'm not great at voicing them .
Sorry if I came across in a bad manner too I'm not on my soap box lol , I'm openly BI and happy thanks
I still think if a guy likes the feel of anal it don't mean he has to adopt the bi status no one is to say that the penis is attached to a man , ie strap on play , so in my mind set this could ring true for a guy receiving anal from a TS if you play with a TS and you say your straight then your straight who is anyone else to say your not.
If you say your bi your bi
I think therefore I am .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you can't decide between marrying Bill, or marrying Belinda - then you're most likely Bi..!
But if you simply don't mind who you have sex with -
- then you're probably just Anybody's...!
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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Whenever threads like this pop up it's always the same; if you suck you're bi, if you get sucked with your eyes shut straight, eyes open bi, take it up the arse...........yadda yadda, label label.....
Why don't we have the same discussions about women and their proclivities?
This ?ion from Delight, who isn't bi! |
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There is a whole new category, well newish MSM men who have sex with men as it doesn't label them as either gay or bi.
I am having a weird bi curious thing going on....its kinda confusing...Never been into women bar 2 d*unken fumbles with friends at uni, but increasingly as a 'post op' woman am more ..well, curious. and kinda have a crush ona girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's how you feel that makes you bi not what acts you do
I believe you can be bi without having any sexual contact with the same sex
People know their sexuality way before they practice it
Most gay guys I know say they knew they where gay from a very young age, even before they started being sexually active, to me they were still gay before they had sex as that's how they felt, so I personally believe if a person feels they are bisexual that's what makes you bi |
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"You're bi if you fancy men.
...hmmm i supose that answers my question too"
Completely disagree. Both of us fancy guys. But Mat does not identify as being bi..
As he puts it.
"gender and sexuality is a fluid state, all you need to concern yourself with is do you find this person attractive or not"
Just because you have sucked a cock or had yours sucked by a guy doesn't make you bi.. It makes you a fan of blowjobs.... Frankly the binary sexuality is a waste of time to consider and cases more anguish in hose who are jot out.
Do I (Mat) identify as straight? Erm...no.
Am I bi? That would be a negetory
Gay? Not at all.
So. What I am is a guy who appreciates people for peoples sake and does not let the plumbing that you have affect my attraction to you.
Mind you.. It's always good to kniw what plumbing your about to deal with so at the very least you can adjust you approach vector accordingly.
And
If any of that made sense... It would be a bonus.
Mat n Fran. |
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"You're bi if you fancy men.
...hmmm i supose that answers my question tooI'm not sure that's true, I know a lot of guys that love cock without actually fancying men
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This I don't fancy guys in the least , yet I met a reg buddy off another site today and he gave me another mind blowing bj !
Does that make me no ? I don't really care |
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"You're bi if you fancy men.
...hmmm i supose that answers my question tooI'm not sure that's true, I know a lot of guys that love cock without actually fancying men
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I understand this. I wouldn't say I actually fancy any blokes I've met but sucking and being sucked can be a huge turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexuality is normally considered a spectrum.
If Red were 100% heterosexual , and Violet was 100% homosexual, and green being fully bisexual, I'd say you were yellow,
But now you've made it sound like he's a coward for not wanting to take it up the poop-shoot
OP: your question implies you feel there is something wrong with being bi- or bi-curious, or orally-bi. There isn't. The sooner you accept who you are, the more you'll enjoy life.
Meanwhile, I've squeezed one of Tina's boobs, does that make me Tv-curious?
Mr ddc "
Don't think it wrong just get asked alot |
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"So what if a guy don't fancy men at all but will happily get fucked or fuck another guy to make his missus happy?? Is he bi or straight? ? X
Bi-situational?"
That's a good 1 lol xx should have that option on here x |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"You're bi if you fancy men.
...hmmm i supose that answers my question tooI'm not sure that's true, I know a lot of guys that love cock without actually fancying men
i agree "
It's not the men it's the act. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I let men suck my cock but don't do anything back are you bi or not"
If you enjoy it, then you are bi, but make it clear you only receive, that would make you bi-selfish |
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"So what if a guy don't fancy men at all but will happily get fucked or fuck another guy to make his missus happy?? Is he bi or straight? ? X"
herss one to ponder on i have a friend who is a male escort, he dont fancy men, he dont enjoy sex with guys he just has sex with them for the money.....is he bi? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find alot of men say they're "orally bi or straight" .......... Just because they don't do anal!! In my humble opinion if a man sucks a cock or has their cock sucked by a man and enjoyed it then they're bi or bi curious!! I'm no expert but I've had a few encounters with females and I see myself as bi xx
Be honest n true to yourself xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find alot of men say they're "orally bi or straight" .......... Just because they don't do anal!! In my humble opinion if a man sucks a cock or has their cock sucked by a man and enjoyed it then they're bi or bi curious!! I'm no expert but I've had a few encounters with females and I see myself as bi xx
Be honest n true to yourself xx "
Always myself straight forward easy going x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See to me its just sex. I feel no more emotional attachment to a meet with a man than i do to having a wank. Im not bisexual i just enjoy orgasms and ill take them through the path of least resistance."
Aye. I think it has to do with more than just who you play with. There has to be some fancy the other person. Hell, I love to play with a vib but that doesn't mean I fancy it  |
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"So what if a guy don't fancy men at all but will happily get fucked or fuck another guy to make his missus happy?? Is he bi or straight? ? X
herss one to ponder on i have a friend who is a male escort, he dont fancy men, he dont enjoy sex with guys he just has sex with them for the money.....is he bi?"
No he's just greedy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect that river in Egypt what's it called again 
Not sure on spelling
Denial?
Took a while but at least somebody get there "
Not been online for a few days apologies X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your bi if you play with the same sex and enjoy it, it's as simple as that.
Bi curious would be if you haven't played with the same sex but would be interested to try.
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"Your bi if you play with the same sex and enjoy it, it's as simple as that.
Bi curious would be if you haven't played with the same sex but would be interested to try.
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"I suspect that river in Egypt what's it called again
Not sure on spelling
Denial?
Took a while but at least somebody get there
Not been online for a few days apologies X "
It's just not good enough. My office NOW |
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"I suspect that river in Egypt what's it called again
Not sure on spelling
Denial?
Took a while but at least somebody get there
Not been online for a few days apologies X
It's just not good enough. My office NOW "
Is it just mine or have everyone's knickers just loosened a little? |
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"I suspect that river in Egypt what's it called again
Not sure on spelling
Denial?
Took a while but at least somebody get there
Not been online for a few days apologies X
It's just not good enough. My office NOW
Is it just mine or have everyone's knickers just loosened a little? "
Er er er give me a minute I'll think of a reply soon |
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"I suspect that river in Egypt what's it called again
Not sure on spelling
Denial?
Took a while but at least somebody get there
Not been online for a few days apologies X
It's just not good enough. My office NOW
Is it just mine or have everyone's knickers just loosened a little?
Er er er give me a minute I'll think of a reply soon "
Definitely everyone's X |
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