Went out with coffee shop guy in November, got completely pissed and remember nothing. Figured that was it.
Then 2 weeks ago he asked if I was free again so went went out Saturday.
Now I'm not after a relationship but how long should I leave it before I suggest we go out (and by go out I mean stay home and have a lot of sex) again without sounding like I'm too keen and after more than just some laughs and fun.
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Carpe diem....invite him round tonight and at some point just drop that you might be calling on him for sex and giggles quite often and ask if that's OK with him |
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"Ask him if he's busy this weekend.  "
I can't do this weekend anyway, won't have my lad stopping out 2 weekends on the trot.
So bringing it up in convo like when do you think you'll be free next just a week after the last time doesn't seem too much? |
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"Carpe diem....invite him round tonight and at some point just drop that you might be calling on him for sex and giggles quite often and ask if that's OK with him"
I can't just invite him round I have my son here. I could text but I'd rather ask face to face so I can gauge his reaction better.
Maybe I'll see him when he's at work in the morning. |
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"Ask him if he's busy this weekend.
I can't do this weekend anyway, won't have my lad stopping out 2 weekends on the trot.
So bringing it up in convo like when do you think you'll be free next just a week after the last time doesn't seem too much? "
I personally wouldn't think it too much. If I liked the girl and she asked me I'd be very happy about it and would jump at the chance.  |
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Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not. |
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"I would ask right away because I'm not into the waiting thing. Although I would also make it clear that I'm only after giggles and sex 
-Courtney "
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"Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not. "
Yeah we chatted loads. Before, in between and in the morning.
He knows about here, I have no idea about the other stuff.  |
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Went out with coffee shop guy in November, got completely pissed and remember nothing. Figured that was it.
Then 2 weeks ago he asked if I was free again so went went out Saturday.
Now I'm not after a relationship but how long should I leave it before I suggest we go out (and by go out I mean stay home and have a lot of sex) again without sounding like I'm too keen and after more than just some laughs and fun.
I'm rubbish at this stuff...
I would imagine any self respecting, sane man would be totally disgusted if told their date was not interested in a relationship and just wanted to fuck his brains out.... and if you believe that you'll believe anything! |
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"Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not.
Yeah we chatted loads. Before, in between and in the morning.
He knows about here, I have no idea about the other stuff. "
How did he react when you told him about this site? If he didn't bat an eyelid, ask him next time you see him if he fancies being your fb.
If he looked a bit shocked or not quite comfortable, wait a week or so.
That's what I'd do anyway. |
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"Went out with coffee shop guy in November, got completely pissed and remember nothing. Figured that was it.
Then 2 weeks ago he asked if I was free again so went went out Saturday.
Now I'm not after a relationship but how long should I leave it before I suggest we go out (and by go out I mean stay home and have a lot of sex) again without sounding like I'm too keen and after more than just some laughs and fun.
I'm rubbish at this stuff...
I would imagine any self respecting, sane man would be totally disgusted if told their date was not interested in a relationship and just wanted to fuck his brains out.... and if you believe that you'll believe anything! "
Hes a lovely lad but at 12 years younger than me he's still out enjoying his partying and travelling the world with his mates, I'm a 36 year old single mother with a young child and very little free time. So even if I did want more it wouldn't be very practical and I could see it going pear shaped, I wouldn't of been tied down at his age.. |
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"Went out with coffee shop guy in November, got completely pissed and remember nothing. Figured that was it.
Then 2 weeks ago he asked if I was free again so went went out Saturday.
Now I'm not after a relationship but how long should I leave it before I suggest we go out (and by go out I mean stay home and have a lot of sex) again without sounding like I'm too keen and after more than just some laughs and fun.
I'm rubbish at this stuff...
I would imagine any self respecting, sane man would be totally disgusted if told their date was not interested in a relationship and just wanted to fuck his brains out.... and if you believe that you'll believe anything!
Hes a lovely lad but at 12 years younger than me he's still out enjoying his partying and travelling the world with his mates, I'm a 36 year old single mother with a young child and very little free time. So even if I did want more it wouldn't be very practical and I could see it going pear shaped, I wouldn't of been tied down at his age.."
If my math is right, I was married at his age. |
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"Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not.
Yeah we chatted loads. Before, in between and in the morning.
He knows about here, I have no idea about the other stuff.
How did he react when you told him about this site? If he didn't bat an eyelid, ask him next time you see him if he fancies being your fb.
If he looked a bit shocked or not quite comfortable, wait a week or so.
That's what I'd do anyway. "
He didnt look too shocked tbh..if we meet up again I'll mention it. Unless I chicken out |
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"Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not.
Yeah we chatted loads. Before, in between and in the morning.
He knows about here, I have no idea about the other stuff.
How did he react when you told him about this site? If he didn't bat an eyelid, ask him next time you see him if he fancies being your fb.
If he looked a bit shocked or not quite comfortable, wait a week or so.
That's what I'd do anyway.
He didnt look too shocked tbh..if we meet up again I'll mention it. Unless I chicken out "
No need to talk. Just walk up to him... hand him your knickers... walk off...  |
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"Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not.
Yeah we chatted loads. Before, in between and in the morning.
He knows about here, I have no idea about the other stuff.
How did he react when you told him about this site? If he didn't bat an eyelid, ask him next time you see him if he fancies being your fb.
If he looked a bit shocked or not quite comfortable, wait a week or so.
That's what I'd do anyway.
He didnt look too shocked tbh..if we meet up again I'll mention it. Unless I chicken out
No need to talk. Just walk up to him... hand him your knickers... walk off... "
In the coffee shop??  |
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"Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not.
Yeah we chatted loads. Before, in between and in the morning.
He knows about here, I have no idea about the other stuff.
How did he react when you told him about this site? If he didn't bat an eyelid, ask him next time you see him if he fancies being your fb.
If he looked a bit shocked or not quite comfortable, wait a week or so.
That's what I'd do anyway.
He didnt look too shocked tbh..if we meet up again I'll mention it. Unless I chicken out
No need to talk. Just walk up to him... hand him your knickers... walk off...
In the coffee shop?? "
Is that a trick question?   |
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"Did you chat in between shagging? Did you get a feel for whether he was looking for a girlfriend or a fb or just a one (two!) off?
Can't remember if you said you'd told him about swinging or not.
Yeah we chatted loads. Before, in between and in the morning.
He knows about here, I have no idea about the other stuff.
How did he react when you told him about this site? If he didn't bat an eyelid, ask him next time you see him if he fancies being your fb.
If he looked a bit shocked or not quite comfortable, wait a week or so.
That's what I'd do anyway.
He didnt look too shocked tbh..if we meet up again I'll mention it. Unless I chicken out
No need to talk. Just walk up to him... hand him your knickers... walk off...
In the coffee shop??
Is that a trick question? "
The old dears getting their morning brews would be shocked.. |
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"Ask him if he's busy this weekend.
I can't do this weekend anyway, won't have my lad stopping out 2 weekends on the trot.
So bringing it up in convo like when do you think you'll be free next just a week after the last time doesn't seem too much? "
No, especially if it's for next weekend. And I would not ask when he's next free - ask him if he'd like to meet next weekend cos that's when you're next free!! |
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"Went out with coffee shop guy in November, got completely pissed and remember nothing. Figured that was it.
Then 2 weeks ago he asked if I was free again so went went out Saturday.
Now I'm not after a relationship but how long should I leave it before I suggest we go out (and by go out I mean stay home and have a lot of sex) again without sounding like I'm too keen and after more than just some laughs and fun.
I'm rubbish at this stuff...
I would imagine any self respecting, sane man would be totally disgusted if told their date was not interested in a relationship and just wanted to fuck his brains out.... and if you believe that you'll believe anything!
Hes a lovely lad but at 12 years younger than me he's still out enjoying his partying and travelling the world with his mates, I'm a 36 year old single mother with a young child and very little free time. So even if I did want more it wouldn't be very practical and I could see it going pear shaped, I wouldn't of been tied down at his age..
If my math is right, I was married at his age. "
Me too...a few years in as well! |
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