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Tattoos, can I comment?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
I was in the steam room at my local gym last week and there were a couple of 20something lasses in.
Admiring, as one does, they both had several very good tattoos. I wanted to comment but don't know the etiquette of this. I was generally chatting to them, but should I mention the tats?
Some pointers would be helpful please...
Thanks
John |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they're new tatts then they'd probably be ok with compliments or being asked about them.
After 10 yrs though i find it a bit tedious to be asked about mine at times...especially being asked how many i have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After 10 yrs though i find it a bit tedious to be asked about mine at times...especially being asked how many i have."
Tempted as I am at the prospect of a close examination of their tattoos to determine their age, I think that may have got me slapped, at best 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be wary that they may represent something incredibly personal that they may not want to talk about with a stranger.
Also if they're in an area which wouldn't be on display if they were in normal clothes, perhaps don't comment either as it could be perceived as you perving.
Why not just ask a general question if you'd like to chat? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Also if they're in an area which wouldn't be on display if they were in normal clothes, perhaps don't comment either as it could be perceived as you perving"
Perving? Me? Surely not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the situation.
Compliments are always nice in the right context but can be intrusive if I just want to be left alone. Guess you have to judge the situation for yourself.
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"Depends on the situation.
Compliments are always nice in the right context but can be intrusive if I just want to be left alone. Guess you have to judge the situation for yourself.
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And if I may say what I can see look good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also if they're in an area which wouldn't be on display if they were in normal clothes, perhaps don't comment either as it could be perceived as you perving
Perving? Me? Surely not! "
I only said that as it's the gym, people tend to wear more revealing and less restrictive clothing at the gym. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"I find most people with tatts myself included don't mind talking or showing them off. I'm afton pulling my shirt up to show people nut obviously only when asked to"
Same here.....but I can be found pulling my dress up to show my thigh ones or taking clothes off to show back ones   |
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A few months back I got talking to a girl in a club it started about tats anyway we left that club and went to another next thing I know she says do you want to see, me thinking they on her arm or leg next thing I know she completely removed her dress for me to see them, I have no idea what her tats were of if I'm honest I'm easily distracted  |
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