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I've recently learnt that it is rude to do garden stuff on a Sunday!
An elderly gentleman informed me recently that it is rude and shouldn't be done on a Sunday out of respect for neighbours!
With all due respect, what the hell has it got to do with the neighbours?!?
Has anyone ever heard such rubbish?!? |
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"When I was growing up this was the case, on Sunday the place would be silent. I expect the old gentleman was of my parents generation."
That's so strange! Why was the place silent? Because people should be at church or something? |
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over a year ago
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"I've recently learnt that it is rude to do garden stuff on a Sunday!
An elderly gentleman informed me recently that it is rude and shouldn't be done on a Sunday out of respect for neighbours!
With all due respect, what the hell has it got to do with the neighbours?!?
Has anyone ever heard such rubbish?!?"
I agree with the elderly gentleman to a certain extent - pottering about cutting back, raking etc is fine, but motor mowers and the whine of electric garden tools can be annoyingly intrusive for those wanting to enjoy the peace and quiet of their gardens on a Sunday. |
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Sundays afternoons when I was a child were reserved for chilling out and it was seen to be inconsiderate to get the power tools/lawnmower out in respect of the neighbours. .think this attitude has long gone now xx |
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as long as it is within repsectful hours i really dont care what people do. i would rather people take care of their property on any day they can than let it go to wrack and ruin because their only free day is a sunday.
The days of everyone working mon-fri 9-5 are long gone so people do what they can when they can. |
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"When I was growing up this was the case, on Sunday the place would be silent. I expect the old gentleman was of my parents generation.
That's so strange! Why was the place silent? Because people should be at church or something?"
Back in the day...yes! No shops were open and most places of work would be closed from Saturday lunch to Monday morning.....my granny used to tell me! |
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"When I was growing up this was the case, on Sunday the place would be silent. I expect the old gentleman was of my parents generation.
That's so strange! Why was the place silent? Because people should be at church or something?"
Because traditionally Sunday was/is a day of rest, most people worked hard all week and appreciated a day to relax. It was also a chance to spend the day with your family. My mum wouldn't use the washing machine or vacuum cleaner either.
Strange to you, normal to me. |
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"When I was growing up this was the case, on Sunday the place would be silent. I expect the old gentleman was of my parents generation.
That's so strange! Why was the place silent? Because people should be at church or something?
Because traditionally Sunday was/is a day of rest, most people worked hard all week and appreciated a day to relax. It was also a chance to spend the day with your family. My mum wouldn't use the washing machine or vacuum cleaner either.
Strange to you, normal to me."
I've never heard of anything like it!
I wasn't even mowing the lawn! I was digging/moving bags of soil and tidying up. How could that possibly upset someone?!?! |
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"When I was growing up this was the case, on Sunday the place would be silent. I expect the old gentleman was of my parents generation.
That's so strange! Why was the place silent? Because people should be at church or something?
Because traditionally Sunday was/is a day of rest, most people worked hard all week and appreciated a day to relax. It was also a chance to spend the day with your family. My mum wouldn't use the washing machine or vacuum cleaner either.
Strange to you, normal to me.
I've never heard of anything like it!
I wasn't even mowing the lawn! I was digging/moving bags of soil and tidying up. How could that possibly upset someone?!?!"
He's from a different generation that's all. He should respect that your _iews will be different to his and vice versa. |
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"When I was growing up this was the case, on Sunday the place would be silent. I expect the old gentleman was of my parents generation.
That's so strange! Why was the place silent? Because people should be at church or something?
Because traditionally Sunday was/is a day of rest, most people worked hard all week and appreciated a day to relax. It was also a chance to spend the day with your family. My mum wouldn't use the washing machine or vacuum cleaner either.
Strange to you, normal to me.
I've never heard of anything like it!
I wasn't even mowing the lawn! I was digging/moving bags of soil and tidying up. How could that possibly upset someone?!?!
He's from a different generation that's all. He should respect that your _iews will be different to his and vice versa."
Yeah, I agree. |
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Where I live, if anyone told someone that they couldn't do their lawns / gardening etc, they'd be told where to go!
People do what they want, when they want round their properties here! |
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"I've never heard of anything like it!
I wasn't even mowing the lawn! I was digging/moving bags of soil and tidying up. How could that possibly upset someone?!?!"
That will be because you're probably too young to remember.
If not mowing then you weren't causing noise issues.
Perhaps the gent respects you as someone who might listen to him. |
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Wonderful thing here (France) is that it ( while not illegal) is considered extremely antisocial to use noisy garden tools on a Sunday.
And since France stops for lunch between 12 and 2 pm every day; between those hours every day, too .
It's wonderful.
When I lived in Germany, it was illegal to wash your car on a Sunday.
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Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame. |
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"I've recently learnt that it is rude to do garden stuff on a Sunday!
An elderly gentleman informed me recently that it is rude and shouldn't be done on a Sunday out of respect for neighbours!
With all due respect, what the hell has it got to do with the neighbours?!?
Has anyone ever heard such rubbish?!?"
I suspect dementia has set in! Old people can be soooo much fun sometimes!   |
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"Wonderful thing here (France) is that it ( while not illegal) is considered extremely antisocial to use noisy garden tools on a Sunday.
And since France stops for lunch between 12 and 2 pm every day; between those hours every day, too .
It's wonderful.
When I lived in Germany, it was illegal to wash your car on a Sunday.
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Yet legal to have prostitutes on the road side in a camper van waiting for business !!! |
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"as long as it is within repsectful hours i really dont care what people do. i would rather people take care of their property on any day they can than let it go to wrack and ruin because their only free day is a sunday.
The days of everyone working mon-fri 9-5 are long gone so people do what they can when they can."
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
I hardly think thats fair. You pay national insurance and wage contributions to receive most of those. |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
what if the 'old cunt' was a military veteran, served the community and paid his taxes through his life..
therefore allowing some young cunts the right to vent their shitty little minded opinions on sites such as this..? |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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Haven`t heard of it but I can see where people are coming from I can equally see why it`s going by the wayside. In the 1940s/50s my granddad was a signalman on the railway and Saturday was a normal working day so with a six day working week, Sunday was the only day of rest for him. Also, most people couldn`t afford to own their own properties and I don`t think it even came into their heads that they should even think about it! Those who were lucky enough to have a Local Authority house were lucky in that they usually had a half decent place that didn`t need much work apart from decorating. But now work patterns have changed, people can but their own properties much easier, you have access to much more machinery to repair and upgrade your house along with late evening and Sunday opening of DIY suppliers making lifestyles so much different to when it was the done thing not to disturb the peace! Plus, I suppose, there`s the "God`s Day" angle. People are much less religious now so God`s Day doesn`t exist for many now! |
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By *ynecplCouple
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"Wonderful thing here (France) is that it ( while not illegal) is considered extremely antisocial to use noisy garden tools on a Sunday.
And since France stops for lunch between 12 and 2 pm every day; between those hours every day, too .
It's wonderful.
When I lived in Germany, it was illegal to wash your car on a Sunday.
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When I lived in German it was also illegal to hand washing out on a Sunday |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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"Haven`t heard of it but I can see where people are coming from I can equally see why it`s going by the wayside. In the 1940s/50s my granddad was a signalman on the railway and Saturday was a normal working day so with a six day working week, Sunday was the only day of rest for him. Also, most people couldn`t afford to own their own properties and I don`t think it even came into their heads that they should even think about it! Those who were lucky enough to have a Local Authority house were lucky in that they usually had a half decent place that didn`t need much work apart from decorating. But now work patterns have changed, people can but their own properties much easier, you have access to much more machinery to repair and upgrade your house along with late evening and Sunday opening of DIY suppliers making lifestyles so much different to when it was the done thing not to disturb the peace! Plus, I suppose, there`s the "God`s Day" angle. People are much less religious now so God`s Day doesn`t exist for many now!"
Also going to add that for a lot of people, a lawn was an un-necessary luxury as any available ground was needed to grow vegetables for the family! |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
I hardly think thats fair. You pay national insurance and wage contributions to receive most of those. "
Jeez that's harsh !! One day you will be an old cunt as you call them !! They have worked damn hard to get their heating allowance and to have use of the NHS ...unlike some people who have contributed butt all!!
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
what if the 'old cunt' was a military veteran, served the community and paid his taxes through his life..
therefore allowing some young cunts the right to vent their shitty little minded opinions on sites such as this..? "
love it ..couldn't have said it better myself |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
Seriously?
He has quite likely worked very hard to then receive a poxy pension and in bad weather may need heating on all day.
Remember one day you too will be old, if you are lucky 
Though I do think he was being a little harsh on the OP.
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
You have this _iew for your older relatives!? . Vile comment
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By *phroditeWoman
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Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
what if the 'old cunt' was a military veteran, served the community and paid his taxes through his life..
therefore allowing some young cunts the right to vent their shitty little minded opinions on sites such as this..? "
Well said, who do young people think looked after the planet before they did?  |
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
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We are in retail , old fashioned mon - sat 8.30 - 5.30 . Sunday is our only day off and the lawn won't mow itself !
And I am of an age to remember when Sunday's were a day of rest .
Now most shops are open Sunday's , takeaways as well .
So the old guy complaining needs to get a grip on reality and realise things have changed .
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
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Not if you're retired. Pensioners should be banned from shopping at weekends. They have all week to potter about while the rest of us are at work. |
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By *phroditeWoman
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And I am of an age to remember when Sunday's were a day of rest .
Now most shops are open Sunday's , takeaways as well .
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I agree that this is happening - sadly, I might add - but that is not a reason to be inconsiderate towards our neightbours, surely? |
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However it has to be said you lot.....if you were going about your business and some pensioner told you what you could and couldn't do on your day off, I imagine some of you wouldn't take it that well!
He maybe elderly and deserve respect blah blah blah!
But he can also keep his opinions to himself! Some elderly people can be so bloody self righteous!  |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
cunt seems to be the 'in word' at the moment on here for when people don't agree with someone's behaviour. It's like being with juveniles who have just discovered a new swear word.
traditionally Sunday was a day of rest so that would include refraining from all physical work I would imagine.
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By *phroditeWoman
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
cunt seems to be the 'in word' at the moment on here for when people don't agree with someone's behaviour. It's like being with juveniles who have just discovered a new swear word.
traditionally Sunday was a day of rest so that would include refraining from all physical work I would imagine.
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I often wondered why people cannot have different opinion, different needs, different requests without being bullied or experience name calling.
I read, quite recently, that if somebody feels the need to be rude to you, call you names etc. this says a lot more about the rude person than about you. |
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
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But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
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My next door neighbour only cuts their lawn twice a year, when the council tell them to. I would love for them to cut their lawn, even on a sunday! I even gave them my old lawn mower. They left it out in the rain until weeks later i took it to landfill. But would i tell them to cut their lawn? No. Its not my business.
My neighbour on the other side has spent the last 6 weeks building a kitchen/diner sometimes until 10 at night 7 days a week. Do i complain? No. If i want to do similar in the future and he complains about the noise will i be angry? Very..  |
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A bit of a broad generalisation .
The gentleman concerned may have paid taxes all his life or provided sterling service to the community .
Sunday used to be considered to be a day of rest which was spent with your family .
Whilst times have moved on , making Sunday just another day is not necessarily a good thing .
The gentleman making the comments may be fit and healthy and not using any NHS resources .
I hope that you made he remarks in jest . |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
cunt seems to be the 'in word' at the moment on here for when people don't agree with someone's behaviour. It's like being with juveniles who have just discovered a new swear word.
traditionally Sunday was a day of rest so that would include refraining from all physical work I would imagine.
I often wondered why people cannot have different opinion, different needs, different requests without being bullied or experience name calling.
I read, quite recently, that if somebody feels the need to be rude to you, call you names etc. this says a lot more about the rude person than about you. "
I heard a comment today about people who are brave on social media etc...They are called keyboard warriors ..I like to call them cowards !! Everybody is entitled to their opinion etc..but what shocks me is the venom behind that opinion !! I am sure her grand parents would be immensely proud of her attitude |
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
X"
I agree with you, if whatever you were doing did not wake him etc, disturb him through noise then I think you should continue without feeling guilty. Absolutely! I probably would have said something like that I understand his _iew as different from yours and that you need to continue doing what you doing as it does not actaully affect him. |
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
X"
As long as you're polite you can do no more in the situation
I think then older you get the harder you find it is to fit in with the modern world, hence you become a grumpy old man / woman.
If we're fortunate we'll all live long enough to be healthy grumpy ole buggers  |
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
X"
Sounds about right to me he's entitled to his opinion but so are you. |
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By *phroditeWoman
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
X
As long as you're polite you can do no more in the situation
I think then older you get the harder you find it is to fit in with the modern world, hence you become a grumpy old man / woman.
If we're fortunate we'll all live long enough to be healthy grumpy ole buggers "
Also very true lol xx |
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"But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
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Sounds like you did nothing wrong. Perhaps he's religious or losing it? |
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I agree with him, if you live in a built up area it would be nice to have one day a week when everyone is considerate of everyone else and it was a nice peaceful day.
Of course we're I live it's peaceful everyday  |
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"But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
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Sounds like you did nothing wrong. Perhaps he's religious or losing it?"
My parents are coming up for 89 years old and they often complain to me about the noise on Sundays. My mum used to tell my dad off for revving his motorbike up on a Sunday (he sold it a year or so ago). Its just how things were when they were young and its very hard to keep pace with modern life.
I will add though that they would never complain to anyone in person...just me
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
what if the 'old cunt' was a military veteran, served the community and paid his taxes through his life..
therefore allowing some young cunts the right to vent their shitty little minded opinions on sites such as this..? "
This!! |
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"What was his reply when you told him what was happening
He was taken aback and just said that all the other people around will also find it rude."
Sounds like you need a box of tissues, and a jar of 10 pence pieces.. |
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"When I was growing up this was the case, on Sunday the place would be silent. I expect the old gentleman was of my parents generation.
That's so strange! Why was the place silent? Because people should be at church or something?
Because traditionally Sunday was/is a day of rest, most people worked hard all week and appreciated a day to relax. It was also a chance to spend the day with your family. My mum wouldn't use the washing machine or vacuum cleaner either.
Strange to you, normal to me.
I've never heard of anything like it!
I wasn't even mowing the lawn! I was digging/moving bags of soil and tidying up. How could that possibly upset someone?!?!"
All of the grunting and groaning Sunday is a sabbatical, a day of rest for men and women apart from providing a meal. It's the way it was and has been for years, maybe it's a good idea to follow,basically a family day when we all pull together and enjoy each other's company?? Not many have these days but maybe a good idea to bring back when families speak and listen to each other. Me and my girls Sunday's are ours it's our special day together |
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"Frankly, I do not understand what is so difficult to grasp about the elderly gentleman's comment. The fact the gentleman is elderly is irrelevant - thankfully many younger people still show that they have respect for others.
Sunday is pretty much the only day many, perhaps most people can have a lie-in, relax etc and it is a matter of courtesy, respect and consideration to think about what might disturb other people's peace.
But come on, honestly... I wasn't mowing the lawn!!! I was digging and tidying up for gods sake.
Why can't he simply not look if he didn't like it? The middle aged lady next door loves watching me working outside! Haha!
It was absolutely no inconvenience to him whatsoever. It wasn't noisy, it wasn't anywhere near his garden, it was absolutely nothing to do with him. To be honest, I'm very respectful of the elderly, but I completely ignored him and politely explained that I was doing what I believed was the right thing to do in my situation.
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As long as you're polite you can do no more in the situation
I think then older you get the harder you find it is to fit in with the modern world, hence you become a grumpy old man / woman.
If we're fortunate we'll all live long enough to be healthy grumpy ole buggers "
I'm not going to be grumpy when I get old - I'm going to be nutty as a fruitcake! I'm already rehearsing! |
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Wow to this thread. Very interesting.
I work Monday-Friday. Saturday and Sunday are days for doing work that needs to be done around the house. As long as it isn't really early or really late, I don't see the issue. If anyone told/asked me to stop, I'd say sorry but no.
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"It's different in Scotland, Sunday is the day to do this stuff, you work all week, enjoy Friday & Saturday then do boring stuff like gardening on sunday"
I beg to differ on that..not all of Scotland thinks this..you go to the Isle of Harris and Lewis...they do nothing on a Sunday apart from going to church. |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
Just remember...you too will become a old cunt one day. |
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" Wow to this thread. Very interesting.
I work Monday-Friday. Saturday and Sunday are days for doing work that needs to be done around the house. As long as it isn't really early or really late, I don't see the issue. If anyone told/asked me to stop, I'd say sorry but no.
-Courtney "
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By *osweet69Couple
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
What a harsh and bigoted thing to say about a old fella that you know nothing about, and it is you that has no shame.
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.What a harsh and bigoted thing to say about a old fella that you know nothing about, and it is you that has no shame. "
what an awful person saying things like that very hurt full
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"Wonderful thing here (France) is that it ( while not illegal) is considered extremely antisocial to use noisy garden tools on a Sunday.
And since France stops for lunch between 12 and 2 pm every day; between those hours every day, too .
It's wonderful.
When I lived in Germany, it was illegal to wash your car on a Sunday.
Yet legal to have prostitutes on the road side in a camper van waiting for business !!! "
Yep that's about right. The Germans have quite a few rules that would make the average Brit raise an eyebrow.
You are allowed to do jobs in your garden (or anywhere else on your property) on a Sunday but using any kind of power tool is an absolute no no. Usually a neighbour would just complain to your face (back stabbing isn't really a German trait) but if you carried on then he/she would be fully entitled to call the police and depending on the mood of the copper you would either get a fine or a warning.
On the other side of the coin it is compulsory to clear snow from the footpath in front of your property (even on a Sunday) and you can be fined for not doing so, just don't use a petrol snow blower. Also Sunday opening for shops is much stricter than in the UK.
Other things such as church tax which is deducted from your salary or added to your tax bill which you have to opt out of rather than opt in.
The Germans also pay excise duty on coffee so if you are ever in another country close to a border with Germany you will almost certainly see hundreds of Germans doing the coffee run. We nip over to Holland once a month ish. |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
I soooooooooooooo hope you forgot to add the at the end of your comment.
But I doubt it. |
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as a builder even i stick to certain rules never use power tools early on sunday morning only after 11.00
everyone needs a lie in
use of power tools during working hrs if possible
however if they are arrogant and they themselves do the exact opposite then I will return the favour
got one next door cuts wood between the hrs of 11pm right too 3am
does other garden work with grinders and has the cheek to moan at me when I get mine out to do the work thats needed
you can guess where they got told to go |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
From one whose profile speaks about abuse and good manners ?? |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
From one whose profile speaks about abuse and good manners ??"
Irony....... |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.
From one whose profile speaks about abuse and good manners ??"
It's funny that they have gone awfully quiet since they have had the response they have had from the forum !! Funny that you would think someone with manners would at least apologise ..However she has received the attention she clearly likes |
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Dunno about it being a generational thing - there was an old codger banging away across the road for hours yesterday.
Mind you, he may have had a lucky morning and wanted to show her he was a man of stamina! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I have always enjoyed my Sundays as family days and still do. Kids often come back for Sunday lunch etc so I guess we have maintained the traditional way of family life. I m not saying that it has to be this way but I/we really like it. |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame."
. Have you reconsidered the validity of your statement and considered making an apology . ?..
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That what was done all those years ago
Life has moved on
With High mortgages probably means both parents work
And kids activitys mainly on Saturdays what other days are there. As long as it's a reasonable hour in the day - I say motor on |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.. Have you reconsidered the validity of your statement and considered making an apology . ?.."
Nah don't be silly !! They couldn't give a toss ..sadly !! |
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"Just another old cunt moaning about other people as he eats up a huge amount of state resources though his pensions, fuel payments, the NHS et al. They literally have no shame.. Have you reconsidered the validity of your statement and considered making an apology . ?.."
I'll apologise on his/her behalf. |
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but i used to wake the street at 3am every morning getting up to do the milk round when I was a kid 
