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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we all know why each other is here. But does anyone sometimes think a good social with no expectations would be nice?
I'd love to sometimes go out for a meal drinks and a good laugh about experiences without it all being about are we going to get in each other's pants |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet people from the forums all the time for just socials. I enjoy it and actively encourage people from the forums to get in contact for this very purpose. You should try it if you wanna. 
-Courtney |
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"So we all know why each other is here. But does anyone sometimes think a good social with no expectations would be nice?
I'd love to sometimes go out for a meal drinks and a good laugh about experiences without it all being about are we going to get in each other's pants
Like a proper date ?? "
Nooooo like a good meal and a get to know you. We like a good social. Gives you something to anticipate before the fun after you've met someone  |
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"We meet people from the forums all the time for just socials. I enjoy it and actively encourage people from the forums to get in contact for this very purpose. You should try it if you wanna.
-Courtney"
I love a good social!!! Afternoon tea was a favourite of mine x |
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"We meet people from the forums all the time for just socials. I enjoy it and actively encourage people from the forums to get in contact for this very purpose. You should try it if you wanna.
-Courtney
I love a good social!!! Afternoon tea was a favourite of mine x"
Good to know. I'll bug you the next time we are near your area, then. 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We meet people from the forums all the time for just socials. I enjoy it and actively encourage people from the forums to get in contact for this very purpose. You should try it if you wanna.
-Courtney"
Really??? Wow sounds fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had some simply spiffing social meets . Good friends and chuckles. The Pooch has accompanied me on a few too
Sounds fun "
It is just chums walking talking , having a bite to eat and putting the jolly old world to rights |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need tips lol I must be doing something wrong"
What I do is chat to people in the forums and in PMs. Marc and I tend to travel a lot. I let people know when I may be in their area and ask if they are free for coffee or a drink, and not a meet
If people are free, then they come and have a drink and we chat for a while. Its nice. If people are near us they do the same. Its really easy People tend to be really nice.
-Courtney |
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"I need tips lol I must be doing something wrong
What I do is chat to people in the forums and in PMs. Marc and I tend to travel a lot. I let people know when I may be in their area and ask if they are free for coffee or a drink, and not a meet
If people are free, then they come and have a drink and we chat for a while. Its nice. If people are near us they do the same. Its really easy People tend to be really nice.
-Courtney"
Until they cancel last minute cause they've got a hangover that lasted three more days! 
Then they're total fuckwits!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I need tips lol I must be doing something wrong
What I do is chat to people in the forums and in PMs. Marc and I tend to travel a lot. I let people know when I may be in their area and ask if they are free for coffee or a drink, and not a meet
If people are free, then they come and have a drink and we chat for a while. Its nice. If people are near us they do the same. Its really easy People tend to be really nice.
-Courtney"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I need tips lol I must be doing something wrong
What I do is chat to people in the forums and in PMs. Marc and I tend to travel a lot. I let people know when I may be in their area and ask if they are free for coffee or a drink, and not a meet
If people are free, then they come and have a drink and we chat for a while. Its nice. If people are near us they do the same. Its really easy People tend to be really nice.
-Courtney
Until they cancel last minute cause they've got a hangover that lasted three more days!
Then they're total fuckwits! "
That's what I've found. Well not necessary hungover. Just things crop up when you don't promise sex lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have had some simply spiffing social meets . Good friends and chuckles. The Pooch has accompanied me on a few too
Sounds fun
It is just chums walking talking , having a bite to eat and putting the jolly old world to rights "
Count me in next time you want to walk talk eat and put the world to rights. I'm good at that haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need tips lol I must be doing something wrong
What I do is chat to people in the forums and in PMs. Marc and I tend to travel a lot. I let people know when I may be in their area and ask if they are free for coffee or a drink, and not a meet
If people are free, then they come and have a drink and we chat for a while. Its nice. If people are near us they do the same. Its really easy People tend to be really nice.
-Courtney
Until they cancel last minute cause they've got a hangover that lasted three more days!
Then they're total fuckwits!
That's what I've found. Well not necessary hungover. Just things crop up when you don't promise sex lol "
Yes, things do come up.
I guess I should have promised her sex. Maybe she'd have shown up
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have had some simply spiffing social meets . Good friends and chuckles. The Pooch has accompanied me on a few too
Sounds fun
It is just chums walking talking , having a bite to eat and putting the jolly old world to rights
Count me in next time you want to walk talk eat and put the world to rights. I'm good at that haha"
Ha ha ots a deal |
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"I need tips lol I must be doing something wrong
What I do is chat to people in the forums and in PMs. Marc and I tend to travel a lot. I let people know when I may be in their area and ask if they are free for coffee or a drink, and not a meet
If people are free, then they come and have a drink and we chat for a while. Its nice. If people are near us they do the same. Its really easy People tend to be really nice.
-Courtney
Until they cancel last minute cause they've got a hangover that lasted three more days!
Then they're total fuckwits!
That's what I've found. Well not necessary hungover. Just things crop up when you don't promise sex lol
Yes, things do come up.
I guess I should have promised her sex. Maybe she'd have shown up
-Courtney"
Christ I could barely see never mind have sex! I am a disgrace! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a simple social. No pressure, no expectations, no disappointment.
More fun than going out alone. (The question "table for one?" is just depressing). |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I love a nice social but in the back of my mind I'm always wondering what kind of lover they are. It's not a problem because if we hit it off arrangements can then be made for another time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So we all know why each other is here. But does anyone sometimes think a good social with no expectations would be nice?
I'd love to sometimes go out for a meal drinks and a good laugh about experiences without it all being about are we going to get in each other's pants"
Nope , not one bit ....
We have life outside of swinging for that . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love socials, going to a pub meeting alot of people and getting to know them and then the usual back to the hotel hoping a few are staying in the same one and the fun breaks out then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer a simple social. No pressure, no expectations, no disappointment.
More fun than going out alone. (The question "table for one?" is just depressing)."
Very depressing. I'll be asking for that table for one tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We meet people from the forums all the time for just socials. I enjoy it and actively encourage people from the forums to get in contact for this very purpose. You should try it if you wanna.
-Courtney"
I won't meet any old riff raff, even if they are from the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we all know why each other is here. But does anyone sometimes think a good social with no expectations would be nice?
I'd love to sometimes go out for a meal drinks and a good laugh about experiences without it all being about are we going to get in each other's pants"
I have coffee at least once a week with someone off here for a little gossip and catch up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We meet people from the forums all the time for just socials. I enjoy it and actively encourage people from the forums to get in contact for this very purpose. You should try it if you wanna.
-Courtney
I won't meet any old riff raff, even if they are from the forums "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we all know why each other is here. But does anyone sometimes think a good social with no expectations would be nice?
I'd love to sometimes go out for a meal drinks and a good laugh about experiences without it all being about are we going to get in each other's pants"
We're on the same wavelength we would love to meet folk and just go for a meal or drink and expect nothing else but a total vanilla night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Socials are my preferred first meet type
You can all get to know a bit more about each other, and if there's any chemistry between you.
It gives you the chance to back out of any further commitment too
Besides all of that, it's actually fun to just go and meet other fabbers, especially forumites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we all know why each other is here. But does anyone sometimes think a good social with no expectations would be nice?
I'd love to sometimes go out for a meal drinks and a good laugh about experiences without it all being about are we going to get in each other's pants
Nope , not one bit ....
We have life outside of swinging for that ."
Same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I don't have sex without L being in the room or at least the building, and L is frequently not even in the same country. The occasional social is good with me, would need to be forum people though, people that I chat with anyway, as life is pretty full. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I like socials, whether 1-1 or as an organised event,
I've said it often if I'm uncomfortable with the other folk in a social setting it's going to be really awkward getting naked with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we like socials, but only in clubs and organised events. Meals we keep for friends and family ..."
I used to just after I left my ex. I soon realised that all my friends are still married with kids. They get out alone every couple of months and together every couple of months but I feel like a spare part. So waiting for mums to want a night out can be few and far between. |
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A group social in pub is good. But we find our free time is limited so dont do, the go out meet couple for drink first. Unfortunatly we find most socials are in clubs. If im going a club we will want to play. So the nearest we get is meet new people at house parties but play with those we know. Then next time will know them or arrange a seperate meet. We tried holding socials but found people where not interested in meeting at pubs. |
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