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over a year ago
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"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?"
Do it if you want; don't if you don't. |
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"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?"
make sure it's something you BOTH WANT before anything else....
you doing it for you both or just for the hubby?
from the tone of your post it doesn't sound like your all that into the idea....apologies if i'm wrong |
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"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?"
We have done this and it was really hot - we picked a trusted guy we'd met before so Mr knew I was safe. Take pics and video to show hubby - it will drive him crazy just knowing what you're doing never mind looking at pics of it. Have fun  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him."
Start off telling him a little to gauge his reaction and play it by ear from there? Try telling him when you're in bed, then his reaction should be fairly obvious... |
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"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?
We have done this and it was really hot - we picked a trusted guy we'd met before so Mr knew I was safe. Take pics and video to show hubby - it will drive him crazy just knowing what you're doing never mind looking at pics of it. Have fun "
sounds amazing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him.
Start off telling him a little to gauge his reaction and play it by ear from there? Try telling him when you're in bed, then his reaction should be fairly obvious..."
sounds like a good idea |
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"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him."
Ahhh! OK then. I would say to tell him as much as you and he want. If it were Marc he would want to hear everything. Then we can both decided whether it's something we want to continue doing. But in all honesty, it depends on your relationship and both of your expectations for the meet.
Maybe talk with him more about it before you do it. Ask him what turns him on about it and what he would like to know after the meet.
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"Tomorrow is a first for me. My hubby told me he wanted me to go and have a meet on my own and come home and tell him all about it. Any advice please?
We have done this and it was really hot - we picked a trusted guy we'd met before so Mr knew I was safe. Take pics and video to show hubby - it will drive him crazy just knowing what you're doing never mind looking at pics of it. Have fun
sounds amazing"
We loved it - Mr couldn't wait for me to get home and tell him all about it - we then had an awesome session too |
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If you are comfy doing it then go ahead.
It sounds like hubby wants to know all the juicy details after, and if that is the case then try to tell him when you return home.
I know that when my wife has been out on a meet, if she comes home and tells me all about it she is guaranteed more sex with me |
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"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him."
Remember he is male, therefore by definition probably has a fragile little ego inside a great big hairy arsed body (well I do).
As others have said, tread gently until you can properly gauge his reaction. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you are comfy doing it then go ahead.
It sounds like hubby wants to know all the juicy details after, and if that is the case then try to tell him when you return home.
I know that when my wife has been out on a meet, if she comes home and tells me all about it she is guaranteed more sex with me "
more sex when I get home sounds good to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm quite excited about it. I'm just wondering if I should tell my hubby everything or be careful about what I tell him.
Remember he is male, therefore by definition probably has a fragile little ego inside a great big hairy arsed body (well I do).
As others have said, tread gently until you can properly gauge his reaction. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you are comfy doing it then go ahead.
It sounds like hubby wants to know all the juicy details after, and if that is the case then try to tell him when you return home.
I know that when my wife has been out on a meet, if she comes home and tells me all about it she is guaranteed more sex with me "
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If your hubby is the type of guy (like me) who is turned on by you telling him all the details of your meet, then he gets something out of this too.
Everyone is different and some partners don't want to hear what their spouses have been up to...but it sounds like he's excited by the idea. |
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"If your hubby is the type of guy (like me) who is turned on by you telling him all the details of your meet, then he gets something out of this too.
Everyone is different and some partners don't want to hear what their spouses have been up to...but it sounds like he's excited by the idea."
Well when I was telling him what I wanted to do on the meet he was well excited
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Well when I was telling him what I wanted to do on the meet he was well excited
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Definitely sounds like he is the kind of guy who will love hearing how it went. I love lying beside my wife as she talks me through a recent sexy meet. Maybe your hubby is similar. |
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Well when I was telling him what I wanted to do on the meet he was well excited
Definitely sounds like he is the kind of guy who will love hearing how it went. I love lying beside my wife as she talks me through a recent sexy meet. Maybe your hubby is similar."
lets hope so lol |
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This is something the mrs and myself do all the time, at first she told me everything, but these days, i just asked if she had a nice time, her reply is usually a yes and we leave it at that. |
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