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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have messaged - met and played allin the one evening- when you go to a club is the same only more so - ever guaranteed but meet up with the intention of playing if we click |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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I'd be happy to play without a social but i can't get a social let alone anything extra!! 
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"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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Every time. Normally meet once only. There are one or two local guys who I do repeats but generally 1. if they press the right buttons 2. I feel horny and 3. I have time I just get a feel from their messages. xxx |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Yep. I've normally decided I want to fuck someone before I meet them. It doesn't mean that I don't go for a drink or coffee first but I have never met purely for a social (unless you count grabbing a quick coffee with someone you've met before because you've become actual friends). |
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"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
I'd be happy to play without a social but i can't get a social let alone anything extra!!
Get your violins out for me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really into social meets. A chat for a while at the start of the meet combined with the previous messages is usually more than enough. Besides, I'm socially awkward, I'm terrible at small talk. Am much more confident once i've got my clothes off! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a mix of both , socials son because of time constraints. Though people I have met , we have usually chatted and gotten to know one another so a natter and sex too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, on many occassions. Then again, been speaking to them on cam and over the phone for a while and we both know we're going to fuck. So, it all happens on that same meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do both depending on how we feel. Some of our meets are spontaneous though tend to be with people we've been chatting to. Others have been a social meet that then has progressed but only happens if I'm not available so for safety more than anything for Ginger |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Usually we expect to meet for a drink first, but if everyone is as they have seemed via messages we're ready to play.
And once a lady came straight to our place, which shortened the social element considerably! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes very happy to do this, not into social only meets, not got the time! Done it in the past and lacks the excitement of a meeting, chatting then playing X |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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I've done it both ways.. . I prefer to meet for some form of social before though. |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
I dnt meet anyone I haven't spoken to for ages...so I have spoke on here met and by the time I'm through the door they are stripping me off to play
But I've also done socials or sat and talked for a while and waited for them to kick me out have pretty much ended up staying and playing tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done both. I lean towards a purely social meet first as my main preference, but I've also met in a bar and moved onto a hotel or just rocked up at the hotel. But that was after a lot of pre-planning and messaging so I felt confident enough to do so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still a "Fab virgin" but I don't think I'd be comfortable just turning up on someone's doorstep with the expectation of having sex the very first time we meet... I'm not judging anyone, I just don't think I could do it.  |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
We currently only do club meets... Roll up on the night, meet n chat in the bar area, if we click then we play....that's the beauty of clubs, you never know who you are going to meet xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me! I never have a social. Most of my meets are with guys from miles away so it's just impractical for me to meet just for a coffee. To compensate for this i never rush into a meet as i have to know before meeting them that there will be an attraction. I've not been wrong in 4 years so it works for me. |
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"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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*raises hand*
Me, me, me!
*looks embarrassed and quickly runs to the back of the class* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done both. Either meet at hotel room or meet out somewhere first then if goes well head to room.
Luckily time we met at hotel room worked quite well  |
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm still a "Fab virgin" but I don't think I'd be comfortable just turning up on someone's doorstep with the expectation of having sex the very first time we meet... I'm not judging anyone, I just don't think I could do it. "
you don't have to we can meet first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never have play in mind when meeting socially as its just that, but having said that, there's been a couple of times where the social has lead to a little play, albeit I was not the initiator of said play, I guess I'm just too damn irrisistable |
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I never have a social before a shag, normally play with them on the 1st meeting.
But I only meet in clubs so it is pretty easy to have a chat, then drag the poor unwilling bugger into a room and have my wicked way with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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Aye,that's how most of my meets have happened  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to have good filter systems e.g. insist on seeing on cam. However I have been known to let myself into a chaps house - don a blindfold and let him walk in on me pleasuring myself - with my breasts falling graciously out of my plunging neckline - it is quite intense being fondled and fucked by a stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to have a social 1st just in case we don't click on actual meeting.
In cases where logistics prevent that from happening then I combine the two, drink in a bar and if still all good we proceed to the filthy stuff
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've done both. I lean towards a purely social meet first as my main preference, but I've also met in a bar and moved onto a hotel or just rocked up at the hotel. But that was after a lot of pre-planning and messaging so I felt confident enough to do so."
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever had a social once and found that more nerve racking than anything. Even when i was on here as a single fem never really did socials and it worked out fine.
Doll x |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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We have done both, but do prefer a social as a first meet just in case we don't click, whilst rare it does happen. But we have met couples with the intention of only having a social and got on so well we just had to play  |
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"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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Yes I have booked hotel room and the lady just came straight to room, was fucking within 5 minutes of meeting her, was one of the best and most memorable meets I've ever had.
I also meet at clubs and I've also done purely social only meets. Different things work for different people.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do. We've exchanged messages obviously and we will meet in a bar and chat for a while. If we are all getting on we will play. If the attraction isn't there I will decline the play and they would too I hope.
I don't like weeks of long drawn out messaging and a few socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found the men who just want to meet and have sex tend to be very selfish sexually and are only interested in their own gratification. The thought of pleasing me just doesn't cross their minds whereas those who will have a social meet first tend to be a lot less selfish sexually and the sex is a hell of a lot better.
Of course, there are exceptions to this on both sides |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like both and tailor things according to where I am, the people and my free time. And a shag on first meet doesn't need to mean you don't have a social start to the meet. "
This.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow , just got back home after another fantastic night with two hot couples ( not a social )
So surprised so many fellow fabsters are very much like ourselves !
Thanks for everyone's contribution to the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes...of course.
I normally ask and/or presume a social happens first...particularly one to one or with newer folks. But this can often lead on to more on the day.
I have also met at mine or at theirs with the joint expectation of play... And rarely disappointed, but would still follow the rule that either party could say no at any point.
I have also arranged and been to hotel meets...these always have that expectation surely?
Parties...if attending you don't even know all who are attending so you have like net 10 mins earlier with no messaging...or clubs?
Plenty situations where it is straight to it. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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Previously it would have been some thing id never do. However I broke that rule once. A few messages and photos then he arrived at my hotel room. It was a fantastic night. So scary but so excitng too. I'm pretty sure I could be tempted to do it again with the right person. I certainly wouldn't rule anything out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the men who just want to meet and have sex tend to be very selfish sexually and are only interested in their own gratification. The thought of pleasing me just doesn't cross their minds whereas those who will have a social meet first tend to be a lot less selfish sexually and the sex is a hell of a lot better.
Of course, there are exceptions to this on both sides "
I am quite prescriptive in what I expect - of they don't understand via message or on the meet - I walk out. Simples . No pleasantries if they do not want to pleasure me |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
I've done both, I enjoy socials, but if you chat beforehand you feel as if you know them, then first sighting is very horny.... If there hadn't of been a cctv in the lift we wouldn't of made the bedroom.. Exceeded expectations and still the bar to base meets on... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the men who just want to meet and have sex tend to be very selfish sexually and are only interested in their own gratification. The thought of pleasing me just doesn't cross their minds whereas those who will have a social meet first tend to be a lot less selfish sexually and the sex is a hell of a lot better.
Of course, there are exceptions to this on both sides "
Yes I agree |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Well ?
Although it's never a guarantee , we are happy to meet with the joint expectation of play assuming we click after a few messages and pics .
Anyone else hapoy to do this ?
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Yes we have limited time and never waste it on socials.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Horses for courses
Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't
If I hook up with someone in a club then of course it's not a social; sometimes I prefer a social if I haven't chatted much with someone previously
And sometimes if we have chatted a lot them we arrive with expectancy
Sometimes I just want to get down and dirty |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Most of the time, we meet with the option that if everyone is happy after a drink/chat, we'll play.
Nothing is set in stone, we've had plenty of social only meets. Had a few where we've just turned up and pretty much got on with it.
Depends on time constraints and what everyone is comfortable with really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done both..... I much prefer to have a social that leads to play so I allow time in reserve for that .... I've met for socials ......and the play and social has continued for days - that's happened a few times now - I love spontaneity immediately after a social meet. Tempting and teasing and seducing him is part of the joy and vice versa ......why would I want to miss out on that for just a "fuck".......play play play is feeding each other .... Him feeling my suspenders under my dress....leaning over in the restaurant and showing my cleavage ..... Stolen touches .....him grabbing me for a passionate kiss in public ..... Delicious
Mwah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do, in fact we have never met for the sole purpose of a social, unless it was an organised social/group night out, all our private meets have been with the intention of playing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Me...no...never done that before 
Ha ha !!!!
400 miles for a social ?
I'm sure a coffee happened at one point...that counts right? "
Actually , as I recall we brought some Nescafé cappuccino sachets and we did indeed enjoy a coffee . I stand corrected |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me...no...never done that before
Ha ha !!!!
400 miles for a social ?
I'm sure a coffee happened at one point...that counts right?
Actually , as I recall we brought some Nescafé cappuccino sachets and we did indeed enjoy a coffee . I stand corrected "
See
Inventors of the mid play micro social lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Me...no...never done that before
Ha ha !!!!
400 miles for a social ?
I'm sure a coffee happened at one point...that counts right?
Actually , as I recall we brought some Nescafé cappuccino sachets and we did indeed enjoy a coffee . I stand corrected
See
Inventors of the mid play micro social lol "
Yes indeed , bible classes , coffee , play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met for a social.
I have met for a social with the fact if we all got we would play the same evening.
We did.
I have been invited to houses or hotel just to play with no social. |
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