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Cheaper then a prostitute?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was reading this not on here .... But it did make me think ......Lots of Singles on sites like this because its cheaper then paying for a prostitute . Like to know what you think ? ...... And is this why singles have to pay more to get into clubs and on some sites as theres lots of them around so make easy pickings for people looking to make money and the owners of the sites clubs are the pimps really ? I love singles and couples feel i am lucky to get both and its just as much as treat for me .... and hate to think thay have to pay more singles for swinging I dont feel like un- payed prostitute as get just as much from my meets as them. jo x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading some of the posts of people paying hundreds to fly to meets, getting a prostitute would be cheaper I'm sure!

I don't go to clubs, so I don't know what their pricing system is, and on every site I'm on, women are free. I think it's the men that are being duped more than women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im a single fem and can say this. I would never pay for sex.

Now some of the guys i have met in the past 3yrs. If they did have to pay for sex. Then they would be broke by now. The fact clubs charge them more is because there are so many so called single guys. That out number the amount of couples and single fems.

Now if the clubs wish to give donations to us single fems to attend to even out the numbers..........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would never pay for Sex and the thought of going with a Prostitute would put me right off, I don't go to Clubs either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not my view, but I read in a womens magazine, a female columnist said that there is a very fine line between casual sex and prostitution

Sometimes it's a life style choice, sometimes it's driven by financial neccessity.

On the single guy and the cost issue, it's simply supply and demand. And as long as guys keep paying, the prices will only go one way

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By *uro anchorMan over a year ago

Coventry

i find the club thing really unfair but what can you do about it..

was looking at joining a club was £100 to join and £30 a time to attend.. single ladies was £15 to join and £5 entrance..

also saturday evenings were couples only night... but they allowed single ladies ??? hows that work..

dont want to sound like im moaning but not really fair...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are a very large number of adult sites that charge the men for their profiles but not the women.

As far as the club issue, I believe it is done to keep the numbers of single men down, so that there is an equalish number of males,females and couples.

As far as paying for sex, I would rather spend £50 on a night out with the possibility of getting lucky than on a prostitute

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single guys are taken for a ride (and not in the way they would hope) when it comes to swinging.

It is wrong in my opinion.

By the time you add up man hours sweet talking the woman, travel, phone bill, hotel room ( even if split),socialising and the possibility of paying the fee to a club....it would be cheaper to pay for a prostitute!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There are a very large number of adult sites that charge the men for their profiles but not the women.

As far as the club issue, I believe it is done to keep the numbers of single men down, so that there is an equalish number of males,females and couples.

As far as paying for sex, I would rather spend £50 on a night out with the possibility of getting lucky than on a prostitute"
keeping numbers down ?? why cant thay say no more then lets say 50 in on a evening have to book to go in ? but pay normal money? i just think because theres lots of them its easy money .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why pay for sex when you could enjoy a fabtime on this site lol.mmmmm clean sex

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By *eighleedsMan over a year ago

leeds

I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

"
So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why pay for sex when you could enjoy a fabtime on this site lol.mmmmm clean sex"

Are you saying you would only get clean sex on this site and not with a working girl? A bit presumptious.

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By *eighleedsMan over a year ago

leeds

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???"

no idea, only time will tell i guess, the new law needs testing and it will be eventually

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???"

I raised a thread about this a few months ago, all it needs is one brave soul to challenge it and it would be changed. It's illegal. Golf clubs used to have different rates for men and women membership, they've all now been forced to charge the same membership prices to both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???

Because the men aren't moaning about it. They pay to get into the clubs and always will do. They could make a stand and not go but they won't.

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By *eighleedsMan over a year ago

leeds

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???

legal action costs money lots of it, most of us whilst ahving a decent wage cannot afford that kind of money

anyway the end result will be clubs do not lower ther price for single men, more like they will raise the cosdt for evryone to the single man price

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???

I don't go to clubs, you'd need to ask a guy who frequents clubs and is currently willing to accept discrimination in the hope of getting layed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well a group of single men should do it ,,,,,,,,, that way not one will have to take it all on himself ...... 1000s it would help ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think swing clubs are in for a shock regarding teh pricing discrimination of single men

The 2010 Equality Act probably applies

it will only take one brave soul to make a test case

its already been brought up on the forums of a TV site, and they are now refusing to list clubs and events which have a differential entry pricing policy

So do you think this will be on sites too or just clubs. ???

Because the men aren't moaning about it. They pay to get into the clubs and always will do. They could make a stand and not go but they won't. "

A lot do make a stand and not go. Some have 'moaned' about it in the past.

Before women got the vote it was probably only a minority who 'moaned' about it. lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What you need to remember is that a bloke can go to a club and pay £25 or whatever to get in. He may spend a further £20 on drinks. Thats a great night out where he can socialise with like minded folk, doesn't need to drag 5 mates away from their moaning wives and can wank and watch live porn. I reckon thats £45 bloody well spent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What you need to remember is that a bloke can go to a club and pay £25 or whatever to get in. He may spend a further £20 on drinks. Thats a great night out where he can socialise with like minded folk, doesn't need to drag 5 mates away from their moaning wives and can wank and watch live porn. I reckon thats £45 bloody well spent. "

Thankfully, some blokes don't need to pay anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would that also be £45 well spent for a single women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would that also be £45 well spent for a single women?"

A single woman can always find another girlfriend to go for a meal with, have a night in with a bottle of wine or whatever. What I'm saying is I've lost count of the times I've heard a bloke say he's not out at the weekend cos all his mates are married/loved up & not going out. Also, a woman could quite easily come on a site like this and set up a fri/sat night meet within about 20 mins. Can a man do that? I think not. So...yes I would consider it well spent for a woman too, but often she doesn't need to do it. The point I am making is that for as long as there are men that pay this ammount then the clubs will charge it. You could boycott them but couples and single women would still attend. I won't boycott a club on account of the single man's charge. And if I did then there would be no point in the single man attending would there? For every one that moans about it, there are 10 others that have a fist full of cash and a hard on queing at the doors.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For every one that moans about it, there are 10 others that have a fist full of cash and a hard on queing at the doors. "

Don't know why, but that made me chuckle!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the price also reflects if the guy is serious about "swinging" or just out for what he can get.

If it was just a fiver to get in for single guys the clubs would be heaving and they may not be "swingers" in the sense of the word.

Though there are also guys who are members of clubs who seem to think that because they have paid there money, a shag should be forthcomming regardless from whom ?

Most clubs are "private" and as such can charge what they like.

So yes, they may exploit the men.

Most guys i know who are members are happy to pay the price and some clubs have big long waiting lists .

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

In my opinion, the reason it isn't challenged is that the men who attend clubs realise that the result will be

Either

A) it's cheaper to get in and the place will be crawling with men, ruining the odds.

B) it's more expensive for women and couples, some of whom won't bother, thus ruining the odds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I knew a couple who ran a swingers club at there own home! they use to host parties and gangbangs there!! they charged single guys £60 to join and then £40 every party! at the gangbangs they would have a range between 10 to 14 guys nearly each time! so guys where willing to pay this to have there fun! but they must have made a packet out of it! i think the wife of the couple is now an escort.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thing is.....

Alot of guys will pay for anything if they think there is summat in it for them.

One guy i knew used to go regular to bukake parties.

He and about another 15 guys would stand around , watching two birds kiss etc on the floor and wank and then cum all over them.

He paid £30 a time for this privelage.

Must have money to waste in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" For every one that moans about it, there are 10 others that have a fist full of cash and a hard on queing at the doors. "

A fist full of cash and a hard on, very good, made me laugh.

Why exactly are these guys in this que? What are they paying for? (it's not as daft a question as it may initially seem lol).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is.....

Must have money to waste in my eyes

In My Eyes!....Bukkake....Outstanding Gag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is.....

Must have money to waste in my eyes

In My Eyes!....Bukkake....Outstanding Gag

Yep...another one that made me chuckle!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If clubs started charging the same for guys as they do girls, in my opinion it would be the death of them.

Nothing against single guys at all, but the pricing is currently there to stop as many going.

If the price was equal, more guys would go but this could deter couples and single fems from going.... How many times do we see forum posts or chat room banter asking about a club and is there too many guys allowed?

If the club then said only 10 guys allowed but 30 couples or fems, that would be discriminatory too.

So, if the guys did get together for legal action, in my opinion would kill many of the clubs.

Just my opinion, a debate may change that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is.....

Must have money to waste in my eyes

In My Eyes!....Bukkake....Outstanding Gag

Lmao

Was a slip of the tongue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If clubs started charging the same for guys as they do girls, in my opinion it would be the death of them.

Nothing against single guys at all, but the pricing is currently there to stop as many going.

If the club then said only 10 guys allowed but 30 couples or fems, that would be discriminatory too.

So, if the guys did get together for legal action, in my opinion would kill many of the clubs.

Just my opinion, a debate may change that

S. "

My family used to have pubs. as i understood it,we didn't need a reason to not let someone in.or any reason we saw fit. now, if a club has an entrance criteria that should be up to them. if they have membership then maybe it should be up to the members

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not my view, but I read in a womens magazine, a female columnist said that there is a very fine line between casual sex and prostitution

codswallop! as me ol mam would say

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not my view, but I read in a womens magazine, a female columnist said that there is a very fine line between casual sex and prostitution

codswallop! as me ol mam would say"
well do you think we are un payed prostitutis ?? I dont think so as i like as much as them , lol Men better not start charging .. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not my view, but I read in a womens magazine, a female columnist said that there is a very fine line between casual sex and prostitution

codswallop! as me ol mam would say well do you think we are un payed prostitutis ?? I dont think so as i like as much as them , lol Men better not start charging .. lol"

so what would be a reasonable rate to start with ?????????????????

iam sure like most men we end up paying for it in the end lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not my view, but I read in a womens magazine, a female columnist said that there is a very fine line between casual sex and prostitution

codswallop! as me ol mam would say well do you think we are un payed prostitutis ?? I dont think so as i like as much as them , lol Men better not start charging .. lol

so what would be a reasonable rate to start with ?????????????????

iam sure like most men we end up paying for it in the end lol"
Thay would with there body , lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is.....

Alot of guys will pay for anything if they think there is summat in it for them.

One guy i knew used to go regular to bukake parties.

He and about another 15 guys would stand around , watching two birds kiss etc on the floor and wank and then cum all over them.

He paid £30 a time for this privelage.

Must have money to waste in my eyes

No more money to waste than those that go to a fair ground & blow £30 on rides!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think that some men do have the view that if they come on a swinging site then they are guaranteed sex from the hords of desperate middle aged women on here. Just look at the scores of "I cant get a meet" threads, they are genuinely surprised that women wont meet them.

I like single guys, but I do not like chancers. I want to play with a guy who is a genuine swinger and not just here cos its a free fuck. That offends me

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It may well be prejudging but.... When a guy only looks for a meet on the evenings he is away on business and is just looking for someone to turn up, do the doings and bugger off again… yes he is probably looking for a free alternative to booking a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmm yes maybe, but in those circumstances Im a sucker as I have a penchant for well groomed business men. I guess thats double standards on my part, but it is the younger chavvy type guys who message with "im free, ill give you a good time" kind of bloke that irritates me.

of course we all play with chancers from time to time, at clubs, maybe when we go out dogging - anyone could turn up there, not just genuine swingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It may well be prejudging but.... When a guy only looks for a meet on the evenings he is away on business and is just looking for someone to turn up, do the doings and bugger off again… yes he is probably looking for a free alternative to booking a prostitute."

I agree there that's why I always tell them to bugger off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree there that's why I always tell them to bugger off."

The thing is though, they are not meeting a prostitute. And if the lady in question is attracted to the guy and they do decide to meet, surely it's all good? I wouldn't then liken her to a prostitute or him to a prostitute seeker. It's NSA fun. I don't get the hooker connection at all. Never have done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *hcuriousguyMan over a year ago

Thornton

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't get the hooker connection at all. Never have ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,..... We are here having sex with strangers at times thats what prostituts do too.... just thay get payed for it as its a job. We do it as love sex ... and for fun not money ..... some think we are easy meat here just like them and free.

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By *hcuriousguyMan over a year ago

Thornton

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By *hcuriousguyMan over a year ago

Thornton

"Im a single fem and can say this. I would never pay for sex.

Now if the clubs wish to give donations to us single fems to attend to even out the numbers..........

Does that mean there are more men born than women??

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

here we go again... we did look into the 2010 equality act as men thought this would be there way to get into clubs clubs cheaper.... but in reality all clubs really need to do is one of two things...

a) go couples only.. and bit your nose off to spite your face....

b) raise single womens prices to those of single men..... as if club where going to do it the other way round and lower prices to those of single women... not financially viable...

anyway... this is what we found out after reading thru the act....

I spotted something quite fundermental which is going to protect clubs......

the protected status's in the act are....

disability, gender realignment, Pregnancy and Maternity, race, religion, Sex and Sexual Orientation.....

doesn't say anything about marital status though..... therefore if you go as a "couple" and consider yourself to be a "couple", then that isn't covered....

so they can charge couples differently then they can singles.......

so from what I read, Technically you can't differently charge single guys and single fems...... or between Couples (MM),Couples (MF) and Couples (FF)

However in Clubs CAN still have different rules attached to the different types (so before two single guys decide to test the "couple" thing.... I wouldn't be surprised if they put in a "stay together play together" clause to make people think twice about it......)

and I think I have just found the "smoking gun" that they will use for Single ladies...... and make single men cry...

under the act you are Allowed to positively discriminate for groups of people that are "under represented" as long as you can show that such measures are useful for redress the balances....

and we all know that people section under-represented at clubs are "single fems"....

all any club would need to do is open its books and if there are less single women or couples then there are single men (which i am guessing is probably the case with most clubs) then there is the supporting evidence

I think I chose the wrong profession to go into....

okay.... if any clubs would like to give me free membership for the rest of me life now.... you know where to sent it.....

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

and whenever the prices of going into a club come up.. i always chuckle,

if people want to go so much they will save the money and go....no different to anything else, I wish i could afford to go more often.. but such is life and I have to do a little thing called "budget"...

I think that is what people forget at times.....

if i want to go to social which isn't local i have to budget for travel, and a hotel, drinking money ect ect....

sorry, but some people ARE too tight to go to a club... I have heard it said at home parties... after all why go and pay all that money when you are not guarenteed anything......

actually changed my mind... if it is keeping those sorts of attitudes out of clubs then maybe it is not a bad thing after all....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"and whenever the prices of going into a club come up.. i always chuckle,

I think that is what people forget at times.....

if i want to go to social which isn't local i have to budget for travel, and a hotel, drinking money ect ect....

sorry, but some people ARE too tight to go to a club... I have heard it said at home parties... after all why go and pay all that money when you are not guarenteed anything......

actually changed my mind... if it is keeping those sorts of attitudes out of clubs then maybe it is not a bad thing after all...."
I do think its not right you men should pay more as you men make the night at the clubs for some of us woman its a two way thing i know but wish it was done diffrent and fair .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get pleasure from giving pleasure. If I was paying for sex I sure wouldn't be attempting to be giving any pleasure since I was paying for the privilege, so I figure a prositute would be a pretty hollow experience. I'd rather spend the cash going down the pub and having a laugh with my mates.

As for the clubs, I'm a poor mature student so can't afford to go to them but do think it's a little bit of a piss take that they charge so much more for single blokes.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I agree there that's why I always tell them to bugger off.

I recall a guy once telling me his brother hired hookers and added "I don't know why he still pays for it, I've shown him this site loads of times"

I doubt he is the only one on here with this attitude.

However, I do know it is not all men... just as it is not all women who seek a free ride in return for a free ride or wait for their meet to turn up before saying "by the way I am an escort" to see if he offers to cough up.

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