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over a year ago
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"Pieces of advice to a long lasting relationship/marriage?
Mine would be..
1-Communication
2-Trust
3-Respect"
I would agree I like loyalty to and compatability  |
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over a year ago
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"Pieces of advice to a long lasting relationship/marriage?
Mine would be..
1-Communication
2-Trust
3-Respect"
100% financial dependence
Complete lack of self value
Big, strong locks.... |
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"Pieces of advice to a long lasting relationship/marriage?
Mine would be..
1-Communication
2-Trust
3-Respect"
I have no experience in such things myself but I'd agree with those three (I'd say those were the key things) plus for me personally there would need to be some degree of open-mindedness, humour/fun, shared interests, tolerance and of course true love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust
Trust
Trust
Trust
Did I mention Trust 
I trusted my husband 100%. He cheated on me.
When the trusts gone their gone there's no second chances just kick them to the kerb and move on  "
unfortunately a persons trust can be betrayed in many ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that theres one word all the 3 things mentioned fall under at the end of the day
Understanding
if they aint willing to understand or at least try jobs fukd
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Communication.
Respect (I believe honesty is part of respect).
Good old fashioned love.
love is often mixed up with lust "
Real love isn't but lust can be part of real love.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Communication.
Respect (I believe honesty is part of respect).
Good old fashioned love.
love is often mixed up with lust
Real love isn't but lust can be part of real love.... "
the two are so very closely connected without being seperated tho . They are mistaken for each other alot . Thats why theres so many failed relationships ... Understanging and be understood is they key in my opinion to any type of relationship not just a sexual one .
Im single btw haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah |
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"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah "
Wow so sorry xx |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah "
Just..Wow! Certainly brings it all into perspective. Very poignant. Thank you for sharing and good luck. Xx |
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By *igjrvMan
over a year ago
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1, respect - (loyalty trust compassion)
2, fun - (friendship)
3, Good passonate frequent hard or loving sex.
And above all don't give up on each other. Ever. Never forget the way you both were when you first met. Always work hard to keep that. |
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My advice is just be accepting of each other, don't look for perfection as no one is perfect, be honest, be real and communicate always, keep kissing, keep holding hands and just be happy in each other's company, and lastly don't ever let the last thing you say be something you will regret for the rest of your life xxx |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
Kark |
"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah "
Wow, I'm speechless *hugs* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah "
makes all this really quite irrelevant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah "
So true. Safe to say we love each other and have done for 20 years even when we were apart.
I'd also live life like it could be you're last x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah
So true. Safe to say we love each other and have done for 20 years even when we were apart.
I'd also live life like it could be you're last x"
EXACTLY OP - well said - much love X
MWAH X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah
So true. Safe to say we love each other and have done for 20 years even when we were apart.
I'd also live life like it could be you're last x
EXACTLY OP - well said - much love X
MWAH X "
You too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never married, but have had a thirteen year relationship. My top three would be
1: honesty
2: communication
3: fun
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I think I would go with these too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pieces of advice to a long lasting relationship/marriage?
Mine would be..
1-Communication
2-Trust
3-Respect"
I would only add compatability to that list...you have to connect in lots of ways in a relationship, from sense of humour, preferred holiday destinations to sex.
If even one of those is off then it can lead to problems.
A relationship is just 2 people with complementary kinds of crazy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely
Trust and Respect .....
I got neither of those from my ex husband, so bit the bullet and left...
The hardest but best decision I ever made....
I,d rather spend the next 40yrs on my own than be caught in an unhappy marriage again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You asked.....
My advice .....
You either love each other or you don't !!!
Don't compromise as it doesn't make anyone happy - let each other be.
That's it - nothing else is of consequence
He had a very rare tumour and enormous pain my wonderful husband ...
He had 20 mini suicide attempts ....
He had 8 major ones before his 9th was successful - Academics are not practical creatures on killing themselves ....
He ate his prunes for breakfast - sipped his tea - stood up and asked for a cuddle - he slid his hands through my hair - drew my face close to his - looked deeply into my eyes and said .....
"I regret all the wasted time in our lives ever having cross words - I'll never get that time back - I love you" - then a deep passionate beautiful kiss .....
And 20 minutes later that was it ......he ran infront of an 18 tonne truck on the motor way
So I say to all who will listen .... Yes trust ... Yes fun.... Yes caring.... Of course ......
However the bottom line - it is as basic as your own rules with the core at the top bottom middle left and right - the core - the advice for a long and happy life ....just say before anything .....
Just say before any rules/cross words/upsets/ arguments/jealousy/selfishness ....
You either love each other or you don't - so simple X
Mwah "
Oh my days! So sad. I'm sorry for your loss Sassy xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hehe trust seems to be a popular one albeit on a swingers site....hmm oxymoron lol"
If you're both on here and both know what the other is doing then yes, trust. Makes no difference that this is a swingers site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sssassy such a sad story you killed this thread in a wonderful way and you seem so positive now good luck x"
I didn't mean to kill it ..... I embrace love and joy and tell pain to piss off as I'm fucking brilliant - I just wanted to share that the marriage / partnership just comes down to something so simple as you love each other or you don't .... All the rest is mere dross or decoration .....
FAB is fantastic and so r the forumnites and Fabbites - little snippets of love and play X
Mwah x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I've been there bought the tee shirt and it's safe to say it wasn't for me. So with that in mind.
1. Buy someone you don't like a house.
2. Always leave the toilet seat up
3. Remember people morph into their parents.
Hope this helps lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sssassy such a sad story you killed this thread in a wonderful way and you seem so positive now good luck x
I didn't mean to kill it ..... I embrace love and joy and tell pain to piss off as I'm fucking brilliant - I just wanted to share that the marriage / partnership just comes down to something so simple as you love each other or you don't .... All the rest is mere dross or decoration .....
FAB is fantastic and so r the forumnites and Fabbites - little snippets of love and play X
Mwah x "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sssassy such a sad story you killed this thread in a wonderful way and you seem so positive now good luck x
I didn't mean to kill it ..... I embrace love and joy and tell pain to piss off as I'm fucking brilliant - I just wanted to share that the marriage / partnership just comes down to something so simple as you love each other or you don't .... All the rest is mere dross or decoration .....
FAB is fantastic and so r the forumnites and Fabbites - little snippets of love and play X
Mwah x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sssassy such a sad story you killed this thread in a wonderful way and you seem so positive now good luck x
I didn't mean to kill it ..... I embrace love and joy and tell pain to piss off as I'm fucking brilliant - I just wanted to share that the marriage / partnership just comes down to something so simple as you love each other or you don't .... All the rest is mere dross or decoration .....
FAB is fantastic and so r the forumnites and Fabbites - little snippets of love and play X
Mwah x "
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