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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?  "
Yes, although I wouldn't describe it as a problem - I find it quite amusing. |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem? "
Pisses me off too. So off-putting, people who aren't comfortable with their own sexuality and not fair to other site users. |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
Pisses me off too. So off-putting, people who aren't comfortable with their own sexuality and not fair to other site users."
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
Pisses me off too. So off-putting, people who aren't comfortable with their own sexuality and not fair to other site users. "
Oh come on!
People put all kindsa shit on their profiles. Won;t meet smokers, safe sex a must, genuine...
I know gay men on here who pass them selves off as bi for whatever reason, women who put 'bi curious' cos it gets more attention...
Take it with a bucket of salt. |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
Pisses me off too. So off-putting, people who aren't comfortable with their own sexuality and not fair to other site users.
Oh come on!
People put all kindsa shit on their profiles. Won;t meet smokers, safe sex a must, genuine...
I know gay men on here who pass them selves off as bi for whatever reason, women who put 'bi curious' cos it gets more attention...
Take it with a bucket of salt."
I take an icy driveway with a bucket of salt.  |
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Some people try their luck or possibly get their egos stroked when someone considers them.
Like many discussions people have here it doesn't mean that the meets ever happen. I've heard bi guys have high meet failure rates, with no shows etc. Some can talk about stuff but bottle it or aren't as committed as they may appear.
Otherwise since time immemorial many straight guys have played around with each other. Nothing new generally or for fab, as this is probably the fiftieth post of 2016. |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem? "
If you don't want guys to message you then use the sites filters, it's what they are there for. When I first joined here I quickly got fed up with men messaging me as I'm straight, so I used the filters, all men instantly blocked from messaging me, simple solution really.  |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
Like your veri lol "
He had bi on his profile when I met him |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
If you don't want guys to message you then use the sites filters, it's what they are there for. When I first joined here I quickly got fed up with men messaging me as I'm straight, so I used the filters, all men instantly blocked from messaging me, simple solution really. "
yeah the filters have saved me a few times  each to there own |
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"Used to get this problem but now block all single guys. I only allow women and couples to contact me now."
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ha ha the guys that block guys are the ones that want guys but want to pick and choose which ones to have sex with, nothing wrong with that of course as we should all choose wisely. |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
Pisses me off too. So off-putting, people who aren't comfortable with their own sexuality and not fair to other site users.
Oh come on!
People put all kindsa shit on their profiles. Won;t meet smokers, safe sex a must, genuine...
I know gay men on here who pass them selves off as bi for whatever reason, women who put 'bi curious' cos it gets more attention...
Take it with a bucket of salt."
We take it with a lorry full of salt but, it would be nice to just have a message filter so we can block those males with straight on their profile from contacting us. |
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"My profile says I'm straight but I get bi men trying to hit on me find it funny but sad "
I find it odd that guys who aren't looking for single men look at single men's profiles  |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
If you don't want guys to message you then use the sites filters, it's what they are there for. When I first joined here I quickly got fed up with men messaging me as I'm straight, so I used the filters, all men instantly blocked from messaging me, simple solution really. "
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What if I wanna message you about something other than sex!.
I'm straight but there's a few interesting men I message!.
Same as in real life really |
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"My profile says I'm straight but I get bi men trying to hit on me find it funny but sad
I find it odd that guys who aren't looking for single men look at single men's profiles "
Had that a lot as well they say it's their way of filtering but I think it's in the words of another thread bollox lol |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
If you don't want guys to message you then use the sites filters, it's what they are there for. When I first joined here I quickly got fed up with men messaging me as I'm straight, so I used the filters, all men instantly blocked from messaging me, simple solution really. .
What if I wanna message you about something other than sex!.
I'm straight but there's a few interesting men I message!.
Same as in real life really "
I chat to men in pm does not mean I want to sleep with them it means I would like them as a friend a mate a buddy. NOT a fuck buddy NOT as friend with benefits NOT as in a relationship mate think that's clear lol |
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We don't meet straight men and are clear about that on our profile.
When we advertise a meet, most of the messages are from men with "straight" on their profile.
When we are nice, we send a message back explaining why they are not of interest to us. 9 times out of 10, they respond that they are bi.
Well, if they lie about that on their profile, how can we possibly trust anything else about them? |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem?
If you don't want guys to message you then use the sites filters, it's what they are there for. When I first joined here I quickly got fed up with men messaging me as I'm straight, so I used the filters, all men instantly blocked from messaging me, simple solution really. .
What if I wanna message you about something other than sex!.
I'm straight but there's a few interesting men I message!.
Same as in real life really "
You run your profile how you like, I keep mine how I like it. I only like getting mail from women and couples so that's how I'm going to keep it. As someone else said, each to their own, do what you are happy with. |
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"Its dead common mainly because the closet "bi" men are worried it will limit there meet ratio lol -  "
Most who message that way have no meets anyway...so it's not working! |
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"My profile says I'm straight but I get bi men trying to hit on me find it funny but sad
I find it odd that guys who aren't looking for single men look at single men's profiles
Had that a lot as well they say it's their way of filtering but I think it's in the words of another thread bollox lol "
Ha so you gunna stop looking at my profile then |
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"My profile says I'm straight but I get bi men trying to hit on me find it funny but sad
I find it odd that guys who aren't looking for single men look at single men's profiles "
I sometimes do when following a verification trail from a female or couple profile to see what type of guys they like to meet. Don't read too much into it. |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem? "
They think if they put Bi it will put women off which undoubtably it does put some off.
I get so many so called straight guys contacting me I just block them now. |
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"Used to get this problem but now block all single guys. I only allow women and couples to contact me now.7
ha ha the guys that block guys are the ones that want guys but want to pick and choose which ones to have sex with, nothing wrong with that of course as we should all choose wisely."
Nice logic pal. You wish lol.  |
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"Why do they do this if your bi put it on your profile, because I'm not going to me you.
Do other fabs have this problem? "
But you've met a man who described himself as straight and left you a veri! |
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