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over a year ago
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What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?
When you find that they do what actions do you take ?
Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?
I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc
If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment 
I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it |
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I don't really look at the "looked at me" for people to message or meet. I do look at it, but just because I'm a curious person. 
If I see someone who looked, but didn't message or wink, I assume it is because they weren't interested, so I'm not likely to take action.
I do often look at the profiles of people who have looked at us, and will fab pictures if there are any that catch my fancy, but that's about it. If it is someone who has messaged us and is awaiting a reply, sometimes seeing them on the looked at me thingy will remind me to reply to them (because I'm shit at replying to PMs in a reasonable amount of time  ).
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I don't look at it.
If they were interested they would message.
The reason I'm in stealth mode is the 'i see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message' messages drove me nuts so I won't send them either. |
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"I get quite shocked if I find a female has checked my profile out. Especially if they are less than 150 miles away"
You're right to be shocked those of us who aren't in stealth mode are rare  |
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I do look at it myself and mainly just fab pictures I like and sometimes comment on their status update,
I recon most of the people who look at me are forum related in some way anyway |
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"I don't really look at the "looked at me" for people to message or meet. I do look at it, but just because I'm a curious person.
If I see someone who looked, but didn't message or wink, I assume it is because they weren't interested, so I'm not likely to take action.
I do often look at the profiles of people who have looked at us, and will fab pictures if there are any that catch my fancy, but that's about it. If it is someone who has messaged us and is awaiting a reply, sometimes seeing them on the looked at me thingy will remind me to reply to them (because I'm shit at replying to PMs in a reasonable amount of time ).
-Courtney"
This is basically what I wanted to write.. Sorry for kidnapping it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?
When you find that they do what actions do you take ?
Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?
I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc
If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment
I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it"
if they look at me and don't message me i just assume that i wasn't their type and they aren't interested....i've never messaged anyone off my looked at me thingy.
i'm not chasing folk about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's when the same person looks at you numerous times in a short period but doesn't message that I find weird  "
One time, before we changed to  mode, I looked at a guy's profile. Then I told Marc to look because I was considering sending a message. So he looked. Then we looked together. We were considering messaging, but before we decided, we got a message from him asking why we were "stalking" him.
It was a joke, I think, to start discussion, but it really turned us off. And that's when we went all
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?
When you find that they do what actions do you take ?
Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?
I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc
If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment
I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it"
I have my footprint left on then at least somebody can see I'm stalking them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What percentage of the people who show up on your looked at me actually match what you are looking for ?
When you find that they do what actions do you take ?
Contact them or wait for them to make the next move ?
I recon it's about 5% at the most that match my preference looks wise but comments on their profile usually stop me from taking it any further, Not looking for Men, Only Men over a certain height, Only local people etc
If you think it's to personal or am being nosy just don't comment
I'm not after advise on the subject just interested to know your take on it"
99% are blokes , not what im looking for at all lol , not for sex anyway |
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"I don't look at it.
If they were interested they would message.
The reason I'm in stealth mode is the 'i see you looked at my profile so I thought I would message' messages drove me nuts so I won't send them either. "
It's not that we are not interested it's that we think why would you be interested in me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't look at it.... But if I did.. I wouldnt message any one off it, because I would assume If they where interested they would have messaged me x"
that's not always the case
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