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Do you really want to meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This isn't for those who are just here to use the forum or chatrooms.
Do you like to flirt then back away when things get serious?
Do you think you want to meet then when things get serious, worry that you might disappoint so back away?
Are you here just to see if you're still attractive to people but don't actually want the physical side?
I would say I'm a "scared to disappoint" myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I want to meet, that's what I want to do, meet.
I like the build up beforehand, flirty messages getting to know him more. I know by the time we do meet that's what we both want & it's exciting!
I don't feel the need to do all this just for attention, although it's nice to receive I don't deny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I initially came to find out if im attarctive to anyone as i didnt feel it. I didnt let anyone get close for a few weeks.
Then i met someone and thats it i was hooked.if i say i want to meet someone i do all time and geography though xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, no and no from me,
I am definitely here to meet somebody I love the mindless flirting and banter on here, love the excitement of the chase and naughty messaging but meeting somebody and feeling their skin on your after developing a bit of sexual chemistry
WOW
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
We have met a few people from the forums for sex....we have met a lot of people from the site for sex. The great thing about the forums is you get to see the personalities of people and get to know them better which is always good in my world  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I would say I'm a "scared to disappoint" myself."
You could never disappoint me, Clem.
I've found over my years on here I am definitely becoming more shy of actually arranging meets. However I'm not a 'flirt then back away' person. If I chat to you, we ARE going to meet. I am just less likely to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, no and no from me,
I am definitely here to meet somebody I love the mindless flirting and banter on here, love the excitement of the chase and naughty messaging but meeting somebody and feeling their skin on your after developing a bit of sexual chemistry
WOW
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And do you find it easy to walk away from that chemistry once it's built up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, no and no from me,
I am definitely here to meet somebody I love the mindless flirting and banter on here, love the excitement of the chase and naughty messaging but meeting somebody and feeling their skin on your after developing a bit of sexual chemistry
WOW
And do you find it easy to walk away from that chemistry once it's built up?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, no and no from me,
I am definitely here to meet somebody I love the mindless flirting and banter on here, love the excitement of the chase and naughty messaging but meeting somebody and feeling their skin on your after developing a bit of sexual chemistry
WOW
And do you find it easy to walk away from that chemistry once it's built up?"
It's about setting out the boundaries at the beginning and agreeing not to break them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not been here too long in comparison to some people and I have been lucky enough to find one meet so far but I would definately like more meets in the future. Also considering the club scene but not sure if I'm ready for that just yet.  |
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I am here to meet.
But I never flirt on here, in person yes but never on here.
I don't what him to have any expectation of sex if we should meet, I may not fancy him in person. Just seems fairer that way, and there is little chance of a mis-undertanding.
I don't worry that I might disappoint him as I know that I don't appeal to everyone, if I do good, if I don't - oh well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I Like to meet when family and work don't get in the way, as it usually does."
I don't like to think my family get in the way, but they do take priority.
In some ways id rather meet people who i haven't built up much of a rapport with. That way if I'm crap i haven't disappointed a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not here for titillation. I get bored with flirty chat easily. I want sex and if it doesn't look like it's going to come easy I give up. Although I have met people a long time after initial contact there wasn't lots of flirting and sex talk in between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah... don't want to meet anyone, they would run a mile as soon as they see me, saves their time 
Although if your at my favorite club there's a good chance I will say hello |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anticipation is a marvellous thing but nerves and reality can cast doubt. After all how well do you get to know folk online truly prior to a meet? I think we all think we want to meet but many are here for more complex reasons be it loneliness, lack of excitement in life or a simple escape.Fab is a complex world for those who stay beyond that initial joining and expecting the instant fix Ithink? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always worry I'm going to be a huge disappointment. Any idiot can see that I'm never going to look as good as my pics. They are me at my best. So there is always that worry. Add into that the fact that the guy normally has to travel a fair distance to meet me and contribute towards a hotel so the pressure to live up to expectations can be immense. I don't feel like that with everyone and only end up meeting those that I'm comfortable won't be disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always worry I'm going to be a huge disappointment. Any idiot can see that I'm never going to look as good as my pics. They are me at my best. So there is always that worry. Add into that the fact that the guy normally has to travel a fair distance to meet me and contribute towards a hotel so the pressure to live up to expectations can be immense. I don't feel like that with everyone and only end up meeting those that I'm comfortable won't be disappointed."
What are you talking about you look amazing, the is no way anybody would be disappointed regardless of how far they had travelled |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do meet and that's my aim from all of this. Time and family permitting of course, theres nothing like the build up and anticipation.
The fear of disappointment is always there but its like stage nerves, they serve to focus your performance  |
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"I always worry I'm going to be a huge disappointment. Any idiot can see that I'm never going to look as good as my pics. They are me at my best. So there is always that worry. Add into that the fact that the guy normally has to travel a fair distance to meet me and contribute towards a hotel so the pressure to live up to expectations can be immense. I don't feel like that with everyone and only end up meeting those that I'm comfortable won't be disappointed."
I think that is a fear for most of the ladies here regarding how they look etc.
For me I actually think I look a lot better than my pics but its hard to snap yourself, plus I hate having mine taken.
I just think on a site like this you know there are better looking people than us, better bodies etc so I think it is normal how you feel |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always worry I'm going to be a huge disappointment. Any idiot can see that I'm never going to look as good as my pics. They are me at my best. So there is always that worry. Add into that the fact that the guy normally has to travel a fair distance to meet me and contribute towards a hotel so the pressure to live up to expectations can be immense. I don't feel like that with everyone and only end up meeting those that I'm comfortable won't be disappointed.
What are you talking about you look amazing, the is no way anybody would be disappointed regardless of how far they had travelled "
I think that's her point though. |
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