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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was sat here perving minding my own business, then all of a sudden 1 of my teeth chipped, I've always been paranoid about my teeth because I had a violent ex who wouldn't let me brush my teeth. I had just about got them white again after over a year I started to like my smile again and feel pretty. But now the tooth that chipped makes me look a mess it's my top fang tooth. I can't get to a dentist till earliest next Thursday due to workingredients 12 hour shifts. I've always had a phobia of dentists after my ex knocked some of my back teeth out and had to under go mouth surgery to have 5 back teeth removed.
Any ideas how I can bodge it till I get get to dentist. Don't even wanna leave house now xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you not get into your emergency dentist, who should be able to see you when you finish work? "
I work 6am-6pm x it's hard enough to get a normal appointment let alone a emergency x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's probably no reassurance but we're our own worst critics so it's probably not as noticeable as you think.
It's cold so you can wear a scarf
Don't cry......here have a hug"
Trust me it is really noticeable it just looks like a litter spike. I wouldn't even fit in on the jk show x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scarsdale Dental clinic in Chesterfield.
They do out of hours emergency dental treatment and the times look to fit in with your shifts.
They are on Google. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Scarsdale Dental clinic in Chesterfield.
They do out of hours emergency dental treatment and the times look to fit in with your shifts.
They are on Google. "
Thank you x will look now x |
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Sorry to hear about your violent ex, he sounds like someone that needs his teeth removing, but in not a nice way 
I have been waiting to have a new crown fitted, front tooth, since late October. Only 2 weeks to go, so my smile will make the ladies of Derby swoon again lol
Best of luck OP, hope all goes well for you   |
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"It's probably no reassurance but we're our own worst critics so it's probably not as noticeable as you think.
It's cold so you can wear a scarf
Don't cry......here have a hug
Trust me it is really noticeable it just looks like a litter spike. I wouldn't even fit in on the jk show x"
At least you have a sense of humour..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?"
Because he was a cunt, a bully, a control freak, and because he didn't want me to look attractive to others x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's probably no reassurance but we're our own worst critics so it's probably not as noticeable as you think.
It's cold so you can wear a scarf
Don't cry......here have a hug
Trust me it is really noticeable it just looks like a litter spike. I wouldn't even fit in on the jk show x
At least you have a sense of humour..
Lol xx I wouldn't even fit in with the singles lol look like a throw back from werzle gumage lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
Because he was a cunt, a bully, a control freak, and because he didn't want me to look attractive to others x"
The thought process of abusive partners is oddly fascinating because its so disconnected from any kind of rational thought
Well done on getting rid of him btw x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
Because he was a cunt, a bully, a control freak, and because he didn't want me to look attractive to others x
The thought process of abusive partners is oddly fascinating because its so disconnected from any kind of rational thought
Well done on getting rid of him btw x"
Took me long enough lol xx
but even when I'm at my happiest something pops up to remind me what a cunt he was x |
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He sounds like a real fun guy not. Probably won't help in how it looks but if it's open and hurting you can get temporary filling kits from a pharmacy to at least seal it till you can get an appointment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
Because he was a cunt, a bully, a control freak, and because he didn't want me to look attractive to others x"
Did he ever kiss you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
Because he was a cunt, a bully, a control freak, and because he didn't want me to look attractive to others x
Did he ever kiss you?
Only with his hands x
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
I was thinking the same! 
Me too"
Some people have a very warped way of thinking and they try and control the most bizarre things.
If I so much as brushed my hair my ex would accuse me of trying to attract other men.
This man may have also thought nobody would want to kiss her if she didn't brush her teeth.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
I was thinking the same!
Me too
Some people have a very warped way of thinking and they try and control the most bizarre things.
If I so much as brushed my hair my ex would accuse me of trying to attract other men.
This man may have also thought nobody would want to kiss her if she didn't brush her teeth.
- Amy. x
Thanks for answering that hun xxxx
couldn't have said it better myself. Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
I was thinking the same!
Me too
Some people have a very warped way of thinking and they try and control the most bizarre things.
If I so much as brushed my hair my ex would accuse me of trying to attract other men.
This man may have also thought nobody would want to kiss her if she didn't brush her teeth.
- Amy. x"
Yes I can understand we he controlled that. Not understand as in its OK, you know what in trying to say. I've just never heard of that kind of controlness |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good job I got a lovely man now x who has just gave me a cuddle and told me how beautiful I am and that it's not as bad as I think coz no matter what I am the most beautiful girl in the world. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
Because he was a cunt, a bully, a control freak, and because he didn't want me to look attractive to others x
Did he ever kiss you?
Only with his hands x
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How awful, some of lead such sheltered lives. I know I do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
I was thinking the same!
Me too
Some people have a very warped way of thinking and they try and control the most bizarre things.
If I so much as brushed my hair my ex would accuse me of trying to attract other men.
This man may have also thought nobody would want to kiss her if she didn't brush her teeth.
- Amy. x
Yes I can understand we he controlled that. Not understand as in its OK, you know what in trying to say. I've just never heard of that kind of controlness "
Wasn't allowed make up on, only had new clothes once every 6mnths, shoes had holes in them because we couldn't afford them because he needed new game for computer, wasnt allowed to see family and friends x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I feel for you OP on both levels the dentist makes me cry and being in an abusive relationship sucks for what it's worth I'm sure your lovely buggered tooth or not and the people in your life that matter to you won't give a monkeys what your tooth looks like and the rest well they don't matter do they x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Good job I got a lovely man now x who has just gave me a cuddle and told me how beautiful I am and that it's not as bad as I think coz no matter what I am the most beautiful girl in the world. Xx
Aww that's nice. men like that are worth their weight in gold. I'm lucky enough to have one who says such things too x"
Just don't think he wants me crying on his birthday lol xx |
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Sorry to be slightly offtopic, but just to say you have my respect for splitting up with that abusive fucker. Nobody deserves that.
I've been in a similar situation (but less extreme, non-violent) and it's tough. It's weird how you can have feelings for someone while they bully and control you, makes it hard to really see it for what it is and easy to justify. Hopefully you came out of it stronger *hug*
On topic - you'd be amazed what can be done to fix stuff like that, without it getting expensive either. From the sounds of it I think you'd prefer a trip to the dentist compared to living with a chipped tooth  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry to be slightly offtopic, but just to say you have my respect for splitting up with that abusive fucker. Nobody deserves that.
I've been in a similar situation (but less extreme, non-violent) and it's tough. It's weird how you can have feelings for someone while they bully and control you, makes it hard to really see it for what it is and easy to justify. Hopefully you came out of it stronger *hug*
On topic - you'd be amazed what can be done to fix stuff like that, without it getting expensive either. From the sounds of it I think you'd prefer a trip to the dentist compared to living with a chipped tooth "
Tempted to get polyfiller out lol x |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug"
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x |
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O.P, I lost a whole canine when I slipped in the shower and kissed the side of the bath.
It's not as noticeable as you may think and the only person who really has any problem with it is me.
I could finally afford to get it fixed but cannot JUSTIFY it at the moment as we have two Little'uns under the age of two and one has continuous health problems so I just can't justify spending our rainy day fund on my own vanity incase it's needed.
Does it affect my confidence? - Of course!
Have I smiled properly in the last 5 years? - no.
But if you can afford to get it done, a couple of days/weeks is nothing!
- Amy. x |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x"
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
I've found a out of hours emergency dentist not to far from me got to ring them at 9 xx
I'm shitting it but boyfriend said he will hold my hand x
xxx"
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
I was thinking the same!
Me too
Some people have a very warped way of thinking and they try and control the most bizarre things.
If I so much as brushed my hair my ex would accuse me of trying to attract other men.
This man may have also thought nobody would want to kiss her if she didn't brush her teeth.
- Amy. x
Yes I can understand we he controlled that. Not understand as in its OK, you know what in trying to say. I've just never heard of that kind of controlness
Wasn't allowed make up on, only had new clothes once every 6mnths, shoes had holes in them because we couldn't afford them because he needed new game for computer, wasnt allowed to see family and friends x"
Yep, sounds about right.
Because friends and family would've seen your personality change and they can't risk you being "snapped out of it" by them or being encouraged to leave.
Plus they get jealous of any of your attention being elsewhere, no matter who it's directed at.
- Amy. x |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
I've found a out of hours emergency dentist not to far from me got to ring them at 9 xx
I'm shitting it but boyfriend said he will hold my hand x
xxx"
I am like you; I have this irrational fear of dentists. The smell of the surgery alone starts to make me faint
You have someone nice and caring to help you. Please be brave and just go there
xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is really unsympathetic but why on eartg wouldn't he let you brush your teeth?
Because he was a cunt, a bully, a control freak, and because he didn't want me to look attractive to others x"
Stuff like this makes me really angry & sad, I really hope he got what he totally deserves!? Well done on getting rid of the vile man!!! Rant over!! I hope you find a solution to fixing your teeth it's not nice I can understand how you must be feeling. Keep you chin up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
I've found a out of hours emergency dentist not to far from me got to ring them at 9 xx
I'm shitting it but boyfriend said he will hold my hand x
xxx"
Please hold on to your boyfriend. That is true love 
On a side note . Do you have a grillz shop in your town? Maybe you can get a gold cap until you can see the dentist. Your mouth may look like DJ Goldie for a week but at least no one will know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
I've found a out of hours emergency dentist not to far from me got to ring them at 9 xx
I'm shitting it but boyfriend said he will hold my hand x
xxx
Please hold on to your boyfriend. That is true love
On a side note . Do you have a grillz shop in your town? Maybe you can get a gold cap until you can see the dentist. Your mouth may look like DJ Goldie for a week but at least no one will know"
Trust me he ain't going no where lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
I've found a out of hours emergency dentist not to far from me got to ring them at 9 xx
I'm shitting it but boyfriend said he will hold my hand x
xxx
Please hold on to your boyfriend. That is true love
On a side note . Do you have a grillz shop in your town? Maybe you can get a gold cap until you can see the dentist. Your mouth may look like DJ Goldie for a week but at least no one will know
Trust me he ain't going no where lol xx"
Any man that can hold a woman's hand while she is using the bathroom. Is marriage material |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
I've found a out of hours emergency dentist not to far from me got to ring them at 9 xx
I'm shitting it but boyfriend said he will hold my hand x
xxx
Please hold on to your boyfriend. That is true love
On a side note . Do you have a grillz shop in your town? Maybe you can get a gold cap until you can see the dentist. Your mouth may look like DJ Goldie for a week but at least no one will know
Trust me he ain't going no where lol xx
Any man that can hold a woman's hand while she is using the bathroom. Is marriage material "
I'm sat on toilet ( with lid down) while he has a bath lol xx
he has seen me piss, shit, hungover, sick, swollen face when I a reaction to summit, with and without make up, he's shaved my legs and other places, she cuddles me to sleep when I'm down, he cooks, he cleans only 1 thing wrong he won't let me watch soaps lol xx |
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""Broken tooth or chipped tooth
Don't try to re-attach a piece of broken off or chipped tooth. Instead, take it to the dentist in a clean container in some milk or salvia (spit).
Depending on how the breakage has affected the tooth, and the type of tooth, a dentist may be able to re-attach it."
The above is from the Boots WebMD site
I am sorry I cannot suggest anything but can only send you a virtual hug
It's chipped from gum all way to edge of tooth n because I didn't know it had happened till I had a drink n swollowed it x
In that even, the advice on the website is not to allow the gum to close. Normally, that would be done by reinserting the broken tooth. But you don't have that
Therefore, you will have to visit an emergency dentist. I know you said that you have long working hours but surely your employer could give you some time-off
For the here and now, can you not go to A&E?
xxx"
When I tried to go to A&E for some teeth related pain relief (had an abscess ) I was told they only treat teeth as part of an 'accident'. Might be different now & may depend on the individual PCT. |
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Hey op, do you have toothache? Please don't use pollyfilla etc as that makes it harder for the dentist to repair your tooth.
And ps he can't reattach a broken bit anyway so don't worry you can't find it!
If it's possible. ..bugger work and sort an emergency dental appointment. Good luck x |
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