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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious on people's thoughts on this...
When I first joined Fab, my initial concept was not to meet people who could legally be my parent - 16+ years older than me, so at the time around 41 - but then I did meet someone a bit older than that and we really got on and the age gap was nothing. Now my only real rule, if someone's really interesting and I've sought them out myself, is if they're below my mother's age & if we get on well. 
So, if you have a specific age range, is that set in stone or are you happy to give a little slack where someone's age is concerned? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to play with people younger than myself don't know why as it's them who usually me "
How old are you chickie? Cos you look pretty fine for 95  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to play with people younger than myself don't know why as it's them who usually me
How old are you chickie? Cos you look pretty fine for 95 lol a lot younger than 95 "
I'd place a guess but I wouldn't want to insult you.  |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Just curious on people's thoughts on this...
When I first joined Fab, my initial concept was not to meet people who could legally be my parent - 16+ years older than me, so at the time around 41 - but then I did meet someone a bit older than that and we really got on and the age gap was nothing. Now my only real rule, if someone's really interesting and I've sought them out myself, is if they're below my mother's age & if we get on well.
So, if you have a specific age range, is that set in stone or are you happy to give a little slack where someone's age is concerned?"
I met someone recently (not off fab) who was 27 years my junior...we are still good mates and occasional bed partners....age is but a number, attraction is what matters.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We talked bout this earlier 25 is definitely a low maybe actually 30, higher limit is different some profiles of 40 year olds make them look 60 yet some in 50's look like 40 year olds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My lower age limit is much stricter than my upper age limit. I don't reject someone purely because of their age but I've only met with one person younger than 30 in the years I've been meeting and I've never met with anyone in their 60s. |
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
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"I tend to play with people younger than myself don't know why as it's them who usually me
How old are you chickie? Cos you look pretty fine for 95 lol a lot younger than 95
I'd place a guess but I wouldn't want to insult you. "
Haha you wouldn't insult me lol - but I never give my age away on-line
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"My lower age limit is much stricter than my upper age limit. I don't reject someone purely because of their age but I've only met with one person younger than 30 in the years I've been meeting and I've never met with anyone in their 60s."
Cause I had a pretty weird job and basically missed the twenties larger, larger, larger phase....
Sunset the age of 23 have only ever been out with women over 30.
Last year I was in Canada and me the fittest 49yo New Yorker...
If you look at the numbers on the Internet, you will miss some of life's diamonds! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My lower age limit is much stricter than my upper age limit. I don't reject someone purely because of their age but I've only met with one person younger than 30 in the years I've been meeting and I've never met with anyone in their 60s.
Cause I had a pretty weird job and basically missed the twenties larger, larger, larger phase....
Sunset the age of 23 have only ever been out with women over 30.
Last year I was in Canada and me the fittest 49yo New Yorker...
If you look at the numbers on the Internet, you will miss some of life's diamonds!"
That's how i look at it. It just happens that the majority of people I've met have been between 30 and 55.....this may have more to do with demographics though as I'm guessing there would be less younger and older people |
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"My lower age limit is much stricter than my upper age limit. I don't reject someone purely because of their age but I've only met with one person younger than 30 in the years I've been meeting and I've never met with anyone in their 60s.
Cause I had a pretty weird job and basically missed the twenties larger, larger, larger phase....
Sunset the age of 23 have only ever been out with women over 30.
Last year I was in Canada and me the fittest 49yo New Yorker...
If you look at the numbers on the Internet, you will miss some of life's diamonds!
That's how i look at it. It just happens that the majority of people I've met have been between 30 and 55.....this may have more to do with demographics though as I'm guessing there would be less younger and older people"
Yep, like most things, it's full of us in the middle.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My lower age limit is much stricter than my upper age limit. I don't reject someone purely because of their age but I've only met with one person younger than 30 in the years I've been meeting and I've never met with anyone in their 60s.
Cause I had a pretty weird job and basically missed the twenties larger, larger, larger phase....
Sunset the age of 23 have only ever been out with women over 30.
Last year I was in Canada and me the fittest 49yo New Yorker...
If you look at the numbers on the Internet, you will miss some of life's diamonds!
That's how i look at it. It just happens that the majority of people I've met have been between 30 and 55.....this may have more to do with demographics though as I'm guessing there would be less younger and older people
Yep, like most things, it's full of us in the middle.."
Always stuck in the middle.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've yet to be stimulated mentaly enough to meet anyone much younger. I've decided against a couple of opportunities though I'm sure the sex would have been ok...my buttons just weren't flicked. |
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"My filters are set in stone! 30+ just isn't my type."
I can't think like that...
I always say "I've been a great apprentice to many great masters".
Some of those have been lovers, others simply friends.
But I know this... They have shown me a world of infinite possibilities.
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Our age range on here isn't fixed but are unlikely to be attracted to those younger than our children or older than our parents. Our range is in this limit with a bit of room to spare
That said, at a club we've never asked ages.
If we click age is not an issue, though we find that we have more in commn with people in their 30s and 40s.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number , if you get on and click with some one .
I know people have set age limits and that's cool. I dont get hung up on it. I know some chaps do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My youngest was 19. Just after the dead was done 1 day she happened to mention how old her dad was. Needless to say I ended it soon after but hey what an ego boost "
Ahhhh. My mum was just about to turn 30 when she had me so my limits stretch quite far  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine is by no means set in stone, but I do know what I like and that tends to be older.
Yesssssss
older...not antique
You meanie. Don't mock the afflicted
OK OK so it's pick on blade day is it you pair of kids  
Isn't every day a pick on bladey day?
well..he cant catch us on his frame these days "
Oooooh, meow! Bitch. |
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"Mine is by no means set in stone, but I do know what I like and that tends to be older.
Yesssssss
older...not antique
You meanie. Don't mock the afflicted
OK OK so it's pick on blade day is it you pair of kids
Isn't every day a pick on bladey day?
well..he cant catch us on his frame these days
Oooooh, meow! Bitch. "
I can take it he's jealous of my dad bod |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My age preferences have totally changed.
Younger ladies can be very confident and older ladies can be fit as fuck.
Stereotypes and preconceptions on Fab mean absolutely nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My rule of thumb is to avoid people older than my parents...but like all rule of thumbs, there can be exceptions ---thumb, haha."
Are your parents older than 48....?!
*fingers crossed |
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I don't like guys younger than me. They could be the nicest guy in the world and amazing in bed.. But I'm still not interested. I find that guys my own age or younger look too young for me, and they're not as experienced etc. Gimme a guy in his 30s/40s and I'm happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really have an age range as such to be honest. All depends if our messages flow and we click. Could be just me, but many younger than me haven't really ticked my boxes. Have had a few bad experiences with that age range that kind of makes me a bit reluctant.
Generally, I do prefer those older than me who look to meet without any stereotypes or prejudice. Those easy to converse with and have a laugh. Seem to get along better and am more relaxed.
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"My rule of thumb is to avoid people older than my parents...but like all rule of thumbs, there can be exceptions ---thumb, haha.
Are your parents older than 48....?!
*fingers crossed "
Wow I always thought I was older than you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have age filters to reduce the amount of messages but apart from that it's pretty fluid.
The majority of men I meet tend to be younger than me but that's because I'm that old |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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"My rule of thumb is to avoid people older than my parents...but like all rule of thumbs, there can be exceptions ---thumb, haha.
Are your parents older than 48....?!
*fingers crossed "
They are, actually :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have age filters to reduce the amount of messages but apart from that it's pretty fluid.
The majority of men I meet tend to be younger than me but that's because I'm that old "
Cos you are hot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was 42 when I first met my OH.
He was 18.
I prefer younger guys
He prefers older guys
We are currently one month off our 3rd 'anniversary' "
Disgusting.
You're old enough
to be his
lover.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is nowt but a number to me it's more about the mental stimulation and connection.
If you get that right the sex will be great cause of the chemistry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was 42 when I first met my OH.
He was 18.
I prefer younger guys
He prefers older guys
We are currently one month off our 3rd 'anniversary'
Disgusting.
You're old enough
to be his
lover. "
It's the associated guilt that keeps us strong |
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"I was 42 when I first met my OH.
He was 18.
I prefer younger guys
He prefers older guys
We are currently one month off our 3rd 'anniversary' "
there's just a bit more of an age difference between you two as there is us two but i still don't want to meet anyone over 49 on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have age filters to reduce the amount of messages but apart from that it's pretty fluid.
The majority of men I meet tend to be younger than me but that's because I'm that old "
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My age filters have increased purely because of you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have age filters to reduce the amount of messages but apart from that it's pretty fluid.
The majority of men I meet tend to be younger than me but that's because I'm that old ..
My age filters have increased purely because of you "
I wondered who you were quoting then... my guess was right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my age limits there so I don't get bombarded with messages.
None of them are set in stone and will often have people say that I met people out of them, when going through my veris. Yes they're right, but that's because I either met them in a club or got on with them, or spoke with a lot on chat and saw their face pics etc and like them.
But if someone within my age range looked a lot older and I didn't like them, I won't meet. It works both ways really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At my age, I'm grateful for any correspondence from a lady younger than me! Lol x
Bloody hell, you're actually older than me lol, but bloody sexy xxxx"
Karen my darling, I'm that old, they have to carbon date me! Oh I love you, you make me feel wanted. Xxx |
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"At my age, I'm grateful for any correspondence from a lady younger than me! Lol x
Bloody hell, you're actually older than me lol, but bloody sexy xxxxKaren my darling, I'm that old, they have to carbon date me! Oh I love you, you make me feel wanted. Xxx"
Oh boy, do I want you lol  xxxxx |
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