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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are what we are what some people don't like about their bodies others may find sexy and alluring.

Attraction is not skin deep or what wobbly bits are where.

I have to admit I love a woman cuddly lumps mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

I learnt to embrace my wobbly, foldy, striped bumpy bits.

Hi five to the mums!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its fetchingly known as the ghunt!

I look on mine as a badge of honour that gave me my daughter.

And try not to look for too long!!

Try a 'waspie' if you want to hide it a bit xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think if you like someone enough you'll be more than happy with the things that make them unique

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love a mummy tummy beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

I learnt to embrace my wobbly, foldy, striped bumpy bits.

Hi five to the mums!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had 2 csections. But from talking other mum friends, I've got off lightly. However the main negative result is the inability to selectively control my lower abs to tone there. Sit ups etc aren't possible. Even at my fittest, that's been an issue. It's frustrating but I figure that anyone who doesn't like it, doesn't have to have sex with me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

Your body is beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh my biggest insecurity! I swear I jumped the other day and mine clapped

fuck my life x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dads can do something about their paunch. I'm stuck with my stretch marks and scar tissue that won't pull in no matter how much I trained.

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've got that

And I don't like it

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By *tudmcmuffinMan over a year ago

Swindon

I like women for who they are, a sexual deviant mind is far more important to me than body shape, I've met some fantastic sexy women with mummy tummies, wobbly bits and not so wobbly bits and I loved every minute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You girls do realise that most of us guys don't mind/care. I have never been attracted to a woman and then put off by a 'mummy tummy'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

Your body is beautiful

Haha, cheers x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!!

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By *izz and jWoman over a year ago

reading

Nothing wrong with wobble bits more to get hold of I say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

Jenni you look amazing! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well as ive got older ive learned that my body is a map of my life

4 kids lumps and bumps boobs long gone south

plus side they do keep my knees warm

and i happen to like my body its mine

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple over a year ago

Bristol

I'm taking heart in all the

for mummy tums

Personally, the older I have got, I am leaning towards preferring the dads bod than ripped up. They are nice to look at, but not sure we would go there

The missus x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

I have more than one of those folds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate mine, it wobbles and looks like an apron. Attractive.

Jenni you look amazing! Xx"

JennieJ, Kianna and Testarossa are all on my Fuckit List, mum tums or not, they are all very sexy ladies!

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By *andS33Couple over a year ago

Yorkshire

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

Hate mine too, could do with a tummy tuck lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not only do I love her wobbly bits. . .i need them.!

I'm a on the slimmer side of the spectrum so I need her to keep both of us warm during these harsh January nights

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Lady and come to that dad's to. At the end of the day we are all what we are so who gives a shit. If someone like you it really isn't just the outside that matters. I mean look at me I hit every branch as I fell off the ugly tree but do I give 2 shiny 1s do I fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lady and come to that dad's to. At the end of the day we are all what we are so who gives a shit. If someone like you it really isn't just the outside that matters. I mean look at me I hit every branch as I fell off the ugly tree but do I give 2 shiny 1s do I fuck

thats the most sense you have ever made Fb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all look a bit daft naked no matter which of our bits dangle, flop or fold without support

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!!

You can bounce off my mummy tummy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

But I can't think of a rhyme for that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yummy tummy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh my biggest insecurity! I swear I jumped the other day and mine clapped

fuck my life x"

your jump impressed it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!!

You can bounce off my mummy tummy

Tea first?

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have one. I had one before I gave birth. It's horrid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller "

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go."

Ah good luck hun

. Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun

. Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx"

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah Mum tums are wonderful, definitely worth a squeeze, nibble and full on big raspberry!

Most natural things in the world and as others have said a badge that you've given birth to the most wonderful gifts anyone could have

Let's not do Mum tums versus Dad bods! Let's have a union of the two!

Dad bod offering himself up right here!!

You can bounce off my mummy tummy

Tea first?

Tea and cake. Got to keep this tummy fed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mrs has lovely curves but is losing them slowly, 3 stone in 6 months and more to come, but she will always be curvy and sexy x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

one thing ladies you may have stretch marks or mummy tummys or even a tummy that you dont admire too long in a mirror

your all loverly in your own way as we look upon you, admire you, and yet we want you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"one thing ladies you may have stretch marks or mummy tummys or even a tummy that you dont admire too long in a mirror

your all loverly in your own way as we look upon you, admire you, and yet we want you "

Not everyone likes a woman with a hanging stomach.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body "

Of course. Just pointing out that some women do have them (and saggy boobs, and stretch marks) without having been pregnant, and I don't think they should have to feel ashamed of their bodies either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body

Of course. Just pointing out that some women do have them (and saggy boobs, and stretch marks) without having been pregnant, and I don't think they should have to feel ashamed of their bodies either. "

No one is making anyone feel ashamed!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun

. Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!! "

Where is the scar? This puts me off, I scar like a bitch...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too.

Ah so the squeeze, kiss, bite and raspberry routine isn't recommended then!? (Sudden realisation where I've been going wrong all these years...

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1st off i am large all over.. but my daughter refers to that lower tummy region as 'the jelly belly'.. i just simply call it my 'apron'

even when i was slightly smaller ive worn chemise's when with a guy as its my largest physical insecurity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too.

Ah so the squeeze, kiss, bite and raspberry routine isn't recommended then!? (Sudden realisation where I've been going wrong all these years...

No, it wasn't bad tears. It overwhelmed me a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Guys don't carry children, give birth or breast feed - they've no excuse to be out of shape in my opinion - except temporarily if they're helping to care for very young babies/children - but even then they can watch their diets and exercise to some degree - just like many mothers do!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?"

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)"

This is exactly what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

I never had one until i had kids so mine is a definite mummy tummy. Same as my boobs changed after breastfeeding. You can't get away from the fact that having kids changes your body

Of course. Just pointing out that some women do have them (and saggy boobs, and stretch marks) without having been pregnant, and I don't think they should have to feel ashamed of their bodies either.

No one is making anyone feel ashamed!

I wasn't suggesting you were. WaspHunter explained it better than me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)"

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"May not be a popular opinion here but personally I think 'dad bod' is bollocks! And body faults (thread veins, loose skin on tummy, squidgy tits) I have were caused by carrying, giving birth to and breastfeeding my children! I diet and exercise regularly to minimise the effects as much as possible!

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

Funny I find with working 60 hours a week, volunteering to help out at a kids club and basically trying to fit in other things I can't get to the gym, and eat more prepared meals that aren't as good for me!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Here's stereotyping, blokes I know with gym bodies tend to be a lot more selfish, especially with their time! I know couples who have to book holidays where the hotel has a gym so they can maintain their body! Hell the one guy was 30 odd and put a tin of beans in the microwave and wondered why it sparked, he'd never had to cook!

Each to their own I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then? "

Perhaps we should keep quiet for fear of upsetting someone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then? "

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

Im proud of mine, its the after result of producing a beautiful child, why on earth would anyone, male or female hate that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

That's ok then I was starting to think I was wasting my time keeping myself in shape

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 kids and no mummy tummy in sight.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I think if you like someone enough you'll be more than happy with the things that make them unique

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies. "

I'm not. It's the reason i have a tummy. That is all I'm saying!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then? "

Having a child doesn't have to give you stretch marks. Some of my friends who have had children don't have stretch marks or 'mummy tummies'. I guess it depends on the individuals body and their skin - everyone is different to everyone else.

On the other hand, I have a fat tummy and stretch marks. I've never had children. It's just my body is super sensitive to putting on weight and losing it again.

I think my might start calling mine my 'Batchelor of Arts Tummy' or possibly my 'Car Accident Bad Leg Stretch Marks'.

Giving things 'cute' names because you're a mum means that those of us who aren't mums struggle more to get our fat bits accepted. If a guy says 'oh you're a little bit fat' or 'you have some stretch marks' I can't just blame it easily on the fact that I've got pregnant three times and had a few babies. I'm just a person with a body. And bodies get fat bits and stretch marks. The sooner we just accept that rather than blaming it on things like motherhood, the better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

I'm not. It's the reason i have a tummy. That is all I'm saying!"

I know, and I'm not saying you were. But other posts have stated that carrying children is the only "legitimate" reason not to be in shape and everything else is just laziness.

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By *ucsparkMan over a year ago

dudley

Nothing wrong with a lived in body. Everyone has their wants and needs, love what you have got. Anyone who doesn't is probably not worth bothering about.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies. "

No one has assumed, the OP started thread called mummy tummy which is why people are discussing mummy tummy in particular. In effect answering the question that was asked

If thread had been called wobbly tummy, if dont like my tummy, then comments would be more open from all (mothers or non mothers)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My mummy tummy is refered to as the flap with the map of the london underground

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Each to their own I guess lol"

But if that's your body in your profile pic there's nothing wrong with it?! I'm talking about calling obesity/morbid obesity 'dad bod' not a perfectly acceptable and normal body shape! I don't think all guys should have huge pecs and a six-pac by any means. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you've never had children then you won't appreciate the changes that do occur to your body. I'm not saying I'm fat because i had a couple of kids. I'm saying i never had a tummy until i had kids. Since having children no matter what i do, i can't lose my tummy. So if i want to call it my mummy tummy why the hell should that offend anyone else??

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun

. Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!!

Where is the scar? This puts me off, I scar like a bitch..."

Under the knicker waistband

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you've never had children then you won't appreciate the changes that do occur to your body. I'm not saying I'm fat because i had a couple of kids. I'm saying i never had a tummy until i had kids. Since having children no matter what i do, i can't lose my tummy. So if i want to call it my mummy tummy why the hell should that offend anyone else?? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mines getting cut off at the end of the year hate the fucker

I'm losing weight with aim to then flutter my eyelids at the husband to have the same. Needs to go.

Ah good luck hun

. Hubs is all for it just need to lose as much weight as possible before ive got the money. Sent off to a few clinics but not booking any consultations till the summer xx

My friend & sister-in-law have both had it done - amazing results!!!

Where is the scar? This puts me off, I scar like a bitch...

Under the knicker waistband "

I have a fascination with the before and after pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The dads cannot have all the attention

Person all I hate the mummy tummy... The bit where it folds. You girls know what I'm talking about?

Personally I hate this trend to associate body 'imperfections' with motherhood.

Do women who haven't had children just have 'fatty tummy' since they don't have 'mummy tummy'?

(I hate the 'dad bod' thing for similar reasons... so I'm an equal opportunity hater.)

Shall we just pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months has no impact on our bodies then?

No but you shouldn't pretend that carrying a child around for 9 months is the only acceptable reason for women to have "imperfect" bodies.

No one has assumed, the OP started thread called mummy tummy which is why people are discussing mummy tummy in particular. In effect answering the question that was asked

If thread had been called wobbly tummy, if dont like my tummy, then comments would be more open from all (mothers or non mothers)"

Okey dokey, all the childless will bugger off then, I didn't realise comments were only permitted from parents.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"This is not a mummy tummy. Childless women get them too

Yes, I had mine pre-kids!! Lost it then had the boys, lost it & have it again. I bloody hate it. 1 meet kissed my belly & made me cry - I've got used to him doing it now though!

I joined the gym yesterday. I know it'll never disappear but I can (& will!!) make it smaller

I had an old meet kiss my stomach there too. I blinked back a tear too.

Ah so the squeeze, kiss, bite and raspberry routine isn't recommended then!? (Sudden realisation where I've been going wrong all these years...

)

No, it wasn't bad tears. It overwhelmed me a bit."

Same here! The fact that a rather lovely man could find me attractive & not be bothered by my hideous belly got a bit much x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Each to their own I guess lol

Well I'm nowhere near where my weight for height should be!! Though I want that weight at 21 so god knows how they work it out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly at my 6 week check up after my eldest the doctor took one look at ny tummy and said im sorry but your never getting rid of that without surgery xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women after child birth can get a weakness in the linea Alba that's the tissue that hold the abs together, some women will get something that's called diastasis recti this is where the linea Alba is over stretched & doesn't go back to its normal position causing the tummy to hang, it can sometimes be repaired by certain exercises & in other cases it needs surgery to repair, google it ladies I'm sure it will explain it better than I have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had three sections my eldest weighed 12 pound 5, I had twins with my middle pregnancy the biggest of the twins was 11 pound 10, my belly will never be right carrying such big children then having my stomach muscles cut open three times to remove them

I've learned to accept my belly will always resemble a deflated balloon

But as the advert says ..if you don't like your imperfections somebody else will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dad bod (or out of shape bod) = lazy bod?

Nah. As others have said, work and home commitments means that not everyone has the time, motivation or mental energy to go to the gym.

Today I'm not going to get home until nearly midnight (left the house at 7:25)

Sat on a train, in meetings, grabbing whatever I can to eat.

Now, I happen to be fucking lucky that my body responds like this to maybe 8 hours of exercise a month.

I'm not trying to be the acclaimed white knight, but my wife does the same sort of hours/food/exercise as me and is overweight.

And I can say for certain that she is far from lazy.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

Sorry - dad bod = lazy bod!

But he'll yeah I'm just a lazy cunt!!

Each to their own I guess lol"

I agree with this, a lot of people male or female haven't got time for gyms, certainly doesn't make them lazy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can we not make this a "if you had kids you'd understand" thread though? I've had 3 kids and I hate that attitude. I was a tubby mare before kids, flatish tummy but saddlebags. Now the thighs have sorted themselves out a bit but the tummy progressively got worse with each of my boys. The last one screwed it royally though by coming out of the sunroof. We all have our body hang ups, kids or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dad bod (or out of shape bod) = lazy bod?

Nah. As others have said, work and home commitments means that not everyone has the time, motivation or mental energy to go to the gym.

Today I'm not going to get home until nearly midnight (left the house at 7:25)

Sat on a train, in meetings, grabbing whatever I can to eat.

Now, I happen to be fucking lucky that my body responds like this to maybe 8 hours of exercise a month.

I'm not trying to be the acclaimed white knight, but my wife does the same sort of hours/food/exercise as me and is overweight.

And I can say for certain that she is far from lazy. "

Theres not enough thumbs i can give this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dad bod (or out of shape bod) = lazy bod?

Nah. As others have said, work and home commitments means that not everyone has the time, motivation or mental energy to go to the gym.

Today I'm not going to get home until nearly midnight (left the house at 7:25)

Sat on a train, in meetings, grabbing whatever I can to eat.

Now, I happen to be fucking lucky that my body responds like this to maybe 8 hours of exercise a month.

I'm not trying to be the acclaimed white knight, but my wife does the same sort of hours/food/exercise as me and is overweight.

And I can say for certain that she is far from lazy. "

I'm as fat as a hippo but I rarely sit on my arse. Same things work is long and busy. At home I end up running around after everyone and I have a really active social life. My issue is wrong food, the demon drink and no proper exercise (well except in bed). Probably be the same if I hadn't had a child.

You know what though? I don't really mind my extra baggage. The day it starts to mean I can't do things is the day I will probably re-evaluate my lifestyle. We're all different that what makes us interesting.