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I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot!
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"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot!
Thanks in advance"
She may not be aware that you can see however if you're 100% positive that she waited until she knew you were in the garden to do it approach her with a smile and say something like "you looked lovely when I saw you taking your clothes off"
However if you have the slightest doubt don't mention it and the next time you see her approach her in a friendly fashion with a view to striking up a conversation.
Getting a glimpse of a neighbour undressing in her own house in what she assumes is privacy means nothing. |
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Did she clearly look at you as she did it?
You need to be CERTAIN that it was a deliberate action on her part before you say anything.
You will need to go in your garden more often and see if it happens again. Maybe (if there is a) next time you could just put a hand up/wave toilet her know you can see her....take it from there.
If you ask her about it and she was unaware or it was not deliberate then it could be very difficult! |
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Hi. Maybe go down the chivalrous route, excuse me miss but for your own privacy you might want to close your blinds as I accidentally looked up whilst you were undressing blah blah blah sort of thing. Then take it from there.Jim
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"Hi. Maybe go down the chivalrous route, excuse me miss but for your own privacy you might want to close your blinds as I accidentally looked up whilst you were undressing blah blah blah sort of thing. Then take it from there.Jim
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I second that. |
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"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot
Thanks in advance"
Why do you want to tell her you can see her undressing ?? As you used the words you "happened to see her" ... really doesnt seem like some show to entice you and I'd say nowt .
As for letting her know she's hot ... well sure you know how to chat to a woman .Find out if she's single, if so then just ask her out !!
Faint heart never won fair lady . |
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"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot
Thanks in advance
Why do you want to tell her you can see her undressing ?? As you used the words you "happened to see her" ... really doesnt seem like some show to entice you and I'd say nowt .
As for letting her know she's hot ... well sure you know how to chat to a woman .Find out if she's single, if so then just ask her out !!
Faint heart never won fair lady ."
Tbh I just think it's hot how she looked out the window while doing it,and must of thought there's a possibility someone's watching. But goes ahead and does it anyways... my kinda girl! |
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"I was out in my garden yesterday and happened to see my neighbour getting undressed in her bedroom... I really want to let her know I can see her but don't know how she will take it, or who she lives with. Can anyone suggest what I can do or how I could let her know she's hot
Thanks in advance
Why do you want to tell her you can see her undressing ?? As you used the words you "happened to see her" ... really doesnt seem like some show to entice you and I'd say nowt .
As for letting her know she's hot ... well sure you know how to chat to a woman .Find out if she's single, if so then just ask her out !!
Faint heart never won fair lady .
Tbh I just think it's hot how she looked out the window while doing it,and must of thought there's a possibility someone's watching. But goes ahead and does it anyways... my kinda girl!"
Don't assume that you know what she was thinking, that will get you in trouble. It's quite easy to assume that nobody can see you when you're in the privacy of your own home. |
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Don't assume that you know what she was thinking, that will get you in trouble. It's quite easy to assume that nobody can see you when you're in the privacy of your own home."
Totally agree!! HUGE assumption being made  |
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"Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups....I will take all messages into consideration "
Good, you have to remember this woman is inside her own home when she's undressing I don't think men (some men) fully realise how unsettling it would be for a woman to know that even there she isnt safe from them thinking her undressed body is a signal that she is up for sex.
Of course it might have been deliberate on her part but you tread a very fine line finding out. |
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Anonymous note through the door...
Similar situation next to us except it was orgasm noise lol.
One of my family members dropped a subtle hint via a note with a condom. Note,read, In the conservatory no one can hear you cum'. 
Think he'd been watching re runs of Alien. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anonymous note through the door...
Similar situation next to us except it was orgasm noise lol.
One of my family members dropped a subtle hint via a note with a condom. Note,read, In the conservatory no one can hear you cum'.
Think he'd been watching re runs of Alien."
Best one yet! Might try the wave first see how she reacts, if positive I shall do the note...wish me luck lol |
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"Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups....I will take all messages into consideration
Good, you have to remember this woman is inside her own home when she's undressing I don't think men (some men) fully realise how unsettling it would be for a woman to know that even there she isnt safe from them thinking her undressed body is a signal that she is up for sex.
Of course it might have been deliberate on her part but you tread a very fine line finding out."
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"Get the camera out, only joking.
Mentioning it to her could go either way, as she might want you to see her or she might think you are a pervert."
I wouldn't go that far with the camera lol. |
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"Get the camera out, only joking.
Mentioning it to her could go either way, as she might want you to see her or she might think you are a pervert.
I wouldn't go that far with the camera lol."
In situations like this I always think its a good idea to imagine you have bad younger sister who is the one in her bedroom and a 25 year old man asks you for advice on how to approach her after he's been looking in at her undressing. It sometimes helps see it from the other side of the coin.  |
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"Get the camera out, only joking.
Mentioning it to her could go either way, as she might want you to see her or she might think you are a pervert.
I wouldn't go that far with the camera lol.
In situations like this I always think its a good idea to imagine you have bad younger sister who is the one in her bedroom and a 25 year old man asks you for advice on how to approach her after he's been looking in at her undressing. It sometimes helps see it from the other side of the coin. "
A younger sister not bad younger sister. |
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"Hi. Maybe go down the chivalrous route, excuse me miss but for your own privacy you might want to close your blinds as I accidentally looked up whilst you were undressing blah blah blah sort of thing. Then take it from there.Jim
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^^^^^This^^^^^......she may be mortified or slightly aroused ..who knows! |
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We've got the half naked ironers behind us.
Always in state of undress at the window. They won't even return a 'hello' if you pass them out either.
Does my tits in to be honest.
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