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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How you going to dominate?
Same way I always do, bound and command. And if they are not met then punishments will follow until they have learned what's boring sex?"
I mean just one night stands on nights out, which is usually what happens |
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"How you going to dominate?
Same way I always do, bound and command. And if they are not met then punishments will follow until they have learned what's boring sex?
I mean just one night stands on nights out, which is usually what happens "
have you thought about getting a pet? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"How you going to dominate?
Same way I always do, bound and command. And if they are not met then punishments will follow until they have learned what's boring sex?
I mean just one night stands on nights out, which is usually what happens have
you thought about getting a pet?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How you going to dominate?
Same way I always do, bound and command. And if they are not met then punishments will follow until they have learned what's boring sex?
I mean just one night stands on nights out, which is usually what happens have you thought about getting a pet?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad? "
Serious answer though dude.
Your profile and you post does not exactly say dominant, infact they kinda scream unconfidant.
You say you're fit, so why is your picture one terrible on that doesn't show you at all just a flash in a dirty mirror.
Your text and you posts here don't really engage the mind of anyone and certainly don't let any aub get enough of a feel for your personality to see if you're a safe person to be vulnerable with.
And if your only way to "dominate" somone is to punish them till they do what you say you'll find most subs sat there laughing at you as you get frustrated.
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"How you going to dominate?
Same way I always do, bound and command. And if they are not met then punishments will follow until they have learned what's boring sex?
I mean just one night stands on nights out, which is usually what happens have you thought about getting a pet?
The answer to boring sex is a pet "
I don't know is it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad?
Serious answer though dude.
Your profile and you post does not exactly say dominant, infact they kinda scream unconfidant.
You say you're fit, so why is your picture one terrible on that doesn't show you at all just a flash in a dirty mirror.
Your text and you posts here don't really engage the mind of anyone and certainly don't let any aub get enough of a feel for your personality to see if you're a safe person to be vulnerable with.
And if your only way to "dominate" somone is to punish them till they do what you say you'll find most subs sat there laughing at you as you get frustrated.
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I have to say I did laugh when I read it, you are totally right I would be doing this too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad? "
Well OP having read the responses do you see perhaps there is more to dominating an older woman than you thought? Having a young, fit body and a drop of Irish charm is not enough for me certainly - I require the man who dominates me to have enough life experience to be able to tune into me psychologically and physically. In my experience men under the age of 40 often are a bit too egotistical - they don't realise the importance of studying my bodies responses to their dominant treatment of me because they are too focussed on their own sexual gratification. Now I am not saying that I rule out all young men I am just explaining that you might get better results from forum posts and from messages to older women if you bear in mind the fact that the submissive one is actually the one wielding the most power within the dom/sub dynamic so take some time to develop the right approach. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad? "
Ignore all the pisstaking. You'll be able to find the type of submissive you're looking for that will enjoy your certain type of sexual domination. A better profile and photos would help.
And before you private message, I'm not a sexual sub I'm a bdsm sub and there is a distinct difference for me. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad?
Well OP having read the responses do you see perhaps there is more to dominating an older woman than you thought? Having a young, fit body and a drop of Irish charm is not enough for me certainly - I require the man who dominates me to have enough life experience to be able to tune into me psychologically and physically. In my experience men under the age of 40 often are a bit too egotistical - they don't realise the importance of studying my bodies responses to their dominant treatment of me because they are too focussed on their own sexual gratification. Now I am not saying that I rule out all young men I am just explaining that you might get better results from forum posts and from messages to older women if you bear in mind the fact that the submissive one is actually the one wielding the most power within the dom/sub dynamic so take some time to develop the right approach. "
This, op, the art and skill to be able to dom a sub effectively takes time to learn and a lot of build up if trust to develop.
It really is not as simple as tie up a sub and punish her as that is simply gratification for you and I find little enjoyment in that. You have to be in tune with the desires and needs of your sub, know what they like, dislike, their boundaries, what can be pushed and what can't. A dom should and does receive their fulfilment from knowing that a sub's needs have been met, not just their own and being able to effectively change the play in order to achieve this. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad?
Well OP having read the responses do you see perhaps there is more to dominating an older woman than you thought? Having a young, fit body and a drop of Irish charm is not enough for me certainly - I require the man who dominates me to have enough life experience to be able to tune into me psychologically and physically. In my experience men under the age of 40 often are a bit too egotistical - they don't realise the importance of studying my bodies responses to their dominant treatment of me because they are too focussed on their own sexual gratification. Now I am not saying that I rule out all young men I am just explaining that you might get better results from forum posts and from messages to older women if you bear in mind the fact that the submissive one is actually the one wielding the most power within the dom/sub dynamic so take some time to develop the right approach. "
And just to validate this comment as I'm sure the poster won't mind.... As it shows on my Veris..... I'm nearly 20 years younger than the female on the above account but have none sexually dominated her during a dungeon scene. Age has nothing to do with it. All about chemistry, communication and negotiating mutual gain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad?
Well OP having read the responses do you see perhaps there is more to dominating an older woman than you thought? Having a young, fit body and a drop of Irish charm is not enough for me certainly - I require the man who dominates me to have enough life experience to be able to tune into me psychologically and physically. In my experience men under the age of 40 often are a bit too egotistical - they don't realise the importance of studying my bodies responses to their dominant treatment of me because they are too focussed on their own sexual gratification. Now I am not saying that I rule out all young men I am just explaining that you might get better results from forum posts and from messages to older women if you bear in mind the fact that the submissive one is actually the one wielding the most power within the dom/sub dynamic so take some time to develop the right approach.
And just to validate this comment as I'm sure the poster won't mind.... As it shows on my Veris..... I'm nearly 20 years younger than the female on the above account but have none sexually dominated her during a dungeon scene. Age has nothing to do with it. All about chemistry, communication and negotiating mutual gain. "
Thank you sub-_ilac, nice to see your comment (and we must meet up again soon, please! ) |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"Is there any submissive older women out there who would like to be dominated by a young fit lad?
Well OP having read the responses do you see perhaps there is more to dominating an older woman than you thought? Having a young, fit body and a drop of Irish charm is not enough for me certainly - I require the man who dominates me to have enough life experience to be able to tune into me psychologically and physically. In my experience men under the age of 40 often are a bit too egotistical - they don't realise the importance of studying my bodies responses to their dominant treatment of me because they are too focussed on their own sexual gratification. Now I am not saying that I rule out all young men I am just explaining that you might get better results from forum posts and from messages to older women if you bear in mind the fact that the submissive one is actually the one wielding the most power within the dom/sub dynamic so take some time to develop the right approach.
And just to validate this comment as I'm sure the poster won't mind.... As it shows on my Veris..... I'm nearly 20 years younger than the female on the above account but have none sexually dominated her during a dungeon scene. Age has nothing to do with it. All about chemistry, communication and negotiating mutual gain.
Thank you sub-_ilac, nice to see your comment (and we must meet up again soon, please! )"
Definitely. We will make arrangements. |
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