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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else? |
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"Noone b!ocks for no reason, there is always a reason, you may not no the reason, you may never no the reason.
Also if this happens often your the common denominator "
if you disagree in some of the threads you get blocked after they have said something nasty so you can not get back to them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you chat about ? "
she has said to me a couple of days ago that she may be on for meeting today(Sunday),so I messaged this morning and asked,do you know yet if you can meet today? I checked back later to find myself blocked.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?"
Well not blocked but a woman I been chatting to on here for two weeks... Tidy chat, humour,getting on.
Sent me a friends request 2 days ago - hide her profile today - now de-friended me
Was she fake,player....
OMG it's confusing yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you chat about ? she has said to me a couple of days ago that she may be on for meeting today(Sunday),so I messaged this morning and asked,do you know yet if you can meet today? I checked back later to find myself blocked."
Prior to talking about meeting,did you have a lot of fantasy sex conversations? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you chat about ? she has said to me a couple of days ago that she may be on for meeting today(Sunday),so I messaged this morning and asked,do you know yet if you can meet today? I checked back later to find myself blocked.
Prior to talking about meeting,did you have a lot of fantasy sex conversations? "
one or two.not many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Noone b!ocks for no reason, there is always a reason, you may not no the reason, you may never no the reason.
Also if this happens often your the common denominator if you disagree in some of the threads you get blocked after they have said something nasty so you can not get back to them "
I do find this rather odd behaviour tbh but I guess at the end of the day it's the virtual equivalent of a fuck you..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Noone b!ocks for no reason, there is always a reason, you may not no the reason, you may never no the reason.
Also if this happens often your the common denominator if you disagree in some of the threads you get blocked after they have said something nasty so you can not get back to them
I do find this rather odd behaviour tbh but I guess at the end of the day it's the virtual equivalent of a fuck you.. "
Or not, as the case may be. |
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"Noone b!ocks for no reason, there is always a reason, you may not no the reason, you may never no the reason.
Also if this happens often your the common denominator if you disagree in some of the threads you get blocked after they have said something nasty so you can not get back to them
I do find this rather odd behaviour tbh but I guess at the end of the day it's the virtual equivalent of a fuck you.. "
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She had her reason to block you, unless it was an accidental block, I have done that a few times on my Tab.
Just because you may not think there was a reason to block you she obviously did.
On to the next and good luck  |
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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago
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"What do you chat about ? she has said to me a couple of days ago that she may be on for meeting today(Sunday),so I messaged this morning and asked,do you know yet if you can meet today? I checked back later to find myself blocked.
Prior to talking about meeting,did you have a lot of fantasy sex conversations? one or two.not many."
We have found that it is not uncommon for a healthy percentage of single guys to show their true colours once they think ther are "in", and they get a bit carried away with themselves when the conversation moves on to sex. Although it may be meant as a compliment, being told you want to come round to fuck my brains out didn't do one guy any favours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?"
There's always a reason |
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De-friending, blocks, silence all need only to be interpreted as meaning you put your attention elsewhere.
Assume you'll never know why, except that it isn't happening.
People have lots of choice, job and family demands as well as partners. It is not a dating service and no one owes anything to others except respect and adherence to Fabs rules. |
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"De-friending, blocks, silence all need only to be interpreted as meaning you put your attention elsewhere.
Assume you'll never know why, except that it isn't happening.
People have lots of choice, job and family demands as well as partners. It is not a dating service and no one owes anything to others except respect and adherence to Fabs rules."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?
There's always a reason"
but not always a valid one its just so easy to move onto the next ,sad really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"De-friending, blocks, silence all need only to be interpreted as meaning you put your attention elsewhere.
Assume you'll never know why, except that it isn't happening.
People have lots of choice, job and family demands as well as partners. It is not a dating service and no one owes anything to others except respect and adherence to Fabs rules."
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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?
There's always a reason but not always a valid one its just so easy to move onto the next ,sad really "
It is a valid reason in the eyes of the blocker or they wouldn't have done it.
They deciding they never want to speak to you again is a valid reason. The root cause of why they never want to speak to you again is the next level again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And now another one has blocked me who I was going to meet.she texted that she was hungry and could I bring round some food from McDonald's.so I got a couple of burgers,and then she texts could I leave it outside her door as she is too shy too meet.she was just using me to get free food so I reported her,but she is still on here so obviously nothing was done about it.I went to message her and I've been blocked.at least this time I can guess why. |
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"And now another one has blocked me who I was going to meet.she texted that she was hungry and could I bring round some food from McDonald's.so I got a couple of burgers,and then she texts could I leave it outside her door as she is too shy too meet.she was just using me to get free food so I reported her,but she is still on here so obviously nothing was done about it.I went to message her and I've been blocked.at least this time I can guess why."
Someone on Internet asks for breakfast and on a promise you buy it and end up leaving it on the doorstep?!!
Cappuccino with an extra expresso shot and a pain aux raison if anyone's passing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The male ego is a fragile thing! OP, there is always a reason people block. Don't worry about it, you never met them and never will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP your girl was possibly a fake and when they realised that they could not progress any further since they have a penis, there was nothing more to do but cut you off and move on to the next thrill in their inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?
There's always a reason"
And this includes them not being what they say they are.....read that how you wish! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"And now another one has blocked me who I was going to meet.she texted that she was hungry and could I bring round some food from McDonald's.so I got a couple of burgers,and then she texts could I leave it outside her door as she is too shy too meet.she was just using me to get free food so I reported her,but she is still on here so obviously nothing was done about it.I went to message her and I've been blocked.at least this time I can guess why.
Someone on Internet asks for breakfast and on a promise you buy it and end up leaving it on the doorstep?!!
Cappuccino with an extra expresso shot and a pain aux raison if anyone's passing! "
Make that two |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"And now another one has blocked me who I was going to meet.she texted that she was hungry and could I bring round some food from McDonald's.so I got a couple of burgers,and then she texts could I leave it outside her door as she is too shy too meet.she was just using me to get free food so I reported her,but she is still on here so obviously nothing was done about it.I went to message her and I've been blocked.at least this time I can guess why.
Someone on Internet asks for breakfast and on a promise you buy it and end up leaving it on the doorstep?!!
Cappuccino with an extra expresso shot and a pain aux raison if anyone's passing!
Make that two"
Can I have a Costa please .. latte no sugar ta....I m not overly keen on McDonald's coffee..  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"And now another one has blocked me who I was going to meet.she texted that she was hungry and could I bring round some food from McDonald's.so I got a couple of burgers,and then she texts could I leave it outside her door as she is too shy too meet.she was just using me to get free food so I reported her,but she is still on here so obviously nothing was done about it.I went to message her and I've been blocked.at least this time I can guess why.
Someone on Internet asks for breakfast and on a promise you buy it and end up leaving it on the doorstep?!!
Cappuccino with an extra expresso shot and a pain aux raison if anyone's passing!
Make that two
Can I have a Costa please .. latte no sugar ta....I m not overly keen on McDonald's coffee.. "
Don't be so picky; it is free and delivered, not just to your doorstep, but on your doorstep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah this happens - their block button so what the hell they like with it - must say though and have mentioned it a few times - that there should be a halt and think box as its the easiest thing to block by accident - often hit the block instead of the notes thingy |
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"yeah this happens - their block button so what the hell they like with it - must say though and have mentioned it a few times - that there should be a halt and think box as its the easiest thing to block by accident - often hit the block instead of the notes thingy"
There is, I just blocked and stop and think box came up. |
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"yeah this happens - their block button so what the hell they like with it - must say though and have mentioned it a few times - that there should be a halt and think box as its the easiest thing to block by accident - often hit the block instead of the notes thingy"
It's easy enough to unblock though.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yeah this happens - their block button so what the hell they like with it - must say though and have mentioned it a few times - that there should be a halt and think box as its the easiest thing to block by accident - often hit the block instead of the notes thingy
It's easy enough to unblock though...."
it is if you notice - even with a friend if you notice straight away you resend friend invite and youre back together - but often dont notice |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
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Ok so I am agreeing with alot of what has been said prior to this
Accept block and move on
However, if someone wants to meet you, do not go buying food or anything for them,that screams "fishy" to be honest
When it comes to meet unless it halves on food or hotel rooms then anything else is prob a play.
I've met a guy before paid for the room,when he turned up knowing it had come out of money for a bill,he not only told me he had no money,but had the nerve to ask me for money for cigerettes. Which at the time and being scared of abuse I gave him...needless to say the meet didn't go well and he often re appears and offers to get a room for me.but I would rather he jst gave me the half of the money for the last one than actually meet again so I kissd goodbye to that money and gor a little in trouble for the bill i was meant to pay.
Back to the main context....if u get blocked jet move on.we all block we all have reasons |
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"What do you chat about ? she has said to me a couple of days ago that she may be on for meeting today(Sunday),so I messaged this morning and asked,do you know yet if you can meet today? I checked back later to find myself blocked."
Ah now just to check, they were verified? Because that sounds like a dude. |
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"De-friending, blocks, silence all need only to be interpreted as meaning you put your attention elsewhere.
Assume you'll never know why, except that it isn't happening.
People have lots of choice, job and family demands as well as partners. It is not a dating service and no one owes anything to others except respect and adherence to Fabs rules."
I think it deserves to be looked at further. Good chance it's a fake. Will look into it. Xx |
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"Ok so I am agreeing with alot of what has been said prior to this
Accept block and move on
However, if someone wants to meet you, do not go buying food or anything for them,that screams "fishy" to be honest
When it comes to meet unless it halves on food or hotel rooms then anything else is prob a play.
I've met a guy before paid for the room,when he turned up knowing it had come out of money for a bill,he not only told me he had no money,but had the nerve to ask me for money for cigerettes. Which at the time and being scared of abuse I gave him...needless to say the meet didn't go well and he often re appears and offers to get a room for me.but I would rather he jst gave me the half of the money for the last one than actually meet again so I kissd goodbye to that money and gor a little in trouble for the bill i was meant to pay.
Back to the main context....if u get blocked jet move on.we all block we all have reasons"
You got in trouble for not paying a bill on time because you paid for a hotel you could ill afford on the promise from a bloke with a hard on?!! 
Plus gave him cigarette money?!!
Well, one is born every minute!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you chat about ? she has said to me a couple of days ago that she may be on for meeting today(Sunday),so I messaged this morning and asked,do you know yet if you can meet today? I checked back later to find myself blocked."
Not saying this is true here but it has been know that they suddenly get a better offer/option and they just ignore the rest. Can be frustrating to say the least but that happens alot her on fab...just read the forums. |
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"What do you chat about ? she has said to me a couple of days ago that she may be on for meeting today(Sunday),so I messaged this morning and asked,do you know yet if you can meet today? I checked back later to find myself blocked.
Not saying this is true here but it has been know that they suddenly get a better offer/option and they just ignore the rest. Can be frustrating to say the least but that happens alot her on fab...just read the forums."
It's the nature of a swinging site.
Loyalty is not offered nor should it be expected |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?"
We often block ppl if we recognize them, or just don't like them. It should never be taken personally on a site like this x |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Going to have to ask prospective meets to pop to dominos before coming round missed a trick here.
Ditto, although one guy usually brings some wine "
Bloody hell no wonder I can't get a meet ... I only bring my sparkling personality...not sparkling wine.. 
Note to self download the just eat app. Buy wine..
what about chocolates as well .. ?? |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
"Ok so I am agreeing with alot of what has been said prior to this
Accept block and move on
However, if someone wants to meet you, do not go buying food or anything for them,that screams "fishy" to be honest
When it comes to meet unless it halves on food or hotel rooms then anything else is prob a play.
I've met a guy before paid for the room,when he turned up knowing it had come out of money for a bill,he not only told me he had no money,but had the nerve to ask me for money for cigerettes. Which at the time and being scared of abuse I gave him...needless to say the meet didn't go well and he often re appears and offers to get a room for me.but I would rather he jst gave me the half of the money for the last one than actually meet again so I kissd goodbye to that money and gor a little in trouble for the bill i was meant to pay.
Back to the main context....if u get blocked jet move on.we all block we all have reasons
You got in trouble for not paying a bill on time because you paid for a hotel you could ill afford on the promise from a bloke with a hard on?!!
Plus gave him cigarette money?!!
Well, one is born every minute! "
To be honest I was new and naive to the meet game and it was off another site and id seen the guy socially before so yes ...i was a numpty but it was my mistake to learn from |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your lucky you got by someone who you have been speaking to. When I first started on here I was blocked by someone who didn't even talk to me so it happens move on and enjoy fab for what it is |
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"And now another one has blocked me who I was going to meet.she texted that she was hungry and could I bring round some food from McDonald's.so I got a couple of burgers,and then she texts could I leave it outside her door as she is too shy too meet.she was just using me to get free food so I reported her,but she is still on here so obviously nothing was done about it.I went to message her and I've been blocked.at least this time I can guess why."
You're talking to the wrong girls. I would definitely put out for a McDonald's breakfast right now!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And now another one has blocked me who I was going to meet.she texted that she was hungry and could I bring round some food from McDonald's.so I got a couple of burgers,and then she texts could I leave it outside her door as she is too shy too meet.she was just using me to get free food so I reported her,but she is still on here so obviously nothing was done about it.I went to message her and I've been blocked.at least this time I can guess why."
Sounds like a suspected 'male' hiding behind female profile.
Dont give your chat apps out so easily, people can abuse a kind nature. Dont be so eager. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?"
people block me who i have never spoken to
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP your girl was possibly a fake and when they realised that they could not progress any further since they have a penis, there was nothing more to do but cut you off and move on to the next thrill in their inbox."
she's real.I have seen her in the shop she works in.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP your girl was possibly a fake and when they realised that they could not progress any further since they have a penis, there was nothing more to do but cut you off and move on to the next thrill in their inbox.she's real.I have seen her in the shop she works in."
So you are stalking her? No wonder she blocked you |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Going to have to ask prospective meets to pop to dominos before coming round missed a trick here.
Ditto, although one guy usually brings some wine
Bloody hell no wonder I can't get a meet ... I only bring my sparkling personality...not sparkling wine..
Note to self download the just eat app. Buy wine..
what about chocolates as well .. ?? "
Maybe one chocolate - I'm on a healthy eating kick.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Noone b!ocks for no reason, there is always a reason, you may not no the reason, you may never no the reason.
Also if this happens often your the common denominator "
I'm with diamonds on this |
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"I am regularly blocked by girls that I have chatted with for no reason I can see.the latest one blocked me tonight,despite her wanting to meet and chatting on kik.does this happen to anybody else?"
I think the point is that people block and there's no point in wondering why. Directing your energies towards positives on the site might make your fab experience more fun. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"We've all been blocked for no apparent reason best thing is to move on and forget about it as it wasn't meant to happen "
I get blocked for a good reason; I show them for what they are and that p****s them off and there they go in a huff. Makes my day, though |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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OP don't worry about being blocked. As others have said, there will be a reason, you will never know what it is, so just move on to the next one.
And give yourself a pat on the back for taking food round to someone who was hungry. OK, it didn't lead to sex, but you did a good thing! Maybe it was a dude, maybe it was someone too lazy to get their own Maccy D's, but also maybe it was a single Mum with literally no cash for food. Think of it like buying The Big Issue. You did your bit to make the world a better place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP don't worry about being blocked. As others have said, there will be a reason, you will never know what it is, so just move on to the next one.
And give yourself a pat on the back for taking food round to someone who was hungry. OK, it didn't lead to sex, but you did a good thing! Maybe it was a dude, maybe it was someone too lazy to get their own Maccy D's, but also maybe it was a single Mum with literally no cash for food. Think of it like buying The Big Issue. You did your bit to make the world a better place."
it was a real girl.as it turned out,I left the food at the wrong house,so she didn't get it.there was chats after that,so that's not the reason she blocked me before someone suggests that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP don't worry about being blocked. As others have said, there will be a reason, you will never know what it is, so just move on to the next one.
And give yourself a pat on the back for taking food round to someone who was hungry. OK, it didn't lead to sex, but you did a good thing! Maybe it was a dude, maybe it was someone too lazy to get their own Maccy D's, but also maybe it was a single Mum with literally no cash for food. Think of it like buying The Big Issue. You did your bit to make the world a better place.it was a real girl.as it turned out,I left the food at the wrong house,so she didn't get it.there was chats after that,so that's not the reason she blocked me before someone suggests that."
I like your style |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocking is used for reasons many have given, one possible most overlooked is that it's used as a filter where the current filter systems are not universal across fab. If there was a more comprehensive filtering system akin to most other sites/apps then less obvious blocking would happen in filtering those not in your interest.
I use it when I get someone repeatedly looking but don't bother making any contact especially if I have messaged. Save future bother/unwanted interest on both parties I've been criticised by the ogling group but I can live with it...I know what I want from fab. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"OP don't worry about being blocked. As others have said, there will be a reason, you will never know what it is, so just move on to the next one.
And give yourself a pat on the back for taking food round to someone who was hungry. OK, it didn't lead to sex, but you did a good thing! Maybe it was a dude, maybe it was someone too lazy to get their own Maccy D's, but also maybe it was a single Mum with literally no cash for food. Think of it like buying The Big Issue. You did your bit to make the world a better place.it was a real girl.as it turned out,I left the food at the wrong house,so she didn't get it.there was chats after that,so that's not the reason she blocked me before someone suggests that."
You mean someone got surprise McDonalds? Why don't things like that ever happen to me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have all been blocked at some point, same as we have all blocked someone else, get over it move on and just take it for what it is."
Well said. You'll never know either and you shouldn'tworry aabout it. See it as another filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have all been blocked at some point, same as we have all blocked someone else, get over it move on and just take it for what it is."
Well said. You'll never know either and you shouldn'tworry aabout it. See it as another filter....like a no reply even though you can see they're online and your message from a few days back is still unread. Delete it and then it's not a visual knife. |
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