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"You're either a friend or a fuck..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it all depends on the situation or individual, I could be friends with a Woman and still like to/have sex with her or be friends with a couple and like to/have sex with her as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've made good friends with several I have met for sex..... A couple of them we are now basically just friends...
A few others are both...even a few I have met family and been introduced to as a friend and introduced them to my sister (who doesn't know fully what I do lol!)
I see no reason why you can't be both....? |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
We have made some very good friends on here and we enjoy the best of both worlds.....we sometimes have sex, we sometimes go shopping or for a meal - we even went to their wedding and have met each other's families 
Granted some met on here are people we just meet for sex but it is the exception rather than the rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alright... curb ball... say, you get on, you have good sex BUT you're not friends?"
Depends on how and where you might meet them .... 
If it were someone I might see at a club then I might put them in that category 
If it were someone that I met socially outside of a "meet" or club then they'd probably be friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say it depends why you're here. We find we can be friends with those we fuck "
And be friends with those we don't fuck as well ... Can't see the two are exclusive .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alright... curb ball... say, you get on, you have good sex BUT you're not friends?"
Define 'friends'... what might be a sexy acquaintance to some may be a friend to another. For me I don't play with people unless we like each other and I don't do 'one offs' I have found I have a nice circle of real solid friends ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to like someone to fuck them also. We don't have to be best mates or anything, but I need to be able to enjoy their company beyond the shagging."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alright... curb ball... say, you get on, you have good sex BUT you're not friends?
Define 'friends'... what might be a sexy acquaintance to some may be a friend to another. For me I don't play with people unless we like each other and I don't do 'one offs' I have found I have a nice circle of real solid friends ..."
I have (had i think its been 6 months now) a regular meet that was walk in get naked fuck like rabbits get showered dressed get told not to leave my phone behind.
Took me 5 meets to realise i didnt know her name |
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My ex said I was sick to fuck my friends from here yet was fine that he wanted to fuck friends on here when he was with his wife! Double standards spring to mind! At least with friends they know my boundaries, have mutual respect and trust! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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I met quite a few people from the site, the forum and the clubs
Some are now friends who I have sex with too. Whether that friendship can survive in the absence of sex is something I don't know yet. However, the sex is a small part of the weekends spent together, albeit, it is a very enjoyable part |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alright... curb ball... say, you get on, you have good sex BUT you're not friends?
Depends on how and where you might meet them ....
If it were someone I might see at a club then I might put them in that category
If it were someone that I met socially outside of a "meet" or club then they'd probably be friends "
But even the club encounter I would class as a friend of sorts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get a strange satisfaction from fucking people I hate. "
There's a couple of women I'd quite like to hate fuck.... I'd find it immensely satisfying..!! |
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"I have to like someone to fuck them also. We don't have to be best mates or anything, but I need to be able to enjoy their company beyond the shagging."
This is true, which is why I prefer a social first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a hate fuck? And why is it satisfying? 
It sounds awful  "
I'm wracking my brains trying to figure out if someone ever hate fucked me without me realising at the time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get friend zoned
not even if I had to friend zone someone to win the lottery (ok maybe the lottery but with the money I could unfriendzone you and run away )"
Haha, it happens to me all them time. I'm "too nice" apparently... I need to learn to be a bitch.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a hate fuck? And why is it satisfying?
It sounds awful
I'm wracking my brains trying to figure out if someone ever hate fucked me without me realising at the time!"
Oh god. That really isn't my bag either. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"What's a hate fuck? And why is it satisfying?
It sounds awful
I'm wracking my brains trying to figure out if someone ever hate fucked me without me realising at the time!"
I'm fairly sure I've experienced it and even more without the sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer just to fuck them and keep it as that. Bodybuilding is a busy life style, so that comes first
Shag, good to see you are safe and not lost in the gas cloud over Penge.
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Thanks yes, that gas cloud was on the other side of penge so I was fine, but yeah that street have always had some kind of problems with gas leaks x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a hate fuck? And why is it satisfying?
It sounds awful
I'm wracking my brains trying to figure out if someone ever hate fucked me without me realising at the time!"
Usually hate fuck doesnt mean you hate the person but you are letting out all the anger/annoyance that you may hold towards them (or anyone).
So rough and brutal usual |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"What's a hate fuck? And why is it satisfying?
It sounds awful
I'm wracking my brains trying to figure out if someone ever hate fucked me without me realising at the time!
Usually hate fuck doesnt mean you hate the person but you are letting out all the anger/annoyance that you may hold towards them (or anyone).
So rough and brutal usual "
I call them angry fucks. Not brutal but usually rough. Sometimes its just what I need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never done it but toy mind it's someone you don't like but find very attractive and would like to give them a really good hammering and take all your frustration out on them.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's a hate fuck? And why is it satisfying?
It sounds awful
I'm wracking my brains trying to figure out if someone ever hate fucked me without me realising at the time!
Usually hate fuck doesnt mean you hate the person but you are letting out all the anger/annoyance that you may hold towards them (or anyone).
So rough and brutal usual
I call them angry fucks. Not brutal but usually rough. Sometimes its just what I need."
I knoe a girl who likes it like brutal R word kinda rough. (Not really my thing) but there is something strangely erotic in watching the pain on thier face with every thrust.
I dont know if its sadism or apreciating the pain they're suffering for your pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never done it but toy mind it's someone you don't like but find very attractive and would like to give them a really good hammering and take all your frustration out on them...."
That's 'to my mind'.... Careless.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never done it but toy mind it's someone you don't like but find very attractive and would like to give them a really good hammering and take all your frustration out on them....
That's 'to my mind'.... Careless...."
I assure you, there's nothing careless about it. It's quite intentional. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get a strange satisfaction from fucking people I hate. "
Lol same here. Sometimes a nasty fuck is good. Leave your mark on them before you leave and that's it. See ya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sensible attitude to Fab or a tad cynical?
What do you mean?
I keep friends and fucking separate. I don't fuck friends. "
I would have thought we are talking about the people we meet through Swinging? People who you meet, like, maybe fuck but then become friends? And on the 'vanilla' side fro example I have no intention of trying it on with a certain lady I know as she isn't a Swinger although we are terrific friends and have great laughs together.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex said I was sick to fuck my friends from here yet was fine that he wanted to fuck friends on here when he was with his wife! Double standards spring to mind! At least with friends they know my boundaries, have mutual respect and trust!"
Sounds like a right hypocritical twunt |
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"I have to like someone to fuck them also. We don't have to be best mates or anything, but I need to be able to enjoy their company beyond the shagging."
Then over time and repeat meets we can become friends. Some of our socials have stayed as socials because in the flesh they've either said or done something that has changed our opinion of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sensible attitude to Fab or a tad cynical?
What do you mean?
I keep friends and fucking separate. I don't fuck friends.
I would have thought we are talking about the people we meet through Swinging? People who you meet, like, maybe fuck but then become friends? And on the 'vanilla' side fro example I have no intention of trying it on with a certain lady I know as she isn't a Swinger although we are terrific friends and have great laughs together...."
Doesn't matter where I met them. If we are 'friends' it just doesn't work for me. I don't fuck friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is a hate fuck?
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I've had this before, it's like you can't stand each other but you have such a sexual connection you just want to fuck each others brains out |
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"What is a hate fuck?
I've had this before, it's like you can't stand each other but you have such a sexual connection you just want to fuck each others brains out "
I've just looked it up on urban dictionary, I don't hate anyone and the people I really don't like I'm certainly not going to be fucking
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"I get friend zoned
not even if I had to friend zone someone to win the lottery (ok maybe the lottery but with the money I could unfriendzone you and run away )
Haha, it happens to me all them time. I'm "too nice" apparently... I need to learn to be a bitch. "
Please meet me before you become a batch. |
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"I get friend zoned
not even if I had to friend zone someone to win the lottery (ok maybe the lottery but with the money I could unfriendzone you and run away )
Haha, it happens to me all them time. I'm "too nice" apparently... I need to learn to be a bitch. "
No I disagree,this thing of being a bitch or the treat them mean stuff is so 2015 the new face of fab is the loving caring people,we really should get together and become the poster children for FAB2016 and beyond!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get friend zoned
not even if I had to friend zone someone to win the lottery (ok maybe the lottery but with the money I could unfriendzone you and run away )
Haha, it happens to me all them time. I'm "too nice" apparently... I need to learn to be a bitch.
No I disagree,this thing of being a bitch or the treat them mean stuff is so 2015 the new face of fab is the loving caring people,we really should get together and become the poster children for FAB2016 and beyond!!!!"
I'm with you on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've made good friends with several I have met for sex..... A couple of them we are now basically just friends...
A few others are both...even a few I have met family and been introduced to as a friend and introduced them to my sister (who doesn't know fully what I do lol!)
I see no reason why you can't be both....?"
Friends with benefits. Both sounds just fine. |
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I think there are multiple categories for myself and others here. People I don't know but admire, usually from the forums - potentially nothing sexual. And various permutations of contacts, friends, fbs, potential shags etc. My world usually has many shades, rather than black or white. |
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