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Escalating from "you must be a lesbian"
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By *lighty1 OP Woman
over a year ago
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OK, all women have heard it. A man tries to chat us up down the pub, we say we don't fancy him, and he says 'you must be a lesbian'. Fab's 1-step up from 'you must be a lesbian' is 'are you pre-op or post op?' I mean seriously????? Do Fab's men really think that we find it insulting when they speculate about our sexuality or gender identity? Or was he expecting me to bare my breasts on cam, to prove that they are real? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"OK, all women have heard it. A man tries to chat us up down the pub, we say we don't fancy him, and he says 'you must be a lesbian'. Fab's 1-step up from 'you must be a lesbian' is 'are you pre-op or post op?' I mean seriously????? Do Fab's men really think that we find it insulting when they speculate about our sexuality or gender identity? Or was he expecting me to bare my breasts on cam, to prove that they are real?"
I usually hear, "must be a Dyke"
Reverse psychology from them; they think it works. I would have told him that I am f-to-m which went horribly wrong; next question  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
My personal favourite from ages ago from a now UNLOS user when I failed to respond to his first message was along the lines of 'fuck you, you ain't all that'. Point 1, I have never claimed to be 'all that', whatever that is. Point 2, he signed off his message with kisses and attached a face pic. Force of habit, obviously.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was asked - at 5am on here - to go trek to a hotel across town to meet two a Fabber and his 'pal'.
Now his veris said he was a charming lad, he was hot - but maybe after a drink he just turned into an arse, because when I said 'no' he started spouting off that I 'must be a blag profile then' and 'good luck perving over everyone's pics. Tosser! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From a (hopefully 'real') man's point of view this is a pathetic and childish thing to happen. No man is irresistible to every single woman and some blokes out there need to accept a 'no' with good grace. I find it highly embarrassing and irritating when I read of men having stooped so low - and i'm willing to bet there are plenty of other males who would say the same. I've had my fair share of 'Thanks, but no thanks' replies and always send one further message appreciating the fact that the lady has taken the trouble to reply in the first place and wishing her the very best. Manners cost nothing fellas!  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I was asked - at 5am on here - to go trek to a hotel across town to meet two a Fabber and his 'pal'.
Now his veris said he was a charming lad, he was hot - but maybe after a drink he just turned into an arse, because when I said 'no' he started spouting off that I 'must be a blag profile then' and 'good luck perving over everyone's pics. Tosser! "
You ain't seen nuffing yet
I have gone from the "most amazing, sexy and attractive woman" to a "stupid, fat, ole ugly cow" in under a minute. Try beat that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was asked - at 5am on here - to go trek to a hotel across town to meet two a Fabber and his 'pal'.
Now his veris said he was a charming lad, he was hot - but maybe after a drink he just turned into an arse, because when I said 'no' he started spouting off that I 'must be a blag profile then' and 'good luck perving over everyone's pics. Tosser!
You ain't seen nuffing yet
I have gone from the "most amazing, sexy and attractive woman" to a "stupid, fat, ole ugly cow" in under a minute. Try beat that "
Wow! You are good!
Haha I've had similar with the added 'slag' a few times.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Charming chaps and gals. I wonder if these are the fabbers who moan that no one meets - the site is a joke etc.
Treat people as you want to be treated and you usually reap the rewards. |
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My spitbackers tend to gravitate towards my race ("Slitty-eyed bitch"), or my size ("Why don't you go eat a burger from maccy d's")
Funny thing is, I thought that second suggestion was a brilliant one. So I did. Lol.
The things that guys think are insulting on this site... Fat is a body type, not an insult.  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My spitbackers tend to gravitate towards my race ("Slitty-eyed bitch"), or my size ("Why don't you go eat a burger from maccy d's")
Funny thing is, I thought that second suggestion was a brilliant one. So I did. Lol.
The things that guys think are insulting on this site... Fat is a body type, not an insult. lol"
How lovely of them. I've been lucky not to have come across any of these charmers but it does beg the question why they think that sort of response is warranted. Does it really get them anything but reported and blocked? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My spitbackers tend to gravitate towards my race ("Slitty-eyed bitch"), or my size ("Why don't you go eat a burger from maccy d's")
Funny thing is, I thought that second suggestion was a brilliant one. So I did. Lol.
The things that guys think are insulting on this site... Fat is a body type, not an insult. lol"
shows people's true colours when they spouting racist crap. Can't stand that. I had a woman call me a scuzy Muslim because I couldn't come round when she was free but I was working?? Wtf I had already met this woman too |
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"shows people's true colours when they spouting racist crap. Can't stand that. I had a woman call me a scuzy Muslim because I couldn't come round when she was free but I was working?? Wtf I had already met this woman too "
What the FUCK?! That's well out of order! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv had a woman say to me I must be gay because I wasn't interested lol I think she had a swollen ego, no man can resist me an all that  "
The girl who i lost my virginity to asked me if i was gay....during sex...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone told me Norwich were shit
Best insult ever 
That is an insult?
No, not really. It made me that someone would think I'd get upset over that
They are shit "
Insulting me by PM is one thing. Insulting me on the forums is another  |
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"Someone told me Norwich were shit
Best insult ever
That is an insult?
No, not really. It made me that someone would think I'd get upset over that
They are shit
Insulting me by PM is one thing. Insulting me on the forums is another "
I always thought NORWICH stood for Nickers Off Ready Wench, I'm Coming Home.
But what do I know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv had a woman say to me I must be gay because I wasn't interested lol I think she had a swollen ego, no man can resist me an all that
The girl who i lost my virginity to asked me if i was gay....during sex...
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What were you doing to her?  |
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