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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I feel like you gotta be spiderman, superman and batman all at once to get some respect on fab. Lol
I guess for you , respect is the word 'yes' ??"
No just a simple reply will do it |
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over a year ago
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"I always thought respect was earned. Give it out and you'll get it back
I have been very respectful. In fact I feel like I'm very nice to people "
Not being funny mate but these threads don't help  |
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over a year ago
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"Sometimes I feel like you gotta be spiderman, superman and batman all at once to get some respect on fab. Lol
I guess for you , respect is the word 'yes' ??
No just a simple reply will do it "
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"Sometimes I feel like you gotta be spiderman, superman and batman all at once to get some respect on fab. Lol
I guess for you , respect is the word 'yes' ??
No just a simple reply will do it "
Now I understand.
People don't answer your messages and so you feel disrespected.
Just accept that you've done your part and then just sit back and wait and wait and ..wait and ......... wait but don't feel disprespected. |
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"Sometimes I feel like you gotta be spiderman, superman and batman all at once to get some respect on fab. Lol
I guess for you , respect is the word 'yes' ??
No just a simple reply will do it
Thought it might be about replies. Read the FAQs and it explains all"
We finally got to the point of the thread.....took a while. |
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Right op.
Your profile is fine, your a nice looking guy.
You've been here three months and had a meet.
Now the negatives.
If you think everyone you message is going to reply your going to be disappointed, if you get a no reply take it they are not interested its not showing lack of respect.
Look at how you message people, try changing what you say or how you do it.
Tweek it a bit. It can take people a little while to find out what works for them.
As shag will say you need patience, but if you want to be here for the long haul you've got to try different ideas and different approaches.
You've also found the forums which can be a positive or negative depending on what you post and how you come across.
In the last two days you've started two of my pet hate threads, this one and one asking on what people think of mixed race guys.
Don't use your colour as a positive or negative just be you as a person and stop feeling entitled.
Now you can either ignore what I've said. Go away and sulk for a bit or take it in and start your next post afresh.
People soon forget what people post and it doesn't take much to turn things around on the forums.
Read a few threads see which interest you and join in .
Good luck
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"Right op.
Your profile is fine, your a nice looking guy.
You've been here three months and had a meet.
Now the negatives.
If you think everyone you message is going to reply your going to be disappointed, if you get a no reply take it they are not interested its not showing lack of respect.
Look at how you message people, try changing what you say or how you do it.
Tweek it a bit. It can take people a little while to find out what works for them.
As shag will say you need patience, but if you want to be here for the long haul you've got to try different ideas and different approaches.
You've also found the forums which can be a positive or negative depending on what you post and how you come across.
In the last two days you've started two of my pet hate threads, this one and one asking on what people think of mixed race guys.
Don't use your colour as a positive or negative just be you as a person and stop feeling entitled.
Now you can either ignore what I've said. Go away and sulk for a bit or take it in and start your next post afresh.
People soon forget what people post and it doesn't take much to turn things around on the forums.
Read a few threads see which interest you and join in .
Good luck
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"Right op.
Your profile is fine, your a nice looking guy.
You've been here three months and had a meet.
Now the negatives.
If you think everyone you message is going to reply your going to be disappointed, if you get a no reply take it they are not interested its not showing lack of respect.
Look at how you message people, try changing what you say or how you do it.
Tweek it a bit. It can take people a little while to find out what works for them.
As shag will say you need patience, but if you want to be here for the long haul you've got to try different ideas and different approaches.
You've also found the forums which can be a positive or negative depending on what you post and how you come across.
In the last two days you've started two of my pet hate threads, this one and one asking on what people think of mixed race guys.
Don't use your colour as a positive or negative just be you as a person and stop feeling entitled.
Now you can either ignore what I've said. Go away and sulk for a bit or take it in and start your next post afresh.
People soon forget what people post and it doesn't take much to turn things around on the forums.
Read a few threads see which interest you and join in .
Good luck
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Thanks for typing out what everyone was thinking, Diamond. You're a gem.  |
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