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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever found someone on here you know, or think you might know? There's someone on here, a forum user too, who lives dangerously close to where I used to live. I'm not sure if we may know each other or not, but there'a a high chance she may know people i know...
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Have you ever found someone on here you know, or think you might know? There's someone on here, a forum user too, who lives dangerously close to where I used to live. I'm not sure if we may know each other or not, but there'a a high chance she may know people i know...
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If you want to play with each other, then play, and keep your mouths shut!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Youve nothing to worry about, unless your playing away. Oh and now you have posted, theres a good chance she might see it. Or is that the plan?"
Looks like it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Youve nothing to worry about, unless your playing away. Oh and now you have posted, theres a good chance she might see it. Or is that the plan?"
She doesn't know I'm from where she is. I just feel like I should tell her, but maybe that would scare her. I don't know, it feels weird. Obvs discretion is assured. I think I'll just keep it to myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found many close friends I know on here, old neighbours too. Don't know what the fuss is all about as we all adults. They obviously looking for fun times like everyone is when they join fab.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah i found one who lives around the corner claiming to be a single fem aged 25
i know for a fact she is married with three kids and aged 37 i know all of this as i went to school with her hubby and recognised their car and house from some of her photos
blocked before i messaged her and said no more about it what she does will eventually catch up with her but not my place to stir the hornets nest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to block one profile not because I was ashamed but because the photos on the profile were of things that you don't want to see your sister up to.
That day was a dark and uncomfortable day for us both, we can laugh about it now, but at the time it was a bit of a shock to say the least |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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I found myself staring at very good friends of mine in the throes of it on cam once. Seen them previously but they'd been way more discrete. I hadn't realised.
Bit of a shock realising you were staring at your mate's starfish as he's on the job!
I didn't tell them for months and didn't look at their cam again (honest), but eventually, we chatted. |
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"Have you ever found someone on here you know, or think you might know? There's someone on here, a forum user too, who lives dangerously close to where I used to live. I'm not sure if we may know each other or not, but there'a a high chance she may know people i know...
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"Dangerously close?!!"
Dramatic much?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever found someone on here you know, or think you might know? There's someone on here, a forum user too, who lives dangerously close to where I used to live. I'm not sure if we may know each other or not, but there'a a high chance she may know people i know...
"Dangerously close?!!"
Dramatic much?!! "
Well tis the forum you know we
like the drama  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you ever found someone on here you know, or think you might know? There's someone on here, a forum user too, who lives dangerously close to where I used to live. I'm not sure if we may know each other or not, but there'a a high chance she may know people i know...
"Dangerously close?!!"
Dramatic much?!! "
Me? Dramatic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two ancient wise sayings of swinging, passed down the generations. Use them wisely, and you shall be free of worry, my son.
"Plausible Deniability"
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"Mutually-Assured Destruction"
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"I had to block one profile not because I was ashamed but because the photos on the profile were of things that you don't want to see your sister up to.
That day was a dark and uncomfortable day for us both, we can laugh about it now, but at the time it was a bit of a shock to say the least"
I bet!  |
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You know if you type your postcode into search and then within 5 miles it will bring up lots of profiles, I'm sure she isn't the only person that lives "dangerously" close to you. Out of curiosity how's she going to recognise you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know if you type your postcode into search and then within 5 miles it will bring up lots of profiles, I'm sure she isn't the only person that lives "dangerously" close to you. Out of curiosity how's she going to recognise you?
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Where I used to live I had a job that interacted with many of the people there, it was only a small place and everyone knew everyone's business. |
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"You know if you type your postcode into search and then within 5 miles it will bring up lots of profiles, I'm sure she isn't the only person that lives "dangerously" close to you. Out of curiosity how's she going to recognise you?
Where I used to live I had a job that interacted with many of the people there, it was only a small place and everyone knew everyone's business."
you used to walk around headless with your chest out and boxers on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know if you type your postcode into search and then within 5 miles it will bring up lots of profiles, I'm sure she isn't the only person that lives "dangerously" close to you. Out of curiosity how's she going to recognise you?
Where I used to live I had a job that interacted with many of the people there, it was only a small place and everyone knew everyone's business.you used to walk around headless with your chest out and boxers on "
Obviously! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't feel personal shame, however society judges you on everything from what you eat to what you watch on T.V. I can't stand being judged so like to play my cards close to my chest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what I gained a sense of from this thread? There still so much shame and stigma attached to swinging.
Sad really, in this day and age.why only single men say that"
What? What's that got to do with it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever found someone on here you know, or think you might know? There's someone on here, a forum user too, who lives dangerously close to where I used to live. I'm not sure if we may know each other or not, but there'a a high chance she may know people i know...
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It was always our rule, not to meet anyone unless they lived a comfortable distance away. It lessens the chances they know people you know etc. |
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"You know what I gained a sense of from this thread? There still so much shame and stigma attached to swinging.
Sad really, in this day and age.why only single men say that
What? What's that got to do with it?"
Because most married couples want to keep this side of there life private |
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I live in a small town, i have face pictures up. I have no idea how many people have recognised me apart from the odd one that's messaged me to say.
A guy I know very well found me on here we've been friends since we where 12. I did blush when he first messaged me but he was wearing less clothes than me
After a few messages he just said where just friends that no more about each other than we thought.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what I gained a sense of from this thread? There still so much shame and stigma attached to swinging.
Sad really, in this day and age.why only single men say that
What? What's that got to do with it?Because most married couples want to keep this side of there life private"
That bears no relation to my observation. There's a difference between wanting to keep something private or being discrete and my observation about shame and stigma. The stigma attached to swinging is felt across the entire playing field. Though I wonder how much of keeping things 'private' is caused by the stigma that exists?
Your response just came across as a dig at single guys because you chose to single them out when it wasn't necessary.
Anyway, I'm out of this conversation. I have better things to do today than argue pointless semantics with the deck stacked against me. Enjoy your day. |
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"Have you ever found someone on here you know, or think you might know? There's someone on here, a forum user too, who lives dangerously close to where I used to live. I'm not sure if we may know each other or not, but there'a a high chance she may know people i know...
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It's happened to us, a lot. We choose to always block.
We also attended a social and discovered that one of the men there lived very close to us, he would chat in the pub but was always very discreet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play with one of the dads from school - our kids are in the same class. I can't stand his wife so get great joy out of sucking her husbands cock  . Even though it goes against my policy of not playing with married men.
There is also at least one couple on here from school, and a teacher and her husband. And my most recent social meet was with a etcher whose best friend taught my daughter a couple of years ago. Small world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a bit hairy when you in the middle of a lengthy chat and suddenly realise that their on a mobile just up the road yikes.It's safer not to poop on your own doorstep |
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My ex-husband has a couples profile on here with his girlfriend. I only realised after seeing they had viewed my profile so clicked on theirs. The idiots have used her date of birth as profile name & their real names & ages. I blocked them instantly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I play with one of the dads from school - our kids are in the same class. I can't stand his wife so get great joy out of sucking her husbands cock . Even though it goes against my policy of not playing with married men.
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So it doesn't really go against your policy. What a charmer! |
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