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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have never had a woman off this site come round to my house, i have never invited them round, i live in a 2up 2down terraced house, all clean but i think woman can be judgemental so i have only met in clubs, I'm thinking of starting to invite women round, what do you think??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I live in a flat above a shop - they can be as judgemental as they like.

It's my home.

It's safe, comfortable, cosey, clean and well decorated, just as I like it.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I can't be judgemental with the state my house is in right now

although I won't accom until I've sorted it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I have never had a woman off this site come round to my house, i have never invited them round, i live in a 2up 2down terraced house, all clean but i think woman can be judgemental so i have only met in clubs, I'm thinking of starting to invite women round, what do you think??"
what they going to be judgemental about. I live in the same type of house as you.

I'd only judge if somewhere was a pigsty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mines an end terrace on the edge of a council estate. But its bought and its lovely. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as a home is clean then I don't think it's a problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

"
I'm just happy with clean and comfortable notme eryone has the same taste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never have cause its not my house.

That should change this year but im still not sure i will accom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

I'm just happy with clean and comfortable notme eryone has the same taste

Agreed that's just how I like my place.

Pretty much everyone that comes in goes 'oh i didn't expect this' or 'oh isn't it lovely'

In other words 'phew, it's a right shithole outside, thank god you're not a scruff'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clean, tidy and warm...all I'd judge x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I live in a flat above a shop - they can be as judgemental as they like.

It's my home.

It's safe, comfortable, cosey, clean and well decorated, just as I like it."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

I'm just happy with clean and comfortable notme eryone has the same taste

Agreed that's just how I like my place.

Pretty much everyone that comes in goes 'oh i didn't expect this' or 'oh isn't it lovely'

In other words 'phew, it's a right shithole outside, thank god you're not a scruff'

"
the things I get to!d most often is how comfortable /relaxing it is and also that my house is "me" not just from meets but in general so I guess my house must match my personality.

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

As above;

If it's clean and smart( ish) and welcoming, no- one will judge....

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I live in a 1 bed Sally Army flat at present. I'm surrounded by druggies and piss heads, but I have accommodated and would again. Afterall, it gives the perfect opportunity to get the Henry & the Barry out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think I'm going to start to accommodate, cheers guys

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just a tip op as a guy who lives on his own if your planny in having ladies round/stay over it might be nice to have some "ladies" things to put out when they come.

Just a few girly toiletries around for them to use if they have a shower a nice fluffy towel and a packet of sanitary pads hidden for emergencies, not to me but happened to a female friend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a tip op as a guy who lives on his own if your planny in having ladies round/stay over it might be nice to have some "ladies" things to put out when they come.

Just a few girly toiletries around for them to use if they have a shower a nice fluffy towel and a packet of sanitary pads hidden for emergencies, not to me but happened to a female friend.

Wtf!?

Surely most women would be utterly freaked out if a guy had a box of tampons for them?

Or instantly be thinking "so wheres your girlfriend"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and smelling nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a tip op as a guy who lives on his own if your planny in having ladies round/stay over it might be nice to have some "ladies" things to put out when they come.

Just a few girly toiletries around for them to use if they have a shower a nice fluffy towel and a packet of sanitary pads hidden for emergencies, not to me but happened to a female friend.

Wtf!?

Surely most women would be utterly freaked out if a guy had a box of tampons for them?

Or instantly be thinking "so wheres your girlfriend"?"

I think I would yes x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Just a tip op as a guy who lives on his own if your planny in having ladies round/stay over it might be nice to have some "ladies" things to put out when they come.

Just a few girly toiletries around for them to use if they have a shower a nice fluffy towel and a packet of sanitary pads hidden for emergencies, not to me but happened to a female friend.

Wtf!?

Surely most women would be utterly freaked out if a guy had a box of tampons for them?

Or instantly be thinking "so wheres your girlfriend"?"
depends how much the emergency was, I'm sure its something that would be a rare occasion it happened so " most" women wouldn't be freaked out. And I think if there was a hidden girlfriend there would be more evidence. But as I said it was only a suggestion and I know my friend would of been happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mines an end terrace on the edge of a council estate. But its bought and its lovely. X"

Thought you was my wife then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you being serious? This have a dating site but long as your home isn't filthy, why do you think women care what your home is? Untidy is OK to an extent but a filthy house is a turn off. As mentioned, long as a house or flat is clean, I don't mind if you live in a flat or your 2 up and 2 down. Any decent woman wouldn't care either. My ex lived above a shop. Never bothered me and bonus his downstairs "neighbours" were never there during late evenings so quite until I turned up lol

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By *oeinCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

If they judge you for how big your house is....

They're probably not worth a meet...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been to teeny tiny places, very sparsely furnished places,digs,one room in a shared house. I go for the man,not his abode. As long as the rats are friendly and the fleas don't bite I'm fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

The OP's straight...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It wouldn't matter if it was a flat or house so longs clean and tidy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they judge you for how big your house is....

They're probably not worth a meet..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would be concerned if he had steep stairs and the bathroom was on the lower floor.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just a tip op as a guy who lives on his own if your planny in having ladies round/stay over it might be nice to have some "ladies" things to put out when they come.

Just a few girly toiletries around for them to use if they have a shower a nice fluffy towel and a packet of sanitary pads hidden for emergencies, not to me but happened to a female friend.

Wtf!?

Surely most women would be utterly freaked out if a guy had a box of tampons for them?

Or instantly be thinking "so wheres your girlfriend"?"

LOL exactly! women will bring their own. Only thing I don't bring is condoms. Sorry but that's down to you guys to provide. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they judge you for how big your house is....

They're probably not worth a meet...

Everyone knows women are size obsessed

Ever since i got a smaller wallet they want nothing to do with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol"

What else do you need?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

What else do you need? "

People have this weird thing about wanting sofas and chairs.

All mental in my opinion, floors are so comfy

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

People can be judgemental, not just women. If you're ashamed of where you live it will show, be proud of it and don't apologise. If I were single my main priority would be safety followed by cleanliness, property value, size or style wouldn't feature.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm currently decorating...not accommodating at the moment. Had a couple of people come to mine in the past, but I had to be 100% comfortable in their company.

I have to be careful as I have 2 dogs (not friendly). Unsure whether I will once sorted as it's a family home. Having a daughter I'm very protective of her and people invading my personal space. Love the clubs...can see who I please, come home and shut the door behind me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

What else do you need?

People have this weird thing about wanting sofas and chairs.

All mental in my opinion, floors are so comfy "

I think you would be a distraction from worrying where a settee was!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a friend buy me a special bar of carbolic soap especially for his bathroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

The OP's straight...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol"

I've actually been in that situation. The guy had the kitchen but none of it was fitted or plumbed in. Toilet had to be flush by throwing a bucket of water down it lol. Bed was a mattress OK the floor. The guy brought the house to do up. Got it for such a bargain but still yes I admit I was unprepared for how much his house actually needed doing up. Well I guess he did warn me beforehand lol.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I used to accommodate a lot, I don't now.

if you are happy to, go for it and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never have women to my home on a regular basis .usually when I know them well enough to meet out in public I go to theirs

Women don't care about your house . They care that you make them feel safe enough to want to go there

Good tip make sure toilet is clean . And bed is clean, freshly washed sheets dried on the line is the best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

id never go to a club or hotel

and as my home is clean and warm then i never worry what people may say or not say about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks guys really helpful, I'll start in the new year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

What else do you need?

People have this weird thing about wanting sofas and chairs.

All mental in my opinion, floors are so comfy "

Less to clean and so much better for your back. You don't need wardrobes either,a box under the bed is sufficient

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I never have women to my home on a regular basis .usually when I know them well enough to meet out in public I go to theirs

Women don't care about your house . They care that you make them feel safe enough to want to go there

Good tip make sure toilet is clean . And bed is clean, freshly washed sheets dried on the line is the best

No more needs to be said. Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

Haha not that bad it will be a new build.

They're a great design but getting it at the location i want which is perfect means streching my budget to breaking point.

Ahould know more around march/April time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

What else do you need?

People have this weird thing about wanting sofas and chairs.

All mental in my opinion, floors are so comfy "

I know a guy that used to chuck a cum stained blanket on the floor for his 'visitors'.

Proper romantic. Shagging on the floor like swingers did in the olden days.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol"

As long as the sheets are clean and the bathroom - who needs furniture?

As others have said its not the surroundings that matter that much it's the person xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Candles, cushions and co-ordination

That's all ya need

Oh and some subtle lighting

The OP's straight...

But straight men can learn so much from those who graduated with an A* in pillow plumping

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got my mother one side and a randy bitch the other side of me. If ever I have a boy round he comes round during the hours of emmerdale so I know my mother will be in her sitting room round the back of the house!

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

"Thanks guys really helpful, I'll start in the new year

Your pics show parts of your house. It looks fine imho, from what I can see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

Haha not that bad it will be a new build.

They're a great design but getting it at the location i want which is perfect means streching my budget to breaking point.

Ahould know more around march/April time."

May I suggest the Garden of England as your location ? Most areas aren't as expensive as a lot people think.

I love new builds. I wish more people were into them and stop being afraid of timber framed constructions. As a carpenter and trainee construction manager, I can say timber frame new builds are the future. Made very eco friendly these days.

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

If it's clean invite them...I went round somebodies house and he said why don't women like my home? Well I told him it's dirty!! Lol I wasnt invited again but I wouldn't of gone anyway women don't like dirty homes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've got my mother one side and a randy bitch the other side of me. If ever I have a boy round he comes round during the hours of emmerdale so I know my mother will be in her sitting room round the back of the house!"

I love your posts!

Time it when the randy bitch is shagging, her noises will drown yours out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My house is now sparkling

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"My house is now sparkling

Clean! Clean is good. I'm a tad on the CDO side and whilst I'm not in the leagues of germ phobic, there's nothing sexy about a dirty house. Not wanting to sit on the lav without wiping it first or getting into a bed that doesn't have clean sheets.

It's fine when you know someone well enough that they can forgive that you've forgotten to run round with the hoover and definitely don't run your fingers along pictures on the wall in my gaff but you can eat your dinner in the loo!

Clean is a deal breaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an empty house?

If i get the place i want ill end up with a nice house a lovley kitchen and a bed.

And that will be all the furnature ill be able to afford for a few months lol

Haha not that bad it will be a new build.

They're a great design but getting it at the location i want which is perfect means streching my budget to breaking point.

Ahould know more around march/April time.

May I suggest the Garden of England as your location ? Most areas aren't as expensive as a lot people think.

The 4 hour each way commute would be a killer :p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't forget to keep well stocked with toilet paper. I take my own just in case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My house is now sparkling

Clean is a deal breaker for me.

As my regular partner says,I'm here for you. Not to appraise your housework skills.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't forget to keep well stocked with toilet paper. I take my own just in case. "

I always buy packs of 9 haha

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"My house is now sparkling

Clean is a deal breaker for me.

As my regular partner says,I'm here for you. Not to appraise your housework skills. "

Chances are that blokes really wouldn't give a shit. I have a feeling that women in general are fussier about cleanliness. I realise that sounds horribly sexist but it doesn't stop me thinking it.

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By *oddyWoman over a year ago

between havant and chichester

"My house is now sparkling

Clean is a deal breaker for me.

As my regular partner says,I'm here for you. Not to appraise your housework skills.

Chances are that blokes really wouldn't give a shit. I have a feeling that women in general are fussier about cleanliness. I realise that sounds horribly sexist but it doesn't stop me thinking it.

"
psst DG what about the bodies in the wardrobe

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"My house is now sparkling

Clean is a deal breaker for me.

As my regular partner says,I'm here for you. Not to appraise your housework skills.

Chances are that blokes really wouldn't give a shit. I have a feeling that women in general are fussier about cleanliness. I realise that sounds horribly sexist but it doesn't stop me thinking it.

psst DG what about the bodies in the wardrobe

That's a whole other thread!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Don't forget to keep well stocked with toilet paper. I take my own just in case.

I always buy packs of 9 haha"

Haha..gotta love the forums

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

IMO as long as it's clean, that's all most of us would ask for. We would only meet single guys in their own home, so that is a big plus in most people's eyes. We wouldn't be there to look round your home, but to have some fun. Go for it!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clean is the key for me.

If you don't look after your house (in my mind I would have doubts about personal hygiene-I know this doesn't always follow but still), Ie. clean bathroom, bedroom and sheets. I am not expecting a showhome but clean and tidy.

I do actually have a dust allergy so I can always tell if its not because my chest gets tight too!

And my house is by no means spotless by the way, but I always clean before accomodating x

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By *ullbackbuttMan over a year ago

Purton

"It wouldn't matter if it was a flat or house so longs clean and tidy"

Would love to pop round to your place sometime.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been to teeny tiny places, very sparsely furnished places,digs,one room in a shared house. I go for the man,not his abode. As long as the rats are friendly and the fleas don't bite I'm fine

I have a hoofing great house with land but it's a bit of a shithole as its a building site; a work in progress.

I can ask the rats to shower and the fleas only bite if you ask them to

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