Just saw a comment about someone getting a date at their office and it triggered a conversation. So in the interests of satisfying nothing but my nosey streak, a question for singles.
If you met someone who was 'vanilla' non-swinger and you clicked (properly, not just being horny), would you:
A) Introduce then to the swinging scene?
B) Give up Swinging?
C) Not tell them and play anyway as it 'did not count'?
D) Break up?
E) -- Fill in your answer here –
Please try and answer as what you would want to do, and also really do.
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"Just saw a comment about someone getting a date at their office and it triggered a conversation. So in the interests of satisfying nothing but my nosey streak, a question for singles.
If you met someone who was 'vanilla' non-swinger and you clicked (properly, not just being horny), would you:
A) Introduce then to the swinging scene?
B) Give up Swinging?
C) Not tell them and play anyway as it 'did not count'?
D) Break up?
E) -- Fill in your answer here –
Please try and answer as what you would want to do, and also really do.
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easy one first - definitely not C
I have tried a totally monogamous vanilla relationship with a man since i started swinging - didnt meet, didnt chat on line, didnt do anything except live a faithful life with him ....but it didnt work . There were other difficulties but i really missed being able to express my sexuality, and i know that contributed to the eventual breakdown.
so ideally - A. I'd hope they would see swinging as an added bonus to the good and strng relationship we had ...and that is likely to mean taking a break from it while the new relationship bedded in ( so to speak ) - but not giving it up.
b- have tried , not sure i would want to again,,but i guess you can never say never
c- no
d - maybe , in the context of the answers to a and b.
good thread..look forward to the replies
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Just saw a comment about someone getting a date at their office and it triggered a conversation. So in the interests of satisfying nothing but my nosey streak, a question for singles.
If you met someone who was 'vanilla' non-swinger and you clicked (properly, not just being horny), would you:
A) Introduce then to the swinging scene?
B) Give up Swinging?
C) Not tell them and play anyway as it 'did not count'?
D) Break up?
E) -- Fill in your answer here –
Please try and answer as what you would want to do, and also really do.
"
Does it count if you done it with the lights off? Bit like eating chocolate I guess??? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Just saw a comment about someone getting a date at their office and it triggered a conversation. So in the interests of satisfying nothing but my nosey streak, a question for singles.
If you met someone who was 'vanilla' non-swinger and you clicked (properly, not just being horny), would you:
A) Introduce then to the swinging scene?
B) Give up Swinging?
C) Not tell them and play anyway as it 'did not count'?
D) Break up?
E) -- Fill in your answer here –
Please try and answer as what you would want to do, and also really do.
Does it count if you done it with the lights off? Bit like eating chocolate I guess???"
Actually... I think if you ARE a swinger and have experienced the pleasure of meeting new people, open-minded genuine people who are comfortable with their bodies and sexuality... it will be hard to go back to vanilla, I d say impossible xx |
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"Just saw a comment about someone getting a date at their office and it triggered a conversation. So in the interests of satisfying nothing but my nosey streak, a question for singles.
If you met someone who was 'vanilla' non-swinger and you clicked (properly, not just being horny), would you:
A) Introduce then to the swinging scene?
B) Give up Swinging?
C) Not tell them and play anyway as it 'did not count'?
D) Break up?
E) -- Fill in your answer here –
Please try and answer as what you would want to do, and also really do.
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Oooo hark you Vanilla !! A sly BDSM boy maybe 
E/ Tell them your off out for milk.
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"Just saw a comment about someone getting a date at their office and it triggered a conversation. So in the interests of satisfying nothing but my nosey streak, a question for singles.
If you met someone who was 'vanilla' non-swinger and you clicked (properly, not just being horny), would you:
A) Introduce then to the swinging scene?
B) Give up Swinging?
C) Not tell them and play anyway as it 'did not count'?
D) Break up?
E) -- Fill in your answer here –
Please try and answer as what you would want to do, and also really do.
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hmmmm a difficult one,A.. i would never introduce a vanilla to swinging, ( wouldnt trust them not to blab) B.. i tried giving up swingling, i lasted 3 days lol
C..i have been unfaithful on numerous occasions,
D. best thing is not to do relationships then u dont have to break up , lol i honestly dont trust myself to ever be faithful, but if i meet a guy i do tell them that.  |
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"Just saw a comment about someone getting a date at their office and it triggered a conversation. So in the interests of satisfying nothing but my nosey streak, a question for singles.
If you met someone who was 'vanilla' non-swinger and you clicked (properly, not just being horny), would you:
A) Introduce then to the swinging scene?
B) Give up Swinging?
C) Not tell them and play anyway as it 'did not count'?
D) Break up?
E) -- Fill in your answer here –
Please try and answer as what you would want to do, and also really do.
hmmmm a difficult one,A.. i would never introduce a vanilla to swinging, ( wouldnt trust them not to blab) B.. i tried giving up swingling, i lasted 3 days lol
C..i have been unfaithful on numerous occasions,
D. best thing is not to do relationships then u dont have to break up , lol i honestly dont trust myself to ever be faithful, but if i meet a guy i do tell them that. "
Ooo gowd thats a question and a half, do you tell? Me well id kind of not tell but im not looking to play mummys and daddys. |
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