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did anyone have a lonely xmas
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Xmas isn't over yet!
However, I spent the run up to Xmas on my own.
Xmas day with mum n dad.
Now spending time alone until Wednesday when I have 4 days work. Most of that will be spent alone.
Then back home next Saturday evening, to spend a number of days alone again.
Do I get lonely? Well, maybe a bit occasionally, but I grew up being a loner.
Sad? No.
What keeps me going?
It's better to spend Christmas alone than with the wrong person.
I've not had to worry about a wife frantically sending text messages, grinning, laughing, and then telling me "Oh, it's just random from my mate"
I've not had to worry about leaving the bog seat up.
I've not had to worry about offending the in laws.
I've watched what I want, listened to what I want.
I washed up when I was ready to wash up.
Cud ave bin wurse! |
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over a year ago
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My first Xmas on my own
Got up at 10. Had a bath
Went back to bed at 2 till 6
Watched TV and got slightly tipsy
Today ... Doing the same
Felt very lonely.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i worked for a couple of hours early,then back home, into pjs,cooked a nice meal,cracked open some bubbly...i work with people all day, live with 2 others,so im really enjoying having 3 days of solitude! i enjoy my own company |
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I had a social with a really lovely guy last night, broke all my own rules but glad I did.
Today Ive been for a walk and seen a few people, tonight I might go to bed early and who knows what tomorrow will bring |
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"Had a shit christmas all alone, not even my daughter bothered coming round or wishing me a happy christmas
You could of gone to see her"
been trying to contact her for months she doesn't want to know me anymore for some unknown reason |
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over a year ago
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I was with someone but still felt alone. That's me though. Been through some life changing times last couple of months. Hopefully next year will be better  |
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over a year ago
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"We had a great Xmas was quiet but lovely, I think Christmas is what you make it. Just because you on your own doesn't mean Xmas has to be miserable!"
Easy to say if you're not on your own. Hard if it's the first one for anyone if they lost a loved one in the year for example. |
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over a year ago
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Well I wasnt alone .. But with one in bed very very sick it was a good morning but lonely evening..
It's hard sometimes but I get lonely days that are not Xmas.. be strong and fablous |
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"We had a great Xmas was quiet but lovely, I think Christmas is what you make it. Just because you on your own doesn't mean Xmas has to be miserable!
Easy to say if you're not on your own. Hard if it's the first one for anyone if they lost a loved one in the year for example."
I've had plenty of christmas' on my own before meeting Mr and that's how I learned that Christmas is what you make it, for those who really don't like being alone at Christmas they could easily do some charity work during the holiday season or visit elderly neighbours etc! |
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"We had a great Xmas was quiet but lovely, I think Christmas is what you make it. Just because you on your own doesn't mean Xmas has to be miserable!
Easy to say if you're not on your own. Hard if it's the first one for anyone if they lost a loved one in the year for example.
I've had plenty of christmas' on my own before meeting Mr and that's how I learned that Christmas is what you make it, for those who really don't like being alone at Christmas they could easily do some charity work during the holiday season or visit elderly neighbours etc!"
And for the ones who have a lost a loved one during the year? Do you really think they would want to do that? |
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"I was with someone but still felt alone. That's me though. Been through some life changing times last couple of months. Hopefully next year will be better "
it will be next year - was thnking about you xxx |
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over a year ago
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Ive got 2 kids and it still didnt feel like christmas this year...i dont know why...maybe needed some snow so i could of got the sledge out and pushed them down a hill. Ho ho ho |
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