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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you even care?!
Don't read them if you don't wanna meet them!
My profile is long and I'll only meet those who have bothered to read it all. Acts as a good filter! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you even care?!
Don't read them if you don't wanna meet them!
My profile is long and I'll only meet those who have bothered to read it all. Acts as a good filter!"
Agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the problem?
If you're not the type who would be interested enough, or serious enough to read my profile, then you're not likely to be someone that I'd want to meet!
If you can't be bothered, then just pass by, but don't waste time moaning about it...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you even care?!
Don't read them if you don't wanna meet them!
My profile is long and I'll only meet those who have bothered to read it all. Acts as a good filter!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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I have a filter... people who can't be bothered to read my profile probably wouldn't be interesting to me! Hey look, the filter works! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? |
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"What's the problem?
If you're not the type who would be interested enough, or serious enough to read my profile, then you're not likely to be someone that I'd want to meet!
If you can't be bothered, then just pass by, but don't waste time moaning about it...
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It really is this simple folks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mines not very long..but still no-one can be bothered to read it...as for others, i don't mind long ones..at least i have a better idea of what someone is looking for! |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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If we are interested in meeting them then yes, if not then why bother simple really.
Look at the photos, check the "Looking For" section if we can tick all the boxes then back to the top and read the whole thing just to make sure there is nothing which might rule us out or put us off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the problem?
If you're not the type who would be interested enough, or serious enough to read my profile, then you're not likely to be someone that I'd want to meet!
If you can't be bothered, then just pass by, but don't waste time moaning about it...
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this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? "
Too true!
If certain people worked out that the female mind needs turning on first, perhaps they'd get more meets.
And so this goes on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? "
Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It makes more sense to me for someone to take 3 minutes to read what someone is looking for.. Or see if that person is what they are looking for... Rather then play ping pong messages trying to establish it.... Surely? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have a profile that explained what I was looking for etc .. With pictures etc..
IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE!sorry about the shouting but I her the same messages now than I did before 
No I don't feel special lol  |
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" I have a filter... people who can't be bothered to read my profile probably wouldn't be interesting to me! Hey look, the filter works!"
Ditto...... Oh, and why would I be interested in someone who hasn't got the staying power to read a longer profile? This little sport requires cerebral effort as much, if not more, as the physical aspects.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think the ratio has got anything to do with it. I'd have a meet every night of the week if there were enough dudes out there who are able to engage me! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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So that those who don't meet my criteria, don't waste their time and my time writing to me |
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By *T Shaba OP Man
over a year ago
London |
If someone likes you enough to want to get in your knickers they'll do or say anything you want to hear including skipping most of the stories and find the heading you've asked for.
It ain't no rocket science to work out the rest.
Are there better ways to filter. |
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Some people like to write long profiles: some are interesting, some are not.
Some like to read them, some don't.
Some like to write short profiles; some like them, some don't.
It's up to people how they use the site.
Personally I like a profile with something interesting, long or short, if it catches my eye;
Not long ago I read a fantastic profile; quite long, but intelligent, very witty, very intruiging; and it gave me the opportunity to write an interesting message that referred to it.
The lady turned out to be one of the most intelligent, interesting and intruiging ( and sexy) women I have met in a long time.
A good profile gives a guy a chance to make his own " opening message" interesting. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women "
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone likes you enough to want to get in your knickers they'll do or say anything you want to hear including skipping most of the stories and find the heading you've asked for.
It ain't no rocket science to work out the rest.
Are there better ways to filter. "
I think you're mistaking me - and a lot of the women here - for idiots.
I can tell when someone has read my profile. And can tell when they've fired a desperate message across. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have "
Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have "
Agreed - the ratio only means the better ones stand out a hell of a lot more. |
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By *T Shaba OP Man
over a year ago
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Apparently men are far outnumbered and a pussy has an edge over cock in terms of demand.
If one-liners ain't it why are funnymen raking it in. 'I'll be back' is world-wide anthem.
Surely 'humour me' ought to have a prominent place in the Fab world. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think the ratio has got anything to do with it. I'd have a meet every night of the week if there were enough dudes out there who are able to engage me!"
That is right as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out."
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!"
But one thing is for sure, here are more men than women, just see who is online near you and wanna meet. |
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"If someone likes you enough to want to get in your knickers they'll do or say anything you want to hear including skipping most of the stories and find the heading you've asked for.
It ain't no rocket science to work out the rest.
Are there better ways to filter.
I think you're mistaking me - and a lot of the women here - for idiots.
I can tell when someone has read my profile. And can tell when they've fired a desperate message across."
Definitely this.....often get an initial message which makes a reference to the profile...great...continues by asking a question...."it's in our profile", comes the response....then another question "also in the profile"...losing interest now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!But one thing is for sure, here are more men than women, just see who is online near you and wanna meet."
yes, and it is far from 500 to 1! stupid lazy excuse. |
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"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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. How long does it take to read a profile that is lengthy . ? Probably about two minutes maximum.
If someone cannot be bothered to write a detailed and informed profile , I assume that they are fakes . There are plenty of good well written profiles to choose from without having to consider those who cannot make the effort to write a decent one .
My is lengthy because I prefer members to know exactly the type of person that I am and whether I am likely to fulfill their criteria for a meet .
If someone cannot be bothered to read a profile , do they really want to meet anyone anyway or do they just live in a fantasy world . ?
I have lots of interests outside fab and prefer to use my profile as an effective marketing tool.
If it was only a line stating that I will fill it in later. I do not think it would be of interest to anyone . |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!"
Exactly!
I am sick and tired of men contacting me saying 'I love your profile and pics' when they SFA themselves, they then get surprised when I respond with, pity you didn't extend me the same courtesy and then proceed to ignore them.
If you can't be arsed having a decent profile and pictures to let me know something about you that might just pique my interest then I cannot be arsed to converse any further with you, quite simple really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!But one thing is for sure, here are more men than women, just see who is online near you and wanna meet.
yes, and it is far from 500 to 1! stupid lazy excuse."
It is not an excuse, just an observation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!But one thing is for sure, here are more men than women, just see who is online near you and wanna meet.
yes, and it is far from 500 to 1! stupid lazy excuse.It is not an excuse, just an observation."
a completely inaccurrate observation..which is constantly used as a very feeble excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!But one thing is for sure, here are more men than women, just see who is online near you and wanna meet.
yes, and it is far from 500 to 1! stupid lazy excuse.It is not an excuse, just an observation.
a completely inaccurrate observation..which is constantly used as a very feeble excuse."
As we wont agree, lets just disagree to agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!But one thing is for sure, here are more men than women, just see who is online near you and wanna meet.
yes, and it is far from 500 to 1! stupid lazy excuse.It is not an excuse, just an observation.
a completely inaccurrate observation..which is constantly used as a very feeble excuse.As we wont agree, lets just disagree to agree."
predictably inane... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Exactly!
I am sick and tired of men contacting me saying 'I love your profile and pics' when they SFA themselves, they then get surprised when I respond with, pity you didn't extend me the same courtesy and then proceed to ignore them.
If you can't be arsed having a decent profile and pictures to let me know something about you that might just pique my interest then I cannot be arsed to converse any further with you, quite simple really. "
Well said - this is just how it is!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The difference between men and woman! Woman need their brains to be engaged and men think a one line profile and a cock pics is enough.....
Needless to say it is more men that start threads about not getting meets...I wonder what that says? Could one reason be the ratio? 500 men to 1 woman. That is why we almost never see threads like these by women
Just because they out number the women on here doesn't mean anything! It just means they join thinking they need to make very little effort, and then end up getting very frustrated, it always surprises me about the lack of intelligence levels some have Good point, I guess that is why women expect men to make effort to stand out.
i would think both men and women need to make some effort to find anyone compatible on here..be a bit pointless if neither did! and the ratio is far from what you constantly claim! thats just a convenient excuse for men on here!But one thing is for sure, here are more men than women, just see who is online near you and wanna meet.
yes, and it is far from 500 to 1! stupid lazy excuse.It is not an excuse, just an observation.
a completely inaccurrate observation..which is constantly used as a very feeble excuse."
agreed - I wish there were more people that were worth meeting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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I have a long profile!
No-one has to read it!
Quite a lot of people have messaged me to tell me it made them giggle a lot! That'll do for me!! |
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"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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i have 2 versions of my profile the short version and the directors cut so people can choose whichever one they want to read..if someone interests me I'll read all of their profile no matter how long... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care how long someone's profile is. If I am interested then I will want to know more, if I'm bored by the first few lines I stop reading.
It's very simple.
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My profile is long and hopefully entertaining.
As a single man, I need to stand out and 'sell' myself.
If I read a profile with no effort put in, either the writer is lazy, or gets so many messages they don't need to try. Neither encourages me to write, though I might wink. |
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"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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I also struggle to understand how people with a three or four like profile and no pictures thing they'll progress on this site.
or... why people who've been on the site for just a few weeks and had no success at all feel qualified to educate the more successful folk on how best to operate their profiles ?
But that's just me.
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"Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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In a similar vein, I remember being disappointed to discover that it wasn't a particularly long way to Tipperary. Not only is Inverness further, but Ryan Air do really cheap flights to Shannon, so you can be there in no time at all.
I can't say we read all of them, sometimes we don't need to, but I do find it easier to work out if we'll gel with someone who has a longer profile. It saves a lot of to-and-froing via pm.
And could you imagine the frustration when one discovers that they're the sort of person who finds foreplay a bit long and bothersome too...
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"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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You appear to have had no meets. I wonder if there's any correlation between reading profiles and success ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the problem?
If you're not the type who would be interested enough, or serious enough to read my profile, then you're not likely to be someone that I'd want to meet!
If you can't be bothered, then just pass by, but don't waste time moaning about it...
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This ^
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do people think they need to tell all their life stories on their profiles.
Can anyone honestly say they read all posts that are long like from here to Timbuktu?
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Please, please, please, DON'T read my profile |
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By *T Shaba OP Man
over a year ago
London |
I do read profiles. I sometimes just get bored if it goes on and on. I don't think there's a correlation between reading them and getting successful meets. Not necessarily as I've only just joined 3 weeks and I've had interesting chats.
I've actually had I meet which turned out to be more words than action and had to block rather than verify.
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
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If we are looking to meet some one we do read the whole profile and all the Verie's...
Although we are less interested in the pictures we have a peek at the ones on their profile. We are not at all interested in face pictures...
So the text in people's profile is of interest to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine the success rate of users who refuse to read comprehensively -
'Hi. Your profile somewhat interested me. I read some of it. Fancy a fuck?'"
This is pretty much what I get in my inbox the majority of the time. Means I can just fly through deleting it all.
Aside from being hot, having a lengthy profile himself - the guy I'm meeting off here tomorrow was only one of two that day who'd obviously read mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Imagine the success rate of users who refuse to read comprehensively -
'Hi. Your profile somewhat interested me. I read some of it. Fancy a fuck?'
This is pretty much what I get in my inbox the majority of the time. Means I can just fly through deleting it all.
Aside from being hot, having a lengthy profile himself - the guy I'm meeting off here tomorrow was only one of two that day who'd obviously read mine."
Tbh I don't worry too much if people haven't read all mine Hun. It's there for a giggle more than anything else! I meet very little off fab anyway and I'm a fussy bugger - even if they can recite my profile word for word it won't get them a meet if I don't find them attractive (like every other woman I guess) so it's there to amuse really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's pointless to constantly add to the dos and don'ts in a profile just because a message has been received that has annoyed the profile owner.
If we all added an extra warning to our profiles to stop the naff messages we can receive, then the server wouldn't cope with the strain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a long span of attention. I can read a couple of lines or a short paragraph and know I want to chat to a person. I'm not an imbecile and I'm fairly intelligent; I don't need a whole book to know I want to talk to someone. The blurb can be enough for me. |
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over a year ago
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"I think it's pointless to constantly add to the dos and don'ts in a profile just because a message has been received that has annoyed the profile owner.
If we all added an extra warning to our profiles to stop the naff messages we can receive, then the server wouldn't cope with the strain. "
I've seen so many profiles that are all demands and reasons they block someone,usually women or couples profiles. |
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over a year ago
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"I think it's pointless to constantly add to the dos and don'ts in a profile just because a message has been received that has annoyed the profile owner.
If we all added an extra warning to our profiles to stop the naff messages we can receive, then the server wouldn't cope with the strain. "
Ha, had to laugh at this as I'm definitely guilty!
Still, it's for my own amusement most of the time and doesn't seem to put off the right kind of people I want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We can tell by pics if we interested in meeting
shit or no pics, and not going even bother reading the profile "
Same here and I'll never bother to ask for pics of none are visible. Not sure who would either. |
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If someone has bothered to invest their efforts into a longer profile then it can be a goldmine for you. It seems short sighted to not read and re_iew it.
You meet for a social or sexual encounter and it may be wasted time - if only you'd spent a couple more minutes reading and reflecting on what was handed to you on a plate via the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuts out all the small talk, then the ping pong messages, ours is about 3 paragraphs long and still get a few remarks.......
Maybe we she should have worded it......
Cpl lookn 4 fun tyms Wi othr cpls. .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you even care?!
Don't read them if you don't wanna meet them!
My profile is long and I'll only meet those who have bothered to read it all. Acts as a good filter!"
Totally agree !
We prefer to know as much as poss abt anyone we meet and expect them to want to know the same abt us !
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maybe its just to give u something to moan about, or something to write about on here
long profiles can be interesting .
i get sick of the clichéd bullshit ones that tell u nothing then waffle on about sidney universty. |
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over a year ago
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"Why do you even care?!
Don't read them if you don't wanna meet them!
My profile is long and I'll only meet those who have bothered to read it all. Acts as a good filter!"
This is exactly how I feel. If someone cannot be bothered to read then we're not compatible. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"What's the problem?
If you're not the type who would be interested enough, or serious enough to read my profile, then you're not likely to be someone that I'd want to meet!
If you can't be bothered, then just pass by, but don't waste time moaning about it...
This ^
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Your kind of damned if you do and damned if you don't, you want to have enough information on it to attract the kind of people your looking for and to eliminate some of the bs messages but if you put too much then no one bothers to read it! I personally won't message someone without reading their entire profile but I think I'm in the minority  |
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Capture my mind and you'll get my interest . If you clearly not read a word you get the same effort you put in back from me .My profile so I'll use it way I wish ,if it doesn't work then I'd change it .But as said by others it works as great filter so leaving as is ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile is long and I couldn't give a monkeys if someone I don't know doesn't like it!! I've been on here six years and added to it now and again, If someone can't be bothered to read it or take the time to find out what I'm looking for the chances are they are not the kind of person I want to meet anyway. Too many men assume because I am on fab that I'm gagging for sex with anyone and sat waiting, dressed in lingerie, car keys in hand just awaiting their "fancy a fuck" message..... if my profile puts those kind of people off then |
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By *T Shaba OP Man
over a year ago
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After I started this debate; I've started reading profiles. Interesting. You get to have a good idea of what the person wants and can tell if it matches yours so you can eliminate and sift straightaway. Some are just funny.
Thanks guys for your contributions even if you still differ.
Happy swinging all. |
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