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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, this is one of those questions that like a box of active grenades in the forums.
As long as it's consensual and everyone is an making an informed choice - what people's preferences are is between them, their meet and their God. Take care of yourself, don't expect others to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condoms all the time for me. Im such a gent i wear them for the lady while giving me a bj aswell. Im waiting fot them to invent body covers for sex. That body contact while fucking god only knows what you could catch  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"I like the feeling of my cock attached to my body and not hanging off all gangrenous 
I don't think anyone's cock (or nose) has dropped off since the advent of antibiotics."
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms all the time for me. Im such a gent i wear them for the lady while giving me a bj aswell. Im waiting fot them to invent body covers for sex. That body contact while fucking god only knows what you could catch "
Have you seen The Naked Gun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like the feeling of my cock attached to my body and not hanging off all gangrenous "
See that's gangrene...that's not an std, your a bit mixed up there fella
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms all the time for me. Im such a gent i wear them for the lady while giving me a bj aswell. Im waiting fot them to invent body covers for sex. That body contact while fucking god only knows what you could catch
Have you seen The Naked Gun? "
No but ill youtube it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too."
I'd say you were PROBABLY in the minority though.
In an ideal world most folk would prefer bare
(I've nothing to back that up with but in my experience most would happily dump the rubber) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too."
Do you like the taste of rubber aswell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got fucked bare back last two times
I wouldn't broadcast that on here OP....I can hear the thunder of multiple block buttons being hit from here!"
Only from some that use the forums....a teeny tiny percentage of the site. Hardly gonna ruin fab for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too.
Do you like the taste of rubber aswell "
Cherry lube covers the taste very well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too.
I'd say you were PROBABLY in the minority though.
In an ideal world most folk would prefer bare
(I've nothing to back that up with but in my experience most would happily dump the rubber) "
To be honest I can't tell the difference with ordinary condoms. The dimpled ones are great and I don't like semen inside me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too.
I'd say you were PROBABLY in the minority though.
In an ideal world most folk would prefer bare
(I've nothing to back that up with but in my experience most would happily dump the rubber)
To be honest I can't tell the difference with ordinary condoms. The dimpled ones are great and I don't like semen inside me."
...David Seaman the ex-Arsenal Goal keeper? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too.
Do you like the taste of rubber aswell "
Skyns don't taste of rubber |
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"I don't like semen inside me or the feeling of it oozing out afterwards. I prefer it in a condom and in a bin,or over my body. "
I like it over my body as well
Sadly it's only my own spunk these days  |
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Whenever such threads pop up, I always see the disclaimer, "long term PARTNERS ONLY".
Do you know that everybody you think you trust to the highest heavens also has at least one other very trusted person?
This is where the craze becomes a round robin or all-play-all.
And before anyone is tempted to throw in the "we've been together for years" thing, been there, done that, been lucky to come out unscathed. It's a choice we all have to make.
I know for a fact that everybody on here has at least once had unprotected sex with someone other than their long term partners be it off a site like fab or pof or in real life.
We get smarter by the day and hopefully we make smarter choices.  |
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"I know for a fact that everybody on here has at least once had unprotected sex with someone other than their long term partners be it off a site like fab or pof or in real life."
That's a rather sweeping statement don't you think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know for a fact that everybody on here has at least once had unprotected sex with someone other than their long term partners be it off a site like fab or pof or in real life."
Oh do you now....?
I can honesty say that I've had unprotected sex just two times in my life, both times with long term partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too.
I'd say you were PROBABLY in the minority though.
In an ideal world most folk would prefer bare
(I've nothing to back that up with but in my experience most would happily dump the rubber)
To be honest I can't tell the difference with ordinary condoms. The dimpled ones are great and I don't like semen inside me....David Seaman the ex-Arsenal Goal keeper? lol"
Never been a fan of his  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know for a fact that everybody on here has at least once had unprotected sex with someone other than their long term partners be it off a site like fab or pof or in real life."
With all due respect you clearly dont understand the definition of fact... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Russian roulette... oh what fun....
Really? Its a 1 in 6 chance of instant death? "
Apparently the weight of the bullet means that it tends to be in the 3rd or 4th order after spinning, so your probability would depend on the order of turns rather than being a flat 1 in 6 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got fucked bare back last two times
With random strangers - classy "
To be fair I don't think the OP specified whether they were random or long term partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got some special Christmas condoms, they're sage and onion flavoured...and birds want stuffing today.."
Should be able to get condoms for all occasions Christmas ,easter and birthday ones.be fun mind never have they tasted nice . |
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"Whenever such threads pop up, I always see the disclaimer, "long term PARTNERS ONLY".
Do you know that everybody you think you trust to the highest heavens also has at least one other very trusted person?
This is where the craze becomes a round robin or all-play-all.
And before anyone is tempted to throw in the "we've been together for years" thing, been there, done that, been lucky to come out unscathed. It's a choice we all have to make.
I know for a fact that everybody on here has at least once had unprotected sex with someone other than their long term partners be it off a site like fab or pof or in real life.
We get smarter by the day and hopefully we make smarter choices. "
Well you don't know me, you just think you do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These bareback threads always remind me of the the scene in Demolition Man, when Sylvester Stallone is offered sex by Sandra Bullock. "
Not seen it- indulge me? |
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"The lazy mare in me likes condoms because I can lie there in a post-coital-glow and not have to go and get cleaned up!
That's exactly how I feel about it! "
Great way to see it as its very messy otherwise xxx. I only have ever gone bare with long term partners condoms with everyone else xxx |
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too."
Totally agree, Got to be condom, and for a BJ why not? theres plenty can be caught as im sure we all know, not so sure the female variety of protection would be quite so easy to get on with though!  |
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"Whenever such threads pop up, I always see the disclaimer, "long term PARTNERS ONLY".
Do you know that everybody you think you trust to the highest heavens also has at least one other very trusted person?
This is where the craze becomes a round robin or all-play-all.
And before anyone is tempted to throw in the "we've been together for years" thing, been there, done that, been lucky to come out unscathed. It's a choice we all have to make.
I know for a fact that everybody on here has at least once had unprotected sex with someone other than their long term partners be it off a site like fab or pof or in real life.
We get smarter by the day and hopefully we make smarter choices. "
smart enough to make sweeping generalisations..
classic.. |
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"PrEp ???
Pre exposure drug, you take it after having unprotected sex it can stop you from contracting HIV....."
PrEp - a medication system where it's taken in advance of sex that reduces the potential chance of infection to c. 9%
A different med system is in place for when someone has already had sex that's a potential source of infection - but that is not PrEp. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback feels much better... Nothing for me beats the feeling of a cum inside me and that lovely sticky feeling it leaves.
However it's reserved for Mr x I have in the past had moments of madness where lost in the moment I've forgotten as I'm sure most of us have. To be honest till about 8 years ago I never bothered with condoms ...but since my ex passed away and I'm all my kids have I've got extra careful.
I do not like condoms, as even with skyns they mostly feel so different and as you are Ill advised to let a guy cum inside you with one on... I prefer them to cover me..
However if there were no risks. I'd happily have bare more... But till then... Condoms for all casual partners for full sex and definitely no bareback anal with anyone else as its so high risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bareback feels much better... Nothing for me beats the feeling of a cum inside me and that lovely sticky feeling it leaves.
However it's reserved for Mr x I have in the past had moments of madness where lost in the moment I've forgotten as I'm sure most of us have. To be honest till about 8 years ago I never bothered with condoms ...but since my ex passed away and I'm all my kids have I've got extra careful.
I do not like condoms, as even with skyns they mostly feel so different and as you are Ill advised to let a guy cum inside you with one on... I prefer them to cover me..
However if there were no risks. I'd happily have bare more... But till then... Condoms for all casual partners for full sex and definitely no bareback anal with anyone else as its so high risk. "
Is your comment about being ill advised to let men cum inside you with one on related to Skyns or condoms in general ? |
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"Whenever such threads pop up, I always see the disclaimer, "long term PARTNERS ONLY".
Do you know that everybody you think you trust to the highest heavens also has at least one other very trusted person?
This is where the craze becomes a round robin or all-play-all.
And before anyone is tempted to throw in the "we've been together for years" thing, been there, done that, been lucky to come out unscathed. It's a choice we all have to make.
I know for a fact that everybody on here has at least once had unprotected sex with someone other than their long term partners be it off a site like fab or pof or in real life.
We get smarter by the day and hopefully we make smarter choices. "
What bollocks. I've never done bareback in my life. Not even with a long term partner. Not so much of a 'fact' as you thought |
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too.
I'd say you were PROBABLY in the minority though.
In an ideal world most folk would prefer bare
(I've nothing to back that up with but in my experience most would happily dump the rubber) "
I prefer condoms too. Putting it on is the last exciting bit before penetration.
There's only a slight difference in sensation (for me anyway) and it's a tidy clean up. Loathe that wet patch nonsense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shouldn't think anyone prefers the feeling of condoms.
Actually I do. Might be psychological. I like watching a man put one on too.
I'd say you were PROBABLY in the minority though.
In an ideal world most folk would prefer bare
(I've nothing to back that up with but in my experience most would happily dump the rubber)
I prefer condoms too. Putting it on is the last exciting bit before penetration.
There's only a slight difference in sensation (for me anyway) and it's a tidy clean up. Loathe that wet patch nonsense "
This |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Russian roulette... oh what fun....
Really? Its a 1 in 6 chance of instant death?
depends on the pistol/weapon of choice "
The vast majority of revolvers have 6 chambers, some sub compact frames may only have 5, and some small calibre pistols can have more.
But either way, the comparison between bare back sex and Russian roulette is a poor one. The probabilities are vastly different. Russian roulette is generally considered to be 1 in 6, UK STI transmission rates from 2014 are approx 1 in 160.
Russian Roulette, if you lose, is generally expected to result in instant death. The most prevalent STI in the UK is chlamydia, which if you caught, can be cleared up with antibiotics. So the consequences of bareback are very different to Russian roulette.
Don't get me wrong, we prefer to play safe and I believe in everyone playing within their own preferences, but let's not demonise people who play differently from ourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's the aftermath if you do contract a std that should be considered. Like many on here, although I'm a tv I'm also married. If any bisexual with sexually active relationship with unsuspecting partner should contract a std the first thing they will have to do is advise all those they've had sex with. Imagine telling partner they have to get tested! Guess rest you can work out for yourself. Bed in shed springs to mind! |
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"It's the aftermath if you do contract a std that should be considered. Like many on here, although I'm a tv I'm also married. If any bisexual with sexually active relationship with unsuspecting partner should contract a std the first thing they will have to do is advise all those they've had sex with. Imagine telling partner they have to get tested! Guess rest you can work out for yourself. Bed in shed springs to mind! "
Simple answer to that is don't cheat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are always reasons why some one does. Indeed I have married guys who are on here as couple looking under different profile asking to meet. Probably 50% guys on here are looking without wife's knowledge. Think the point was safe sex at all times. |
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