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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about rereading the question and asking it so everybody understands?"
does everybody on here find that if a person has no verifications on fab , that means they have little or no sexual experience and find it hard getting a fuck |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"does everyone on here really believe that if a persons got no veris on here they have no sexual experience and get a fuk ?"
Not sure I understand.
Do you mean they can't get a fuck because of the lack of veri? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does everyone on here really believe that if a persons got no veris on here they have no sexual experience and get a fuk ?"
no but a lot of people hold great stead in veris and won't talk unless you have them but they are generally the people I'm not interested in anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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like it or not, its mainly what people might look for.It can be hard starting out new, but with nice swingers like myself, there are many of us willing to give advice on how to get to meet people..most dont take the advice and will lambaste the site for failing them.
there arent that many sites I know, where a fellow guy will try to help someone get meets by following whats made their own fab journey memorable...
in most cases, unverifieds(all groups), appear to cause much of the reported noshows/timewasters/wankfodderers than those with recent verifications or a few under their belt. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No... But your profile says you don't have experience in swinging and also does suggest you have no experience other than 1 on 1.. And lite else x"
i dont have any experience in swinging and i have always been 1on1
that dont mean i dont have any sexual experience and know all about depth girth stretching a woman wide filling her right to the brim , thrust rhythm and tecnique lol |
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up. "
This. And are as seen in their pics and hopefully not a total nut job. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Took me less than a fortnight, and I live in the sticks  "
im also in the stick and up until recently was with a diff woman every night , sometimes id drop 1 off and go pick another up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
This. And are as seen in their pics and hopefully not a total nut job. "
That's certainly preferable! |
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"Took me less than a fortnight, and I live in the sticks
im also in the stick and up until recently was with a diff woman every night , sometimes id drop 1 off and go pick another up "
Well revert back to meeting women by those means since you're apparently more successful that way then |
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up."
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does everyone on here really believe that if a persons got no veris on here they have no sexual experience and get a fuk ?"
Maybe lack of veris shows that they're fussy? |
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out "
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed "
The 1s who big themselves up, and make crass statements about being the best, make me cringe. Instant turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No... But your profile says you don't have experience in swinging and also does suggest you have no experience other than 1 on 1.. And lite else x
i dont have any experience in swinging and i have always been 1on1
that dont mean i dont have any sexual experience and know all about depth girth stretching a woman wide filling her right to the brim , thrust rhythm and tecnique lol "
I did not imply you do not have adequate experience.. Maybe look at re vamping profile... And be less arrogant and defensive when people give their opinion and advice..... Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed
The 1s who big themselves up, and make crass statements about being the best, make me cringe. Instant turn off."
i dont claim to be the best , a statement like would just be big headed and not in my caractor what so ever ,,,,, i do on the other hand no damb fine i could give you an experience thats unforgettable :P |
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed
The 1s who big themselves up, and make crass statements about being the best, make me cringe. Instant turn off.
i dont claim to be the best , a statement like would just be big headed and not in my caractor what so ever ,,,,, i do on the other hand no damb fine i could give you an experience thats unforgettable :P"
Claiming not to be big headed and ending that statement the way you did was a complete contradiction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed
The 1s who big themselves up, and make crass statements about being the best, make me cringe. Instant turn off.
i dont claim to be the best , a statement like would just be big headed and not in my caractor what so ever ,,,,, i do on the other hand no damb fine i could give you an experience thats unforgettable :P"
The irony in that last post made me guffaw. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed
The 1s who big themselves up, and make crass statements about being the best, make me cringe. Instant turn off.
i dont claim to be the best , a statement like would just be big headed and not in my caractor what so ever ,,,,, i do on the other hand no damb fine i could give you an experience thats unforgettable :P"
For all the wrong reasons. You are very far removed from what I like.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No... But your profile says you don't have experience in swinging and also does suggest you have no experience other than 1 on 1.. And lite else x
i dont have any experience in swinging and i have always been 1on1
that dont mean i dont have any sexual experience and know all about depth girth stretching a woman wide filling her right to the brim , thrust rhythm and tecnique lol
I did not imply you do not have adequate experience.. Maybe look at re vamping profile... And be less arrogant and defensive when people give their opinion and advice..... Good luck x"
i aint arrogant really i aint |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed
The 1s who big themselves up, and make crass statements about being the best, make me cringe. Instant turn off.
i dont claim to be the best , a statement like would just be big headed and not in my caractor what so ever ,,,,, i do on the other hand no damb fine i could give you an experience thats unforgettable :P
For all the wrong reasons. You are very far removed from what I like. "
your profile says not interested in men lol ,,, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i aint arrogant really i aint
Is that so? You sure appear to do everything in your power to come across that way  "
maybe you just aint seen real confidence before sweet plum :P |
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"i aint arrogant really i aint
Is that so? You sure appear to do everything in your power to come across that way
maybe you just aint seen real confidence before sweet plum :P"
Wow condescending as well as arrogant |
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"i aint arrogant really i aint
Is that so? You sure appear to do everything in your power to come across that way
maybe you just aint seen real confidence before sweet plum :P"
I have seen real confidence. And arrogance. And cockiness and all kinds of jerk behaviour. I know what I am witnessing here |
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"like i say , alot of women cant handle a confident bloke , makes them feel less in control , happy fabbing fabsters "
There are more women than you know could handle a man of your "confidence" sadly you wouldn't be able to handle them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"like i say , alot of women cant handle a confident bloke , makes them feel less in control , happy fabbing fabsters
There are more women than you know could handle a man of your "confidence" sadly you wouldn't be able to handle them"
oh how i love a challenge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"like i say , alot of women cant handle a confident bloke , makes them feel less in control , happy fabbing fabsters
*pins award to OP's chest for silliest thread of the night*"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me veris are nothing to do with sexual experience. They just shown that the person is real and who they say they are, and that they turned up.
I agree totally. I've met quite a few unverifieds for coffee just to help them out
I've met unverified people cos I found that they were interesting to chat to I n their messages, and didn't feel the need to constantly go on about how good they are in bed
The 1s who big themselves up, and make crass statements about being the best, make me cringe. Instant turn off.
i dont claim to be the best , a statement like would just be big headed and not in my caractor what so ever ,,,,, i do on the other hand no damb fine i could give you an experience thats unforgettable :P
For all the wrong reasons. You are very far removed from what I like.
your profile says not interested in men lol ,,, "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This cinnamon popcorn is lush
.. I've got the toffee out
n am yr new best fwiend , mmmmm toffee "
I don't think you have gone about it the right way to make any friends on this thread
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"True confidence is quiet and dignified. 
says who ?
It was me
so it aint written in the stone rule book left by our ancestors lol ?"
It is, it's in the secret guide to conducting oneself with confidence. Only confident people know about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Took me less than a fortnight, and I live in the sticks
im also in the stick and up until recently was with a diff woman every night , sometimes id drop 1 off and go pick another up "
hey youre so experienced we should be taking advice from you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have any veris, and I don't care, I've been in the site for a while now, and I've not met anyone yet, this is due to not logging in for about 4months, not actively seeking meets, and having met some people from other sites, but the biggest reason I've not met anyone from here is as soon as I log in I'm tied up in the forum, because to be fair, this is the best forum of all the sites, with the best forumites in the world, but you lot are stopping me having filthy sex, so stop being so interesting lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"like i say , alot of women cant handle a confident bloke , makes them feel less in control , happy fabbing fabsters "
Hmmmmmm Reallyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.....???? |
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"like i say , alot of women cant handle a confident bloke , makes them feel less in control , happy fabbing fabsters Hmmmmmm Reallyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.....????"
Confident men dont need to push the point home, they just get on with it. |
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"How about rereading the question and asking it so everybody understands?
does everybody on here find that if a person has no verifications on fab , that means they have little or no sexual experience and find it hard getting a fuck "
I think it is harder for non verifieds to get a meet, specifically single men.
I don't believe it has any impact on their ability in the bedroom/other
I also wonder if they really comprehend what swinging is,
I do offer to meet single men for a coffee and a veri, if they are close enough and post on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"like it or not, its mainly what people might look for.It can be hard starting out new, but with nice swingers like myself, there are many of us willing to give advice on how to get to meet people..most dont take the advice and will lambaste the site for failing them.
there arent that many sites I know, where a fellow guy will try to help someone get meets by following whats made their own fab journey memorable...
in most cases, unverifieds(all groups), appear to cause much of the reported noshows/timewasters/wankfodderers than those with recent verifications or a few under their belt."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about rereading the question and asking it so everybody understands?
does everybody on here find that if a person has no verifications on fab , that means they have little or no sexual experience and find it hard getting a fuck
I think it is harder for non verifieds to get a meet, specifically single men.
I don't believe it has any impact on their ability in the bedroom/other
I also wonder if they really comprehend what swinging is,
I do offer to meet single men for a coffee and a veri, if they are close enough and post on here "
That's something that baffles me, why don't more people met just for a coffee and a chat, I personally would be happy to do this without sex on the agenda, it's called being friendly, I have been known to be so friendly that I splash out on cake too |
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"How about rereading the question and asking it so everybody understands?
does everybody on here find that if a person has no verifications on fab , that means they have little or no sexual experience and find it hard getting a fuck
I think it is harder for non verifieds to get a meet, specifically single men.
I don't believe it has any impact on their ability in the bedroom/other
I also wonder if they really comprehend what swinging is,
I do offer to meet single men for a coffee and a veri, if they are close enough and post on here
That's something that baffles me, why don't more people met just for a coffee and a chat, I personally would be happy to do this without sex on the agenda, it's called being friendly, I have been known to be so friendly that I splash out on cake too "
Im in Birmingham at least twice a month. Costa my shout |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"does everyone on here really believe that if a persons got no veris on here they have no sexual experience and get a fuk ?"
Not at all. There's a world outside Fab. (It's true!!) Verifications mean nothing in relation to real life sexual activity.
I like you OP. You're funny.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab
People don't turn down just because of a lack of
verifications.
corse they do. "
To be fair though I've had messages from guys who have no verifications insisting those who contact them do, so if unverified people won't give other unverified people a chance they can't moan when others won't either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab"
1st 4 people I tried to meet were unverified. All no shows, so why would u bother wasting my time again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab
1st 4 people I tried to meet were unverified. All no shows, so why would u bother wasting my time again? "
but not all people with no veris r time wasters. You's all had NO veris at the start but someone gave you a chance |
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab
People don't turn down just because of a lack of verifications. corse they do. "
There are plenty of other reasons to turn a person down. You can filter out unverified if you really don't want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally have had more meets than my verifications reflect, does that bother me... Of course not. The site is what you make it, discretion is the better part of valour. I think the OP needs to become even more "Remote" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about rereading the question and asking it so everybody understands?
does everybody on here find that if a person has no verifications on fab , that means they have little or no sexual experience and find it hard getting a fuck "
Thats two seperate questions.
If they've been on here for ages without any meets then while they may have lots of past sexual history they are vowever "finding it hard to get a fuck" if thats to do with thier sexual ability or their personality is the real question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab"
But you aren't the one they're looking for thats why they deleted your message.
If you looked and sounded like the type of person they were looking for they would talk to you.
Lack of veries = more hassle though so many wont bother unless youre something exceptional.
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"How about rereading the question and asking it so everybody understands?
does everybody on here find that if a person has no verifications on fab , that means they have little or no sexual experience and find it hard getting a fuck "
If I believed every verification, all women suck better than a Dyson and all guys are stallions ... As it is I take them with a pinch of salt as to their sexual prowess,
I guess it gives an indication of their ability to get a fu*k on here..
What I do think about them. they do indicate a person is as described..
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab"
Well if you messaged me and if that message was similar to this post I wouldn't meet you either. I know that's harsh but it's honest |
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab
1st 4 people I tried to meet were unverified. All no shows, so why would u bother wasting my time again? but not all people with no veris r time wasters. You's all had NO veris at the start but someone gave you a chance "
No. Both times I joined this site I was verified within minutes
Swingers are a community of sorts and i knew some |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Back to the question in hand. I've met unverified men with no profile and only one or two pics. Why? Because I was desperate and needed a cock in me.
Not really though.
It was because they sent me a message that caught my eye and made me want to talk to them. Once a had fucked them and verified them they had women hanging from their testicles |
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"Back to the question in hand. I've met unverified men with no profile and only one or two pics. Why? Because I was desperate and needed a cock in me.
Not really though.
It was because they sent me a message that caught my eye and made me want to talk to them. Once a had fucked them and verified them they had women hanging from their testicles "
Yes, sorry .... me too, met unverified in the past, although now would only do this at clubs and parties .... after the initial message, its about the profile for me |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Ok Ive removed posts so if youve quoted hey have gone too sorry.
And I deleted one of Diamond Joes where there was nothing wrong with it by mistake, so apologies about that too  |
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"Ok Ive removed posts so if youve quoted hey have gone too sorry.
And I deleted one of Diamond Joes where there was nothing wrong with it by mistake, so apologies about that too "
Oh.
Was it something I said? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of Women like confident Men and even the over confident Men, They will get meets on here but not enough to satisfy their massive ego so usually resort to slagging of people/fab and eventually leave |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Back to the question in hand. I've met unverified men with no profile and only one or two pics. Why? Because I was desperate and needed a cock in me.
Not really though.
It was because they sent me a message that caught my eye and made me want to talk to them. Once a had fucked them and verified them they had women hanging from their testicles
Yes, sorry .... me too, met unverified in the past, although now would only do this at clubs and parties .... after the initial message, its about the profile for me"
If something about the message or profile piques my interest I will respond and see if we hit it off. I met someone who had one verification from over a year ago,one pic and a short paragraph on his profile. He turned out to be the best sex I've had this year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is y fabs a let down. People see no veris so delete your message ect but for all they no you could be the one there looking for but arnt willing to give you a chance. IMO it's just pure ignorance Conciderin the state of half the people on fab
1st 4 people I tried to meet were unverified. All no shows, so why would u bother wasting my time again? but not all people with no veris r time wasters. You's all had NO veris at the start but someone gave you a chance "
No I had veris from the start as I know people in the real world who are on here. Not all unverified are time wasters, but I have very limited time when I can meet, so I'm going decide who I meet in a way that suits me.  |
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"like i say , alot of women cant handle a confident bloke , makes them feel less in control , happy fabbing fabsters "
they can and do so on a regular basis, what they (the majority) don't do is go for blokes who appear to be bragging about their prowess and 'conquests' like some post school teenage boy..
sometimes a double take is needed on the ages stated by some on here..
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"does everyone on here really believe that if a persons got no veris on here they have no sexual experience and get a fuk ?
No, there are many other indicators of a lack of sexual experience."
touche..
succinct and to the point.. |
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"does everyone on here really believe that if a persons got no veris on here they have no sexual experience and get a fuk ?
No, there are many other indicators of a lack of sexual experience.
touche..
succinct and to the point.. "
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