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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.
In fact it's over a year.
I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6
A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.
We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse
I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals
Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV? |
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over a year ago
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"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.
In fact it's over a year.
I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6
A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.
We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse
I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals
Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?"
You've probably answers you're own question.
A year or is along time to fuck someone about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's had long enough in my _iew. I've driven the breadth of the country for nothing more than a kiss a cuddle and a chat. Driven three hours to spend the night with someone.
If he wanted you, he'd be there.
Sounds like the right thing to do. |
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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"Sounds like he ain't worth the fannying around!! Whittle him off yer friends list unless you're happy ping ponging messages"
You're so right, My New Years resolution comes into play already
Only positive influences in my life in 2016
I've whittled away lol |
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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"You know sweet
In my opinion ...
If he was interested you would have met by now
Take care of yourself, be gentle and love and hugs xx
V
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Thanks Sassy , you're so right, I know when I was filling in the gaps ! |
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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"Quite possibly here for the hunt or a cheater. Like others have said, would have met you by now otherwise.
Move on sugar, I'm sure you've a queue
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Hope it's a disorderly one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok - say you stick it out and you actually meet up - think how slow things are going to be if they were genuine reasons - (which by the way you know some werent) - if hes good to chat to just do that- or simply cut all ties block and carry on |
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"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.
In fact it's over a year.
I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6
A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.
We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse
I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals
Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?"
I think you've given him over a year to get his act together. |
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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"ok - say you stick it out and you actually meet up - think how slow things are going to be if they were genuine reasons - (which by the way you know some werent) - if hes good to chat to just do that- or simply cut all ties block and carry on "
I've done just that tonight, blocked him on here and the mobile.......next! Lol |
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"ok - say you stick it out and you actually meet up - think how slow things are going to be if they were genuine reasons - (which by the way you know some werent) - if hes good to chat to just do that- or simply cut all ties block and carry on
I've done just that tonight, blocked him on here and the mobile.......next! Lol"
you go girl x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate when this happens!!  you just think wow what a waste of time that was and for what? Why don't people be up front if they only wanna chat just say. Iv collected a few pen pals I didn't want this way |
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He would have been friend zoned a long time back, and I wouldn't bother making any arrangements to meet.
Yes sometimes life does get in the way, but I still only give people a finite amount of times to mess me about. |
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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"You have been here 6 weeks ? have you been off and on here and that may have put him off a little.
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I don't think that has anything to do with it to be honest ..... Just a player ! |
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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"He would have been friend zoned a long time back, and I wouldn't bother making any arrangements to meet.
Yes sometimes life does get in the way, but I still only give people a finite amount of times to mess me about."
Some people talk the talk, but when it comes to the walk, well .......they stumble ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.
In fact it's over a year.
I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6
A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.
We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse
I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals
Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?"
Our advice would be it's his loss. |
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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.
In fact it's over a year.
I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6
A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.
We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse
I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals
Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?
Our advice would be it's his loss."
Thank you.......onward and upward ...so to speak ! |
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