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Being recognised

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My daughter has just posted a pic on book of face from Saturday night when we was out. Iv had four young guys off fab who live in the same town as me just message they didn't realise I was her mum. Let's hope they are true to their word and are discreet. But I suppose we all run the risk of being recognised don't we. And before you all start yes I do have face pics in public. But I'm not ashamed of what site I use. I'm single at the end of the day

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

stalkers

heheheheheh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you met any of them before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you met any of them before?"

Noooo I don't tend to meet local if I can help it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My daughter has just posted a pic on book of face from Saturday night when we was out. Iv had four young guys off fab who live in the same town as me just message they didn't realise I was her mum. Let's hope they are true to their word and are discreet. But I suppose we all run the risk of being recognised don't we. And before you all start yes I do have face pics in public. But I'm not ashamed of what site I use. I'm single at the end of the day "

Keep your daughter away from them would be my advice lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet a couple last weekend, Thought they looked familiar but let it go

Wednesday night go down my daughters........

Their her neighbours!!!!!!!!

Oh well, it is a risk with local meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do you hope they're discreet then if you're not bothered?

Everyone who knows me knows my lifestyle. I've probably lost work because of it. I'm truly not bothered.

I think there will always be a dichotomy for people who want it both ways.

"I FUCKING LOVE GETTING BANGED BY COMPLETE STRANGERS BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE COZ ITS A BIT EMBARRASSING"

Sorry, I don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do you hope they're discreet then if you're not bothered?

Everyone who knows me knows my lifestyle. I've probably lost work because of it. I'm truly not bothered.

I think there will always be a dichotomy for people who want it both ways.

"I FUCKING LOVE GETTING BANGED BY COMPLETE STRANGERS BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE COZ ITS A BIT EMBARRASSING"

Sorry, I don't get it.

I'm not embarrassed. I just know people will judge Marc and I for it in ways that could be detrimental to our careers, hence the secrecy.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do you hope they're discreet then if you're not bothered?

Everyone who knows me knows my lifestyle. I've probably lost work because of it. I'm truly not bothered.

I think there will always be a dichotomy for people who want it both ways.

"I FUCKING LOVE GETTING BANGED BY COMPLETE STRANGERS BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE COZ ITS A BIT EMBARRASSING"

Sorry, I don't get it.

I'm not embarrassed. I just know people will judge Marc and I for it in ways that could be detrimental to our careers, hence the secrecy.

-Courtney"

Hope you shower first lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just looked at your profile, definitely nothing to be ashamed of there

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wonder if my arse would get recognised?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do you hope they're discreet then if you're not bothered?

Everyone who knows me knows my lifestyle. I've probably lost work because of it. I'm truly not bothered.

I think there will always be a dichotomy for people who want it both ways.

"I FUCKING LOVE GETTING BANGED BY COMPLETE STRANGERS BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE COZ ITS A BIT EMBARRASSING"

Sorry, I don't get it.

I'm not embarrassed. I just know people will judge Marc and I for it in ways that could be detrimental to our careers, hence the secrecy.

-Courtney"

That would be their loss though?

Is it not the same situation gay people were in 40 years ago?

The people who judged and were predjudice against them are now seen as homophobic and rightly so. Now no one needs to be in the closet.

Why should your choice of sexual partner be detrimental to your career?

If people are thinking about me. I won't employ him or use his services because I've seen a picture of his cock then I wouldn't want to work for them anyway.

I have feelings too ya know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ezjez369Man over a year ago

london

Does your daughter know you are a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe in the odd job

"Mr x can you step into the office please. Its come to my attention that you enjoy sucking off strange men whilst being fucked in the arse by their wives with a peeled cucumber, now kindly remove your uniform and beard, and collect your belongings from the grotto. You're fired

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Maybe change your Facebook privacy settings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you worried they will be lying in bed with your daughter having the post sex fag and say 'your mum was better'

Well maybe one of em, all four might have varying opponions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why should your choice of sexual partner be detrimental to your career?

It shouldn't, but it is.

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By *oxycouple28Couple over a year ago

bexley

"Why do you hope they're discreet then if you're not bothered?

Everyone who knows me knows my lifestyle. I've probably lost work because of it. I'm truly not bothered.

I think there will always be a dichotomy for people who want it both ways.

"I FUCKING LOVE GETTING BANGED BY COMPLETE STRANGERS BUT DON'T TELL ANYONE COZ ITS A BIT EMBARRASSING"

Sorry, I don't get it.

I'm not embarrassed. I just know people will judge Marc and I for it in ways that could be detrimental to our careers, hence the secrecy.

-Courtney"

Totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wonder if my arse would get recognised?

Yes it has.... I'd recognise that thing anywhere. Your Steve who lives in Brighton aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why should your choice of sexual partner be detrimental to your career?

It shouldn't, but it is. "

This too ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your question?

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By *exymatcplMan over a year ago

doncaster

I asked a fem I had been chatting to on here if she worked in a shop where I live she blocked me but always chats when I go in the shop we had exchanged face pics, I found it strange

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By *inkxRabbitWoman over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I've been spotted by my eldest daughter's friend (they were 18). Never show a face pic!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get recognised a lot. What annoys me is when guys message you on book of face and not here. That's is my private life and nothing to do with fab. At least I learnt how to change all my security settings on there x

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

What's your question?"

I believe it was a statement post rather than a question post. That is allowed as far as I know!

As is a reply which doesn't have any bearing on the OP.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't really see your point OP, if you or anyone else decides to post a pic of yourself on the internet, then there's a good chance that you may be recognised wouldn't you have thought?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My one worry is that I will come across a friend of my children's.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

From experience it is always a good idea to pretend you don't recognise anyone.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

I have actually just understood the OP's post. They were friends or followers of her daughters. Ahh, well in that case, I'd be now understanding what I post online (as I already do).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your question?

I believe it was a statement post rather than a question post. That is allowed as far as I know!

As is a reply which doesn't have any bearing on the OP."

I didn't say it wasn't allowed. I was just asking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't really see your point OP, if you or anyone else decides to post a pic of yourself on the internet, then there's a good chance that you may be recognised wouldn't you have thought?"

Indeed. Hence my earlier post.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I don't really see your point OP, if you or anyone else decides to post a pic of yourself on the internet, then there's a good chance that you may be recognised wouldn't you have thought?

Indeed. Hence my earlier post.

Ow sowwy, must have missed that

....trudges off into the distance....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" But I'm not ashamed of what site I use. I'm single at the end of the day "

Let's hope you're daughter sees it that way if she is embarrassed by others regarding it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wonder if my arse would get recognised?

Funny you should say that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it not the same situation gay people were in 40 years ago?

The people who judged and were predjudice against them are now seen as homophobic and rightly so. Now no one needs to be in the closet.

That's a very naive approach

There is absolutely no way I would 'out' myself in my current workplace.

I don't think I'd be fired or anything but the 'ribbing' I would get would be pretty much non stop - and that would include the bosses.

Companies still exist where women occupy admin roles only, where all employees are white and English, where 'everyone' is straight and in a relationship, where flirting is promoted and where infidelity is met with roars of manly laughter and slaps on the back.

I feel sometimes as if I work in a 70's sitcom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't really see your point OP, if you or anyone else decides to post a pic of yourself on the internet, then there's a good chance that you may be recognised wouldn't you have thought?

Indeed. Hence my earlier post.

Ow sowwy, must have missed that

....trudges off into the distance....

I was agreeing with you. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it not the same situation gay people were in 40 years ago?

The people who judged and were predjudice against them are now seen as homophobic and rightly so. Now no one needs to be in the closet.

That's a very naive approach

There is absolutely no way I would 'out' myself in my current workplace.

I don't think I'd be fired or anything but the 'ribbing' I would get would be pretty much non stop - and that would include the bosses.

I feel sometimes as if I work in a 70's sitcom."

Ah so you're an MP then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it not the same situation gay people were in 40 years ago?

The people who judged and were predjudice against them are now seen as homophobic and rightly so. Now no one needs to be in the closet.

That's a very naive approach

There is absolutely no way I would 'out' myself in my current workplace.

I don't think I'd be fired or anything but the 'ribbing' I would get would be pretty much non stop - and that would include the bosses.

I feel sometimes as if I work in a 70's sitcom."

Exactly mate, your stuck in the past people only change the future by changing their minds.

This is fundamentally about equality and freedom of choice.

Look at all the big events surrounding this issue.

The abolition of slavery

Womens rights to vote

Homosexuality laws

Do you think 10 years before each of those things were deemed acceptable the people that were trying to change attitudes and laws were also called naive?

I do. Or do you think it happened overnight?

As far as I can recollect from my history lessons it didn't stop them.

Maybe some people like it being a bit wrong

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By *omo217Man over a year ago

Sydney

Mentioned this once before but I watched a friend have a DP MMF on cam here and it was probably the hottest thing I've ever seen. I can't even look at her on social media or anything without thinking about it and getting a hardon.

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