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over a year ago
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I'm pondering today and I started to think about the ways in which we all view sex.
For me sex is quite a big event. Maybe it's because I don't have it on tap. Maybe it's because I'm single.
I get nervous. I worry I'll be awful and I play through every worst case scenario in my mind. I get excited about it and indulge in that.When I have sex it still feels quite special. However as a result I quite often get the post sex dip.
My question is do you view it in that way or is a much more casual thing for you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am quite relaxed about sex
I am like that about most things though
'It is what it is' is very much a standard I adhere to
There's very little I break a sweat over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am quite relaxed about sex
I am like that about most things though
'It is what it is' is very much a standard I adhere to
There's very little I break a sweat over "
I wish I could be more like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm pondering today and I started to think about the ways in which we all view sex.
For me sex is quite a big event. Maybe it's because I don't have it on tap. Maybe it's because I'm single.
I get nervous. I worry I'll be awful and I play through every worst case scenario in my mind. I get excited about it and indulge in that.When I have sex it still feels quite special. However as a result I quite often get the post sex dip.
My question is do you view it in that way or is a much more casual thing for you?
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Wow! My thoughts personified! Hugs xx |
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Sex is wonderful. I don't have it on tap either so when I do get it I feel great.
It's a way of connecting with someone else and feeling relaxed after. And learning how they tick. And often having a really good laugh.
I don't get nervous about it. Luckily I've finally learned that I am what I am, so no point worrying about any wobbly bits.
It's also a good way to get the kisses, cuddles and affection that a single doesn't get every day  |
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Sex to me is the passion, want, desire, need and the intimacy it brings, looking into each other's eyes as you share the moment be it lovingly or lustfully, it also gives time for the trusty old wank sock to have a rinse in the washing machine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm pondering today and I started to think about the ways in which we all view sex.
For me sex is quite a big event. Maybe it's because I don't have it on tap. Maybe it's because I'm single.
I get nervous. I worry I'll be awful and I play through every worst case scenario in my mind. I get excited about it and indulge in that.When I have sex it still feels quite special. However as a result I quite often get the post sex dip.
My question is do you view it in that way or is a much more casual thing for you?
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It's just FUN and I love FUN..... It's a conversation with another human being ... On so many levels .... It's like multi level chess .... Patterns ... Components... Decisions .... Play .....
Just Fun
Mwah x |
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"I'm pondering today and I started to think about the ways in which we all view sex.
For me sex is quite a big event. Maybe it's because I don't have it on tap. Maybe it's because I'm single.
I get nervous. I worry I'll be awful and I play through every worst case scenario in my mind. I get excited about it and indulge in that.When I have sex it still feels quite special. However as a result I quite often get the post sex dip.
My question is do you view it in that way or is a much more casual thing for you?
Wow! My thoughts personified! Hugs xx"
Mine too xx |
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At the moment it's definitely a stress relief getting over a 20 year marriage. And a confidence booster. I luckily live near four navy bases so it's also bloody good fun  |
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