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over a year ago
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Well I'm not a lady but as a straight man looking in you seem like a good looking fella so I'm sure that many of the ladies will think the same, obviously I don't know how you approach or message people on here, but if you're civil, polite and write avdecent and personalised introduction to them and show that you've read their profile and match their requirements, I'm sure the meets will soon come!
Good luck fella, I hope you find what you're after  |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well I'm not a lady but as a straight man looking in you seem like a good looking fella so I'm sure that many of the ladies will think the same, obviously I don't know how you approach or message people on here, but if you're civil, polite and write avdecent and personalised introduction to them and show that you've read their profile and match their requirements, I'm sure the meets will soon come!
Good luck fella, I hope you find what you're after "
I was raised to be a gentleman and I have been so by some women on here. So I don't come of rude or disrespectful, I just feel like I don't even get noticed by some people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes! |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
Stretham Hill Greater London |
"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes! "
Wow I did not know it's like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that. "
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks' |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
Stretham Hill Greater London |
"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that.
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks'"
I was thinking just to wait for the woman to show me that she's interested but I think that way I will be just a lost file |
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You've only been on for a couple of months and started several threads: variations on a theme about not getting meets.
You have not asked for a profile critique, however I'll just say. I'm here for fantasy. If I'm browsing profiles the pictures that catch my eye are men dressed to impress not dressed to go a play footie with their mates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that.
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks'
I was thinking just to wait for the woman to show me that she's interested but I think that way I will be just a lost file "
Lots of the ladies on here do like to look for themselves, we're not adverse to sending the first message. |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
Stretham Hill Greater London |
"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that.
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks'
I was thinking just to wait for the woman to show me that she's interested but I think that way I will be just a lost file
Lots of the ladies on here do like to look for themselves, we're not adverse to sending the first message."
But how would I know if she's interested? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well OP I can see from another thread you've just pulled (well hopefully!) so it goes to show that this site can and does work! As others would say it takes time and patience but you will get there! Good luck fella! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I call it the triple h factor, with a triple p for good measure. Display these in both your profile and your messages..
Honesty...
Humour...
Hung like a horse*...
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Be
Positive...
Polite..
Presentable.
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*this isn't important it's for views personal collection.... the others are vital |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
Stretham Hill Greater London |
"I call it the triple h factor, with a triple p for good measure. Display these in both your profile and your messages..
Honesty...
Humour...
Hung like a horse*...
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Be
Positive...
Polite..
Presentable.
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*this isn't important it's for views personal collection.... the others are vital "
Thanks for the advice |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
Stretham Hill Greater London |
"just try and be patient
good things come to those who wait
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Trust me I am patient. And I hope that people don't think that I'm desperate as I do consider myself handsome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that.
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks'"
Agree.
I'm afraid lots of the single men out there in fabland are definitely not gentlemanly and do spoil it for those of you who are.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi op, you havent been here long I suspect.
you have two verifies..as a new member my advice is not to hide them(some may disagree)
why not check out the clubs in local and surrounding areas?
there are various parties etc going on, the meets and events section may help..or the meets section on the forums. |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
Stretham Hill Greater London |
"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that.
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks'
Agree.
I'm afraid lots of the single men out there in fabland are definitely not gentlemanly and do spoil it for those of you who are.
X"
I just hope that the ladies recognise the good ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular. The highly sought after will be inundated. That's just the nature of the beast. If you find you're having no luck try lowering your standards  |
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"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that.
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks'"
That is so true,Jennie. It's always been like that for the women on fab and I understand about the knuckle draggers on fab and the "fancy a shag" sweet talkers.
After a bit it must get mundane. |
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular. The highly sought after will be inundated. That's just the nature of the beast. If you find you're having no luck try lowering your standards "
Consider yourself popular now Scarlet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey spelling is a big thing on here people women love to correct you on it and you can't even spell the suburb where you live !! Come on man and patients is a vurchew long live eecwality  |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
Stretham Hill Greater London |
"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular. The highly sought after will be inundated. That's just the nature of the beast. If you find you're having no luck try lowering your standards "
Well after looking at your pics I definitely wouldn't be lowering my standards but I see I haven't met the age requirements. By the way you are very gorgeous and I admire a woman with nice curves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
 you're kidding??!"
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
you're kidding??!
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth."
Well, hope my fabbing isn't unwanted attention, you look great |
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
you're kidding??!
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth."
You not getting attention is a surprise of 2015 for me!! |
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
you're kidding??!
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth.
You not getting attention is a surprise of 2015 for me!!"
Is there a category for that on the voting thread? Maybe i might win something after all  |
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
you're kidding??!
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth."
That's because you're very specific in what you want, which a very small percentage of Fab can provide. |
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
you're kidding??!
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth.
You not getting attention is a surprise of 2015 for me!!
Is there a category for that on the voting thread? Maybe i might win something after all "
We can certainly put up the thread
It seems my all attention for you in 2015 went unnoticed...  |
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
you're kidding??!
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth.
That's because you're very specific in what you want, which a very small percentage of Fab can provide."
Well, you were before your profile text changed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyway back to the op. It is hard for all on here. People say put effort in and you will reap the rewards. I guess it depends how much of your life you want to waste chasing after fanny? You're a young guy. Get out there and enjoy life and you'll need to rely on here less for your kicks. |
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"It varies between ladies. I don't need filters. I'm just not popular.
you're kidding??!
No. Not all women are Swimming in unwanted attention. It's a myth.
That's because you're very specific in what you want, which a very small percentage of Fab can provide."
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"Anyway back to the op. It is hard for all on here. People say put effort in and you will reap the rewards. I guess it depends how much of your life you want to waste chasing after fanny? You're a young guy. Get out there and enjoy life and you'll need to rely on here less for your kicks."
I do have fun I just have a thing for this lifestyle. Age is only a number says a young man who is divorced and you look great |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This will give you an indication, I had 4 unread messages in my inbox yesterday and then I removed all of my filters for the award nominations. I woke up this morning to 412 messages... I can assure you they're not all votes!
Wow I did not know it's like that.
Yep, so it's just a case of trying. I'm sure lots of those messages are also from guys who consider themselves gentlemen - however they get swallowed up amongst the numerous 'fancy a fucks'"
Fancy a fuck? I'll wear a top hat. I'm classy gentleman me :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it really this much competition between single guys or do I lack something?"
Not all of us woman are with inundated with messages. Some of us use the filters and seek out what we are looking for ourself. Obviously there is more competition with men, there's far more men to woman ratio on here. Though you already have verifications so your doing well. Best of luck.
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"Is it really this much competition between single guys or do I lack something?
Not all of us woman are with inundated with messages. Some of us use the filters and seek out what we are looking for ourself. Obviously there is more competition with men, there's far more men to woman ratio on here. Though you already have verifications so your doing well. Best of luck.
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Also when you take into account half the 'single women' are not actually single women |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"Is it really this much competition between single guys or do I lack something?
Not all of us woman are with inundated with messages. Some of us use the filters and seek out what we are looking for ourself. Obviously there is more competition with men, there's far more men to woman ratio on here. Though you already have verifications so your doing well. Best of luck.
Also when you take into account half the 'single women' are not actually single women "
Lol I had a bad experience already so I try to pay attention  |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"Is it really this much competition between single guys or do I lack something?
Not all of us woman are with inundated with messages. Some of us use the filters and seek out what we are looking for ourself. Obviously there is more competition with men, there's far more men to woman ratio on here. Though you already have verifications so your doing well. Best of luck.
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Thanks for the advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, don't know if you are but you look Asian. What we here in the UK call Asian, not what what you call Asian in the States. Asians do not do well on here."
I dunno where the asian came in...I see african american or caribbean ...maybe I just looked at the OPs pics properly...
anyway, I think plenty of asians do well...we just see the negative on the forums mainly.. |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP, don't know if you are but you look Asian. What we here in the UK call Asian, not what what you call Asian in the States. Asians do not do well on here.
I dunno where the asian came in...I see african american or caribbean ...maybe I just looked at the OPs pics properly...
anyway, I think plenty of asians do well...we just see the negative on the forums mainly.."
I did realised that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think you're lacking anything except mabye another 3 years to be in my age bracket
I think you'll do just fine , give it time and keep chatting to people and be nice
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot it comes down to luck with these sites. Sometimes you get lucky and find females interested in you, other times there's zero interest. A lot messages just get lost in there inbox sometimes or bulk deleted lol |
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