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how close to home would u play?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can't see why it should be such of a problem if you live in a big town like me not sure i could meet someone who lived in the same street as me,plus with price of pertol nowdays it might be best to go a bit more localish. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ive had similar experience , people in small village near to me where i drink knew each other for ages so obviously kept stumm about it, but had good laff n kept it quiet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Discretion and trust are two virtues we seek in playmates...if we found them locally it t`wud be a bonus really ....might have to make the boundaries clearier tho...
That said we`re friendly with a couple who live 50 miles away, really click and enjoy their company and conversation, s`well as filthy playmates ...if they wanted to pop in for a cuppa or a chinwag, we wouldn`t mind at all.....but distance prevents that .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met people five doors from us at a party,we had no idea they were so close and another couple three streets over.It doesn't bother us as we are all doing the same thing. |
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lol,some great replies,yes we play on our doorstep,,a few couples and single ladies we hav met are literally 5 mins from us,and also met and old school friend,no shocks from her either,she just said,i always knew there was something kinky about you,lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first started swinging I promised I wouldn't play close to home.. Only one person I meet is in the same town but the rules have been relaxed and I can now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say local, but London is a big place. One of my playmates was so local we took the same train to work and we've bumped into each other in Sainsbury's.
He know's where to sit on the train so I can sit next to him and tease him on our journey in...we never speak. In Sainsbury's you'd think we'd never met. We'd both be on our own, but we're not playing. Nothing has ever been said, but we know where the boundaries are and we've respected them during the three years we've played together.
Sadly, he moved a little further out, but he still passes my way, and will always say he'll be in the area, am I free. It would never cross his mind to just turn up.
All my meets take place in my home at some point, and in the time I've been swinging not once has anyone overstepped any boundaries, so distance will never be a problem for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've a rule of not playing in the same city......
Problem we had was we met a cpl 2 years ago and we had fun etc then their marrige broke up (through no fault of ours) ..
She had been playing away and saying she was at ours for a cuppa....Anyway all hell broke loose and the hubby got it into his head that me and his mrs were having a lesbian affair  not the case at all.
Anyway he decided to tell the locals in the pub he drank in...who knew us...who knew my family...you all getting the picture 
Was an awful time for us and we ended up moving town.To this day i am worried we will meet him again if ever we out in town.
we only ever met them as a cpl and she was never round at ours when she said she was....
It spoiled it all for us and now we tend to travel for meets rather than at home. We would love to be able to pick up the phone and arrange a meet with cpl or single male in our area but we just done have the confidence that it wont happen again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't mind how close someone was. If they are going to cause problems at some time 100meters or 10 miles isn't going to make a lot of difference.
But if you pick well your not going to have problems or i hope not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't mind how close someone was. If they are going to cause problems at some time 100meters or 10 miles isn't going to make a lot of difference.
But if you pick well your not going to have problems or i hope not."
*Nods in agreement*
As I've said makes no odds to me. Blimey, I've been up a mountain in Cuba and bumped into a neighbour. I've been having lunch in the harbour in Kos and got talking to a woman at the next table who when she asked us where we were from and we said, a part of London most people hadn't heard off Nunhead, she said, I know Nunhead, I used to live near Ayres the bakers, which was around the corner from us.
So you could play with someone from one end of the country, pop into your local and there they are, visiting relatives in the area! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't mind how close someone was. If they are going to cause problems at some time 100meters or 10 miles isn't going to make a lot of difference.
But if you pick well your not going to have problems or i hope not."
I, Katie picked the cpl and has social meet twice with them The four of us got on brilliant and their feedback excellent....and according to their feedback we had picked well.
They had marital problems that we were not aware of (non of our business)we got dragged into it thanks to her lying about her whereabouts.
We did all we could with regards sussing them out b4 actually playing with them......
With regards 10 meters or 10 miles???? Lot less of a chance they are gonna hunt you down if meeting 100 miles away lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we've got public jobs that involve working with kids sometimes and not everyone understands this lifestyle, so we chose to play at least 10 miles away from home x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we've got public jobs that involve working with kids sometimes and not everyone understands this lifestyle, so we chose to play at least 10 miles away from home x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was at a neighbours party last summer and as his wife to be was dishing out their forthcoming wedding invitations to us all in one hand, he was pouring me a drink to the other and whispered if I ever fancied being his last fling before the big day I only had to wave over the fence..... WAY too close to home!!! |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I have gone past people I've met locally in public when (they or I) are with perceived vanilla (non-swingers) and we just give each other an acknowledging yet discrete "nod".
Does it deter me being so close? I can only speak for myself.. being local has its advantages |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
We've met at a couples house a mile just a mile from ours. We also met a couple who lived just a hundred yards from the first couple at a party, 70 miles away!
Neither of them realised they lived so close and had never met! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if someone lived close enough to me that there was a possability that i could bump into them in the streets/shopping then i wont meet them
I dont want to see people ive met off here in my every day life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont have a problem playing with people close to home.
As long as the boundries are understood, no coming to my door unannounced."
Same as us,we dont have a problem meeting local people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well we live on a small island so have no choice really lol.
met few nice couple and met some that are bit weird.
met one guy and M moved jobs and it seemed they now work in same building. see each other every lunch. thats arkward haha
we are quite young too so not many couples or females our ages so do find it hard to find fun on island.
any fems or cpls popping over give us shout. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Not quite next door! We some sexy playmates about 3/4 of a mile away. If we met them in the street we would say Hi, but neither of us are going to start swinging in the street!
I wouldn't swing with my neighbours, no really! You haven't seen em!!!  |
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ies could hear the phone going off, and have you ever meet a neighbour or someone you know in a club etc, i was in a club playing with a girl in a group and a lad tapped me on the shoulder asking, didnt you used 2be in b company in the army? Had a laff at that , small world ! 
