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the more you have, the more you want
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find that the more you have sex, the more you want it. Or does abstinence make your hornier? For me the more I have the hornier I become."
not really unless is with someone special.
off here its just sex and don't get the urge to go back for more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After 10 years without sex, I'm struggling to regain the old 'va-va-voom', which almost disappeared.
Had a couple of nice encounters recently, which were fun at the time - but with no-one around to keep the fire burning, sex simply isn't on my mind, often enough.
Hoping, the more I interact with sexy people, the more I'll think about playing again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It borders addiction sometimes, always looking for your next high  "
I know what you mean, I sometimes wonder what the definition of a sex addict is! For the ladies, is it the same, to you find yourself wanting more the more active you are? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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having had 4 years of celibacy, before this year, i found i forgot what my body felt like.
again, i have stopped playing, because it felt empty..after nearly three months my energy has calmed down again, and i am happy it hasn't become a persistent obsession x
i miss it, yes, but what i am looking for has changed, and that is another twist on the journey that is life.
i live and learn, cos the only constant is change x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"having had 4 years of celibacy, before this year, i found i forgot what my body felt like.
again, i have stopped playing, because it felt empty..after nearly three months my energy has calmed down again, and i am happy it hasn't become a persistent obsession x
i miss it, yes, but what i am looking for has changed, and that is another twist on the journey that is life.
i live and learn, cos the only constant is change x"
 thank you, very thought provoking, less about the body and more about the mind and what you are looking for. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"having had 4 years of celibacy, before this year, i found i forgot what my body felt like.
again, i have stopped playing, because it felt empty..after nearly three months my energy has calmed down again, and i am happy it hasn't become a persistent obsession x
i miss it, yes, but what i am looking for has changed, and that is another twist on the journey that is life.
i live and learn, cos the only constant is change x
thank you, very thought provoking, less about the body and more about the mind and what you are looking for. "
this is just my generalized opinion, but here sometimes feels like its a limbo space for some people..maybe that's because i recognize it was that space for me..now i have immersed myself in that, i have become clearer about what i do want 'next'..these people have all become part of that journey, and i truly appreciate them and embrace their choices..i am just learning to embrace my own x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"having had 4 years of celibacy, before this year, i found i forgot what my body felt like.
again, i have stopped playing, because it felt empty..after nearly three months my energy has calmed down again, and i am happy it hasn't become a persistent obsession x
i miss it, yes, but what i am looking for has changed, and that is another twist on the journey that is life.
i live and learn, cos the only constant is change x
thank you, very thought provoking, less about the body and more about the mind and what you are looking for.
this is just my generalized opinion, but here sometimes feels like its a limbo space for some people..maybe that's because i recognize it was that space for me..now i have immersed myself in that, i have become clearer about what i do want 'next'..these people have all become part of that journey, and i truly appreciate them and embrace their choices..i am just learning to embrace my own x"
I think we are all on the journey of sorts! I'm just in a phase where I'm enjoying meets, feeling incredibly horny and wanting more! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a active sex life and I don't feel I need it so much anymore, so no I don't want it more.
Although the pump in the gym is like 15 orgasms in one go and I crave going to the gym more than sex lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you find that the more you have sex, the more you want it. Or does abstinence make your hornier? For me the more I have the hornier I become."
no I don't find that really, I'm all about meeting nice women who are interested in me as well as sex and visa versa ,wanting to see them more because I enjoy them as people yes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I think you're right the more you have the more you want and it can get addictive as well, I find I generally don't wank as much as prefer to save it for meets and that does help, but going without for any length of time I cannot stand, luckily that doesn't happen much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a active sex life and I don't feel I need it so much anymore, so no I don't want it more.
Although the pump in the gym is like 15 orgasms in one go and I crave going to the gym more than sex lol "
I crave chocolate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you find that the more you have sex, the more you want it. Or does abstinence make your hornier? For me the more I have the hornier I become. no I don't find that really, I'm all about meeting nice women who are interested in me as well as sex and visa versa ,wanting to see them more because I enjoy them as people yes "
have to agree it is not all about the sex, but if I meet a nice couple or female and we get on I do find myself anticipating what might be and wanting the sex to happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I neither miss or obsess over sex. It takes a man to get me in the mood. The more I'm attracted to him the more I want sex with him. My energy levels determine how often I meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have a active sex life and I don't feel I need it so much anymore, so no I don't want it more.
Although the pump in the gym is like 15 orgasms in one go and I crave going to the gym more than sex lol
I crave chocolate "
Mm, that is nice too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can take it or leave it. Haven't had sex for 15 months now and I don't really think about it. If I had a regular guy around me then I'd want it all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah - I had sex 3 days in a row and I was gagging for more almost immediately but the ache has worn off a bit now. "
I think it does wear off after a while but then I find dust settling and can't get back in the mood so keeping it going for me is important, pointless being on the site with no libido. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm in a relationship, I seem to have sex more than once a day. I've been single 4ish months and it's been about 6 since I last had sex. For me it's definitely the more I have the more I want"
Yea its funny because when I am in a relationship I generally have less sex maybe 2-3 times a week, maybe thats why I am now single |
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"having had 4 years of celibacy, before this year, i found i forgot what my body felt like.
again, i have stopped playing, because it felt empty..after nearly three months my energy has calmed down again, and i am happy it hasn't become a persistent obsession x
i miss it, yes, but what i am looking for has changed, and that is another twist on the journey that is life.
i live and learn, cos the only constant is change x"
I'm pretty much constantly horny but I've been without sex for so long now that I feel I can almost take it or leave it a lot of the time. It bores me a little to focus on it too much.
I don't know if I've forgotten how great it can be but I look for other things now which I find way more interesting than sex. I think I'm missing the human interaction more than simply the sexual act. Women interest me more than the actual act. That's what I miss when I'm without sex. |
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