FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > pay some love forward

pay some love forward

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've just started on these here forums and found ALOT of needless bickering and and such.

I thought we might use this section to say something nice about someone on fab, hope they see it and in turn that might encourage more love.

I don't really know anyone, but peachperfect was quite nice to me earlier so i'll start by saying what a nice thing it was of her

Anyone else can say something about anyone else.

Lets cause some positive ripples in this pond.

Potentially such an ace place!

Sorry if this is above my station here...this isn't to rock the boat.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

good work fella.

Wouldn't it be nice if we were all just nice to each other? Seems like a simple concept hey but apparently so hard to do!

There's nothing wrong with debate and having a different point of _iew (wouldn't it be boring if we were all the same!) but people can disagree without having to be cock wombles to each other!

This forum can be a positive place (as with any other forum on t'internet!) if you let the bickering just wash over you - its what I do and makes my experience on the site so much more enjoyable!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said both the above guys. Can't beat a healthy debate, but it's nice to be nice too

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

good work fella.

Wouldn't it be nice if we were all just nice to each other? Seems like a simple concept hey but apparently so hard to do!

There's nothing wrong with debate and having a different point of _iew (wouldn't it be boring if we were all the same!) but people can disagree without having to be cock wombles to each other!

This forum can be a positive place (as with any other forum on t'internet!) if you let the bickering just wash over you - its what I do and makes my experience on the site so much more enjoyable! "

Thanks.

There surely are some nice people here as i have seen some nice stuff, I just thought the ratio seemed high..one of the first things I saw on a section was a coupele saying single guys didn't belong and I felt kind of unwelcome

that made me think, for every meanie, there's someone nice and I'd like to be nice. I'd hate to think I made people feel like that.

I'm turning a negative upside down I hope

Again, I don't want to rock an established boat though

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well said both the above guys. Can't beat a healthy debate, but it's nice to be nice too

Mass debate?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stick around and you'll see it's not all doom and gloom!

The forums are great for getting your personality across and I've made some great friends off here. Plus my hotlist has grown substantially

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Stick around and you'll see it's not all doom and gloom!

The forums are great for getting your personality across and I've made some great friends off here. Plus my hotlist has grown substantially

Perhaps I've come at the wrong time of year with the holiday stresses and everything lol.

Really though, I do see niceness here, I was just trying to add to it and change the ratio even slightly.

Thankyou, you seem lovely

I might have to start a hotlist

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stick around and you'll see it's not all doom and gloom!

The forums are great for getting your personality across and I've made some great friends off here. Plus my hotlist has grown substantially

it does seem incredibly tetchy right now - much more so than usual.

It's probably an end of year thing! Everyone tired, a little stressed, in need of a break!

After Christmas everyone will reboot themselves, the forum will refresh itself and then it'll be same old, same old again!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i have chatted to and met some beautiful people off of here. some very genuine, even when you are low, friends.

i appreciate them hugely.

i hope they all have an amazing holiday time and may 2016 be very special to them and bring them all their hearts desires...love and hugs from me x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i have chatted to and met some beautiful people off of here. some very genuine, even when you are low, friends.

i appreciate them hugely.

i hope they all have an amazing holiday time and may 2016 be very special to them and bring them all their hearts desires...love and hugs from me x"

This is what I like to hear

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Freedom of speech, debate, rhetoric, learning, loving, laughing and having fun is all part of FAB.

A blend of personalities - as long as we don't go against human rights ..... It's a great place to be yourself and stand up for your beliefs and _iews.

Love, kisses and a cheeky wink to you all.....

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good morning chums

This is a great thread Op

I think this time of year can be a jolly stressful time. We all build or dreams about a perfect Christmas . We miss the important thing about this tine of year. Family and friends .

I have been guilty of not messaging really good chums often enough on here and I am sorry.

So time to pass on the yuletide cheer. Its been a brilliant year for me and you guys have played a part in that.

So have a wonderful , brilliant and chilled Christmas .

Thank you to all my friends

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

good work fella.

Wouldn't it be nice if we were all just nice to each other? Seems like a simple concept hey but apparently so hard to do!

There's nothing wrong with debate and having a different point of _iew (wouldn't it be boring if we were all the same!) but people can disagree without having to be cock wombles to each other!

This forum can be a positive place (as with any other forum on t'internet!) if you let the bickering just wash over you - its what I do and makes my experience on the site so much more enjoyable!

Thanks.

that made me think, for every meanie, there's someone nice and I'd like to be nice. I'd hate to think I made people feel like that.

I'm turning a negative upside down I hope

Again, I don't want to rock an established boat though"

If no-one rocks the boat nothing will ever change.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've just started on these here forums and found ALOT of needless bickering and and such.

I thought we might use this section to say something nice about someone on fab, hope they see it and in turn that might encourage more love.

I don't really know anyone, but peachperfect was quite nice to me earlier so i'll start by saying what a nice thing it was of her

Anyone else can say something about anyone else.

Lets cause some positive ripples in this pond.

Potentially such an ace place!

Sorry if this is above my station here...this isn't to rock the boat. "
here, here I'm all for this

more peace and love

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen"

May as well make them nice ones then

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

good work fella.

Wouldn't it be nice if we were all just nice to each other? Seems like a simple concept hey but apparently so hard to do!

There's nothing wrong with debate and having a different point of _iew (wouldn't it be boring if we were all the same!) but people can disagree without having to be cock wombles to each other!

This forum can be a positive place (as with any other forum on t'internet!) if you let the bickering just wash over you - its what I do and makes my experience on the site so much more enjoyable!

Thanks.

that made me think, for every meanie, there's someone nice and I'd like to be nice. I'd hate to think I made people feel like that.

I'm turning a negative upside down I hope

Again, I don't want to rock an established boat though

If no-one rocks the boat nothing will ever change. "

Love revolution?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

May as well make them nice ones then

At what point this century did showing certain emotions become frowned upon ?

I dislike inscincerity and plastic virtual lurve.

Not every disagreement / opinion / refusal to be 'nice' ( what a schmaltzy word ) makes people poor human beings.

I'm more wary of the screaming victims when nothing has been said or done other than someone disagreed with them.

Merry Christmas.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good morning chums

This is a great thread Op

I think this time of year can be a jolly stressful time. We all build or dreams about a perfect Christmas . We miss the important thing about this tine of year. Family and friends .

I have been guilty of not messaging really good chums often enough on here and I am sorry.

So time to pass on the yuletide cheer. Its been a brilliant year for me and you guys have played a part in that.

So have a wonderful , brilliant and chilled Christmas .

Thank you to all my friends

Your sound like a beautiful man

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *istressZoeTV/TS over a year ago

cheshire

I'm a nice person x

I have good manners and I'm

Polite x

I prefer nice polite well mannered people x

It costs nothing x

I don't know why you would come on an Internet forum and belittle someone x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

[Removed by poster at 19/12/15 12:56:36]

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Good morning chums

This is a great thread Op

I think this time of year can be a jolly stressful time. We all build or dreams about a perfect Christmas . We miss the important thing about this tine of year. Family and friends .

I have been guilty of not messaging really good chums often enough on here and I am sorry.

So time to pass on the yuletide cheer. Its been a brilliant year for me and you guys have played a part in that.

So have a wonderful , brilliant and chilled Christmas .

Thank you to all my friends

Your sound like a beautiful man

You both sound uncannily similar

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good morning chums

This is a great thread Op

I think this time of year can be a jolly stressful time. We all build or dreams about a perfect Christmas . We miss the important thing about this tine of year. Family and friends .

I have been guilty of not messaging really good chums often enough on here and I am sorry.

So time to pass on the yuletide cheer. Its been a brilliant year for me and you guys have played a part in that.

So have a wonderful , brilliant and chilled Christmas .

Thank you to all my friends

Your sound like a beautiful man

You both sound uncannily similar"

Distant relatives perhaps

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Twice the pleasure x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Most of the forum stuff is light hearted and funny. It's not all bickering

And a lot of the bickering is just on emotive posts that would never end well anyway.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

May as well make them nice ones then

At what point this century did showing certain emotions become frowned upon ?

I dislike inscincerity and plastic virtual lurve.

Not every disagreement / opinion / refusal to be 'nice' ( what a schmaltzy word ) makes people poor human beings.

I'm more wary of the screaming victims when nothing has been said or done other than someone disagreed with them.

Merry Christmas. "

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

May as well make them nice ones then

At what point this century did showing certain emotions become frowned upon ?

I dislike inscincerity and plastic virtual lurve.

Not every disagreement / opinion / refusal to be 'nice' ( what a schmaltzy word ) makes people poor human beings.

I'm more wary of the screaming victims when nothing has been said or done other than someone disagreed with them.

Merry Christmas. "

Merry Christmas to you too!

Hope it's nice

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice post OP.

There's a lot of positives in forum despite a bit of bad tempers! Lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

May as well make them nice ones then

At what point this century did showing certain emotions become frowned upon ?

I dislike inscincerity and plastic virtual lurve.

Not every disagreement / opinion / refusal to be 'nice' ( what a schmaltzy word ) makes people poor human beings.

I'm more wary of the screaming victims when nothing has been said or done other than someone disagreed with them.

Merry Christmas.

Merry Christmas to you too!

Hope it's nice

It will be one of the best

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Why Can't We All Just Get Along?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPMmC0UAnj0

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

May as well make them nice ones then

At what point this century did showing certain emotions become frowned upon ?

I dislike inscincerity and plastic virtual lurve.

Not every disagreement / opinion / refusal to be 'nice' ( what a schmaltzy word ) makes people poor human beings.

I'm more wary of the screaming victims when nothing has been said or done other than someone disagreed with them.

Merry Christmas.

Merry Christmas to you too!

Hope it's nice

It will be one of the best

Hope it's THE best

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

""Why Can't We All Just Get Along?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPMmC0UAnj0"

Phone won't let me open this...

To the laptop!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

""Why Can't We All Just Get Along?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPMmC0UAnj0"

Because we're human

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think sometimes people get a Vietnam syndrome and don't appreciate there's a human being reading what they say.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Why Can't We All Just Get Along?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPMmC0UAnj0

Because we're human

"
hey kinky you're lovely and human

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

May as well make them nice ones then

At what point this century did showing certain emotions become frowned upon ?

I dislike inscincerity and plastic virtual lurve.

Not every disagreement / opinion / refusal to be 'nice' ( what a schmaltzy word ) makes people poor human beings.

I'm more wary of the screaming victims when nothing has been said or done other than someone disagreed with them.

Merry Christmas. "

Well put. Disagreeing with someone politely doesn't make you not nice.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

""Why Can't We All Just Get Along?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPMmC0UAnj0

Because we're human

hey kinky you're lovely and human

Awww thanks

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"treat it all with a good level of indifference, it's words on a screen

May as well make them nice ones then

At what point this century did showing certain emotions become frowned upon ?

I dislike inscincerity and plastic virtual lurve.

Not every disagreement / opinion / refusal to be 'nice' ( what a schmaltzy word ) makes people poor human beings.

I'm more wary of the screaming victims when nothing has been said or done other than someone disagreed with them.

Merry Christmas.

Well put. Disagreeing with someone politely doesn't make you not nice."

I didn't mean the polite ones

Some are just out and out meanies

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think sometimes people get a Vietnam syndrome and don't appreciate there's a human being reading what they say. "

That's it...words have power.

Enough to have shaped the world

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people just enjoy pissing on another persons chips. Some dont even notice they're incontinent...

Stick around & welcome to the mad house

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people just enjoy pissing on another persons chips. Some dont even notice they're incontinent...

Stick around & welcome to the mad house

That sounds really profound

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people just enjoy pissing on another persons chips. Some dont even notice they're incontinent...

Stick around & welcome to the mad house

You've got that right

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i could name a few really lovely people but i cba lol

joking aside some people have nothing better to do or just get off being complete t--t-

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i could name a few really lovely people but i cba lol

joking aside some people have nothing better to do or just get off being complete t--t-"

Tents?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people just enjoy pissing on another persons chips. Some dont even notice they're incontinent...

Stick around & welcome to the mad house

Lol, thankyou!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *eddABCMan over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London

Big kisses to the women who actually reply to messages. Even a simple no is greatly appreciated instead of no replys.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *rishloveWoman over a year ago

Tobyhanna

I'm new to the whole forum thing! But there has been some really nice people on here! But in all honesty I find it hard to talk with other women! A lot of them come off to good for everyone else! I've had a few say some mean things to me and they don't even know me!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Big kisses to the women who actually reply to messages. Even a simple no is greatly appreciated instead of no replys."

I think the site rules say that no reply is to be taken as a polite no thank you

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm new to the whole forum thing! But there has been some really nice people on here! But in all honesty I find it hard to talk with other women! A lot of them come off to good for everyone else! I've had a few say some mean things to me and they don't even know me!

Then we should be extra nice to tip the scales back in favour of positivity!...

Kill them with love and kindness

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *eddABCMan over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London

"Big kisses to the women who actually reply to messages. Even a simple no is greatly appreciated instead of no replys.

I think the site rules say that no reply is to be taken as a polite no thank you

It just makes me feel a bit better when someone replys. I'm not saying that it was rude or anything of that nature

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Awww wow! Folk from the states too, I just noticed...

Love your dreamcatcher!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Big kisses to the women who actually reply to messages. Even a simple no is greatly appreciated instead of no replys.

I think the site rules say that no reply is to be taken as a polite no thank you

It just makes me feel a bit better when someone replys. I'm not saying that it was rude or anything of that nature "

It's nice to get them I agree, even a no thank you, but some ladies I believe get dozens and dozens of messages and from what I read, when they say no thank you sometimes they get mean messages.

I guess that's why the rule is there

You'll get a reply at some point, and i'm sure it'll be a yes!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *eddABCMan over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London

"Big kisses to the women who actually reply to messages. Even a simple no is greatly appreciated instead of no replys.

I think the site rules say that no reply is to be taken as a polite no thank you

It just makes me feel a bit better when someone replys. I'm not saying that it was rude or anything of that nature

It's nice to get them I agree, even a no thank you, but some ladies I believe get dozens and dozens of messages and from what I read, when they say no thank you sometimes they get mean messages.

I guess that's why the rule is there

You'll get a reply at some point, and i'm sure it'll be a yes!

I do get yes replys. Sometimes lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Big kisses to the women who actually reply to messages. Even a simple no is greatly appreciated instead of no replys.

I think the site rules say that no reply is to be taken as a polite no thank you

It just makes me feel a bit better when someone replys. I'm not saying that it was rude or anything of that nature

It's nice to get them I agree, even a no thank you, but some ladies I believe get dozens and dozens of messages and from what I read, when they say no thank you sometimes they get mean messages.

I guess that's why the rule is there

You'll get a reply at some point, and i'm sure it'll be a yes!

I do get yes replys. Sometimes lol

There you go, good stuff

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The list of nice people I have met or messaged is quite big, suffice to say the are nice people on here.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The list of nice people I have met or messaged is quite big, suffice to say the are nice people on here.

Mine is slowly growing (my list!) And giving me more reason to like it here by the day

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

Great idea do a thread.

I would like to say thanks to everyone on my Kik group. They are the loveliest bunch of deviants I've ever come across. They have make me laugh out loud and choke on my tea on a nightly basis.

Oh and can I give a shout out to feet mitts boy. What a guy. Who would have thought one guy could have so many stories to tell. He's kept us entertained for weeks

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Great idea do a thread.

I would like to say thanks to everyone on my Kik group. They are the loveliest bunch of deviants I've ever come across. They have make me laugh out loud and choke on my tea on a nightly basis.

Oh and can I give a shout out to feet mitts boy. What a guy. Who would have thought one guy could have so many stories to tell. He's kept us entertained for weeks

More positive waves coming in, brilliant stuff!

Glad I started this little forum now, you all are making me smile

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm liking your posts OP.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love boots

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I love boots

Superdrug is good too though