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"Bye." sleep tight see ya tomorrow | |||
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"Why did she leave then??" She hasn't seemed happy in a while. I don't know the reasons. | |||
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"Oh I'll miss her jumping on every post I made. " I won't miss it .... but its a hard habit to shake | |||
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"WHAT?!" my sentiments exactly | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. " xx | |||
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"Why did she leave then?? She hasn't seemed happy in a while. I don't know the reasons." I'm sad she's gone - I like her! She made a very uncharacteristic remark in the 'best female body' thread - I was going to PM her to see if she was ok - wish I'd done it sooner now! | |||
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"I can't believe she left, really. " Neither can I but if something is making you unhappy better to have a break and then come back. Hope she comes back. | |||
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"Why did she go? I voted for her in the best big boobs category as well. " Oh so it's your fault then... | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. " Its worse than a primary school, at least there they learn something and get on ... | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. " It's not always like this - promise! I had a shit time of it a few days ago - but usually we're like a big, happy, dysfunctional family! I'll miss her! X | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. Its worse than a primary school, at least there they learn something and get on ..." Jeremy Kyle.... | |||
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"Why did she go? I voted for her in the best big boobs category as well. Oh so it's your fault then... " I didn't do it nobody saw me do it, can't prove anything! | |||
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"Why did she go? I voted for her in the best big boobs category as well. " brunette with the big tits? cant blame her, beastly people on this thread | |||
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"Enough with the bitching. I've removed posts, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. " xx | |||
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"Why did she go? I voted for her in the best big boobs category as well. brunette with the big tits? cant blame her, beastly people on this thread " Yeah, brunette bob, big boobs, liked Norwich football I think! | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. " Sometimes the nasty comments overwhelm the nice ones. Usually on this type of thread, the leaver is ripped to shreds - "why post you're leaving? just go" - type of thing. | |||
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"Enough with the bitching. I've removed posts, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. " But please could you not say in a few words what I was about to say in eight paragraphs? It makes me look bad!! | |||
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"I can't believe she left, really. Neither can I but if something is making you unhappy better to have a break and then come back. Hope she comes back. " You're right. I'll just hope she comes back soon. | |||
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"I can't believe she left, really. Neither can I but if something is making you unhappy better to have a break and then come back. Hope she comes back. You're right. I'll just hope she comes back soon. " me too | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. Sometimes the nasty comments overwhelm the nice ones. Usually on this type of thread, the leaver is ripped to shreds - "why post you're leaving? just go" - type of thing." Well if I go I'm going to say goodbye to everyone - because I've made a lot of good friends on here and I'd consider it rude not to! If people don't agree that's ok - I can live with it! Xx | |||
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"who even was it?" Miss Innocent | |||
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"who even was it? Miss Innocent" ah, had a feeling it was | |||
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"Attention seeking at it's finest " Hardly.....seeing as she actually went | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. It's not always like this - promise! I had a shit time of it a few days ago - but usually we're like a big, happy, dysfunctional family! I'll miss her! X" I hope not. It's quite off putting for a new member (of the forums) to see. Doesn't scream 'welcome' at all | |||
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"Look out she's just rejoined. " ? | |||
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"Wonder what's happened she didn't seem like the type for this." who knows? Doubt we'll ever know, even if she came back! | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. " too right mate can't say boo lol | |||
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"Must have decided against it, she joined then deleted the profile within minutes." Some unlos can't resist a final look at their swan song thread | |||
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" Aw this is a genuine sad one for me, met her in person and she was lovely and I'll miss the odd bit of football banter in between. I *hope* this was just a wobble and she'll be back soon as this place needs people like Miss Innocent " She has been so lovely to me - really helped me a few months ago. I hope she comes back as I'll miss her x | |||
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"Enough with the bitching. I've removed posts, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. " Enough said..... . | |||
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"Omfg!!! Where's the chrimbo spirit everyone? We all go through rough times and need a break every now and then!!! I have!! I've also tried to join in with posting on the forums, and you know what? Ive found them to be very cliquey. It's very off putting as a newbie. I've not given up though. I'm plodding on!!! . So all I'm gonna end with is this, I too enjoyed miss innocents comments and boobs!!! Wow! They were mahoosive!! But,Hey its Christmas. Let's just give each other a break. Ok mini rant over. " | |||
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" Aw this is a genuine sad one for me, met her in person and she was lovely and I'll miss the odd bit of football banter in between. I *hope* this was just a wobble and she'll be back soon as this place needs people like Miss Innocent " Only the old Miss Innocent though,the recent Miss Innocent didnt seem happy at all and that's coming from someone who didn't know her. Maybe send her a message make sure she's ok. | |||
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"I think I've been wandering around in a daze, there have been some really lovely threads this week, I must have not seen the bitchy nasty ones. I don't understand why, just because you're behind a screen, the tail of if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all doesn't apply? I liked Miss Innocent and I will miss her contribution. I hope she finds the space she needs and comes back refreshed." | |||
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"Wonder what's happened she didn't seem like the type for this." She always seemed like an unhappy person putting on a front that often slipped to me. She used to always put herself down which is always painful to watch on here. I hope she finds peace within herself. | |||
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"It's the nature of the beast unfortunately I have witnessed the rise and fall of numerous Forum 'Personalities' over the years. Some come back for good, others yo-yo, others never re-appear. Disappearances are not always down to attitudes of others but ,sometimes, if you have got stuff going on elsewhere, or if Fab is getting in the way of real life, they can be a catalyst for change. For some, Fab is addictive, the Forums more so. It becomes part of your routine and can consume you before you have realised it. In this situation, some hide their profile and disappear for a while whereas others have to go the full cold turkey. So, whilst losing a regular poster is always a shock, I won't be wearing my black veil nor pointing fingers. Hopefully the lady in question will return rejuvenated, refreshed and relaxed but if not, I'm sure we all wish her well x" Well said | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. It's not always like this - promise! I had a shit time of it a few days ago - but usually we're like a big, happy, dysfunctional family! I'll miss her! X I hope not. It's quite off putting for a new member (of the forums) to see. Doesn't scream 'welcome' at all " I'm not a new member at all and I wonder why I bother with the forum often, for the reasons stated above. | |||
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" Aw this is a genuine sad one for me, met her in person and she was lovely and I'll miss the odd bit of football banter in between. I *hope* this was just a wobble and she'll be back soon as this place needs people like Miss Innocent Only the old Miss Innocent though,the recent Miss Innocent didnt seem happy at all and that's coming from someone who didn't know her. Maybe send her a message make sure she's ok." I'm not on the forums as much as I used to be, and not always aware of others, but I did notice a dramatic change in her. As I said, she seemed unhappy to me. Run up to Christmas is not mistletoe and wine for everybody. | |||
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"No wonder the person left. I'm new here in the forums and there's so much bitchyness and sniping it's like primary school. There are some lovely people too thankfully that make them interesting. It's not always like this - promise! I had a shit time of it a few days ago - but usually we're like a big, happy, dysfunctional family! I'll miss her! X I hope not. It's quite off putting for a new member (of the forums) to see. Doesn't scream 'welcome' at all I'm not a new member at all and I wonder why I bother with the forum often, for the reasons stated above. " | |||
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"Wonder what's happened she didn't seem like the type for this. She always seemed like an unhappy person putting on a front that often slipped to me. She used to always put herself down which is always painful to watch on here. I hope she finds peace within herself." I meant more her comments in the "best female body" thread. Where she totally derailed it | |||
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"Wonder what's happened she didn't seem like the type for this. She always seemed like an unhappy person putting on a front that often slipped to me. She used to always put herself down which is always painful to watch on here. I hope she finds peace within herself. I meant more her comments in the "best female body" thread. Where she totally derailed it" I did see that. As I said, hope she finds peace with herself. | |||
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"Why did she go? I voted for her in the best big boobs category as well. brunette with the big tits? cant blame her, beastly people on this thread Yeah, brunette bob, big boobs, liked Norwich football I think!" Didn't know Delia Smith had been on here! | |||
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"It's the nature of the beast unfortunately I have witnessed the rise and fall of numerous Forum 'Personalities' over the years. Some come back for good, others yo-yo, others never re-appear. Disappearances are not always down to attitudes of others but ,sometimes, if you have got stuff going on elsewhere, or if Fab is getting in the way of real life, they can be a catalyst for change. For some, Fab is addictive, the Forums more so. It becomes part of your routine and can consume you before you have realised it. In this situation, some hide their profile and disappear for a while whereas others have to go the full cold turkey. So, whilst losing a regular poster is always a shock, I won't be wearing my black veil nor pointing fingers. Hopefully the lady in question will return rejuvenated, refreshed and relaxed but if not, I'm sure we all wish her well x" This x | |||
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"Enough with the bitching. I've removed posts, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. " you should leave them on so when she comes back she would see some peoples true colours.. | |||
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"Wonder what's happened she didn't seem like the type for this. She always seemed like an unhappy person putting on a front that often slipped to me. She used to always put herself down which is always painful to watch on here. I hope she finds peace within herself." and this.. | |||
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"It's the nature of the beast unfortunately I have witnessed the rise and fall of numerous Forum 'Personalities' over the years. Some come back for good, others yo-yo, others never re-appear. Disappearances are not always down to attitudes of others but ,sometimes, if you have got stuff going on elsewhere, or if Fab is getting in the way of real life, they can be a catalyst for change. For some, Fab is addictive, the Forums more so. It becomes part of your routine and can consume you before you have realised it. In this situation, some hide their profile and disappear for a while whereas others have to go the full cold turkey. So, whilst losing a regular poster is always a shock, I won't be wearing my black veil nor pointing fingers. Hopefully the lady in question will return rejuvenated, refreshed and relaxed but if not, I'm sure we all wish her well x" Well said xxx | |||
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" Aw this is a genuine sad one for me, met her in person and she was lovely and I'll miss the odd bit of football banter in between. I *hope* this was just a wobble and she'll be back soon as this place needs people like Miss Innocent Only the old Miss Innocent though,the recent Miss Innocent didnt seem happy at all and that's coming from someone who didn't know her. Maybe send her a message make sure she's ok. I'm not on the forums as much as I used to be, and not always aware of others, but I did notice a dramatic change in her. As I said, she seemed unhappy to me. Run up to Christmas is not mistletoe and wine for everybody." | |||
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"Wonder what's happened she didn't seem like the type for this. She always seemed like an unhappy person putting on a front that often slipped to me. She used to always put herself down which is always painful to watch on here. I hope she finds peace within herself." Astute as ever Sassy. Her unhappiness oozed out of her every post from the off for me. I wish her well , whether she's gone or whether she's here, reading. | |||
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"Its one person gone.. Plenty still here. That's the helpful sort of comments that make the forum such a crass place at times. Some people just haven't a clue....if your head wasnt so far up your arse it could be slapped. Often shake my head when reading so many of the bitch comments on here. Unfortunately it's the wrong ones that so often leave....its support that people need not kicking. She was a great girl and one of the few genuinely nice ones in my circle. Many will miss her. " Couldn't agree more! If anyone has her number can they send her my love please and tell her I hope she comes back? X | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her." Everyone is entitled to post what they like, I didn't see her say anything really bad. Tell her to give her head a wobble. I'm glad she's gone. | |||
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"Wonder what's happened she didn't seem like the type for this. She always seemed like an unhappy person putting on a front that often slipped to me. She used to always put herself down which is always painful to watch on here. I hope she finds peace within herself. Astute as ever Sassy. Her unhappiness oozed out of her every post from the off for me. I wish her well , whether she's gone or whether she's here, reading. " Yes indeed, I hope Christmas brings her some comfort - fabs is a two edged sword, whilst it may be fascinating and even addictive, it will put pressure on whatever wounding we have and the cracks may start to appear. Christmas can do the same too, but it can be very healing! Here's hoping for everyone | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her." If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them" To be honest - until we all learn to put our point of _iew across without getting bitchy and personal I'd love to see body type threads killed at birth! Lately they're the ones that have caused all the unpleasantness! Very sad!! | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them To be honest - until we all learn to put our point of _iew across without getting bitchy and personal I'd love to see body type threads killed at birth! Lately they're the ones that have caused all the unpleasantness! Very sad!! " It happens from all sides and has been doing for a very long time, not just lately. | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them To be honest - until we all learn to put our point of _iew across without getting bitchy and personal I'd love to see body type threads killed at birth! Lately they're the ones that have caused all the unpleasantness! Very sad!! It happens from all sides and has been doing for a very long time, not just lately." Perhaps it's only recently that I've become so conscious of it then! From now on - for every negative thread/post I'm going to produce a positive slightly loopy one! The world inside my head is so barmy that they'll get a headache and stop being mean to each other! This will be my life's work! Do you think you can get an MBE for services to swinging? | |||
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"some people take it all way too seriously" | |||
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"some people take it all way too seriously" This is serious stuff my lovely | |||
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"some people take it all way too seriously This is serious stuff my lovely " I know, I know | |||
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"some people take it all way too seriously" Agreed, I find that too. I am interested in people's opinions as they often have a different perspective and something I can learn from or at leapt consider. But people take things very personally. I think if you are secure and happy, then you won't let anything on here damage you .... you see people for what they are when they posts inane comments and learn from those you can learn from. Its a computer screen and unlikely I will ever meet most of the people who post, its a small part of my life ... and so it stays there and it is what it is. | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them" But that thread was going perfectly please type with no one even mentioning size before she came in and started calling people stick insects. | |||
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"some people take it all way too seriously Agreed, I find that too. I am interested in people's opinions as they often have a different perspective and something I can learn from or at leapt consider. But people take things very personally. I think if you are secure and happy, then you won't let anything on here damage you .... you see people for what they are when they posts inane comments and learn from those you can learn from. Its a computer screen and unlikely I will ever meet most of the people who post, its a small part of my life ... and so it stays there and it is what it is." | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 19/12/15 11:07:35]" The moderation I have witnessed has always been impartial. Except when i'm banned then I think it's a bleedin injustice. | |||
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" I hate this time of year fab wise because the fab polls just turn into one massive licky arse popularity contest... and i want no part... so i step back......simple problem, simple solution" usually tears before bedtime | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them But that thread was going perfectly please type with no one even mentioning size before she came in and started calling people stick insects. " She was making a point by the looks of it by doing that. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 19/12/15 11:07:35] The moderation I have witnessed has always been impartial. Except when i'm banned then I think it's a bleedin injustice. " Ditto! | |||
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"some people gone.... and when they are ready i am sure some people come back.... the trick is staying is just knowing when to step back and take time.... I hate this time of year fab wise because the fab polls just turn into one massive licky arse popularity contest... and i want no part " No, and dangerous for those who's self esteem may be precariously balanced on popularity on a sex site. | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them But that thread was going perfectly please type with no one even mentioning size before she came in and started calling people stick insects. She was making a point by the looks of it by doing that. " What point? | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them But that thread was going perfectly please type with no one even mentioning size before she came in and started calling people stick insects. She was making a point by the looks of it by doing that. What point? That people normally spoil larger women threads by being nasty and yet no one had been nasty on that thread up till then. As I say on my first post , she did have a point on that thread, but the spoiling on threads of larger or smaller women happens equally." but that thread wasn't about body size at all. It hadn't even come up. It's like going into a thread about hair colour and starting to slag people off about their choice of knickers | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them But that thread was going perfectly please type with no one even mentioning size before she came in and started calling people stick insects. She was making a point by the looks of it by doing that. What point? " That people normally spoil larger women threads by being nasty and yet no one had been nasty on that thread up till then.( I am assuming she was meaning because only slimmer women had been mentioned but as I cant speak for her don't take that as gospel ) As I say on my first post , she did have a point on that thread, but the spoiling on threads of larger or smaller women happens equally. | |||
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" What point? That people normally spoil larger women threads by being nasty and yet no one had been nasty on that thread up till then. As I say on my first post , she did have a point on that thread, but the spoiling on threads of larger or smaller women happens equally. but that thread wasn't about body size at all. It hadn't even come up. It's like going into a thread about hair colour and starting to slag people off about their choice of knickers" I was adding to my post to make it clear what I was saying while you wrote this | |||
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"some people gone.... and when they are ready i am sure some people come back.... the trick is staying is just knowing when to step back and take time.... I hate this time of year fab wise because the fab polls just turn into one massive licky arse popularity contest... and i want no part... so i step back......simple problem, simple solution" | |||
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"some people gone.... and when they are ready i am sure some people come back.... the trick is staying is just knowing when to step back and take time.... I hate this time of year fab wise because the fab polls just turn into one massive licky arse popularity contest... and i want no part No, and dangerous for those who's self esteem may be precariously balanced on popularity on a sex site." It's when they lose their popular status that the problems arise. | |||
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"Bye." hey she will be back abfabs can't survive without her and her it ,she needs to tell the guys she's going she'll be back but I'm surprised shes allowing a few confrontational women on here to upset her thought she was made of stronger stuff | |||
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"Bye.hey she will be back abfabs can't survive without her and her it ,she needs to tell the guys she's going she'll be back but I'm surprised shes allowing a few confrontational women on here to upset her thought she was made of stronger stuff " Did she say what made her leave ? What makes you suggest it was 'confrontational' women ? | |||
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"Bye.hey she will be back abfabs can't survive without her and her it ,she needs to tell the guys she's going she'll be back but I'm surprised shes allowing a few confrontational women on here to upset her thought she was made of stronger stuff Did she say what made her leave ? What makes you suggest it was 'confrontational' women ?" it was one of the threads about weight that got to her they tend to get heated and she got drawn in ,she's over weight and she gets uptight about it but you should just try and enjoy what you've got ,people like you for who you are mostly and no-one is ever like a text message in reality | |||
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"Thank you x Did SHE say what made her leave ? Why do you say it was 'confrontational women ' that were the cause ? " To balance things out, she was rude to me several times on my old profile regarding my weight. And she was rude to others too, that "stick insects" post was just one example. The majority of the time, she was the confrontational person when it comes to weight issues. | |||
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"OMG has Miss Innocent left? She was lovely, I'm going to miss her contributions to the forums. Feeling really sad,. " Same here! Really sorry, she was lovely! I didn't realise it was her posts in the best body thread. That's very unlike her. I hope she comes back x | |||
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"Miss Innocent has just been in touch with me. She asked me to pass on this message for her to you guys... She's sorry for any bitchy comments she made and was wrong to post them. And she's sorry for upsetting anyone. Other than that I can't say anymore. I for one will miss her. If it was the best body thread that broke the camels back, she made some good points. Larger ladies threads always go tits up because of the nasty comments, but, I have also seen threads about slimmer women goes tits up too with the larger ladies spoiling them To be honest - until we all learn to put our point of _iew across without getting bitchy and personal I'd love to see body type threads killed at birth! Lately they're the ones that have caused all the unpleasantness! Very sad!! It happens from all sides and has been doing for a very long time, not just lately. Perhaps it's only recently that I've become so conscious of it then! From now on - for every negative thread/post I'm going to produce a positive slightly loopy one! The world inside my head is so barmy that they'll get a headache and stop being mean to each other! This will be my life's work! Do you think you can get an MBE for services to swinging? " you can if MBE stands for mental but egotistical | |||
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" Aw this is a genuine sad one for me, met her in person and she was lovely and I'll miss the odd bit of football banter in between. I *hope* this was just a wobble and she'll be back soon as this place needs people like Miss Innocent " What you said. I'll miss the footy banter and her wit. | |||
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"If it's who I think it might be then it's more likely another thread where she put almost everyone's backs up with a comment. And got lots of opposing opinions. Which is par for the course in a forum " You don't have to guess. It says who it was several times above. | |||
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"If it's who I think it might be then it's more likely another thread where she put almost everyone's backs up with a comment. And got lots of opposing opinions. Which is par for the course in a forum You don't have to guess. It says who it was several times above. " I didn't read the whole thing. | |||
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"She told me why she left and it's a decision I wholeheartedly support. It wasn't any one thing or thread, but certainly a time for her to take a step back and reflect. " That's good, in the sense it wasn't the forums. | |||
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"who even was it? " Exactly, who was she? | |||
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"the less reliant you are on the applause, the hugs, the kisses and the cuddles, the easier the life is on here......." Oh go on, give us a hug lol | |||
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"Bye." Missing you already.... Not. | |||
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"Bye. Missing you already.... Not." Stop it! I thought miss innocent was really nice!! I think some people need more hugs!! ; | |||
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"Bye. Missing you already.... Not. " And there's a perfect example of why people leave. | |||
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"Bye. Missing you already.... Not. Stop it! I thought miss innocent was really nice!! I think some people need more hugs!! ; " Don't forget that she was particularly nice to everyone else, and often for no reason apart from her bad moods. Just because you like her doesn't mean everyone else has to. | |||
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