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By *osie OP Woman over a year ago

Wembley

So, following on from the BBC, BWC, VWE, size matters / size does not matter, threads; how long is an ideal duration for you? Not talking about how many times during a day / night / whatever but how long do you find it nice and comfortable?

I guess this applies both to women and men

Me? About 3 - 4 minutes of penetrative sex is just about right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As well as a lot of foreplay I like to fuck for a while in different positions, different tempos and really mix it up a bit, keeping it spontaneous and my partner not knowing what's coming up next. 3 to 4 minutes seems like a quickie to me. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As well as a lot of foreplay I like to fuck for a while in different positions, different tempos and really mix it up a bit, keeping it spontaneous and my partner not knowing what's coming up next. 3 to 4 minutes seems like a quickie to me. X"

This.

3-4 minutes would be like the intro!

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Now it takes me all night to do what I used to do all night

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

I love receiving bjs 30 seconds of peace and quiet

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By *osie OP Woman over a year ago

Wembley

How long each time? Does not include drinks, dinner, foreplay, getting the condom out, ripping it open ..........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm lucky cos sex with me is over in minutes - it just feels like an eternity for the other party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 to 4 minutes seems like a marathon to me

lol

Anyway the actual penetration bit is the icing on the cake to me, the climax to the whole event, personally I like to spend a while scene setting and enjoying the foreplay / build up .. Then 20 seconds* of a quick heave ho and I'm done

(* joke!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on her if keeps me turned on then no one's getting any sleep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can vary, I guess the most common time frame is between half an hour to an hour with changing positions and stuff, but also had hours of sex and up to 10 minutes with no reason really for the difference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, following on from the BBC, BWC, VWE, size matters / size does not matter, threads; how long is an ideal duration for you? Not talking about how many times during a day / night / whatever but how long do you find it nice and comfortable?

I guess this applies both to women and men

Me? About 3 - 4 minutes of penetrative sex is just about right"

I kind of agree to this, you have the kissing and the stroking, then the oral and hands, and the actually act of sex is the last bit, I'd say maybe 30 to 40 minutes all together with sex been 5 to 10 minutes, if you want pounding on for hours I'm not the man for you lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 15 minutes is about right, couple of positions in that time. The foreplay is more important to me.

If penetrative sex takes too long I get bored

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I personally find that the stopwatch is a bit of a distraction, unless I'm working towards a new personal best

I'd rather just go with the flow and enjoy the experience however it pans out.

Cal

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

It can vary. But the foreplay carries on during penetration so it can be a while.

Depends on whether we are having a quick fuck or something more intense.

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By *osie OP Woman over a year ago

Wembley

"I personally find that the stopwatch is a bit of a distraction, unless I'm working towards a new personal best

I'd rather just go with the flow and enjoy the experience however it pans out.

Cal"

I am assuming that the male wrote that

But is she enjoying the mindless pounding after the first 15 minutes or it that what you think she is enjoying?

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

"About 15 minutes is about right, couple of positions in that time. The foreplay is more important to me.

If penetrative sex takes too long I get bored

It's easy to change position: spoons, rotate to side entry, on top, cowgirl, sit up. AND keeping mated at the same time.

Then there is the opportunity if you are standing to shuffle between rooms: living room, kitchen, hall, shower. Looks a bit ungainly - but can be fun.

15 minutes is definitely a quickie

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

I guess this applies both to women and men

Me? About 3 - 4 minutes of penetrative sex is just about right"

To be honest - if I was only expecting 3-4 minutes of penetrative sex - not sure it would be worth getting a hard on.

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By *osie OP Woman over a year ago

Wembley

I guess this applies both to women and men

Me? About 3 - 4 minutes of penetrative sex is just about right

To be honest - if I was only expecting 3-4 minutes of penetrative sex - not sure it would be worth getting a hard on."

I am heartbroken.

I agree; I am only intereted in non-BBC, non-BWC, non-VWE and those who cannot last for hours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it depends on the pace ,if it's slow and sensual a lot longer than a headboard banger

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

"I think it depends on the pace ,if it's slow and sensual a lot longer than a headboard banger

I've tried the 10-thrusts-a-second thing. It's not for me.

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By *estsideukMan over a year ago

Hatfield area

What an interesting thread. I think depends on the person, the situation, etc. I think first time 4-6 mins can be about right - particularly with foreplay and it's the culmination. But 2nd and 3rd times - I'm thinking long meets here - I think slower and longer is good.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

3-4 minutes wouldn't satisfy me at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh if I'm lasting for hours of actual penetration it means the sex is a bit shit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"About 15 minutes is about right, couple of positions in that time. The foreplay is more important to me.

If penetrative sex takes too long I get bored

It's easy to change position: spoons, rotate to side entry, on top, cowgirl, sit up. AND keeping mated at the same time.

Then there is the opportunity if you are standing to shuffle between rooms: living room, kitchen, hall, shower. Looks a bit ungainly - but can be fun.

15 minutes is definitely a quickie

This is how genitals get broken.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess this applies both to women and men

Me? About 3 - 4 minutes of penetrative sex is just about right"

Yeah I'm with you. five mins of penetrative sex is great. Ten in a few situations with a few people. After that I'm probably bored and we'll find a different way to finish off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally find that the stopwatch is a bit of a distraction, unless I'm working towards a new personal best

I'd rather just go with the flow and enjoy the experience however it pans out.

Cal

I am assuming that the male wrote that

But is she enjoying the mindless pounding after the first 15 minutes or it that what you think she is enjoying?

It doesn't have to be mindless pounding. Penetration can be great for an hour if you change positions and pace.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How long each time? Does not include drinks, dinner, foreplay, getting the condom out, ripping it open ..........

I don't know I've never timed it. Does it matter. As a guess from kissing to undressing to foreplay, fucking and cumming and me cumming 20 mins to half an hour. I know I've done it over a course of an hour to hour and a half before.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

There is a difference between just plunging in and out and penetration with a bit of kissing and stoking etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3/4 mins would just be spent on kissing...a good 45 at least that's including foreplay though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm lucky cos sex with me is over in minutes - it just feels like an eternity for the other party

A woman offered me sex but I had to dissapoint her, we had sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally find that the stopwatch is a bit of a distraction, unless I'm working towards a new personal best

I'd rather just go with the flow and enjoy the experience however it pans out.

Cal

I am assuming that the male wrote that

But is she enjoying the mindless pounding after the first 15 minutes or it that what you think she is enjoying?

It doesn't have to be mindless pounding. Penetration can be great for an hour if you change positions and pace. "

Agreed and between changing positions do some more foreplay or oral or spanking or tying up or move to a different room. GRRR.

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By *osie OP Woman over a year ago

Wembley

"3/4 mins would just be spent on kissing...a good 45 at least that's including foreplay though "

I would want even more than that on kissing!!!

But I was interested in finding out how much time people engage in penetrative sex each time. Not during the entire evening. Just each time

I start getting sore after 10 minutes maximum and then need some time to recover. My ideal is 3 - 4 minutes as if I haven't orgasmed by then, it ain't gonna happen after 15 minutes

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"3/4 mins would just be spent on kissing...a good 45 at least that's including foreplay though

I would want even more than that on kissing!!!

But I was interested in finding out how much time people engage in penetrative sex each time. Not during the entire evening. Just each time

I start getting sore after 10 minutes maximum and then need some time to recover. My ideal is 3 - 4 minutes as if I haven't orgasmed by then, it ain't gonna happen after 15 minutes"

That's the thing we may do penetration and stop and change to something else.

Once it's in it does not stay there until the end is reached.

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By *ilk_TrayMan over a year ago

Hampshire

A long session can be enjoyable if things are mixed up a little bit.

Foreplay, penetration, change angles/positions, back to foreplay, penetration, climax and go again after a short break

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

I guess this applies both to women and men

Me? About 3 - 4 minutes of penetrative sex is just about right"
. After thirty minutes of penetration it can become boring and less enjoyable .

I prefer shorter penetration of 15 mins , withdraw and relax , and then go again after about ten minutes .

I used to see a Japanse lady when she was over in London and she wanted penetration non stop for at least ninety minutes . Even after I had come she wanted me to remain inside her .

I also see another lady who wants penetration as long as possible and it is difficult to withdraw for a rest.

My ideal sessions are about 15 minutes and then some rest before starting again..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess this applies both to women and men

Me? About 3 - 4 minutes of penetrative sex is just about right"
I can last for hours without coming I like the woman to cum as many times as is physically possible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, it is 10min foreplay and 2min penetration. I can stretch it to 2min 50sec lol

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By *osie OP Woman over a year ago

Wembley

"For me, it is 10min foreplay and 2min penetration. I can stretch it to 2min 50sec lol

That is 50 secs up from your last claim

Next you'll be telling us that your cock is 12" long 6" in girth and you once caught a fish thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat big

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

no more than 10 mins.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me, it is 10min foreplay and 2min penetration. I can stretch it to 2min 50sec lol

That is 50 secs up from your last claim

Next you'll be telling us that your cock is 12" long 6" in girth and you once caught a fish thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat big

"
Yes I added 50 seconds there lol and that is right a monster cock with girth, well I might of caught a tench fish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally find that the stopwatch is a bit of a distraction, unless I'm working towards a new personal best

I'd rather just go with the flow and enjoy the experience however it pans out.

Cal

I am assuming that the male wrote that

But is she enjoying the mindless pounding after the first 15 minutes or it that what you think she is enjoying?

It doesn't have to be mindless pounding. Penetration can be great for an hour if you change positions and pace. "

mixing up positions, pace, and using tongues and fingers to keep things moist normally lends itself to longer sessions than 3-4 mins, but I've never timed and I guess everyone has their preferences.

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