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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here a lot of women on here saying there having abusive messages off guys! Obviously they can't take rejection well and resort to abuse, is it necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your update appears to be there to get around a block or filter of some kind...
Is that necessary?
Makes you seem like you don't take no for an answer very well either :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"abuse is never necessary shame that some guys tend to show there true colours
when you just say no thanks "
i really dont get why some blokes do this , honestly rejection to me is like water of slate roof , never ever bothered me being rejected |
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I have experienced abusive messeged on posts I have made by women and couples when it was unnecessary. Title for tat it seems. Although I feel there is no need for anyone to be abusive. A polite ignore would suffice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your update appears to be there to get around a block or filter of some kind...
Is that necessary?
Makes you seem like you don't take no for an answer very well either :/ "
Was trying to answer a question she was asking about a tattoo parlour I know the guy but couldn't msg her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here a lot of women on here saying there having abusive messages off guys! Obviously they can't take rejection well and resort to abuse, is it necessary. "
women rule here get used to it ,they mostly can be obusive and get away with it and theirs always some other guy to replace the pushy guy    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those who are abusive because of rejection, need more practice being rejected.
I've been rejected a lot, so I take it really well now, in fact I'm the best at being rejected on this whole site,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here a lot of women on here saying there having abusive messages off guys! Obviously they can't take rejection well and resort to abuse, is it necessary. "
Been on here as a single a week and my block list is bulging at the seems.... . Not all single men.. Couples too.. .. I've also been told by men who I'm friendly with that some women can be just as bad..... Abuse is never necessary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them."
Im always polite.. But if they haven't read profile then I delete without reading... Which is when abuse generally starts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Im always polite.. But if they haven't read profile then I delete without reading... Which is when abuse generally starts "
But even if I just delete I don't get abuse. |
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them."
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it."
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it."
Oh wow. Considering all the abuse you just posted to my post. Haha. Wow you need to wake up and smell the coffee and take a long hard look in the mirror. C |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it."
So why do some women say they get loads of abusive messages and others get hardly any? I think some women do cause the abusive messages in how they respond. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them."
I used to reply that I was looking for people local to me and was not interested. Then I would thank them for contacting me and wish them well on the site.
I would then get a mix of polite thanks for the message, begging me to change my mind or abuse. I soon found it easier to reply and block , or delete and block.
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it.
So why do some women say they get loads of abusive messages and others get hardly any? I think some women do cause the abusive messages in how they respond."
So when I don't respond to the fourth demand to know why I'm not interested in meeting them, that's my fault?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it.
So why do some women say they get loads of abusive messages and others get hardly any? I think some women do cause the abusive messages in how they respond."
I can't speak for everyone.. But I know I don't give any one reason to be abusive or rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it.
So why do some women say they get loads of abusive messages and others get hardly any? I think some women do cause the abusive messages in how they respond.
So when I don't respond to the fourth demand to know why I'm not interested in meeting them, that's my fault? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it.
So why do some women say they get loads of abusive messages and others get hardly any? I think some women do cause the abusive messages in how they respond."
i'm an ignorant fuck and hardly get any abuse.
abusive people are abusive, end of. you don't need to make excuses for them, there are none.
the way people handle any situation says everything about them and not the other person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them."
Yeah, it's the womens fault they get abuse-classic Daily Mail nonsense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your update appears to be there to get around a block or filter of some kind...
Is that necessary?
Makes you seem like you don't take no for an answer very well either :/ "
Ha ha ha.
Filters for a reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm talking from my personal experience and I don't get abuse when I say no.
But others do and you just said they asked for it"
I'm just surprised they get abuse and I don't. There has to be a reason behind it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here a lot of women on here saying there having abusive messages off guys! Obviously they can't take rejection well and resort to abuse, is it necessary. women rule here get used to it ,they mostly can be obusive and get away with it and theirs always some other guy to replace the pushy guy "
This! |
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it."
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Here's a recent example
Said to someone... your status says leaving soon. They said after site supporter runs out.
At this point my reply was don't stay on my account, I don't really see us as compatible or this progressing... to get a long abusive tirade back about single women... just like all the rest, pussy n tits letting me think I can treat people badly and how far up my own arse I am thinking I'm gods gift (which if you read my profile it's quite clear I don't!)
So no, I don't think I asked for any abuse there. Some folk just can't accept rejection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Im always polite.. But if they haven't read profile then I delete without reading... Which is when abuse generally starts "
I believe our messages where on a very civil and polite level, I'm never abusive when I get a no thanks or the message is ignored.  |
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Saying "Thank you for messaging but you're not my type" is sure to bring on the abuse?
It's some men that send abuse, not women who cause it.
So why do some women say they get loads of abusive messages and others get hardly any? I think some women do cause the abusive messages in how they respond.
I can't speak for everyone.. But I know I don't give any one reason to be abusive or rude "
I either delete and block, delete or reply with my polite no thank you. Most of the time I get a polite thank you back, but I have twice received replies which were both foul and abusive and very upsetting. In no way did I warrant the level of abuse thrown at me - one in fact left me questioning if I wanted to continue on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm talking from my personal experience and I don't get abuse when I say no.
But others do and you just said they asked for it
I'm just surprised they get abuse and I don't. There has to be a reason behind it."
Can be the area and/or age limits and who you're looking for that cause it.
Round here younger guys tend to respect (older?) women so i don't really get any abuse, if i open my age limits to older guys i start getting way more disrespectful messages and a rare bit of abuse.
Be interesting to see who is looking for what, who contacts them and how they do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've not been swinging too long but we both agreed right at the start that the day we get upset at being rejected is the day we stop swinging.
As for blokes acting in an insulting or aggressive manner after being rejected, I would name and shame and even show FAB their arsey messages"
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
I have never received an abusive message back from a rejection message. I try to be polite and just wish them well.I do get the odd weird message or request but never abusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm talking from my personal experience and I don't get abuse when I say no.
But others do and you just said they asked for it
I'm just surprised they get abuse and I don't. There has to be a reason behind it."
There will be a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always really surprised when I hear lots of women get abusive messages because I don't.
I say I'm not interested to a lot of men on here and they are pretty much nearly always really polite back. Abusive messages are a rarity to me so I do question how these women getting abuse are replying to the men who have messaged them.
Im always polite.. But if they haven't read profile then I delete without reading... Which is when abuse generally starts
I believe our messages where on a very civil and polite level, I'm never abusive when I get a no thanks or the message is ignored. "
Yes you are a gentleman xx |
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