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Is it all a waste of time?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So been on 2 weeks roughly and no joy what a surprise not.. yet some people have barely been on here a day!! And have arranged a meet already lol. Used sites like this before an never had trouble meeting people. Is just me or is it getting harder to meet genuine down to earth people on these sites? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the second thread in days you've posted, of a similar nature.
Not sure if you took the advice already given but I wouldn't meet you due to the status alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I posted about lack of interest in me last week
Got well slated
I've been on 9weeks but know some on months then suddenly messages
I send out 15+ messages a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be hard to get started, yes, but overall I don't think finding meets is that difficult if you are flexible and you put in the effort. So, no, we aren't finding that it is a waste of time.
You didn't ask for a profile review, so I will refrain, but I hope you find what you are looking for.
-Courtney |
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"This is the second thread in days you've posted, of a similar nature.
Not sure if you took the advice already given but I wouldn't meet you due to the status alone."
I agree. The fact that this is the second complainy post you've put makes me think that you have a mentality that people on here should be easy to meet, and that we all owe you a date.
Turns me right off, that kind of attitude. Lol.
And yeah, that status! Why end it with a sad face?!  |
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"So been on 2 weeks roughly and no joy what a surprise not.. yet some people have barely been on here a day!! And have arranged a meet already lol. Used sites like this before an never had trouble meeting people. Is just me or is it getting harder to meet genuine down to earth people on these sites? "
If the ones meeting after a day are women then why would that surprise you given men greatly outnumber women on here. 2 weeks is nothing for a single guy wanting to meet women took me 3 months to get my first meet. Be prepared to make an effort and have some patience, this is not instashag dot com. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So been on 2 weeks roughly and no joy what a surprise not.. yet some people have barely been on here a day!! And have arranged a meet already lol. Used sites like this before an never had trouble meeting people. Is just me or is it getting harder to meet genuine down to earth people on these sites? "
No it's not. Just know what to do. What have you done to get a meet? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"So been on 2 weeks roughly and no joy what a surprise not.. yet some people have barely been on here a day!! And have arranged a meet already lol. Used sites like this before an never had trouble meeting people. Is just me or is it getting harder to meet genuine down to earth people on these sites? "
a) its you.....
b) 2 weeks isn't really giving it time
c) its you.....
d) you get out what you put in
e) its you.....
f) 2 weeks isn't really showing patience
g) its you....
h) sorry its not the instashag you thought it would be.....
i) its you....
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"So been on 2 weeks roughly and no joy what a surprise not.. yet some people have barely been on here a day!! And have arranged a meet already lol. Used sites like this before an never had trouble meeting people. Is just me or is it getting harder to meet genuine down to earth people on these sites?
If the ones meeting after a day are women then why would that surprise you given men greatly outnumber women on here. 2 weeks is nothing for a single guy wanting to meet women took me 3 months to get my first meet. Be prepared to make an effort and have some patience, this is not instashag dot com. "
 ....Suzy xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You want to get noticed at the same time as calling people a " bunch of cuntsss" on your profile.
Wise"
I agree for me just the status means I wouldn't look at the rest of the profile. Op I woupd advise you look at the type of imagine you wish to project on here. Do you think you would look at and answer messages from a profile with this heading? |
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"I posted about lack of interest in me last week
Got well slated
I've been on 9weeks but know some on months then suddenly messages
I send out 15+ messages a day"
15 a day? That smacks of desperation. I send messages to those I think might return them. Very few of them are wanna-meet messages. Build up a rapport first and sow the seeds in their mind 'this bloke is actually interesting - hmm, maybe I should meet him sometime'... |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"So been on 2 weeks roughly and no joy what a surprise not.. yet some people have barely been on here a day!! And have arranged a meet already lol. Used sites like this before an never had trouble meeting people. Is just me or is it getting harder to meet genuine down to earth people on these sites? "
If you didn't struggle on the other sites.. why not use those again.?
Or
do what you did on those sites (as it was successful) on here..  |
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Well if you carry on doing what your doing now, we will see you back here in six months saying you had no meets.
But as I'm feeling generous,
Look at successful peoples profiles, what do you think makes them successful? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I posted about lack of interest in me last week
Got well slated
I've been on 9weeks but know some on months then suddenly messages
I send out 15+ messages a day"
When I first joined the site I went with the send loads of messages out approach and got nowhere.
After I'd taken a break for a few months I changed my approach, now I only message someone 'new' once in a blue moon if I really like the look of them.
And you know what? I'm much more successful at getting conversations and meets now I message new people once in a while than when I was banging out 15 a day!
Make sure you really want to meet and talk to THAT person (and make that show in a personalised message to THEM) rather than just anyone and hopefully your 'luck' will change - good luck fella! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fear the OP lacks the self-awareness to do well on this site, so yeah I guess it IS you OP and it is all a waste of time.
If you're gonna keep posting threads and ignoring advice, then prepare yourself for a slating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's only hard if your desperate!
Try going to a club, social and friendly people are often found there.
Failing that, keep up what your doing here, add another thread next week stating your still not getting any luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You want to get noticed at the same time as calling people a " bunch of cuntsss" on your profile.
Wise"
Oh he got noticed alright .... but maybe not as he hoped.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Omg people are still commenting on this haha I don't need these sites to get laid lool. I just use them coz normally there quite fun but obviously iv touched a nerve with a lot of sensitive souls on here blessss. |
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"Omg people are still commenting on this haha I don't need these sites to get laid lool. I just use them coz normally there quite fun but obviously iv touched a nerve with a lot of sensitive souls on here blessss. "
You're not coming over as a pleasant person. But you don't care as you're balls deep in clunge off site anyway, so good luck to you fella! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if the women in question find you attractive or not. Attraction is not all about looks otherwise I'd be knee deep in clunge, pretty boy like me but that's not all that attracts people to you. Be yourself, be focused and you'll attract people to you I think. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Omg people are still commenting on this haha I don't need these sites to get laid lool. I just use them coz normally there quite fun but obviously iv touched a nerve with a lot of sensitive souls on here blessss. "
I can see that you are quite a catch
Don't listen to these jealous folk
Continue 'getting laid' in the big wide world out there where women are clawing each others' eyes out just to hear those dulcet tones |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Omg people are still commenting on this haha I don't need these sites to get laid lool. I just use them coz normally there quite fun but obviously iv touched a nerve with a lot of sensitive souls on here blessss.
You're not coming over as a pleasant person. But you don't care as you're balls deep in clunge off site anyway, so good luck to you fella! "
I'm actually quite a nice, easy going, down to earth guy problem with the Internet is people are quick to judge! Think they know your character who you are from one post/thread. Oh and it's coz I write a status saying Ho Ho Ho ya bunch of cunts lol I was bored?? Ho Ho Ho it's Xmas?? I wasn't actually calling individuals a cunt. Yes it's a horrible word I know but it's part of my sense of homour not all of it though. So people just started picking at anything on my profile haha oh god, I really don't come on here for trouble |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Omg people are still commenting on this haha I don't need these sites to get laid lool. I just use them coz normally there quite fun but obviously iv touched a nerve with a lot of sensitive souls on here blessss.
I can see that you are quite a catch
Don't listen to these jealous folk
Continue 'getting laid' in the big wide world out there where women are clawing each others' eyes out just to hear those dulcet tones"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Lool"
arent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit"
So why come on here then if there all a waste of time? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
So why come on here then if there all a waste of time? "
read above somewhere iv already said why lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
So why come on here then if there all a waste of time? read above somewhere iv already said why lol "
I wasn't actually asking you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit"
I think blackcurrant jam is sexy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
I think blackcurrant jam is sexy "
it's only sexy if it's spread somewhere  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
I think blackcurrant jam is sexy "
lol random luv it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I forgot about this lol pointless replying to anyone now ay. All I will say is some of need to lighten up!! Don't take this site so seriously  . People always quick to judge and think they have you sussed out but you don't. None of you know me  thanks to everyone that was playing nice . Slate away allll you like hahaha pleasee do I won't loose no sleep I'm very self aware. Oh ms generous keep ya generosity ta .iv probably missed a few of fab buddies out oh well jesus loves ya
I think you just confirmed what people at the start of this thread were saying ... With respect you come across as a bit of a knob .... 
No respect, he comes across as an arrogant knob. really insults? Grow up"
I think it's the OP who needs to grow up. I've done mine, and it hasn't been easy I can assure you. I have little respect for whingers and moaners and I certainly don't need advice from a twenty one year old thank you. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
I think blackcurrant jam is sexy it's only sexy if it's spread somewhere "
On a knobhead
As in, the head of a penis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I forgot about this lol pointless replying to anyone now ay. All I will say is some of need to lighten up!! Don't take this site so seriously . People always quick to judge and think they have you sussed out but you don't. None of you know me thanks to everyone that was playing nice . Slate away allll you like hahaha pleasee do I won't loose no sleep I'm very self aware. Oh ms generous keep ya generosity ta .iv probably missed a few of fab buddies out oh well jesus loves ya
I think you just confirmed what people at the start of this thread were saying ... With respect you come across as a bit of a knob ....
No respect, he comes across as an arrogant knob. really insults? Grow up
I think it's the OP who needs to grow up. I've done mine, and it hasn't been easy I can assure you. I have little respect for whingers and moaners and I certainly don't need advice from a twenty one year old thank you. "
dont go round insulting people then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
I think blackcurrant jam is sexy it's only sexy if it's spread somewhere
On a knobhead
As in, the head of a penis"
Or as I was thinking the pussy tip |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I forgot about this lol pointless replying to anyone now ay. All I will say is some of need to lighten up!! Don't take this site so seriously . People always quick to judge and think they have you sussed out but you don't. None of you know me thanks to everyone that was playing nice . Slate away allll you like hahaha pleasee do I won't loose no sleep I'm very self aware. Oh ms generous keep ya generosity ta .iv probably missed a few of fab buddies out oh well jesus loves ya
I think you just confirmed what people at the start of this thread were saying ... With respect you come across as a bit of a knob ....
No respect, he comes across as an arrogant knob. really insults? Grow up
I think it's the OP who needs to grow up. I've done mine, and it hasn't been easy I can assure you. I have little respect for whingers and moaners and I certainly don't need advice from a twenty one year old thank you. dont go round insulting people then "
That would be "don't go AROUND lnsulting people" lol
Childish I know, but I couldn't resist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh I forgot about this lol pointless replying to anyone now ay. All I will say is some of need to lighten up!! Don't take this site so seriously . People always quick to judge and think they have you sussed out but you don't. None of you know me thanks to everyone that was playing nice . Slate away allll you like hahaha pleasee do I won't loose no sleep I'm very self aware. Oh ms generous keep ya generosity ta .iv probably missed a few of fab buddies out oh well jesus loves ya
I think you just confirmed what people at the start of this thread were saying ... With respect you come across as a bit of a knob ....
No respect, he comes across as an arrogant knob. really insults? Grow up
I think it's the OP who needs to grow up. I've done mine, and it hasn't been easy I can assure you. I have little respect for whingers and moaners and I certainly don't need advice from a twenty one year old thank you. dont go round insulting people then
That would be "don't go AROUND lnsulting people" lol
Childish I know, but I couldn't resist "
thats fair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Time wasting thread yesssss!! Loolarent all of the threads a waste of time, going something like which jam is most sexy or who has the Arse...it's like a constant stream of shit
So why come on here then if there all a waste of time? read above somewhere iv already said why lol
I wasn't actually asking you "
sorryyyy my bad |
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