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I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name. |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name."
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified. |
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I don't think I do but I'm amazed at what some people will reveal about themselves. I remember somebody talking about a child and an achievement of theirs and actually stating the local newspaper they were featured in  |
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It's subjective of course.
I mostly think the rants are perhaps saying too much sometimes - but if it helps them, I guess it's right.
It may also sometimes appear that there's a fair bit of superfluous content.
I'd be concerned for anyone who put themselves in a vulnerable situation and maybe admin would remove the post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup.
If I felt I had anything to hide on here about my life or I had to hide this side of my life in the real world I wouldn't be here...
My name, town and face are all my real details (alot still Don't believe it's my real name)
I absolutely do not hide.
But that's me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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More so in Pm's when I have got to know the other person a little as I don't have anything to hide, Just things what are happing in my life or what I have/haven't done, Nothing to personal like my home address or my surname,
I would have to of met them before giving that information away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup.
If I felt I had anything to hide on here about my life or I had to hide this side of my life in the real world I wouldn't be here...
My name, town and face are all my real details (alot still Don't believe it's my real name)
I absolutely do not hide.
But that's me "
Exactly the same for us .
We have had our pics put on porn sites , a bloody pain to get them removed too .
But by and large , this is us , real names etc....
Never said we were discreet did we ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified."
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember  |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember "
I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date "
That's just beyond pathetic
Some people need to give their heads a shake |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date
That's just beyond pathetic
Some people need to give their heads a shake "
there's certain people that are always saying about the notes they make, |
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"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"
Sometimes I do get a little carried away with some responses I give on here but nothing that I really mind sharing I don't think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember "
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date
That's just beyond pathetic
Some people need to give their heads a shake there's certain people that are always saying about the notes they make,"
Well they clearly have too much time on their hands and I'm glad I have a much more fulfilled life than them. |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date
That's just beyond pathetic
Some people need to give their heads a shake there's certain people that are always saying about the notes they make,"
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. "
I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In PM though if I am getting to know a potential meet, I am truthful about all aspects....."
I prefer to wait until I meet someone in person until I am completely open about things. No one could look at my pms and find out anything about me that I haven't revealed in the forums already.
Except the rare face pic....
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say."
It's a bit creepy |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.
It's a bit creepy "
but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.
People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.
The private notes is just one tool that can be used.
Once it's in type it can't be taken back
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.
It's a bit creepy but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.
People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.
The private notes is just one tool that can be used.
Once it's in type it can't be taken back
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Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"In PM though if I am getting to know a potential meet, I am truthful about all aspects.....
I prefer to wait until I meet someone in person until I am completely open about things. No one could look at my pms and find out anything about me that I haven't revealed in the forums already.
Except the rare face pic....
-Courtney"
But to be honest I am pretty boring, so I don't give anything too personal away about myself unless we meet etc.
I only say what (not where) I do for a living, where I come from as I am not from here, and vague area of where I live, there is not much they can do with that info.
But what I do say is all true |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.
It's a bit creepy but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.
People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.
The private notes is just one tool that can be used.
Once it's in type it can't be taken back
Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really. "
it's not the sly digs id worry about if I was giving to much information away |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.
It's a bit creepy but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.
People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.
The private notes is just one tool that can be used.
Once it's in type it can't be taken back
Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really. "
You guys are going to make me even more paranoid than I already am 
Seriously...I thought the NSA was bad
-Courtney |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.
It's a bit creepy but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.
People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.
The private notes is just one tool that can be used.
Once it's in type it can't be taken back
Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really.
it's not the sly digs id worry about if I was giving to much information away "
True, some people really are cunts like that. |
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"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"
Although I'm very open and can wear my heart on my sleeve a little too much at times, non of what I say is ever too revealing. Certainly not enough for me to be ID'ed or anything like that. This goes for both my forum posts and PM's. |
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I probably give too much intimate information away and stuff about my mental state but I wouldn't say too much personal information, I don't think I do anyway. |
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.
It's a bit creepy but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.
People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.
The private notes is just one tool that can be used.
Once it's in type it can't be taken back
Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really.
You guys are going to make me even more paranoid than I already am
Seriously...I thought the NSA was bad
-Courtney"
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My MA always says sshhh
Were talking about you, not to you
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You see a small slice of me on the forums, I'll try not to reveal *too* much and I guess it's subjective if that's too much or too little.
Those I speak to on PM or elsewhere tend to know more about me to various degrees - some far too well by now and others just starting out  |
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"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"
It's subjective.
For me I'll reveal general information about myself if it's relevant to the thread ie that I've lost a child in bereavement threads, that my youngest was sectioned on mental health threads etc.
I don't show my face or my real location, others do.
What amazes me are those that reveal their vulnerability. Forever putting themselves down or jumping up for attention, desperately craving validation from strangers. They are preditors dream. They often post threads about being used...no shit!
Others reveal their sexist, racist, homophobic nasty selves...totally unaware of what they type.
Never a dull moment!
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"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.
You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.
I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember
I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%
I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping. "
She is! I've seen dozens of comments from people stating they do. Personally I think, get a life you sad fucks, but it's a site tool, so hey ho! |
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