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So why us swingers can't settle with one partner
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over a year ago
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I don't want to be in a relationship with just one person, it doesn't seem very beneficial to do this. Not really for the sex either, i know that one guy with a matching drive could satisfy me sexually, but for other things, everything, it's not worth investing in one person. Especially when you can invest in no-one and still get what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex at Dawn by Dr Christopher Ryan read it it is awesome. Monogamy may be the accepted norm but it is a fairly recent development in human history and clearly not the only model.
50% of marriage end in divorce. So are thousands up on thousands wrong or is marriage broken? |
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I guess I've Been a swinger since the age of 17. I lived with a 40 year old guy , at that age for 3 years, I shagged all his mates and cousins......great sexy times. Then I moved to Essex from Birmingham, did the sensible thing, had my children, but now they all grown up and I wanna shag all the black guys in town again........  |
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" I guess I've Been a swinger since the age of 17. I lived with a 40 year old guy , at that age for 3 years, I shagged all his mates and cousins......great sexy times. Then I moved to Essex from Birmingham, did the sensible thing, had my children, but now they all grown up and I wanna shag all the black guys in town again........ "
Don't suppose wearing a black condom counts, does it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Alot of swingers are content in just one partner! Everyone has their own reason as to why they do Such as..
Escapism / release from the vanilla mundane day to day life.
The thrill and excitement in meeting someone new.
Sexual fantasy
Spice up their sex life
Social aspect
The list goes on and on...
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"Alot of swingers are content in just one partner! Everyone has their own reason as to why they do Such as..
Escapism / release from the vanilla mundane day to day life.
The thrill and excitement in meeting someone new.
Sexual fantasy
Spice up their sex life
Social aspect
The list goes on and on...
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You can't be monogamous and be a swinger. Unless you're only doing soft swing - and even then most 'normal' people would consider that non-monogamy. |
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We are both very happy with just the two of us as life long partners .
Since we both enjoy multiple nsa sexual hook ups , we swing .
But no one we meet even comes close to being a partner |
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some couples like to watch there partners with another / so is this good or bad my sexy friends x 
