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How to tell if your partner is cheating
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No but I'm not looking for meets anymore, not that I got any whilst single on here, never got around to deleting my profile, but thought I'd just ask for advice |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"
Ask her? If she is new & cheating already maybe you should call it a day...or make a couples profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to her . Be open honest and calm . It could be that your expecting her to be cheating because of past events. So keep that in mind . Good luck chap .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone that has had an affair:
Going out at odd times
Always on my phone, getting angry when your other half suggest you put it down
Get angry when your other half suggest spending more time
Sexy underwear
Showing lots of cleavage
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"
a tell tale is when you find a stranger leaving the house and she has cum dripping from her mouth..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Talk to her . Be open honest and calm . It could be that your expecting her to be cheating because of past events. So keep that in mind . Good luck chap . "
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again
a tell tale is when you find a stranger leaving the house and she has cum dripping from her mouth..... "
Really was that necessary assumptions aside the guy might genuinely be looking for help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but I'm not looking for meets anymore, not that I got any whilst single on here, never got around to deleting my profile, but thought I'd just ask for advice"
You are here. Are you taking her for a ride? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Double standards comes to mind and do t give me any of that bull about I'm not here to meet because if a girl messages you to meet you would be up it like a rat up a drainpipe ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unusual changes in behaviour. Most people are creatures of habit really.
But as someone's already said, if it's a new relationship and you're already feeling this way, is there much point pursuing it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"
How long have you been seeing her?
Just a few weeks ago you were posting in here about meeting people. And it takes 2 mins to change your profile text. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is simple. Just watch her unlock her phone. Memorize her passcode. It's usually 4 numbers. Then when she is in the shower or sleeping. Go look at her phone . All your questions will be answered.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is simple. Just watch her unlock her phone. Memorize her passcode. It's usually 4 numbers. Then when she is in the shower or sleeping. Go look at her phone . All your questions will be answered.
Thank me later "
Got to ask... voice of experience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"erm, I guess if they had a FUCKING FABSWINGERS ACCOUNT that would be a fairly clear indication that they were cheating..."
This...the words I wanted to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is simple. Just watch her unlock her phone. Memorize her passcode. It's usually 4 numbers. Then when she is in the shower or sleeping. Go look at her phone . All your questions will be answered.
Thank me later
Got to ask... voice of experience?"
Yes , that's how my ex girlfriend caught me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes do the sniff test as if she smells of male spunk it's a dead cert. But then again you are on here and however you look at it you shouldn't be. So good on her for getting in there first"
My husband used to do the sniff test and was certain I'd had sex when I hadn't. How a paranoid mind works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"
What are the signs that make you think she is cheating??? |
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again
What are the signs that make you think she is cheating??? "
She played 5 aces. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay, I admit, I'm a cynical twat.
But has this really happened, or you just trying to post something that might get a response or even some sympathy?
Is it possible to go from single and looking, to attached and have a girlfriend, to think she's cheating mode, all while having "an old profile that you haven't had a chance to update"... In just a few weeks?
Maybe that's as fast as you work, but you've not been back to the thread, so you must be really panicked and bothered  |
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"
If she is good at it - you will never know.
It's all about not acting out of the ordinary. Have plausible excuses, play phone, plan well and have contingency plans. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again
What are the signs that make you think she is cheating??? "
Signs were coming home and eight extra shoes by the door, four pairs of jeans leading up the stairs nail marks on the walls, loud screams from the bedroom and opening the door to find four men fucking his girlfriend surrounded by 8 empty boxes of condoms!
Apart from that there haven't been any signs!
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"He's gone "
It's not really surprising though is it?
There doesn't appear to be the ability here just to be a little bit kind to people and offer advice in answer to a question asked. There's a trawl through a profile and a judgement made. I'm not sure why people seem so unable just to answer the question asked without giving an opinion on what they *think* is going on.
It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He's gone
It's not really surprising though is it?
There doesn't appear to be the ability here just to be a little bit kind to people and offer advice in answer to a question asked. There's a trawl through a profile and a judgement made. I'm not sure why people seem so unable just to answer the question asked without giving an opinion on what they *think* is going on.
It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past."
I want to agree with you, I really do. Regardless of my personal feelings about cheating, I went out of my way not to address the OPs seeming hypocrisy. However, as evidenced by my initial comment (my point about the marker was that there is no test that works to determine if people are cheating - we would have to look on an individual basis), how are we supposed to answer his question without "giving and opinion on what we think is happening"? It's just that the OP expects us to speculate about the actions of his unknowing partner instead of him, having only been given one side of the story.
Sometimes I feel like people bring these types of threads on themselves. But that's just my opinion.
-Courtney |
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"He's gone
It's not really surprising though is it?
There doesn't appear to be the ability here just to be a little bit kind to people and offer advice in answer to a question asked. There's a trawl through a profile and a judgement made. I'm not sure why people seem so unable just to answer the question asked without giving an opinion on what they *think* is going on.
It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past.
I want to agree with you, I really do. Regardless of my personal feelings about cheating, I went out of my way not to address the OPs seeming hypocrisy. However, as evidenced by my initial comment (my point about the marker was that there is no test that works to determine if people are cheating - we would have to look on an individual basis), how are we supposed to answer his question without "giving and opinion on what we think is happening"? It's just that the OP expects us to speculate about the actions of his unknowing partner instead of him, having only been given one side of the story.
Sometimes I feel like people bring these types of threads on themselves. But that's just my opinion.
-Courtney"
I just feel like it's unecessary.
Generally you should follow your gut instinct and if you think something is off, then it's unlikely that you're wrong.
I don't need to think about the circumstances or pick apart what the OP's apparent situation is to give my advice. If there's reason to question your partners behaviour the question it.
I don't really need to add my personal views as to what I *think* is going on... I don't know either of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He's gone
It's not really surprising though is it?
There doesn't appear to be the ability here just to be a little bit kind to people and offer advice in answer to a question asked. There's a trawl through a profile and a judgement made. I'm not sure why people seem so unable just to answer the question asked without giving an opinion on what they *think* is going on.
It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past."
Because some people think they are better than others. They jump on any stuff like this so they can get on their high horse in an attempt to feel better about themselves.
I think the worst people for jumping on others are those with the guiltiest consciences. |
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"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"
If she if full of cum and it's not yours, that's a pretty good sign  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Giggling to myself about people talking about the "sniff test" like it's some sort of verified scientific process that's admissible in court for divorce proceedings. "Well your honour, she failed the 'sniff test' you see and I even had a bloodhound cross-check the results" |
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