"I was wondering at what stage in your life did you realise your sex drive and sexual boundaries didn't match those around you or "the norm"?
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From the first time i had sex, i list my virginity to a MMF |
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"I was wondering at what stage in your life did you realise your sex drive and sexual boundaries didn't match those around you or "the norm"?
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Actually I would say that the difference is we have learned to have more control over it rather than being more than others.
Instead of blindly going out behind each other's back's shagging anyone.
We have taken control of an aspect of our lives that many don't or can't.
We may not have higher sex drives than anyone else, it's more that we have learned to embrace it and indulge.
Much like any other hobby.
Two people can both have equal passion for football for example. But only one of those may choose to play it in spare time rather than just watch it.
It's the same principle basically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just follow what feels right.. however now I have control of my addiction.. my sex life is better.. Its hard now to let go as much as I am always recovering.. but I always knew.
I love doing it because I want to... rather than needing to.  x Dont get me wrong I could happily jump Mr all day every day if life didnt get in the way and still both have time for others.. but the fact is I am not doing it at the expense of real life now x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Another Lickety, but probably not the same meaning.
I'm not sure that my sex drive is different to other people's it's more that I am willing to try things that others might dismiss (and I'm not talking about anything particularly out there).
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Since I lost my virginity, I knew from that day I was going to want more, thinking back, if my first time hadn't been the positive experience that it was, I'd probably be very vanilla now but who knows
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I'm not sure that my sex drive is high particularly, but it's sparked by many varied and wonderful scenarios and I'm a very curious person. so, I think the difference is probably that I lack inhibition rather than have a higher libido, and I've always been like that. |
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As for boundaries, i've always been open minded so never really seen anything as abnormal even if i didn't particiate. Even taboo stuff i can understand, i can also understand why it's illegal. |
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"Almost immediately, but then I had a very active imagination
Concur with that. Is it an act or is it an ongoing process? It's ongoing ??"
Errmmm... Tricky to say on the forums but my first proper sexual experiences with men and women were both very satisfying.
But even before then I was very curious about sex, probably a compulsive masturbator... I would write my own pornography now I think of it.
Now I've done pretty much everything except for the sick little fantasies that are probably best left in the box.
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"Another Lickety, but probably not the same meaning.
I'm not sure that my sex drive is different to other people's it's more that I am willing to try things that others might dismiss (and I'm not talking about anything particularly out there).
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