Not out of place but posts like this that pretty much beg people to look at your profile, make you look desperate. I guess that's not an attractive trait for the lovely ladies on here. Sorry. It's nothing personal, just best to be honest. |
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I'm asked that a lot too.... I think sometimes there is an assumption of a "type" for this site .... We are all different and all have different reasons for being here - same results though xxx |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not out of place but posts like this that pretty much beg people to look at your profile, make you look desperate. I guess that's not an attractive trait for the lovely ladies on here. Sorry. It's nothing personal, just best to be honest. "
My intentions are not for ladies to view my profile. I honestly wanted to know. But I appreciate your feedback |
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By *eddABC OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm asked that a lot too.... I think sometimes there is an assumption of a "type" for this site .... We are all different and all have different reasons for being here - same results though xxx "
Glad you understand me and like you said we all have our reasons |
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"I'm asked that a lot too.... I think sometimes there is an assumption of a "type" for this site .... We are all different and all have different reasons for being here - same results though xxx
Glad you understand me and like you said we all have our reasons "
SS put it so elegantly. There really isn't a type to be out of place here. We are all different and have different desires and needs. Just explore and enjoy yourself ?? |
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Depends on the context of the asking.
I've been asked a few times 'so why are you here' - I take it as a 'what's your backstory to being here and what are you looking for'?
I take it in your context you think it's more 'you're not the type we expected to be on here?'
When I look at your profile it seems very similar to loads of other ones of single guys of your age so, for me, you're exactly the type of person I'd expect to be on here!
The site in inclusive anyway so there's room for everyone and I hope you get lots of action and have lots of fun on the site! Good luck fella!  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Depends on the context of the asking.
I've been asked a few times 'so why are you here' - I take it as a 'what's your backstory to being here and what are you looking for'?
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Id just assume that they meant this ^^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What are you doing here?
What are you looking for?
Yup, had these and similar questions that make me question what the sender of said message is doing here themselves if they don't know what a swinger site is.   |
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"Not out of place but posts like this that pretty much beg people to look at your profile, make you look desperate. I guess that's not an attractive trait for the lovely ladies on here. Sorry. It's nothing personal, just best to be honest. "
I don't count as one of the lovely ladies but threads like this don't look desperate they look like a man asking a question. I prefer a man to get involved in the way the op has rather than use sychophancy to try and make women believe they're a great guy who understands what they think. |
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"Depends on the context of the asking.
I've been asked a few times 'so why are you here' - I take it as a 'what's your backstory to being here and what are you looking for'?
I take it in your context you think it's more 'you're not the type we expected to be on here?'
When I look at your profile it seems very similar to loads of other ones of single guys of your age so, for me, you're exactly the type of person I'd expect to be on here!
The site in inclusive anyway so there's room for everyone and I hope you get lots of action and have lots of fun on the site! Good luck fella! "
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"Not out of place but posts like this that pretty much beg people to look at your profile, make you look desperate. I guess that's not an attractive trait for the lovely ladies on here. Sorry. It's nothing personal, just best to be honest.
I don't count as one of the lovely ladies but threads like this don't look desperate they look like a man asking a question. I prefer a man to get involved in the way the op has rather than use sychophancy to try and make women believe they're a great guy who understands what they think."
If I say you're a lovely lady does that count as sycophancy? |
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"Not out of place but posts like this that pretty much beg people to look at your profile, make you look desperate. I guess that's not an attractive trait for the lovely ladies on here. Sorry. It's nothing personal, just best to be honest.
I don't count as one of the lovely ladies but threads like this don't look desperate they look like a man asking a question. I prefer a man to get involved in the way the op has rather than use sychophancy to try and make women believe they're a great guy who understands what they think.
If I say you're a lovely lady does that count as sycophancy? "
Yes because you KNOW I'm not  |
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