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Why are Irishmen Lacking in respect for Woman?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Having just meet a few Irishmen on this site it never ceases to amaze me how tight and disrespectful they are to us woman. My Foreign meets are real gentlemen who are charming respectful and even turn up with flowers, chocolates, or perfume. They also care about pleasing me. Irish men turn up, want to use you as a tart and do little to please me, only interested in pleasing themselves. As for a small gift, forget it, to tight. Irishmen grow up and just because we are on a sex site does not mean we want to be treated like your tart.Moan over. P.S. I am an Irish woman.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Stick to your foreign meets then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Having just meet a few Irishmen on this site it never ceases to amaze me how tight and disrespectful they are to us woman. My Foreign meets are real gentlemen who are charming respectful and even turn up with flowers, chocolates, or perfume. They also care about pleasing me. Irish men turn up, want to use you as a tart and do little to please me, only interested in pleasing themselves. As for a small gift, forget it, to tight. Irishmen grow up and just because we are on a sex site does not mean we want to be treated like your tart.Moan over. P.S. I am an Irish woman.

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why do you expect a gift?

It's a swingers site not a dating site... And it's a very sweeping statement to make against irish mem

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

one was horrified when I joked about meeting his mum his reply was that he would no way take me home she would be mortified

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You expect a gift???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Asking for gifts?

Why should anyone buy you anything?

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

why do you expect a gift?

It's a swingers site not a dating site... And it's a very sweeping statement to make against irish mem

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

#shitstirring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said xx

Was texting from here an irish guy.. What a disrespectful.. Wanted me to show photos.. Am not a whore. All he was on about was water sports... For himself. Said fabbers were all werewolves... Some are seriously sick.. Mentally.

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

As an Irish man I find the statement to be very general,I met a couple last evening the lady was beautiful and the male was a Gentleman does he fall into your category? would you like to be handed a few quid at the start of the meet or is it just some expensive perfume or jewellery you would prefer?

Being an Irish woman does not give you Carte Blanche to slate Irish men in case you feel that it does,I am pretty sure you're probably quite a nice person but your rant was at best ill judged and at worst a tad on the racist side regardless of whether you are Irish or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel this thread will be worth catching up on later.

Leave it to you ladies and gents of fab to say what needs to be said, I cba

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You fuck for gifts? Doesn't your husband buy you enough?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What the actual fuck is this post?

You stereotype a whole nationality because they don't treat you like a princess? One or two guys are a bit off and a whole nation are suddenly disrespectful to your, quite frankly, ridiculous meet requirements?

I hate to say it but, if this had been any other nationality, this post would have gone to 175 replies in 5 mins.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow...just wow!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Look at how you meet and who you meet and see if you can meet guys that better fit your criteria.

Looking at the guys in your published veris tells me that they were never about flowers and chocolates, yet YOU chose to meet them. Nobody forced you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are Irish women so into stereotyping?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't lower myself to ask or expect a gift from a man from here. If they wanted an escort there are plenty of reputable sites where they can part with money and get what they want. As for the slating Irishmen,I've met a few from here and they were very nice. You're on the wrong site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the fat that you expect gifts speaks volumes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am a foreigner from Sweden and I always bring some haribos

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Phew, that's better. I am sure I'll suffer for that later but for crying out loud!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in and hands out a FORUM INSURANCE claim form

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why do you expect a gift?

It's a swingers site not a dating site... And it's a very sweeping statement to make against irish mem

Well said

Oh and I'm an irish man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The cheek of you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*that is all*

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Pops in and hands out a FORUM INSURANCE claim form

I think I'm gonna need a few. Have you got lots?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What the actual fuck?!

Moronic thread!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pops in and hands out a FORUM INSURANCE claim form

you Tina

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pops in and hands out a FORUM INSURANCE claim form

I think I'm gonna need a few. Have you got lots?"

You carry on,you don't need insurance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't lower myself to ask or expect a gift from a man from here. If they wanted an escort there are plenty of reputable sites where they can part with money and get what they want. As for the slating Irishmen,I've met a few from here and they were very nice. You're on the wrong site. "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stop meeting Irish men then!if you want wining and dining,why not join a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't lower myself to ask or expect a gift from a man from here. If they wanted an escort there are plenty of reputable sites where they can part with money and get what they want."

This

And this isn't the first post I have seen from women saying they want gifts from men they meet. I really dislike this attitude. This is the type of attitude that leads some men to treat women on here like they are just here to give men what they are entitled to.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you want gifts lol. its a swinging site not just giving.

eyes it make you a gift prostitute

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ive chatted to a couple of Irish men and they are both lovely guys

you shouldnt tar every Irish guy with the same brush

and regarding gifts im to much of a lady to write what i think about that

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By *unCoupleTXCouple over a year ago

Longview

"You expect a gift???

Whew! I was just sitting here thinking, Wow. Women typically receive gifts in the UK from their meets?? Anyway, it's very simple, really... Some men are gentlemen and pleasers, some men are not, regardless of nationality. I certainly wouldn't want to be stereotyped because I'm an American. And from Texas, no less!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't lower myself to ask or expect a gift from a man from here. If they wanted an escort there are plenty of reputable sites where they can part with money and get what they want.

This

-Courtney"

It makes me cringe at the entitlement that some women feel they can lord over men

It's not what this is about at all

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You expect a gift???

I'm a cheap date me. Couple of real ales and some decent chat will get you much further than Tiffany's.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

31 years old with the attitude of a 16 year old and insulting to your own husband in your profile.These foreign guys with the flowers and gifts come from different cultures,it might be worth a bit of study to see how they treat their women in their own cultural setting.

Expecting gifts on a swingers site is a bit iffy,I think I'd pay to get you a taxi home soon as I met you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am a foreigner from Sweden and I always bring some haribos

So do I

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am a foreigner from Sweden and I always bring some haribos

So do I

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Nice one, its the best gift

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look at how you meet and who you meet and see if you can meet guys that better fit your criteria.

Looking at the guys in your published veris tells me that they were never about flowers and chocolates, yet YOU chose to meet them. Nobody forced you."

And being honest, in its current form, your profile is going to attract a certain kind of guy ... and not the flower buying type

If you want big cocks AND gifts, say so ...

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By *unCoupleTXCouple over a year ago

Longview

"You expect a gift???

I'm a cheap date me. Couple of real ales and some decent chat will get you much further than Tiffany's."

Exactly!

Plus, it would actually make me a little nervous if someone showed up with gift the first time I met him!! Like, Whooaa. Slow down, hot shot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said xx

As if the op wasn't bad enough ......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look at how you meet and who you meet and see if you can meet guys that better fit your criteria.

Looking at the guys in your published veris tells me that they were never about flowers and chocolates, yet YOU chose to meet them. Nobody forced you.

And being honest, in its current form, your profile is going to attract a certain kind of guy ... and not the flower buying type

If you want big cocks AND gifts, say so ...

Men with big cocks don't need to buy their way into a woman's knickers.....allegedly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive known a lot of irish men in my lifetime ... always very confident and usually have a good sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I no a speeka dee eenglis...

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But I have come hither eyes and a box of milk tray...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hadn't noticed this x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

heres a thought o p . maybe you come across as a self centered user on your profile and the fellas like to give you a taste of your own medicine at times ? your advertising for a male piece of meat to use as a human dildo whilst your husband watches , this dildo must be everything you require but yet you dont mention what it is you yourself bring to the equation apart from a spoilt self serving attitude .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look at how you meet and who you meet and see if you can meet guys that better fit your criteria.

Looking at the guys in your published veris tells me that they were never about flowers and chocolates, yet YOU chose to meet them. Nobody forced you.

And being honest, in its current form, your profile is going to attract a certain kind of guy ... and not the flower buying type

If you want big cocks AND gifts, say so ...

Men with big cocks don't need to buy their way into a woman's knickers.....allegedly

Apart from the Irish ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you give gifts too - or are you a tight Irishwoman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Emmm that's a sweeping statement OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"heres a thought o p . maybe you come across as a self centered user on your profile and the fellas like to give you a taste of your own medicine at times ? your advertising for a male piece of meat to use as a human dildo whilst your husband watches , this dildo must be everything you require but yet you dont mention what it is you yourself bring to the equation apart from a spoilt self serving attitude ."

Oh my...not sure I could have put it better myself!

Fair to say the OP is a great example of why some blokes on here treat you ladies like a piece of meat, not saying it's right but they do say payback is a bitch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you're probably just meeting the wrong guys in general.. You get the selfish in bed kind in every type of nationality.. Regarding the whole not bringing me a gift thing well get over it, it's a sex site not eharmony. Irish men are fantastic, up for a laugh, up for fun, up for anything basically. If that's your view of them they aren't missing anything by passing you by.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If that's how you feel then don't meet Irish men, all the Irish we've spoken too have always had been kind and respectful, but of you've had bad meets, who is anyone to judge you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I no a speeka dee eenglis...

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But I have come hither eyes and a box of milk tray...

The wife's with the 3 children at home thinking he's only gone to tesco for a pan of bread and a topup for the lekky meter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

....

No, I have nothing constructive, because there is nothing constructive about this thread.

So let's all go watch cat videos....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All the men from my Irish side of my family are pure gentlemen, perhaps you would attract a better quality of gentleman, if you behaved like a better quality of lady?

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan over a year ago

Bristol

Unbelievable attitude. Wouldn't want to meet you with that attitude anyway.i do however treat people with respect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met two Irish men who were lovely. I've met English men who were lovely. None have brought me flowers, chocolate or perfume. I don't want to be treated like some needy 1950s debutante who won't put out without a bottle of Chanel No.5

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are Irish women so into stereotyping?"

Surely you're not gonna tar all of us with that statement?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmm honesty.. Now you lot are acting fools when you dont know me.

Mmmm

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Hmmm honesty.. Now you lot are acting fools when you dont know me.

Mmmm "
only have what you post to go on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are Irish women so into stereotyping?"

Excuse me?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Hmmm honesty.. Now you lot are acting fools when you dont know me.

Mmmm "

But when everything comes across as negative or angry, what else can we deduce?

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"Hmmm honesty.. Now you lot are acting fools when you dont know me.

Mmmm

But when everything comes across as negative or angry, what else can we deduce?"

if only we had the screenshots of the ACTUAL conversation eh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So being abusive to me.. Deduces what admin.. I did not say personally.. But all of you were victimising me.. Slagging me off.. I have never said unkind words to any of you... Admin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Carry on being abusive go on...

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

I got a Chocolate Orange tucked away for my mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So being abusive to me.. Deduces what admin.. I did not say personally.. But all of you were victimising me.. Slagging me off.. I have never said unkind words to any of you... Admin"

All?

massive exaggeration

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

must keep some plastic flowers in the boot of the car in future,they count yes?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Carry on being abusive go on... "

Out of interest, when you wrote the OP, in your head, how did you see this playing out ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So being abusive to me.. Deduces what admin.. I did not say personally.. But all of you were victimising me.. Slagging me off.. I have never said unkind words to any of you... Admin

All?

massive exaggeration "

This is such a strange thread....

Maybe its just one of those nights. Huh.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Carry on being abusive go on...

Out of interest, when you wrote the OP, in your head, how did you see this playing out ? "

That's not the OP. Just someone else who's taken up the baton.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Carry on being abusive go on...

Out of interest, when you wrote the OP, in your head, how did you see this playing out ? "

She didn't write the OP....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So being abusive to me.. Deduces what admin.. I did not say personally.. But all of you were victimising me.. Slagging me off.. I have never said unkind words to any of you... Admin"

Are you addressing admin?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Carry on being abusive go on...

Out of interest, when you wrote the OP, in your head, how did you see this playing out ?

That's not the OP. Just someone else who's taken up the baton."

Ah OK my apologies to the OP

Where does this 'victim' fit into the equation then ?

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

School Yards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shiver me timbers

All of Kaizers meets get a gift - the Thunderkiss

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I *am* the gift.

I thangyew.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Carry on being abusive go on...

Out of interest, when you wrote the OP, in your head, how did you see this playing out ?

That's not the OP. Just someone else who's taken up the baton.

Ah OK my apologies to the OP

Where does this 'victim' fit into the equation then ? "

No idea. I think your comment could equally have applied to the actual OP anyway though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So being abusive to me.. Deduces what admin.. I did not say personally.. But all of you were victimising me.. Slagging me off.. I have never said unkind words to any of you... Admin

All?

massive exaggeration

This is such a strange thread....

Maybe its just one of those nights. Huh.

-Courtney"

It's been one of those weeks, but this has taken the biscuit *remembers I have biscuits in the cupboard*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A gift?

To be in the meer presence of an Irishman is a gift within itself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I gave my opinion and all you lot did was to attack me for it.. Personally slagging off my profile sucks admin but reported.. I do not have the baton.. Nor op..

You are all too nasty.. For no reasons.

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By *aucyladMan over a year ago

Dublin

Says alot about you that you A:expect a gift and B:attract these so called tight and disrespectful guys.Maybe your taste in men isnt so good.

Im Irish and Im sure as hell glad not to have met a racist like you.Thankfully most females on here are openminded and dont tar everyone with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I gave my opinion and all you lot did was to attack me for it.. Personally slagging off my profile sucks admin but reported.. I do not have the baton.. Nor op..

You are all too nasty.. For no reasons. "

But you said you were chatting to one irish man. Yet agreed that all irish men are the same?

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm wondering why this wasn't posted in the Irish forum

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By *icky999Man over a year ago

warrington

is this the stage play of fairytale in new york?

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

I didn't realise the irish were tight....i thought it was the scots

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm wondering why this wasn't posted in the Irish forum

Can you just imagine?

She'd get ripped a new one.. Sharpish!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I didn't realise the irish were tight....i thought it was the scots

Must have been a Cavan man!!

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"is this the stage play of fairytale in new york?

well I'm apparently a scumbag AND a maggot quite possibly a cheap lousy faggot but only to one person haha

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

"I didn't realise the irish were tight....i thought it was the scots

Must have been a Cavan man!!

ah stop slagging the cavan men or they will lend you a beating.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I'm wondering why this wasn't posted in the Irish forum

Oooohhhhh instant Fabicide!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm wondering why this wasn't posted in the Irish forum

Can you just imagine?

She'd get ripped a new one.. Sharpish!

I love reading the Irish forum, the level of kicking off is something else compared to here

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

Wow, just had a little nap and made hubby his tea. Guess I missed the fab equivalent of a nuclear explosion .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Funny

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

And I think we can leave it there

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