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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Silly me, somewhere along the line I've been neglecting to ask the single men  if they are in a relationship.
So it had to happen that I ended up having lunch with a married man. It was a lovely lunch and I told him about Fabswingers.
So ladies, there maybe another single, non-single guy coming onto Fab.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get the purpose of this post 
If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.
He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?
And not all married men pretend to be single  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the purpose of this post
If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.
He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?
And not all married men pretend to be single "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get the purpose of this post
If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.
He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?
And not all married men pretend to be single "
He isn't here. If he joins I'd be happy to verify him as real  .
Where's my tar? Nothing in my post is judgemental, tongue-in-cheek yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the purpose of this post
If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.
He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?
And not all married men pretend to be single
He isn't here. If he joins I'd be happy to verify him as real .
Where's my tar? Nothing in my post is judgemental, tongue-in-cheek yes. "
I guess, it is an easy veri lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get the purpose of this post
If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.
He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?
And not all married men pretend to be single
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And not all single men pretend to be married.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well done ...do you want a badge or a medal ?
Either if it's from tiffany's "
I can't make Tiffany's but I have something else for your Birthday tomorrow ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "
If his story is true, his wife is aware. I've advocated that (a) he and his wife sort out where their relationship is going, and (b) he tells any potential date the truth before meeting.
Well done me, if he follows my advice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well done ...do you want a badge or a medal ?
Either if it's from tiffany's
I can't make Tiffany's but I have something else for your Birthday tomorrow ... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
If his story is true, his wife is aware. I've advocated that (a) he and his wife sort out where their relationship is going, and (b) he tells any potential date the truth before meeting.
Well done me, if he follows my advice "
His wife is aware yet he told you he was single. Sounds totally legit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol
Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?  "
Oh my whole profile is a lie, I'm Actualy a single bi female sub my girlfriend and I pop on here looking for single men for a quick fuck and go, and to look at cock pics but being as we're both only 22 and because of our modelling work we have to be Descrete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends."
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "
So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?
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I wish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?
I wish "
Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, I know a lot of you wont agree with me, but I don't care if they're married - that's their problem not mine. As long as they're good in bed xx"
I also think this way, I prefer to be told in advance though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol
Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?
Oh my whole profile is a lie, I'm Actualy a single bi female sub my girlfriend and I pop on here looking for single men for a quick fuck and go, and to look at cock pics but being as we're both only 22 and because of our modelling work we have to be Descrete
Gutted! Your profile intrigued me.   "
Funny how I've never had a message off you then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all? "
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?
I wish
Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating"
I'm sure whoever is doing the cheating, they don't actually forget they are cheating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?
I wish
Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating"
Man or woman it makes no odds to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time."
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself "
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off. |
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"Oh my whole profile is a lie, I'm Actualy a single bi female sub my girlfriend and I pop on here looking for single men for a quick fuck and go, and to look at cock pics but being as we're both only 22 and because of our modelling work we have to be Descrete "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off."
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong. "
You'd think. But some people honestly don't give a shit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong. "
Who is condoning or gloating? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hello N.V.C 
Nice out today wasn't it?
It was lovely Granny. Couldn't have gone out without a jacket though.
How are you?
I'm well, amused and eating soup ta xx "
To be well, to be amused and to be fed, are all positives |
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"Well, I know a lot of you wont agree with me, but I don't care if they're married - that's their problem not mine. As long as they're good in bed xx"
It may become your problem if his wife chooses to make it your problem on your doorstep or your place of work,knock knock... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?"
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?
I wish
Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating"
lol yes, it is ok to be married if you are a woman here. But a big no no if you are a man lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine. "
The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.
I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.
The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.
I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats."
If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.
The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.
I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.
If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning. "
You ARE wrong, like it or lump it. It is YOUR assumption on the limited information I put in the opening post. The OP is actually me calling myself out on the fact that I hadn't ensured the guy was single.
Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.
The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.
I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.
If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.
You ARE wrong, like it or lump it. It is YOUR assumption on the limited information I put in the opening post. The OP is actually me calling myself out on the fact that I hadn't ensured the guy was single.
Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face "
Yes - of course I'm wrong, of course the sentiment of every post you've made has changed since its been commented on, and of course I'm far too embarrassed to say it's not gloating or condoning cheating.  |
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"You weren't gloating and condoning...
Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end "
Well try doing that yourself you two. And 'shit-eating grin'? It was a bloody emoticon we all use!
All I see from you is some pretty foul language, a lot of very judgemental attitudes and even more argumentative digs. What part of 'They were just having lunch and she found out he was married don't you quite understand?
Did the lady shag his brains out? We don't know and if she did its none of our business.
Was there anything further. We don't know. And again its none of our business.
I always thought we all came into swinging because we are open minded, accepting of other people, their looks, their preferences etc. I see none of that with you two to be honest.
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"You weren't gloating and condoning...
Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end
Well try doing that yourself you two. And 'shit-eating grin'? It was a bloody emoticon we all use!
All I see from you is some pretty foul language, a lot of very judgemental attitudes and even more argumentative digs. What part of 'They were just having lunch and she found out he was married don't you quite understand?
Did the lady shag his brains out? We don't know and if she did its none of our business.
Was there anything further. We don't know. And again its none of our business.
I always thought we all came into swinging because we are open minded, accepting of other people, their looks, their preferences etc. I see none of that with you two to be honest.
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Just cos it's a swinging site doesn't mean everything is acceptable. Normal social standards still apply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You weren't gloating and condoning...
Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end "
You may eat shit when you grin, I wouldn't know, I, however just grin when I banter which could be me in a jokey mood or downright sarcastic. That grin isn't shouting out to the world "hey world, I met a guy for a nice lunch, he told me he is actually married and hasn't dated in 19 years and was dead nervous in meeting me".
That grin wasn't even shouting "hey world, he believes his marriage is over but wifey won't talk, though is okay something may happen".
It didn't shout that but could have done. Neither did it about the untrue statement that cheating is fine.
Stop adding 2+2 and making 5. |
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.
The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.
I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.
If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.
You ARE wrong, like it or lump it. It is YOUR assumption on the limited information I put in the opening post. The OP is actually me calling myself out on the fact that I hadn't ensured the guy was single.
Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face
Yes - of course I'm wrong, of course the sentiment of every post you've made has changed since its been commented on, and of course I'm far too embarrassed to say it's not gloating or condoning cheating. "
Bless your little cotton socks, all I have done is given more information out on each post .
Just simply showing you your assumptions are wrong. Do continue to dig your heels in for I find it highly amusing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You weren't gloating and condoning...
Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end
Well try doing that yourself you two. And 'shit-eating grin'? It was a bloody emoticon we all use!
All I see from you is some pretty foul language, a lot of very judgemental attitudes and even more argumentative digs. What part of 'They were just having lunch and she found out he was married don't you quite understand?
Did the lady shag his brains out? We don't know and if she did its none of our business.
Was there anything further. We don't know. And again its none of our business.
I always thought we all came into swinging because we are open minded, accepting of other people, their looks, their preferences etc. I see none of that with you two to be honest.
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I'm sure I indicated nothing happened . I'll definitely apologise if I didn't (notice the teeth are not stained brown) |
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.
The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.
I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.
If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.
You ARE wrong, like it or lump it. It is YOUR assumption on the limited information I put in the opening post. The OP is actually me calling myself out on the fact that I hadn't ensured the guy was single.
Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face
Yes - of course I'm wrong, of course the sentiment of every post you've made has changed since its been commented on, and of course I'm far too embarrassed to say it's not gloating or condoning cheating.
Bless your little cotton socks, all I have done is given more information out on each post .
Just simply showing you your assumptions are wrong. Do continue to dig your heels in for I find it highly amusing."
That's patronising from a person who can't post concisely initially. And no assumptions, you posted that you met a man and once found out he was married you encouraged him to join other casual sex sites then bragged about it as if you're proud of yourself. You're entirely supporting his cheating, but I guess you need attention from somewhere |
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself
My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.
So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.
I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.
Who is condoning or gloating?
You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.
The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.
I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.
If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.
You ARE wrong, like it or lump it. It is YOUR assumption on the limited information I put in the opening post. The OP is actually me calling myself out on the fact that I hadn't ensured the guy was single.
Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face
Yes - of course I'm wrong, of course the sentiment of every post you've made has changed since its been commented on, and of course I'm far too embarrassed to say it's not gloating or condoning cheating.
Bless your little cotton socks, all I have done is given more information out on each post .
Just simply showing you your assumptions are wrong. Do continue to dig your heels in for I find it highly amusing.
That's patronising from a person who can't post concisely initially. And no assumptions, you posted that you met a man and once found out he was married you encouraged him to join other casual sex sites then bragged about it as if you're proud of yourself. You're entirely supporting his cheating, but I guess you need attention from somewhere "
In what universe are there rules on how informative an opening post has to be? Is a book's story fully stated on the first page? No, it unfolds at a pace the AUTHOR chooses, NOT the reader.
You go ahead with that big ol' assumption that I encouraged him to cheat and I'll continue to patronise you! |
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"Just cos it's a swinging site doesn't mean everything is acceptable. Normal social standards still apply."
Well not quite true as 'society' is basically monogamous and by definition Swingers aren't. But even so 'normal social standards' surely dictate courtesy and acceptance of others without resorting to abuse. Just because they are different or hold different views?
Sorry when people resort to abuse they have lost the argument. And possibly the plot as well IMHO. |
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"I'm a bit lost as to why you're so proud of yourself for this that you felt the need to congratulate yourself publicly in a thread but I'll admit there's lots I don't get on here....
*Her* "
Yawn.
The answer is in the thread! |
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"What happened in here? "
A virtual crucifixion of a single woman who found out her meet was not so single. So she advised him to sort out his relationship and tell any potential date the truth. And that he'd be better off on here than Fet, for dating.
But it has been interpreted that I've gone and got my cheerleading outfit on and danced to the tune of "go jerry, go jerry, go fuck and be merry. Go cheater, go cheater, go fuck n cheat on her". Okay the rhyme isn't perfect, but you get my drift
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"What happened in here?
A virtual crucifixion of a single woman who found out her meet was not so single. So she advised him to sort out his relationship and tell any potential date the truth. And that he'd be better off on here than Fet, for dating.
But it has been interpreted that I've gone and got my cheerleading outfit on and danced to the tune of "go jerry, go jerry, go fuck and be merry. Go cheater, go cheater, go fuck n cheat on her". Okay the rhyme isn't perfect, but you get my drift
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"Anyway cut to the important stuff ... what did you have to eat ? "
Game sausage roll and chutney for starters, and crayfish and something fishcake for mains. So much tastier than I imagined it to be |
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"Anyway cut to the important stuff ... what did you have to eat ?
Game sausage roll and chutney for starters, and crayfish and something fishcake for mains. So much tastier than I imagined it to be "
I had carrot and butterbean soup with tiger bread with two married women
I didn't tell them about Fab though, so you win on food but I get to keep the this weekend |
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"Anyway cut to the important stuff ... what did you have to eat ?
Game sausage roll and chutney for starters, and crayfish and something fishcake for mains. So much tastier than I imagined it to be
I had carrot and butterbean soup with tiger bread with two married women
I didn't tell them about Fab though, so you win on food but I get to keep the this weekend "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol
Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married? "
I know some who do to avoid anything developing into something that might resemble a relationship and as an easy "get me out of here" card.
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"What happened in here?
I would just back out now if I was you "
Your not though
Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay |
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"What happened in here?
A virtual crucifixion of a single woman who found out her meet was not so single. So she advised him to sort out his relationship and tell any potential date the truth. And that he'd be better off on here than Fet, for dating.
But it has been interpreted that I've gone and got my cheerleading outfit on and danced to the tune of "go jerry, go jerry, go fuck and be merry. Go cheater, go cheater, go fuck n cheat on her". Okay the rhyme isn't perfect, but you get my drift
Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name "
I know a Jerry.
Picturing you cheering him now |
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"What happened in here?
I would just back out now if I was you
Your not though
Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay "
Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now... |
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over a year ago
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"What happened in here?
A virtual crucifixion of a single woman who found out her meet was not so single. So she advised him to sort out his relationship and tell any potential date the truth. And that he'd be better off on here than Fet, for dating.
But it has been interpreted that I've gone and got my cheerleading outfit on and danced to the tune of "go jerry, go jerry, go fuck and be merry. Go cheater, go cheater, go fuck n cheat on her". Okay the rhyme isn't perfect, but you get my drift
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I know a Jerry.
Picturing you cheering him now "
Springer? |
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"What happened in here?
I would just back out now if I was you
Your not though
Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay
Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now..."
With a bit of soup to dip it in....
Awww go on |
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"What happened in here?
A virtual crucifixion of a single woman who found out her meet was not so single. So she advised him to sort out his relationship and tell any potential date the truth. And that he'd be better off on here than Fet, for dating.
But it has been interpreted that I've gone and got my cheerleading outfit on and danced to the tune of "go jerry, go jerry, go fuck and be merry. Go cheater, go cheater, go fuck n cheat on her". Okay the rhyme isn't perfect, but you get my drift
Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name
I know a Jerry.
Picturing you cheering him now
Springer? "
Nope, though my old man does breed Springer, and I always wanted to call one Jerry |
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"What happened in here?
I would just back out now if I was you
Your not though
Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay
Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now...
With a bit of soup to dip it in....
Awww go on "
No I had soup for my tea,my tummy has been a bit poorly today so I kept it light. Why did that man talk of tiger bread I want some |
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over a year ago
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
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You just gave a to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"What happened in here?
I would just back out now if I was you
Your not though
Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay
Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now...
With a bit of soup to dip it in....
Awww go on
No I had soup for my tea,my tummy has been a bit poorly today so I kept it light. Why did that man talk of tiger bread I want some "
Ask him about crumpet bread and you'll want some of that too.
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
You just gave a to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive. "
How do you know shes a lady? |
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over a year ago
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Would never want to get involved with a married men , feel sorry for the woman . As I wouldn't like it done to me . To honest. It is good though if the man admits he is cheating behind his wife's back . |
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"Silly me, somewhere along the line I've been neglecting to ask the single men if they are in a relationship.
So it had to happen that I ended up having lunch with a married man. It was a lovely lunch and I told him about Fabswingers.
So ladies, there maybe another single, non-single guy coming onto Fab. "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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People happily chat away to married women and men on the forum. I know it's not the same as having sex with them but for the unknowing partner that chatter, friendships and sharing of secrets may be more hurtful, more of a cheating action, than one off sex.
Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
You just gave a to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive.
How do you know shes a lady? "
I'll have you know
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Just outside the proverbial bedroom |
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you
You just gave a to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive.
How do you know shes a lady?
I'll have you know
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Just outside the proverbial bedroom "
Oh how i hoped youd say that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is really offensive! Carrots and butterbeans in a soup! and Game in a sausage roll! come on!"
I would have thought game lived in a pie I agree but the soup....Sounds kinda good |
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"People happily chat away to married women and men on the forum. I know it's not the same as having sex with them but for the unknowing partner that chatter, friendships and sharing of secrets may be more hurtful, more of a cheating action, than one off sex.
Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.
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Exactly this ^^
Some don't think about this though. |
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Pointless post though, some play with cheats, some don't, some married men have got the green light to play, some don't have the green light to play, the married men who say they're single are liers, some people don't care. all pointless |
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"Pointless post though, some play with cheats, some don't, some married men have got the green light to play, some don't have the green light to play, the married men who say they're single are liers, some people don't care. all pointless"
Cheerfull |
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"People happily chat away to married women and men on the forum. I know it's not the same as having sex with them but for the unknowing partner that chatter, friendships and sharing of secrets may be more hurtful, more of a cheating action, than one off sex.
Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.
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If a partner regards chatting on the forums as a form of cheating, they need to get a life. |
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"People happily chat away to married women and men on the forum. I know it's not the same as having sex with them but for the unknowing partner that chatter, friendships and sharing of secrets may be more hurtful, more of a cheating action, than one off sex.
Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.
If a partner regards chatting on the forums as a form of cheating, they need to get a life."
If I found a partner of mine chatting on the forums of swingers / sex site I would assume he was cheating or the very least thinking about it, how would he have found the site otherwise? The forum is the by product of Fab not the for the majority the main part.
It's hardly Reddit or Mens.health is it now. |
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"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "
Well said. Just hope his wife's mate on here and they meet at a club or party. Said female friend being single of course. Ooh how good would that be |
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"Pointless post though, some play with cheats, some don't, some married men have got the green light to play, some don't have the green light to play, the married men who say they're single are liers, some people don't care. all pointless"
Same as most stuff posted on here. |
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"What happened in here?
A virtual crucifixion of a single woman who found out her meet was not so single. So she advised him to sort out his relationship and tell any potential date the truth. And that he'd be better off on here than Fet, for dating.
But it has been interpreted that I've gone and got my cheerleading outfit on and danced to the tune of "go jerry, go jerry, go fuck and be merry. Go cheater, go cheater, go fuck n cheat on her". Okay the rhyme isn't perfect, but you get my drift
Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name "
Disclamer: No animals were hurt in the making of this post. |
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Got to say I am surprised the Mods haven't had a go at few in here. Since when was it OK in a forum to use the 'C' word against someone? Maybe I just don't 'get' this swinging lark after all. Maybe 8 years isn't long enough. Or may be too long. But in this Thread I have seen some of the very worst in people.
OK disagree personal abuse? Nah not for me thanks ... I am out of this... |
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over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.
As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like. |
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Thanks...I really enjoyed reading all the posts on this thread in my dinner break....I thought Harry Hill was gonna jump out of my phone and shout..FIGHT. |
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Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!! |
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"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!! "
I do a little happy dance when people get me as I intended |
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"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!! "
I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!! "
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"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.
As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like."
Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time."
Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused! |
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"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.
As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.
Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!
Ooh "
I like a nice cunt every so often |
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused! "
Yes,she met him from another site. |
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused! "
Another site |
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"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!! "
Folk LOVE any reason to shove their own little set of morals down people's throats though, like carrion birds circling, lookin for any excuse...any opportunity, and bang, there are the morals bregade.
Still, gives us a laugh |
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"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.
As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.
Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!
Ooh "
Sounds like a flood I'd like to drown in |
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"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!!
I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here "
It was going a bit Jeremy Kyle there for a while. |
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"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.
As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.
Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!
Ooh "
ScarletStars!!!
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One thing most people male or female do is not declare honesty.
Fab is a site where men and women should be honest full stop. Why hide?
Even messages can be false.. Lying sucks.
Happy holiday swinging... |
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"One thing most people male or female do is not declare honesty.
Fab is a site where men and women should be honest full stop. Why hide?
Even messages can be false.. Lying sucks.
Happy holiday swinging... "
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over a year ago
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"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.
As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.
Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!
Ooh
ScarletStars!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!!
I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here "
And they stay in a twist because my unfolding of the event is refuted. Perhaps I wasn't really there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So he told you he was single before you met?
I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.
You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?
Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.
It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.
Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused! "
Am I not allowed to request single guys from elsewhere . POF is frequently mentioned on here |
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"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.
Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.
Gee whizz!!!
I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here
It was going a bit Jeremy Kyle there for a while. "
Go Jerry, go Jerry".
Deja vu? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Married to you all lol
I guess if profiles declare married most avoid them.. I know I do. Could be a reason not declared. "
Well I am most certainly single and very expensively so ... But people still ask 'are you married?' so what can you do?
Personally I don't mind if someone is married and on here or not its none of mine but I think people should be honest and say so then others can make an informed decision whether to take things further or not.
By the way thats a fabulous Avatar ... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"People happily chat away to married women and men on the forum. I know it's not the same as having sex with them but for the unknowing partner that chatter, friendships and sharing of secrets may be more hurtful, more of a cheating action, than one off sex.
Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.
If a partner regards chatting on the forums as a form of cheating, they need to get a life."
What about the PMs that get exchanged once a friendship has been forged on the forum? What about the confessions people make?
It's the other-life-away-from-a-partner thing.
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