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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do people approach others at clubs and bars?
I'm a bit of a nervous and shy guy and want to be more confident when i try to meet people, so on so forth aha. |
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"How do people approach others at clubs and bars?
I'm a bit of a nervous and shy guy and want to be more confident when i try to meet people, so on so forth aha."
I've never been to one but I imagine i would start chatting to someone the same as I would outside of the club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're regular club goers and there's always a lot of single guys there. We're happy to talk to people as we love the social side too. Stand at the bar area as most people will be chatting away there with the staff or if there's a pool table get a game going with someone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only been to a club a handful of times and have been fortunate that each time people have come over and started chatting. In my experience it's just like going to a regular bar but less clothing. |
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By *ony5Man
over a year ago
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"I have only been to a club a handful of times and have been fortunate that each time people have come over and started chatting. In my experience it's just like going to a regular bar but less clothing."
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"Socialise with them. Chat to everyone including the single men."
^^^^ this
I've been once and the guy I ended up having fun with was just someone we were chatting with as part of a crowd. As the night went on he stood out and that's basically how it happened xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smile, be friendly and just be normal lol.. It's no different to talking to anyone anywhere else.
Just realise that just because someone does chat to you it doesn't mean they will have sex with you.
Becomes very awkward explaining!!
Have fun.. can understand it's difficult for single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to approach single ladies from a north westerly direction generally and couples from the south.
If there are any t girls in that I fancy then that's different, I'll generally approach from a 36 to 41 degree angle, set from the direction they're facing at the time ragardless of compass bearing.
I don't know if this works in clubs in the southern hemisphere though I'm afraid but hope this helps  |
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Its difficult to change your nature, so don't as it may come across as a bit false.
Personally I go with the approach of not expecting sex. As a bloke I'll start by chatting to the other guy first, talk about the club, or anything you like really. People are generally quite pleasant and easy to talk to. Then when you feel the chit-chat has run its course, you can do the "I'm going to have a look around / have a dip in the jacuzzi " speech. If you fancy coming along it would be fun.
It's far less pressured than thinking how am I going to pull.
If they like you they will tag along if not you've had a pleasant conversation and they've not had to make excuses to get away. |
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