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over a year ago
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No. And I've had offers of gifts, which I find a bit sad because I feel like some men have been conditioned that they will only get a meet if they offer to bring something. That isn't what this is all about. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.
I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.
I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade. "
White lightning is very classy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.
I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade. "
White lightning is very classy |
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On the whole I have no major problem meeting someone seeing how things go and if another meet was in the offing perhaps bringing something nice along,but to have a pre-set lift of gifts in order to accept a meet is just wrog. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there "
Do you buy ice cream too?  |
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"Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there "
That's fair enough but I do feel the gift I was being asked for is paper and can be used in exchange for other items. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"No.
I AM the gift. 
Oh no doubt just found it a bit desperate the other person asking for a gift and actually has a list ie expensive perfumes etc and I do believe cash gifts are also acceptable"
Can you report the profile please as it isnt allowed  |
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"I'd like a gift
for you I think I might give one 
 I was just joking, though on two seperate occasions, I have turned up with a bottle of bubbly "
Something would be bubbly and something would definitely pop methinks lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there
Do you buy ice cream too? "
I've tried but some how it never survives the journey there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love receiving gifts but i'd never ask and i'd never make it a condition of a meet. A meet is for mutual benefit so acting like you're doing somebody a favour isn't really a great start! However, should a person wish to show their appreciation with a gift then i'll happily accept, just as i'd hope they would if I got them a gift. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else been asked for a "gift" by someone in return for a meet? Just think it's a bit off for that to happen."
Yes someone asked me to bring a treat and when I found out what that was I reported and blocked them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a chance, this is a swinging site not a brothel. We would be happy paying for the obvious half hotel costs ect but gifts err no.
Although we have taken a bottle of wine or two to a meet but it has never been requested.
If you want 'gifts' or cash ect become a professional and do not ply your trade on fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.
I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade. "
To be honest if a guy's paying for the room - which would cost a hell of a lot more that a bottle of wine - then I think it's perfectly reasonable to expect the lady to take a bottle of wine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a chance, this is a swinging site not a brothel. We would be happy paying for the obvious half hotel costs ect but gifts err no.
Although we have taken a bottle of wine or two to a meet but it has never been requested.
If you want 'gifts' or cash ect become a professional and do not ply your trade on fab!"
taking a bottle (depending on the circumstances) is just common courtesy if there's no expectation. If it's expected then that's a totally different matter! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. And I've had offers of gifts, which I find a bit sad because I feel like some men have been conditioned that they will only get a meet if they offer to bring something. That isn't what this is all about.
-Courtney"
^^this^^ x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a chance, this is a swinging site not a brothel. We would be happy paying for the obvious half hotel costs ect but gifts err no.
Although we have taken a bottle of wine or two to a meet but it has never been requested.
If you want 'gifts' or cash ect become a professional and do not ply your trade on fab!
taking a bottle (depending on the circumstances) is just common courtesy if there's no expectation. If it's expected then that's a totally different matter!"
Can you bring a hip flask to Costa... |
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I've been offered "gifts" - which I assume is them hinting that they would pay me for my time. I wouldn't dream of showing up to someone's house or hotel without a bottle of something nice though- mostly because I want to drink it myself though!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sometimes a small gift like a box of chocolates, a bottle of wine for instance has no other intent but to show forth a kindness, something to break the ice apon meeting........ |
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I can understand gifts being given during romantic relationships as well as at birthdays etc. But meets - not needed and if someone has a list of 'required' gifts, then they should be avoided.
Also, report any user's behaviour that is inappropriate to admin - they'll review and take action accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was recently offered money to accompany a guy to a party in just told him that he was on the wring site and there are professional services for that type of thing  |
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