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I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.
Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! |
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"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.
Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "
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"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.
Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "
Ok my regret is being born a year too early   |
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My motto is 'live for today, no regrets'
Sure there must be somethings I regret but I don't dwell on them so I don't remember them, what's the point in thinking 'oh I could have done this'
If I wanted to play that game I could say 'if I had not have gone out with my ex husband when he asked then...' But then I wouldn't have my children.
No I don't look back only forwards |
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"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.
Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "
Pretty much sums up my thoughts too! |
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"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter."
You didn't, you weren't to know.
My regret is having a relationship with a psychopath. That's my only one. |
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Selling my old Alfa GTV 3.2. That car was special and incredibly rare.
Selling my highly modified, 575bhp Sierra Cosworth.
One other that I won't mention in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That I let people bully me in the workplace xx We had that for a year it made us both ill we left our job in the end Paul saw him one night and the guy had to have a couple of weeks off work "
It went on for years the stories I could tell. I was once followed off site, locked in a room. That's public sector for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only two days you can do nothing about
Yesterday and tomorrow.
I do have a few regrets but I don't dwell on them
Are there things i would like to change about myself ?
Yes , but dont we all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.
Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "
Blimey, at this time of the morning I'm struggling to to get my brain to choose shreddies or rice crispies! |
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I regret not looking after myself better. My health has suffered because of my irratic eating habits as well as me having 2 operations and a 3rd due in the new year.  |
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I'm more of a look forward person but I do wish that I hadn't worked so hard when I was younger so that I could have spent more time with my children as they were growing up. However, I now look forward to seeing my children and grandchildren and have a great time with them. |
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"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter."
Don't do that to yourself I'm sure it's not true and he loved you. I don't think he would want you to burden yourself with those kind of feelings. |
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"That I let people bully me in the workplace xx We had that for a year it made us both ill we left our job in the end Paul saw him one night and the guy had to have a couple of weeks off work
It went on for years the stories I could tell. I was once followed off site, locked in a room. That's public sector for you "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I could have been nicer to a couple of folk, I could have not become involved in some severely murky Shit in my twenties, I could have gotten a better education or higher paid job...coulda woulda shoulda.
Whatever path we choose, we always ponder the alternatives, it's human nature but when it comes down to it, I don't regret a single decision I made, I'm here and me because of them and that's good enough for me  |
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"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter."
No you didn't , don't think like that, no one was to know. He'll know now , as before , that you love him.
My failings....ouch...around the divorce and failing my kids. Realise now I haven't and didn't, but took it bad for them for a while. Others too, but I'm stronger and happier now after each .
And not meeting Miss Knitter . |
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"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter.
No you didn't , don't think like that, no one was to know. He'll know now , as before , that you love him.
My failings....ouch...around the divorce and failing my kids. Realise now I haven't and didn't, but took it bad for them for a while. Others too, but I'm stronger and happier now after each .
And not meeting Miss Knitter . "
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I try not to have any regrets. I think a person could go a little insane if they have too many regrets. You can't change what went down in the past. Life's just one big learning experience. The key is to not keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Learn from the things you've done in the past, be that good or bad. |
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"Out of every regret, there is usually something positive to be found."
Very true. Probably took me a while to realise this though.
All there is is NOW. The past and the future don't exist. Don't get too hung up on either. |
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"Out of every regret, there is usually something positive to be found.
Yes - you blocking me "
The ironic thing is you must have tried to look at my profile to realise I'd blocked you  |
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