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Just looking for that first meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.
Any help or tips wound be great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.
Any help or tips wound be great "
Look at your profile would be my advice.
Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.
*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/ |
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"Patience!!!!!!!!  "
Too soon!
OP...I think you're a hotty. No idea what your approach is like but if you messaged me with something respectful i'd struggle to ignore you!
Also, you need to put a bit of time and effort in on here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well looks like ill just keep sending messages out and hoping for a reply
"I have patience but its not so great having message after message not replied to.
But that's how it works on here form guys  "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I would happily message you - and thank you for your kind words - put the sight says im outside your age range
Ill get some more time put in this week. I guess more presence in the chat and forums right?
"Patience!!!!!!!!
Too soon!
OP...I think you're a hotty. No idea what your approach is like but if you messaged me with something respectful i'd struggle to ignore you!
Also, you need to put a bit of time and effort in on here.
Good luck!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your advice... I would like to write more on there but im not great with words to be honest. But ill take a think and see what I can come up with
"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.
Any help or tips wound be great
Look at your profile would be my advice.
Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.
*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.
Any help or tips wound be great "
hope you wernt around when the slasher was on rampage  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not that I know of...
"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.
Any help or tips wound be great hope you wernt around when the slasher was on rampage "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd hate to be a single guy on here
I'm far too lazy to put any effort in
OP you look good,you seem reasonably sane,just keep at it with a smile and no expectations,hopefully something good will come out of it for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for your advice... I would like to write more on there but im not great with words to be honest. But ill take a think and see what I can come up with
Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.
Any help or tips wound be great
Look at your profile would be my advice.
Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.
*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/"
Just make it so you're easy to message
Put what you're looking for , you say a regular fuck buddy is that regular fuck and go or say stay over the night and sit and watch Netflix/long sessions short sessions, purely indoors or do you fancy going out for a drink etc too?
Any areas of sexually you're looking to explore? Bdsm/ voyerism/cclub scene?
Put a few easy ice breakers that people can comment on too.
Think of it less of an advert more a conversation with someone.
Say you and someone you'd like to meet were at the bar now just met having a pint what things would you generally tell them first so they knew what kind of guy you were.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey,
Thank you for your kind words. Ill keep going
"I'd hate to be a single guy on here
I'm far too lazy to put any effort in
OP you look good,you seem reasonably sane,just keep at it with a smile and no expectations,hopefully something good will come out of it for you "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Might have to hire you as my profile writing
"Thank you for your advice... I would like to write more on there but im not great with words to be honest. But ill take a think and see what I can come up with
Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.
Any help or tips wound be great
Look at your profile would be my advice.
Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.
*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/
Just make it so you're easy to message
Put what you're looking for , you say a regular fuck buddy is that regular fuck and go or say stay over the night and sit and watch Netflix/long sessions short sessions, purely indoors or do you fancy going out for a drink etc too?
Any areas of sexually you're looking to explore? Bdsm/ voyerism/cclub scene?
Put a few easy ice breakers that people can comment on too.
Think of it less of an advert more a conversation with someone.
Say you and someone you'd like to meet were at the bar now just met having a pint what things would you generally tell them first so they knew what kind of guy you were.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was just about to write you a lovely message then sadly im out of your age range Have a lovely week any way.
"I'd hate to be a single guy on here
I'm far too lazy to put any effort in
OP you look good,you seem reasonably sane,just keep at it with a smile and no expectations,hopefully something good will come out of it for you "
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"Well I would happily message you - and thank you for your kind words - put the sight says im outside your age range
Ill get some more time put in this week. I guess more presence in the chat and forums right?
Patience!!!!!!!!
Too soon!
OP...I think you're a hotty. No idea what your approach is like but if you messaged me with something respectful i'd struggle to ignore you!
Also, you need to put a bit of time and effort in on here.
Good luck!"
Ah but i'm not currently meeting so it would do you no good at this stage!  |
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Good luck anyhoo.. 
